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5/12/2016 2:26:50 PM EDT
There's a question elsewhere here concerning how preppers always seem to have friends whose prepper plan is to mooch off them.

Question for you...suppose one of your friends shows up at your house during SHTF asking to share your barricade...BUT he's bringing his own long term food supply, water, weapons and ammo and he's willing to share it with you in exchange for a better roof over his head.   You know this person and you know he isn't a threat, so worrying about his character during SHTF isn't an issue in this scenario.  He simply needs a more secure place to stay than his current location.

What conditions would you let him in and what conditions would you tell him to scram?
5/12/2016 2:36:09 PM EDT
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I think the bottom-line question here is "Does this person help my chances of survival?"  If yes, then bring them in.  In the scenario you propose, (arrives with his own food/water/gear) and asks to be a resident, then I'd say good deal.  That's one more person to work, one more to fight, one more to help.  Unless he has some other baggage, then it seems like a good way to help your group.
5/12/2016 2:38:23 PM EDT
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"I against my brother, my brother and I against my cousin, and my cousin and I against the stranger"


Friends are the only family you get to choose. If I'm sure of someone's loyalty I can't really think of any conditions where I'd turn them away, especially if they're contributing their own supplies to the effort.
5/12/2016 2:39:17 PM EDT
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Safety in numbers.  If you trust the guy AND he's bringing his own shit, that seems like a win-win.
5/12/2016 2:39:23 PM EDT
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FPNI (as usual)



You have described ideal circumstances in your OP.  If the SHTF, I can't imagine many perfect scenarios like that happening.



I'd welcome that dude in with open arms.  
5/12/2016 2:40:20 PM EDT
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What DEFCOM level ?  Katrina, wildfires, or 'The Road' ?
5/12/2016 2:41:43 PM EDT
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If the person is a friend and a known non threat, and they know about your preps, why wouldnt you let them in?  Like minded communities are what survive SHTF.
5/12/2016 2:44:08 PM EDT
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if he's a friend and has firearms, he would already be part of the plan.
5/12/2016 2:44:54 PM EDT
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If they're a friend bringing assistance, supplies, or anything useful that I don't have, they will be welcomed.

If they're an acquaintance who has come to mooch, they will be dealt with like any other unwelcome intruder.
5/12/2016 2:46:03 PM EDT
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5/12/2016 2:46:09 PM EDT
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I think the bottom-line question here is "Does this person help my chances of survival?"  If yes, then bring them in.  In the scenario you propose, (arrives with his own food/water/gear) and asks to be a resident, then I'd say good deal.  That's one more person to work, one more to fight, one more to help.  Unless he has some other baggage, then it seems like a good way to help your group.
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5/12/2016 2:46:39 PM EDT
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Those who have lived a true SHTF situation  (I believe it was a man from Bosnia) emphasized the absolute necessity of joining with others in order to survive.  He said those who attempted to go alone were quickly killed and their stuff taken.  
5/12/2016 2:46:56 PM EDT
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There's safety in numbers.  If you trust him to have your back, hook up immediately.  The second you lose that trust, shoot him and take his shit.

Very few people, if any, will survive alone.. They definitely won't prosper.
5/12/2016 3:05:56 PM EDT
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Women. He has to have women with him, and my access to them is part of the dealio.
5/12/2016 4:03:26 PM EDT
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I've seen a lot of posts like this in similar threads.  Are you being serious or not?
5/12/2016 4:08:22 PM EDT
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Simple.

I don't have friends. Everyone I care about already lives in my house.

5/12/2016 4:14:21 PM EDT
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I can count my friends on one hand and they are welcome. They all all bring survival skills and supplies to the table. Except my wife. But she's hot so I'll let her stay.
5/12/2016 4:16:26 PM EDT
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Those who have lived a true SHTF situation  (I believe it was a man from Bosnia) emphasized the absolute necessity of joining with others in order to survive.  He said those who attempted to go alone were quickly killed and their stuff taken.  




 
What about that dude from Argentina or Chile?




I think he is a member here, talking about people getting jacked at stoplights.
5/12/2016 4:16:53 PM EDT
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Women. He has to have women with him, and my access to them is part of the dealio.


