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10/20/2009 5:22:00 PM EDT
Met this girl thru a friend, she was pretty friendly to me.  Saw her staring at my face a few times while I was using my laptop (no boogers, facial deformities).  She asked me a lot of questions "do you have a girlfriend"  "what type of girls do you like"  "where are you from"

and we went out to eat as well (but my friend was there too) and we had a lot of hates for certain foods. (similar tastes)

I forgot to get her number (ok I was a little scared to ask) but I added her on facebook.

She never sent me a message or anything, but I decided to just send her one........

Just asked her whats up, so do you guys think she is going to reject me and tell me to f*ck off, or be interested?
10/20/2009 5:22:31 PM EDT
[#1]
Dude, you are relentless!
10/20/2009 5:23:02 PM EDT
[#2]
I've only dated 3 girls in my whole life, but I know you're doing it wrong.
10/20/2009 5:23:05 PM EDT
[#3]
Quoted:
Dude, you are relentless!


Its not the same girl maybe read it next time.

This is a new girl I just met thru a friend, the other one has a boyfriend and im over her LOL

Quoted:
I've only dated 3 girls in my whole life, but I know you're doing it wrong.


why?  I thought maybe she was interested in me when she asks me if I have a girlfriend and what girls I like.  Plus I have good perephrrial vision and saw her staring at me a few times and when I looked over she would look away real quick to act like she was looking at the screen.
10/20/2009 5:23:18 PM EDT
[#4]
If you want the pie... stick your finger in it.
10/20/2009 5:23:56 PM EDT
[#5]
Why don't you just pass her a note in gym class?
10/20/2009 5:24:02 PM EDT
[#6]
From all the posts you do in this similar fashion I think either she will shoot you down immediatly or reject you when she knows you.   Dude, man up and talk to women you like.  Leave AR15.com until you come back with a gf and pics to prove it.  That is all the advice I have for you.
10/20/2009 5:24:40 PM EDT
[#7]
Quoted:
If you want the pie... stick your finger in it.


Well I felt real comfortable with her and she was easy to talk to.  So I read advice here if you want something go out and get it, so instead of just sitting and waiting for her to see me again and talk to me again, I went out there and sent her a message.  I know it would have been better if I got her number but I was hesitant.

Quoted:
From all the posts you do in this similar fashion I think either she will shoot you down immediatly or reject you when she knows you.   Dude, man up and talk to women you like.  Leave AR15.com until you come back with a gf and pics to prove it.  That is all the advice I have for you.


Dude what are you talking about, she talked to me.  She kept asking me questions then when I thought she was interested I was doing the same.  But the one mistake I made was not asking for her number.  And I was acting myself around her, I even acted like an idiot a few times and she still laughed.
10/20/2009 5:26:30 PM EDT
[#8]
Self awareness, not all of us have it.
10/20/2009 5:27:01 PM EDT
[#9]
In!  I predict epic fail.

I didn't even read your post.
10/20/2009 5:27:02 PM EDT
[#10]
BTW

I will be updating with results.  Im expecting her to just say hello back and tell me what shes up to.  Then I will ask her to help me with something for school.....and maybe tell her if she helps me I will take her out to eat or something.  (if she responds positively)

Quoted:
In!  I predict epic fail.

I didn't even read your post.


We will see, the good thing is the type of person that I am.  When people doubt me, I usually make it a mission to succeed and prove them wrong.  I have been doubted in so many things and it just motivates me to try that much harder and just see the reaction of that person.  I love being doubted and perform better when I am.
10/20/2009 5:27:58 PM EDT
[#11]
For her sake I hope she says no...
10/20/2009 5:29:26 PM EDT
[#12]
should have asked for her number man.

now she sees you as inexperienced and lacking confidence.

sorry dude, you're in the friend zone.
10/20/2009 5:30:02 PM EDT
[#13]
Your life must be like this:


10/20/2009 5:30:09 PM EDT
[#14]
Quoted:


I didn't even read your post.


