[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Help With New Ladyfriend.... (Page 1 of 3)
Posted: 8/9/2009 11:01:13 PM EDT
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Ok..need a pro/con comparisan on my new ladyfriend that has somehow started spending the night at my place.....
Bad news: - I found out she voted for Obama (even tho she has already admitted she was wrong) - Shes a 100% born/raised Chinese commy - Has never held or fired a firearm before - Thought an AR15 was an airplane - All of her friends are BLEEDING liberals who literally CRIED when Osama won. - Very small boobs (like MAYBE a B) Good news: - She's fucking hot and has OMFG stripper legs/ass and is in awesome shape (I know, I know, pics to come as soon as I can convince her that they wont end up on ARFCOM) - She's a doctor - No kids; never married - She wants me to take her to the range and show her how to shoot (even tho my M24 scares the shit out of her) - She bought me cigars and scotch without me even asking - just showed up with them since she noticed them at my house - She cooks and caters like an oldschool housewife. Apparently she was raised this way - She laughs at all the names I call her loser ass liberal friends and I think she is taking them ALOT less seriously lately - Hasn't tried to steal my Gran Torino nor have I had to tell her to Get Off My Lawn... ETA - In before the Eject Pic, Cool Story Bro, I'd Hit it, TOGTFO Crowd |
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There is a strong possibility that she's marriage material (well, if you believe in that sort of crap) and an equal possibility she's batshit. If she learns, and distances herself from the moonbats, gets into guns, etc etc... I can't see any reason not to keep her around... *she sounds intelligent and interesting. *Provided you can fuck the moonbat outta her. |
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A.) Small boobs are a better long term investment if you're shopping to buy B.) If she already knows voting for Obama was a mistake, she's already started down the path towards political enlightenment C.) Take her shooting D.) She's a Doctor! A woman with intelligence!?!?! 
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Asian hotness????? Teh AWESOME!!!! Go for it and fuck your brains out. Hell, marry her even. If she is straight from China then you already have a better woman than the vast majority of American women, at least in living with and putting up with.
Asian chicks are my major weakness. Good thing I married one. |
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you can buy boobs. and she sounds just gun shy. she's a dr. you can retire now and add to your gun collection as long as you clean house and fix dinner. done. Holy Shit. I was joking about that the other day and she looked square at me and said, yeah, you can use your finance/accounting degrees with me because I need someone to run my practice when I eventually leave the hospital and you can work from home. I had a weird look on my face. I've already planned to take her shooting later this month and have told her she needs a firearm at her house after she learns to use it properly. her response was - how about I just get you another one? lol |
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you can buy boobs. and she sounds just gun shy. she's a dr. you can retire now and add to your gun collection as long as you clean house and fix dinner. done. Holy Shit. I was joking about that the other day and she looked square at me and said, yeah, you can use your finance/accounting degrees with me because I need someone to run my practice when I eventually leave the hospital and you can work from home. I had a weird look on my face. I've already planned to take her shooting later this month and have told her she needs a firearm at her house after she learns to use it properly. her response was - how about I just get you another one? lol You just mught be set for life, if you do this right. |
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This one is a tough one. She has some serious red flags but yet also seems to have some good things also.
My best advice is to proceed with extreme caution. Give her some 'tests' without her knowing it and see if she passes. Most women in a new relationship are still in the 'trap him' mode and will do and say things they think you want. They will do this knowing full well that once they 'have you' they will quit doing that stuff and move onto the 'now it's time to change HIM' phase. If it all possible try and see if you can find a way to eavesdrop when she is talking with her liberal friends to see what she says when you are not around. Take it slow and see what she is like after she gets really comfortable in the relationship. |
| dude this ones a keeper shes a doc and asian, hot, smart, great financial futuer, what the hell else do you want? does not know what an ar is? who cares? She's spent the last 13 years of her life woking 100 hour weeks, studying and saving lives. She has not had any time to fuck around with black rifles, let alone ANY *HOBBY*!!! |
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Read some more of what you posted while I was typing my first reply.