I've seen a lot of posts like this in similar threads.  Are you being serious or not?


If a single friend comes to my house and my wife and kids are there i have to eventually worry about him getting lonely. Him bringing a girl friend reduces that risk.  The sharing thing might be a joke.
5/12/2016 4:21:33 PM EDT
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Women. He has to have women with him, and my access to them is part of the dealio.


I've seen a lot of posts like this in similar threads.  Are you being serious or not?


If a single friend comes to my house and my wife and kids are there i have to eventually worry about him getting lonely. Him bringing a girl friend reduces that risk.  The sharing thing might be a joke.


Ok gotcha.
5/12/2016 4:24:20 PM EDT
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The definitive answer.
5/12/2016 4:31:55 PM EDT
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Women. He has to have women with him, and my access to them is part of the dealio.


I've seen a lot of posts like this in similar threads.  Are you being serious or not?


Depends on what your women look like. PM me pics and we'll talk.
5/12/2016 4:33:05 PM EDT
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Pretty much this.
5/12/2016 4:34:02 PM EDT
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Is his wife hot?
5/12/2016 4:36:04 PM EDT
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I'm not seeing the downside OP.  Is this a trick question?
5/12/2016 4:40:03 PM EDT
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5/12/2016 4:41:38 PM EDT
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Another friend with weapons and ammo?  damn right I'd let him in.

I'd probably even share my food supply with him in exchange for his help in defense / protection.
5/12/2016 4:46:36 PM EDT
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Rallying of my buddies is part of my SHTF scenario.  Surviving alone is very difficult, especially from the security standpoint.

My friends are the only thing I can truly rely on, even more than family.
5/12/2016 4:47:28 PM EDT
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Since the chances of needing most "preps" is about 1%, the only way to get some return off the investment is to brag to other people I guess
5/12/2016 4:49:31 PM EDT
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Watch this "Twilight Zone" Episode.  "The Shelter"

Dated but, I believe is a realistic scenario.

5/12/2016 4:53:05 PM EDT
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Women. He has to have women with him, and my access to them is part of the dealio.


I've seen a lot of posts like this in similar threads.  Are you being serious or not?


If a single friend comes to my house and my wife and kids are there i have to eventually worry about him getting lonely. Him bringing a girl friend reduces that risk.  The sharing thing might be a joke.


While you trust him, if you know nothing of his female friend there may be a problem.  All he needs is some skank telling him "he" should be in charge or have all of your things as well, ect.....

You would have to know both of them.

5/12/2016 4:53:34 PM EDT
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There's a question elsewhere here concerning how preppers always seem to have friends whose prepper plan is to mooch off them.

Question for you...suppose one of your friends shows up at your house during SHTF asking to share your barricade...BUT he's bringing his own long term food supply, water, weapons and ammo and he's willing to share it with you in exchange for a better roof over his head.   You know this person and you know he isn't a threat, so worrying about his character during SHTF isn't an issue in this scenario.  He simply needs a more secure place to stay than his current location.

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One man will not last long when tshtf.   You can't stay away 24/7.   You are going to need to band together with some friends.   Kind of depends on how he "shows up".  If the lights are out and communications down and the guy shows up after 3-4 days at things start going crazy because he's one guy, and thought their might be safety in numbers, then probably.  If he pulls up 5 minutes after the lights go out and says he had planned to come to my place the first sign of trouble then maybe not.  Now if other friends have already shown up and we don't need anymore people then he would probably be out of luck.
5/12/2016 4:55:44 PM EDT
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While I am a great warrior, I will probably need a few friends to help me take prepper's supplies from them in SHTF. Like that guy on Doomsday Preppers that has a fallout shelter under his garage. I'll just park my Ram on the hatch, and make the house mine.
5/12/2016 4:56:00 PM EDT
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5/12/2016 4:57:30 PM EDT
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The last thing I want to do is alienate a prepared (at least moderately) person who knows where my house is. In a minor disaster you'll probably be fine alone, but in long term SHTF situations you'll need a community. Even the people who seem like moochers at first can have something to offer.