There's no point! They all start out the same. "This chick was staring at me. What should I do??" Seriously, grow some balls, with hair on them.
10/20/2009 5:30:33 PM EDT
[#15]
Pity reply..at best.
10/20/2009 5:32:23 PM EDT
[#16]
There are a few things I want to say right now.  Some are funny.  Most are insulting.  All would probably get me a warning from a mod.



I will say "Good luck" and leave it at that.
10/20/2009 5:32:32 PM EDT
[#17]
Keep the negative responses / doubt of me, coming...


It just motivates me to work to get her.  When I first started this thread 5 mins ago I expected to just ask her questions on a Test she took previously.  But now I think with all the doubt I received im going to tell her "help me and I will take you out".
10/20/2009 5:32:32 PM EDT
[#18]
Make a move towards establishing that you are interested romantically the day you meet a woman in a social setting and you will know if she is interested in you or not.  Its not that hard, really.  
10/20/2009 5:33:11 PM EDT
[#19]
10/20/2009 5:33:17 PM EDT
[#20]
GD predict if I will get rejected.

I predict YES.
10/20/2009 5:34:10 PM EDT
[#21]



Quoted:


BTW



I will be updating with results.  Im expecting her to just say hello back and tell me what shes up to.  Then I will ask her to help me with something for school.....and maybe tell her if she helps me I will take her out to eat or something.  (if she responds positively)




Quoted:


In!  I predict epic fail.



I didn't even read your post.




We will see, the good thing is the type of person that I am.  When people doubt me, I usually make it a mission to succeed and prove them wrong.  I have been doubted in so many things and it just motivates me to try that much harder and just see the reaction of that person.  I love being doubted and perform better when I am.











 
10/20/2009 5:34:21 PM EDT
[#22]
Quoted:
Dude, you are relentless!


Does relentless mean pathetic?

Yes?

I thought so.

Is this you in 15 years?



Dude, you duped yourself...holy shit.

DUPE THREAD, LOCK IT UP
10/20/2009 5:34:52 PM EDT
[#23]



Quoted:


Keep the negative responses / doubt of me, coming...





It just motivates me to work to get her.  When I first started this thread 5 mins ago I expected to just ask her questions on a Test she took previously.  But now I think with all the doubt I received im going to tell her "help me and I will take you out".
The highlighted part, you have already lost my friend.





 
10/20/2009 5:35:18 PM EDT
[#24]
Quoted:
Keep the negative responses / doubt of me, coming...


It just motivates me to work to get her.  When I first started this thread 5 mins ago I expected to just ask her questions on a Test she took previously.  But now I think with all the doubt I received im going to tell her "help me and I will take you out".


Going with the whole chloroform thing huh?   You know we joke about that right?   Right?
10/20/2009 5:35:35 PM EDT
[#25]



Quoted:





Quoted:

BTW



I will be updating with results.  Im expecting her to just say hello back and tell me what shes up to.  Then I will ask her to help me with something for school.....and maybe tell her if she helps me I will take her out to eat or something.  (if she responds positively)




Quoted:


In!  I predict epic fail.



I didn't even read your post.




We will see, the good thing is the type of person that I am.  When people doubt me, I usually make it a mission to succeed and prove them wrong.  I have been doubted in so many things and it just motivates me to try that much harder and just see the reaction of that person.  I love being doubted and perform better when I am.




http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/30/failboat2.jpg



 


LULZ tonight.

 
10/20/2009 5:37:25 PM EDT
[#26]
Wow, you have no game.

Best of luck.
10/20/2009 5:37:53 PM EDT
[#27]
Quoted:
Make a move towards establishing that you are interested romantically the day you meet a woman in a social setting and you will know if she is interested in you or not.  Its not that hard, really.  


How do you do this?  The enviorment was kind of awkward I went to a friends to help him study, and he tells me this girl is coming.  She shows up I just meet her and she talks non stop to me.  At first I wasnt really interested but that changed quick.  I was answering with heads nods and one word answers until she kept asking more and more questions.  Then I started asking her the same questions she asked me and how would you go about that though?