How long have you been together? If it has been just a short time and she is already talking about you working from home for her this means she is also talking marriage. If it has been a short time you have been with her and she is already talking like this; it is a HUGE red flag. You don't want a woman that is that clingy and ready to marry someone they have not been with very long. |
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you can buy boobs. and she sounds just gun shy. she's a dr. you can retire now and add to your gun collection as long as you clean house and fix dinner. done. Holy Shit. I was joking about that the other day and she looked square at me and said, yeah, you can use your finance/accounting degrees with me because I need someone to run my practice when I eventually leave the hospital and you can work from home. I had a weird look on my face. I've already planned to take her shooting later this month and have told her she needs a firearm at her house after she learns to use it properly. her response was - how about I just get you another one? lol DAMN..... She is making my knees weak. Still, I've done the marriage thing. Never again. You, on the other, still have room for allowing one huge fuck up. I'm thinking it might be worth it, IF you ever are going to consider something as stupid as legal marriage. |
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dude this ones a keeper shes a doc and asian, hot, smart, great financial futuer, what the hell else do you want? does not know what an ar is? who cares? She's spent the last 13 years of her life woking 100 hour weeks, studying and saving lives. She has not had any time to fuck around with black rifles, let alone ANY *HOBBY*!!! GREAT POINT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Even though she voted for old "why so socialist", maybe she has been too busy to be chasing after every BBC in town. |
| Set up a separate email/facebook/dating account and pose to be a VERY wealthy person. If she starts talking to you "the fake person you created" eject. If she says I have a boyfriend and am not interested now keep her. I do that to all the girls I tend to get serious with. |
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Set up a separate email/facebook/dating account and pose to be a VERY wealthy person. If she starts talking to you "the fake person you created" eject. If she says I have a boyfriend and am not interested now keep her. I do that to all the girls I tend to get serious with. This is a great idea. Trust but verify 
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You sure its not a Ladyboy? That is a verified negative. As far as us being together, I think it's shifted into 'serious mode' recently. She has always said she wasn't looking to get married because of her job and the hours she works but I think being together and doing all the retarded things we do has her at least open to it. Mind you, I do not have any intentions of this anytime soon, so any talk of marriage is just that, talk. - hence why I figured I'd consult the hive prior to entering a minefield down the road. And for whoever asked where I am, I'm in Florida. I have the German flag up because I was born/raised there and go back quite frequently since my entire family is still there. So no, she doesn't need a green card; even tho I wish I could hold that overher head for 'me love you long time' videos. |
Never....... and I mean NEVER let them stay the night. I once set my hand on fire as a excuse to ditch a nasty bitch and go to the ER. Just bang them and move along. trust me.. unless you are one of those weird nesting fuckers that want to make a bitch your best friend. 
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you can buy boobs. and she sounds just gun shy. she's a dr. you can retire now and add to your gun collection as long as you clean house and fix dinner. done. NO! Do not buy bewbs! Some other dude will end up enjoying them... just ask my ex wife or current girlfriend. I'm not the only one everyone I know has had that happen. |
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Ok..need a pro/con comparisan on my new ladyfriend that has somehow started spending the night at my place..... Bad news: - I found out she voted for Obama (even tho she has already admitted she was wrong) - Shes a 100% born/raised Chinese commy - Has never held or fired a firearm before - Thought an AR15 was an airplane - All of her friends are BLEEDING liberals who literally CRIED when Osama won. - Very small boobs (like MAYBE a B) Good news: - She's fucking hot and has OMFG stripper legs/ass and is in awesome shape (I know, I know, pics to come as soon as I can convince her that they wont end up on ARFCOM) - She's a doctor - No kids; never married - She wants me to take her to the range and show her how to shoot (even tho my M24 scares the shit out of her) - She bought me cigars and scotch without me even asking - just showed up with them since she noticed them at my house - She cooks and caters like an oldschool housewife. Apparently she was raised this way - She laughs at all the names I call her loser ass liberal friends and I think she is taking them ALOT less seriously lately - Hasn't tried to steal my Gran Torino nor have I had to tell her to Get Off My Lawn... ETA - In before the Eject Pic, Cool Story Bro, I'd Hit it, TOGTFO Crowd These 2 are contradicting each other. She's lying. She's communist spy and you are gonna spend the rest of your life in jail |
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Enjoy the ride. Maybe it'll last a long, long time. She has some negatives in her PAST but there's no reason she can't overcome those obstacles. It sounds like she IS doing that, as a matter of fact. I think she's just begging to be a conservative with big fake boobs. You've got to give her a chance of achieving that goal! CJ |
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Quoted: Never....... and I mean NEVER let them stay the night. I once set my hand on fire as a excuse to ditch a nasty bitch and go to the ER. Just bang them and move along. trust me.. unless you are one of those weird nesting fuckers that want to make a bitch your best friend. |
I've known two girls from China and both were batshit crazy. Both were tops in academic and work achievements but they were the most emotionally damaged people I've ever met. Two is not a large sample of Chinese chicks but it's been a 100% crazy rate for me. Fortunately, I met a girl from Indonesia who is the sanest woman I've ever met....so I married her! 
Asian chicks are one of my weaknesses too. |