 
5/12/2016 5:01:04 PM EDT
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It depends on what you are preparing for.

Do you live in tornado ally?  Something as simple as 5-7 days of food and drinking water per person along small comforts like a deck of cards, some board games and other things to occupy time to not focus on how much having no A/C, electricity, and running water sucks.  

Keeping a small rubbermaid box in your vehicle with some bottles of water, MREs, walking shoes, winter jacket and space blanket would have probably benefited those impacted by SouthernIceâ„¢ in Atlanta and Birmingham a few years ago.  

Eleventy Billion rounds of .22LR to kill zombies?  Yeah, I'd say that the chances are less than 1% of those being needed

Bama-Shooter's thread shows very practical ways to make a shitty situation less shitty.  That thread has been active 2009 and would have benefited those that were affected by Hurricane Sandy in 2012.

But hey man, it's all good. Good luck finding those food/water distro points in your county once your state-level emergency management agency sets those up.
5/12/2016 5:01:04 PM EDT
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dbl tap
5/12/2016 5:03:12 PM EDT
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Something is wrong If he knows you prep and he is prepping and you both have not talked about it.
Or are included in each others plans whether it is full cooperation and cohabitation or back up spot if my house burns down and I have to run for it.
5/12/2016 5:04:23 PM EDT
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I've seen a lot of posts like this in similar threads.  Are you being serious or not?


You mean you don't plan to keep a harem of soccer moms as you reign over the cul-de-sac?
5/12/2016 5:06:53 PM EDT
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I'd prefer it if you'd band together, just for the proximity.

Having to traipse all over creation to enslave you fuckers is going to irritate me. The more of you I can keep localized, the better my general mood. You're going to want me in a good mood.
5/12/2016 5:07:34 PM EDT
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i have exactly the same outlook as one of the posters in the other current prepping thread.  the people with whom i closely associate (enough to be to know that i have preps) are people of good character, who would be assets if things went bad.  off the top of my head, i can think of 8-10 people who i would definitely want to have on my side.  i can't feed all of them with what i have on-hand, but i am quite confident that i wouldn't have to--they would be working extremely hard to support themselves.  they would also be able to contribute a number of skillsets that i don't have (particularly medical and mechanical).

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yeah--i scanned badly.  if an actual friend came over with his own supplies, why on earth would i turn him away?  if a guy was unstable or lacked self-control, he wouldn't be a friend to begin with.  once you get down to work buddies or associates, then we'd have to have the "my house, my rules" talk.
5/12/2016 5:08:23 PM EDT
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Women. He has to have women with him, and my access to them is part of the dealio.






I've seen a lot of posts like this in similar threads.  Are you being serious or not?
For anyone who posts that sort of thing, being the one guy in the neighborhood with food is the only chance they'll ever have of scoring.



Everything leads back to sex (and, to a lesser extent, money and power).





 
5/12/2016 5:09:59 PM EDT
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Watch this "Twilight Zone" Episode.  "The Shelter"

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Pretty much.
5/12/2016 5:11:48 PM EDT
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It depends on what you are preparing for.

Do you live in tornado ally?  Something as simple as 5-7 days of food and drinking water per person along small comforts like a deck of cards, some board games and other things to occupy time to not focus on how much having no A/C, electricity, and running water sucks.  

Keeping a small rubbermaid box in your vehicle with some bottles of water, MREs, walking shoes, winter jacket and space blanket would have probably benefited those impacted by SouthernIceâ„¢ in Atlanta and Birmingham a few years ago.  

Eleventy Billion rounds of .22LR to kill zombies?  Yeah, I'd say that the chances are less than 1% of those being needed

Bama-Shooter's thread shows very practical ways to make a shitty situation less shitty.  That thread has been active 2009 and would have benefited those that were affected by Hurricane Sandy in 2012.

But hey man, it's all good. Good luck finding those food/water distro points in your county once your state-level emergency management agency sets those up.
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Since the chances of needing most "preps" is about 1%, the only way to get some return off the investment is to brag to other people I guess

It depends on what you are preparing for.

