Posted: 11/7/2009 11:03:55 AM EDT
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well to be to the point, i have a metal poster....its pretty big and its by the NRA, its a poster of a alot of bullets with a hunting camp picture in the middle
my girlfriend at the time gave it to me because it was just gonna given away to someone else, and it was her fathers who passed away...needless to say 6 months after she gave me the poster she decides she wants to be single and mingle, and have nothing to do with me...i was going to give it back to her, because of it being her dads...but lately due to her attitude ive really been rethinking that, shes become a total bitch.... anybody know what poster im talking about i cant find it on google...its from 1994 its metal green rim about 3 feet by 4.5 feet and has every cartridge from .222to .470 with that hunting camp pic in the middle |
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Did you have a bond with her father? Does it have sentimental value to either of you? Is his display better utilitzed by you or by her tossing it?
I'd keep until such time it becomes an issue, don't contact her, don't ask, don't tell. If it turns into a family heirloom later, deal with it then, Until then, enjoy! |
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I'm not really sure what your post is asking. Are you asking for advice about giving the poster back, or are you asking if any of us know a place to find a similar one? kinda several things, i want to know more about it, if there are others like it, and opinions on wether to give it back...honestly i doubt shell keep it. im not going to sell it or whatever, and her father was a great guy...guess my ex took after her mom...and thats all i need to say about that...and i know she's a bitch because we have things call cellphones, she blows mine up and we used to work together so i hear about it from people there |
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I'm not really sure what your post is asking. Are you asking for advice about giving the poster back, or are you asking if any of us know a place to find a similar one? kinda several things, i want to know more about it, if there are others like it, and opinions on wether to give it back...honestly i doubt shell keep it. im not going to sell it or whatever, and her father was a great guy...guess my ex took after her mom...and thats all i need to say about that Sounds like you and her dad got along well... If you think she's gonna thrash it, I would just hang on to it as a memento of a good friend. But if she starts bitching about it, give it back, afterall, it belonged to her dad.... |
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Originally Posted By staringback05
and i know she's a bitch because we have things call cellphones, she blows mine up and we used to work together so i hear about it from people there I see. You want to keep it to punish her for the way she treats other people. Is that correct? |
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My only suggestion.. let her come pick it up. Don't offer to deliver or move it. TAG in case you go this route and she brings by the new guy she's fucking to help her move it. like i said i used to work with her, and when we broke up she was flirting with two other guys at work, im not sure id be able to handle a situation like that if some other guy came with her...  
she went from "i want to get married, i cant love anybody more...to i cant be in a relationship, ive got to find myself"...in two days also i should add i have tried to give it back to her, ive tried to give it back to her brother...like a week or so after we broke up but she was "afraid to meet me, because it would feel weird"...and "im busy/dont have time right now"....now she wanted me to meet her and bring it... |
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Originally Posted By staringback05
and i know she's a bitch because we have things call cellphones, she blows mine up and we used to work together so i hear about it from people there I see. You want to keep it to punish her for the way she treats other people. Is that correct? look im a pretty decent guy...i spoiled her ass, i treat women right, and im very laid back...she wasnt treating others bad...my friends who i worked with before she got there, tell me things...how she carries herself now, the way she talks, and how overall she's made the picture of me as being disrespectful and just overall being a bitch like i said, i took the break up fine...just walked out of her house...and i had planned on letting her keep her expensive ass necklace i got her, along with many other things because they were gifts and didnt mean anything to me...i planned on giving her picture back to....but im not highly motivated by seeing my ex flirt with guys at work, be a bitch, and the knowing she's not going to do anything with it, accept maybe sell it or stick it in the garage to rot...so thats why i havent driven my ass two counties across to bring her this thing im not saying i wont...but i also would like to know more about before i just give it up |
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Wrap it up in plastic and leave it on her doorstep with a note that says, "Even Steven. Now we can never speak to each other again, equitably."
The goal here is to get her out of your life ASAP, no? Wrapping these little details up quickly makes that easier for all involved. |
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well to be to the point, i have a metal poster....its pretty big and its by the NRA, its a poster of a alot of bullets with a hunting camp picture in the middle my girlfriend at the time gave it to me because it was just gonna given away to someone else, and it was her fathers who passed away...needless to say 6 months after she gave me the poster she decides she wants to be single and mingle, and have nothing to do with me...i was going to give it back to her, because of it being her dads...but lately due to her attitude ive really been rethinking that, shes become a total bitch.... anybody know what poster im talking about i cant find it on google...its from 1994 its metal green rim about 3 feet by 4.5 feet and has every cartridge from .222to .470 with that hunting camp pic in the middle Is this her? |
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well to be to the point, i have a metal poster....its pretty big and its by the NRA, its a poster of a alot of bullets with a hunting camp picture in the middle my girlfriend at the time gave it to me because it was just gonna given away to someone else, and it was her fathers who passed away...needless to say 6 months after she gave me the poster she decides she wants to be single and mingle, and have nothing to do with me...i was going to give it back to her, because of it being her dads...but lately due to her attitude ive really been rethinking that, shes become a total bitch.... anybody know what poster im talking about i cant find it on google...its from 1994 its metal green rim about 3 feet by 4.5 feet and has every cartridge from .222to .470 with that hunting camp pic in the middle If she asks for it back then yea, I say give it to her. But if she hasn't, then keep it. She probably doesn't even care about it. |
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thanks for the opinions guys...ill probably end up giving it back, but ive been out of town with a job interview all this week, have a family vacation to texas next week, along with another job interview...so i wont be able to anyway for a few weeks Here's an idea: Offer to buy it from her. Yeah, yeah, I realize she only wants it because she wants to hurt you. But it's worth a try. You could mail her a postal money order or a cheque. Anyway, just trying to think outside the box. 
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thanks for the opinions guys...ill probably end up giving it back, but ive been out of town with a job interview all this week, have a family vacation to texas next week, along with another job interview...so i wont be able to anyway for a few weeks You must capitalize the word "Texas". 
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