Just joke about taking her on a date?
10/20/2009 5:38:25 PM EDT
[#28]
Quoted:
Make a move towards establishing that you are interested romantically the day you meet a woman in a social setting and you will know if she is interested in you or not.  Its not that hard, really.  


THIS
10/20/2009 5:38:42 PM EDT
[#29]
Quoted:
Wow, you have no game.

Best of luck.


OK IF YOU WERE IN MY POSITION and forgot to get her number than what would you do?

You would probably so "I didnt get her number so just forget about it and chalk it up as a loss"

Well im not going to do that, I might as well make a shot and try.  At least im working to improve myself rather than sit around laughing at others.
10/20/2009 5:39:15 PM EDT
[#30]
My second Ignore what fun.
10/20/2009 5:39:20 PM EDT
[#31]
Facebook?  Facebook!  

Grow a pair, get her phone number, call her on the phone and ask her out!

What is this Facebook pussyfooting around, hiding behind the computer crap?!!!
10/20/2009 5:40:23 PM EDT
[#32]
Quoted:
Facebook?  Facebook!  

Grow a pair, get her phone number, call her on the phone and ask her out!


I never got her number... which I acknowledged was a mistake.  But im going to work on getting it through facebook, depending on how her first response is.
10/20/2009 5:40:45 PM EDT
[#33]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Wow, you have no game.

Best of luck.


OK IF YOU WERE IN MY POSITION and forgot to get her number than what would you do?

You would probably so "I didnt get her number so just forget about it and chalk it up as a loss"

Well im not going to do that, I might as well make a shot and try.  At least im working to improve myself rather than sit around laughing at others.


10/20/2009 5:41:27 PM EDT
[#34]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Facebook?  Facebook!  

Grow a pair, get her phone number, call her on the phone and ask her out!


I never got her number... which I acknowledged was a mistake.  But im going to work on getting it through facebook, depending on how her first response is.


Get that number like a Man on a Mission and she WILL be impressed.  
10/20/2009 5:41:27 PM EDT
[#35]
Show dominance. Pee on her.
10/20/2009 5:41:54 PM EDT
[#36]
Quoted:
There are a few things I want to say right now.  Some are funny.  Most are insulting.  All would probably get me a warning from a mod.

I will say "Good luck" and leave it at that.


This.

And though I won't do it, i'll applaud the first man to post a "cool story bro" pic.
10/20/2009 5:42:01 PM EDT
[#37]
Quoted:
Show dominance. Pee on her.


Some girls like this
10/20/2009 5:42:39 PM EDT
[#38]



Quoted:


Why don't you just pass her a note in gym class?







 
10/20/2009 5:43:15 PM EDT
[#39]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Dude, you are relentless!


Does relentless mean pathetic?

Yes?

I thought so.

Is this you in 15 years?

http://wildsidenotes.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/something1.jpg

Dude, you duped yourself...holy shit.

DUPE THREAD, LOCK IT UP


AGAIN?? Didn't he do this crap last time too? Jesus. Not only female fail, but internet fail. Might as well find a cave, one without WIFi.
10/20/2009 5:43:35 PM EDT
[#40]
Ahh...



The trials and tribulations of High School






10/20/2009 5:44:59 PM EDT
[#41]
Pepper spray just means she is HOT for you.  Try harder...
10/20/2009 5:45:55 PM EDT
[#42]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Make a move towards establishing that you are interested romantically the day you meet a woman in a social setting and you will know if she is interested in you or not.  Its not that hard, really.  


How do you do this?  The enviorment was kind of awkward I went to a friends to help him study, and he tells me this girl is coming.  She shows up I just meet her and she talks non stop to me.  At first I wasnt really interested but that changed quick.  I was answering with heads nods and one word answers until she kept asking more and more questions.  Then I started asking her the same questions she asked me and how would you go about that though?

Just joke about taking her on a date?


