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9/22/2009 8:28:59 PM EDT

So say someone out of your life decides to make you their "Friend"...

Someone you had a relationship with a long while ago, things went "weird", and disintegrated from there.  Haven't talked to her in ...5-6 years.

Do you accept the request? Ignore? Msg her and ask wtf?

I'd ask in team for a more useful reply, but figured watching the replies here would be more fun than a family reunion of drunks
9/22/2009 8:31:30 PM EDT
[#1]
Add her, chances are she'll never ever talk to you once. I say probably %30 of the people I added on facebook never even talk to me.
9/22/2009 8:32:00 PM EDT
[#2]
If you want to spark it up, accept. Otherwise click Ignore.
9/22/2009 8:33:59 PM EDT
[#3]
All those answers are wrong. Add her as a friend, browse her photos to see how much weight she gained and how poorly she aged. Save a few so you can laugh later, then unfriend her, and tell all of us about it(with pics of course).

ETA: After you post the story and pics, some asshole will come behind you and post a coolstorybro.jpg.
9/22/2009 8:35:08 PM EDT
[#4]



Quoted:


Add her, chances are she'll never ever talk to you once. I say probably %30 of the people I added on facebook never even talk to me.


This.

 
9/22/2009 8:35:09 PM EDT
[#5]
SIIHPAPP
9/22/2009 8:37:13 PM EDT
[#6]
U can always uninvite
9/22/2009 8:38:00 PM EDT
[#7]
Quoted:
SIIHPAPP


"Technically" got close. But I don't do that. I'm an asshole, but not that much of an asshole. I still subscribe to the golden rule rss feed.
9/22/2009 8:38:56 PM EDT
[#8]
Quoted:
Add her, chances are she'll never ever talk to you once. I say probably %30 %99.9 of the people I added on facebook never even talk to me.


Adjusted for better accuracy.

9/22/2009 8:39:00 PM EDT
[#9]
Quoted:
All those answers are wrong. Add her as a friend, browse her photos to see how much weight she gained and how poorly she aged. Save a few so you can laugh later, then unfriend her, and tell all of us about it(with pics of course).

ETA: After you post the story and pics, some asshole will come behind you and post a coolstorybro.jpg.


But she didn't...still gloriously motorboatable and blonde. At least, near as I can telll.

9/22/2009 8:39:46 PM EDT
[#10]
Quoted:
Quoted:
All those answers are wrong. Add her as a friend, browse her photos to see how much weight she gained and how poorly she aged. Save a few so you can laugh later, then unfriend her, and tell all of us about it(with pics of course).

ETA: After you post the story and pics, some asshole will come behind you and post a coolstorybro.jpg.


But she didn't...still gloriously motorboatable and blonde. At least, near as I can telll.



Let us be the judge of that.
9/22/2009 8:41:19 PM EDT
[#11]
Decided to go with option D...sent her a mail asking if she's sure, since things didn't exactily end on a high note.

Hey, what can I say...I'm all for crushing people when they're near and annoying and it's a priority, but not so much when it's an afterthought and not totally relavent..


9/22/2009 8:42:49 PM EDT
[#12]
Quoted:
Let us be the judge of that.


I wish I could post a pic of her, but I actually don't have one
9/22/2009 8:44:16 PM EDT
[#13]
Give her limited access, see if she's behaving herself.  If she's crazy, go silent and then de-friend and block her after a few weeks.
9/22/2009 8:50:39 PM EDT
[#14]
Dude, I had this exact thing happen last week.

IGNORE

Fuck that bitch. She just wants to see if you're better off now than when you were with her. Don't give her the satisfaction.
9/22/2009 8:52:33 PM EDT
[#15]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Add her, chances are she'll never ever talk to you once. I say probably %30 %99.9 99.9% of the people I added on facebook never even talk to me.


Adjusted for better accuracy.



Fixed to make it not backwards.
9/22/2009 8:52:48 PM EDT
[#16]
Quoted:
Dude, I had this exact thing happen last week.

IGNORE

Fuck that bitch. She just wants to see if you're better off now than when you were with her. Don't give her the satisfaction.


Meh...it got "weird" because she already had a sugar daddy and I was....still don't know, to be honest. It was all kinds of fucked up.

I'm honestly kind of curious at this point. If there's gonna be an entertaining train wreck, I'd like to be in the viewable area, to be honest. I wanna see...

9/22/2009 8:55:40 PM EDT
[#17]
If you are currently in a serious relationship then fuck no.  Good way to fuck up what you have.
9/22/2009 8:58:34 PM EDT
[#18]
De-Friend is your Friend... hell I've de-friend family members, immediate family members.