[ARCHIVED THREAD] - LETS JUST SAY..... (Page 1 of 2)
Posted: 8/22/2007 11:24:08 AM EDT
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That you 'meet' someone of a sex that is not your own on a discussion board that has NOTHING to do with dating. It's about a common interest you have. You start talking off the board, and get along great. We're talkin you click like to legos. You think she's amazingly hot, hilarious, intelligent, dead sexy and every other positive thing you can think of. She thinks you're cute and funny and a damn good man and lots of other positive things. You both have ZERO issues with the other person. Before long you're staying up till 1 am on the phone almost every night, some nights till 3:30  It's obvious feelings are developing on both sides. Now here is the problem. You live about 1100 miles apart. At least one person out of the 2 has said they'd be ok with moving one day. And income for both, and job for one, would make seeing each other on a semi regular basis rather simple. Can it work?  ETA, for the record, the DB in? is NOT our beloved Arfcom so don't try to figure out who I'm talkin about it won't work. |
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If you don't go see her and spend enough time with her to know for sure, you may regret it. My wife and I were seperated by 1600 miles for almost a year before we could get together permanently. We've been happily married now for 16 years. So, jump in that big ass truck of yours and go see her. 
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ok for the last time, stop posting my wife's picture!! |
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Before we were married, my wife lived in Louisiana and I lived in VA. I met her on a 'blind date' of sorts when she came up to visit her cousin (a friend of mine) here in VA. We spent 3 days together, and then hundreds of dollars in long distance calls. Three months later, I flew down and asked her father for his blessing and asked her to marry me. Three months later we were married. That was 10 years ago this December. I say if you've got a bond with the woman, pursue it. If she's the one, the distance is an easy fix, and not a hurdle worth not jumping over to find out. |
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I've had a few long distance relationships... as a rule of thumb: 1. They suck. 2. They don't work. 2b. unless both people honestly want the relationship and don't do stupid shit to undermine it. 2c. or get stupid-paranoid. So yeah... go for it, but be aware the reality of the long-distance relationship. |
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ROFL I bet his palms are sore after looking at that
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well whats ur myspace then??? CXS www.myspace.com/topher63 |
| Sure it can work, my dad met his current wife in a Bar in CA while he was there on business. SHE was there on business from NJ. They did the long distance thing for a while (AZ/ NJ) then she moved out here, they've been married for over 6 years now and have 2 children. |
Damn. Thought I might have known who you were talking about until you said it was not arfcom. ETA: But I know you're red-necky enough for her.  Kidding -- only -- kidding.
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You know, after seeing that ugly son of a bitch, I'm never eating Foix Gras again |
Ban him. Now. CMOS |
Not at the same time. Usually the smaller one prevails which means I end up doing a lot of stupid things. |
I feel your pain brother. |
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You're only 6 years old? 
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My wife left me for a guy she met online and your description of the thing sounds just like her affair. If she is married, don't destroy anyone else's life for selfish pleasure. If she isn't married, game on, cause it can work out. |