Dude... it's real easy.  If she's chatting your ear off, and you start doing the same, and the conversation continues, you're golden.  Girls wanna talk.  That's it.  The longer you can keep them talking, the better off you are.  Just keep the conversation going and after a while just casually ask for her number.  If they've been talking to you for more than 3 minutes, they'll give you a number.  It may or may not be real.  (That's how you find out if she's interested or not.)  But she won't say, "Uh, no."  If she does, (in 26 years it has NEVER happened to me... gotten some fake ones before.... but never a "no"), you wanted to eject anyway.  

Challenge yourself.  Engage in some conversation with females every day this week.  Get at least one number per day.  Don't call them, just get them.  I think you'll be surprised at how easy it is, and how easy it will become after you get a little confidence.  

That's all women want when they're young.  A guy that is CONFIDENT (NOT cocky!) and will engage in conversation.
10/20/2009 5:46:11 PM EDT
[#43]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Wow, you have no game.

Best of luck.


OK IF YOU WERE IN MY POSITION and forgot to get her number than what would you do?

You would probably so "I didnt get her number so just forget about it and chalk it up as a loss"

Well im not going to do that, I might as well make a shot and try.  At least im working to improve myself rather than sit around laughing at others.




In before the stalking charge and restraining order.
10/20/2009 5:47:07 PM EDT
[#44]



Quoted:


Pepper spray just means she is HOT for you.  Try harder...






 
10/20/2009 5:48:23 PM EDT
[#45]
....



 
10/20/2009 5:48:42 PM EDT
[#46]
She was interested.  Once she figured out you were boring (hate for the same types of food? WTF!?), you lost her.  Now you're just annoying.

The thing is, you're not completely repulsive and you're at college.  You should be getting laid, but you aren't because women don't see you as a viable partner because you're a pansy.  I say that with your best interests at heart, not to violate the CoC.  You need to start being a man, not a 7th grade boy.
10/20/2009 5:48:42 PM EDT
[#47]
Quoted:

Dude, you duped yourself...holy shit.

DUPE THREAD, LOCK IT UP


So, so, sad
10/20/2009 5:49:50 PM EDT
[#48]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
Make a move towards establishing that you are interested romantically the day you meet a woman in a social setting and you will know if she is interested in you or not.  Its not that hard, really.  


How do you do this?  The enviorment was kind of awkward I went to a friends to help him study, and he tells me this girl is coming.  She shows up I just meet her and she talks non stop to me.  At first I wasnt really interested but that changed quick.  I was answering with heads nods and one word answers until she kept asking more and more questions.  Then I started asking her the same questions she asked me and how would you go about that though?

Just joke about taking her on a date?


Dude... it's real easy.  If she's chatting your ear off, and you start doing the same, and the conversation continues, you're golden.  Girls wanna talk.  That's it.  The longer you can keep them talking, the better off you are.  Just keep the conversation going and after a while just casually ask for her number.  If they've been talking to you for more than 3 minutes, they'll give you a number.  It may or may not be real.  (That's how you find out if she's interested or not.)  But she won't say, "Uh, no."  If she does, (in 26 years it has NEVER happened to me... gotten some fake ones before.... but never a "no"), you wanted to eject anyway.  

Challenge yourself.  Engage in some conversation with females every day this week.  Get at least one number per day.  Don't call them, just get them.  I think you'll be surprised at how easy it is, and how easy it will become after you get a little confidence.  

That's all women want when they're young.  A guy that is CONFIDENT (NOT cocky!) and will engage in conversation.


Alright thanks.  It wasnt an out of nowhere meeting.  She showed up because my friend invited her but she just kept talking and asking me so many questions.  I dont think Ive ever just met a girl and had her ask me that many questions.  Even while my friend was trying to talk to me sometimes she would interrupt and ask me stuff, this actually pissed my friend off and he asked why she keeps asking me questions.  Her response was "I dont know I just am like that, I like to know"
10/20/2009 5:51:18 PM EDT
[#49]
10/20/2009 5:51:29 PM EDT
[#50]
I predict.......




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