Posted: 1/22/2012 6:19:57 AM EDT
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I have a friend of mine, who recently caught his wife cheating. He was suspicious because she has been disappearing for hours at a time and I guess just acting different... So he asks me for advise and I told him he was probably imagining it but to be safe, call the phone company and get the records, then go on her pc and sort through the emails... 20 minutes later he called me very upset, she was indeed cheating and with more than 1 guy... Well its been a couple months, and I was talking to him this morning when he told me they haven't had sex for 4 months before he caught her, I couldn't understand how that could be... How do you live with someone and not have sex for months??? Then I said "you should have known" and he said "no , she wanted to do it sometimes, I didn't" and he told me they have gone months before, and usually only have sex 2-3 times a month!!!!! So another friend of ours was with us for the convo and he also said him and his wife go months, and his x-wife used to go months too, and they also may only do it once a week!!!! Where have I been, is this how a lot of relationships are????
Is this insane, I dont make it a habit of talking about about how often my friends have sex with there wives, when we were younger we did, but them women werent the mothers of our kids.... I have been married for a while, {over a decade}, is this what I have to look forward to???? |
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When I was 25, I would wake up next to my wife and she would say,
"I'll make you breakfast or we can have sex." Many mornings I went to work hungry. Now I'm 45. When I wake up next to my wife and she offers breakfast or sex, my response is, "Do we have any bacon?" |
| i think most relationships go thru highs and lows in the sack. Ours did. We are a few times a week now but a couple years ago it was once every couple of months. Shit gets busy and other things take priority. If your not happy with how it is then work to change it. |
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Mine is feast or famine.
Some months it's every night...some months not so much. Not sure if the 7 month old has anything to do with it......ok I am POSITIVE that the 7 mo old has something to do with it. But... The Wife & I talk / joke about it and we both know whats going on. There is no misunderstanding or desire to look elswere. .02 |
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When I was 25, I would wake up next to my wife and she would say, "I'll make you breakfast or we can have sex." Many mornings I went to work hungry. Now I'm 45. When I wake up next to my wife and she offers breakfast or sex, my response is, "Do we have any bacon?" My wife never makes me breakfast, even on mornings we dont fool around, looks like Im getting screwed either way.. |