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Posted: 1/26/2014 2:07:53 PM EDT
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Is it wrong to have sex with a girl that is unhappy in her current relationship?
Let's say that I don't know the guy. I just met the girl. I'm single. She wants to be. BF is a douche.(My friends know him) I passed on an amazing chance last night, all because I try to have morals. I'd be the enemy, when in fact, they are their own enemies. *Poll inbound. |
| Character flaw on her part as well as yours. If she's willing to fuck around on her current SO then what makes you think she won't do the same to you ?? If you want her tell her to pull the eject handle on her current relationship and you two can proceed from there with a clear conscience. If you just want to hit it and quit it then it's up to you to decide if your self respect is worth the one night stand. As always YMMV. |
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Depends.
Is he physically abusive, and would it be dangerous for her to actually leave the relationship? If yes: fuck her brains out, though she should probably call the police on him or something. If not: it's probably not a good idea. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't do it. It really depends if he's cheated on her, and why she's staying with him. Not everything is black and white, and if she does it with you, doesn't necessarily mean she'll do it to you. But like I said: he'd have to be the worlds biggest fucking douchebag to have it be okay. Because you never know; they might just deserve eachother. |
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Meh,
I have slept with girls in a relationship before. Some I found out after, some I kind of had an idea but never asked, others I just didn't care. I have never made any of them do anything they didn't want to do. I have never cheated on a girl I have been in a relationship with though. My best advice is if you really want a relationship with this girl have her break up with her boyfriend 1st. |
| Thats kinda how I got my girlfriend of well over 3 years now. She was dating a manipulative douchebag, not abusive or anything, just an idiot. We were friends first, then we developed a thing for each other and she finally grew a pair and told him to pound sand. I never slept with her while they were still together, but I did kiss her. |
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Is it wrong to have sex with a girl that is unhappy in her current relationship? Let's say that I don't know the guy. Doesn't matter. Would it matter to you if the guy your girlfriend cheated with, was someone you didn't know? I just met the girl. So, she cheats on her boyfriend with guys she doesn't know? I'm single. She wants to be. No she doesn't. If she did, she would be. Nothing keeping her in a relationship that she's supposedly not happy with, but herself. BF is a douche.(My friends know him) Doesn't matter. I passed on an amazing chance last night, all because I try to have morals. I'd be the enemy, when in fact, they are their own enemies. *Poll inbound. Woman who complain about shitty boyfriends or whatever, and are willing to cheat on them, aren't good news. Either leave your bf and find someone decent, leave your bf so that you can get strange dick, or quit bitching and stay with your bf who probably isn't that bad, but you're just a slut. Stay with the bf, but complain about him (whether he's actually that bad or not) so that you and the dude you're shacking up with for the night, don't feel bad about cheating...should not be an option on the table. |
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Is it wrong to have sex with a girl that is unhappy in her current relationship? Let's say that I don't know the guy. I just met the girl. I'm single. She wants to be. BF is a douche.(My friends know him) I passed on an amazing chance last night, all because I try to have morals. I'd be the enemy, when in fact, they are their own enemies. *Poll inbound. In my experience..... She's bored, looking for drama, and you're a Breaking Bad marathon. |
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Anyone who nails someone who declares they are in a relationship is an asshole.
If he's that bad she should leave him. If she isn't leaving him, it's because she's lying about him being that bad and just wants some strange. My take is that you did right by passing on this. |
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Good call passing.
If she will cheat on him, she will cheat on you... And... I am not doubting your story... But, "He is a jerk, I want to be with you!" Can also be translated into, "I am a super-high maintenance drama-queen who needs constant attention." You may have very-well avoided the crazy last night... Don't cheat. Don't cheat with cheaters. There are good girls out there who want a guy who is stable and wise in relationships... I married way, way out of my league... She knew that I wasnt the most handsome or the best or brightest... But she knew I had character, was a good and loyal friend, and would make a faithful husband and father... Going on 18 years...  
You did the right thing, and passing on the "easy" will pay off for you in the *important* relationships in your life... People will trust you more, and people will be impressed at your integrity... Over the long-term... |
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There is a girl in my coed softball/beer league team that I was very intrested in. She is married, I didn't push it. Another player on the team messed around with her out of town on a tourney.
They are both pathetic and am not interested anymore. It's not that hard to keep your pecker in your pants as there are plenty of other good looking single women out there. It is a character/morals thing: do unto others and all. YMMV |
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Quoted: Is it wrong to have sex with a girl that is unhappy in her current relationship? Let's say that I don't know the guy. I just met the girl. I'm single. She wants to be. BF is a douche.(My friends know him) I passed on an amazing chance last night, all because I try to have morals. I'd be the enemy, when in fact, they are their own enemies. *Poll inbound. If it's as described wait on a break up and do it right. Find the right guy and he might/try to fuck you up. |
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There is a girl in my coed softball/beer league team that I was very intrested in. She is married, I didn't push it. Another player on the team messed around with her out of town on a tourney. They are both pathetic and am not interested anymore. It's not that hard to keep your pecker in your pants as there are plenty of other good looking single women out there. It is a character/morals thing: do unto others and all. YMMV I was on a work-trip once. A group of us drove multiple vehicles. And worked together for a few days on a project. Once the project was over, we were loading vehicles in the parking lot, and a girl i worked with (I would not be a man if i didn't admit she was a looker) drove-up and said to me, "Drive back with me, I will make it worth your time." It was going to be a 10+ hr drive. I thought, "I must be the sexiest guy here!" Me ego went through the roof. Then I remembered with my right head, and said, "I am good, thanks." And made-up a bs story about already committing to go in another vehicle... When we got-back (I ended up stuck driving an equipment truck, great luck) all the guys were left unloading some gear, an idiot who nobody respects, was all-too vocal about the great time he and her had. I had to resist the temptation to say, "she asked me first, retard." I kept my mouth shut. Let the loud-mouth run his mouth. After the loudmouth had ensured that everyone had heard, and re-heard his prowess and exploits, a good church-going dude I work with, who had had enough of this shallow loud-mouths ego says loud enough for us all to hear, "you don't go around bragging you just finally rode the village bicycle. You should probably be at a doctor getting an STD test from that seat that's been rode a thousand times before you." Got to talking to some of my closer buddies after, and *I* probably was mid-list of who she made the offer to... Dodged a bullet. Yeah, saying "no" when you should is the right thing to do... |
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well.. there isn't a fucking dicks worth of a pic loading so fuck this thread.. I'm tired of fuckers not following the god damn mother fucking RULZ She's a random fuckin girl. Not a wife or S/O. No rules for random chicks you met once while drunk and there's nothing creepier than posting a picture of a girl you haven't fucked..
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Be carefull!! I just found out my wife has been lying her ass off to coworkers about our relationship. Also found text messages with another guy, where she treid to convince him our relationship was all but over. Keep in mind as far as I knew everything was as good as it could be for the last 18 years! I am starting to think all woman are lying manipulative #%^}%#'s Nothing more dispicable than an adulterer or a cheater! Just make damn sure that relationship is honestly over, before you make a move.
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