Do you live in tornado ally?  Something as simple as 5-7 days of food and drinking water per person along small comforts like a deck of cards, some board games and other things to occupy time to not focus on how much having no A/C, electricity, and running water sucks.  

Keeping a small rubbermaid box in your vehicle with some bottles of water, MREs, walking shoes, winter jacket and space blanket would have probably benefited those impacted by SouthernIceâ„¢ in Atlanta and Birmingham a few years ago.  

Eleventy Billion rounds of .22LR to kill zombies?  Yeah, I'd say that the chances are less than 1% of those being needed

Bama-Shooter's thread shows very practical ways to make a shitty situation less shitty.  That thread has been active 2009 and would have benefited those that were affected by Hurricane Sandy in 2012.

But hey man, it's all good. Good luck finding those food/water distro points in your county once your state-level emergency management agency sets those up.


You're absolutely right.

I was talking more about the doomsday fantasy types who buy up goods for bragging rights, then complain when friends say they will come over to their house. Its like a girl wearing a bikini then complaining when someone looks
5/12/2016 5:12:23 PM EDT
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While you trust him, if you know nothing of his female friend there may be a problem.  All he needs is some skank telling him "he" should be in charge or have all of your things as well, ect.....

You would have to know both of them.

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Women. He has to have women with him, and my access to them is part of the dealio.


I've seen a lot of posts like this in similar threads.  Are you being serious or not?


If a single friend comes to my house and my wife and kids are there i have to eventually worry about him getting lonely. Him bringing a girl friend reduces that risk.  The sharing thing might be a joke.


While you trust him, if you know nothing of his female friend there may be a problem.  All he needs is some skank telling him "he" should be in charge or have all of your things as well, ect.....

You would have to know both of them.


I'm thinking along the lines of this or supplies may not be plentiful enough for him/them and they start to conspire.
All you need is two to the head because you "helped" a friend (at the time)
People are not good. It has tried to be bred and taught out of us but every one is an asshole, it just depends on when they become one.

My 2€
5/12/2016 5:14:36 PM EDT
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It depends on what you are preparing for.

Do you live in tornado ally?  Something as simple as 5-7 days of food and drinking water per person along small comforts like a deck of cards, some board games and other things to occupy time to not focus on how much having no A/C, electricity, and running water sucks.  

Keeping a small rubbermaid box in your vehicle with some bottles of water, MREs, walking shoes, winter jacket and space blanket would have probably benefited those impacted by SouthernIceâ„¢ in Atlanta and Birmingham a few years ago.  

Eleventy Billion rounds of .22LR to kill zombies?  Yeah, I'd say that the chances are less than 1% of those being needed

Bama-Shooter's thread shows very practical ways to make a shitty situation less shitty.  That thread has been active 2009 and would have benefited those that were affected by Hurricane Sandy in 2012.

But hey man, it's all good. Good luck finding those food/water distro points in your county once your state-level emergency management agency sets those up.
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Since the chances of needing most "preps" is about 1%, the only way to get some return off the investment is to brag to other people I guess

It depends on what you are preparing for.

Do you live in tornado ally?  Something as simple as 5-7 days of food and drinking water per person along small comforts like a deck of cards, some board games and other things to occupy time to not focus on how much having no A/C, electricity, and running water sucks.  

Keeping a small rubbermaid box in your vehicle with some bottles of water, MREs, walking shoes, winter jacket and space blanket would have probably benefited those impacted by SouthernIceâ„¢ in Atlanta and Birmingham a few years ago.  

Eleventy Billion rounds of .22LR to kill zombies?  Yeah, I'd say that the chances are less than 1% of those being needed

Bama-Shooter's thread shows very practical ways to make a shitty situation less shitty.  That thread has been active 2009 and would have benefited those that were affected by Hurricane Sandy in 2012.

But hey man, it's all good. Good luck finding those food/water distro points in your county once your state-level emergency management agency sets those up.

Link to thread? Must have missed it
5/12/2016 5:15:55 PM EDT
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Safety in numbers.  If you trust the guy AND he's bringing his own shit, that seems like a win-win.

Those who have lived a true SHTF situation  (I believe it was a man from Bosnia) emphasized the absolute necessity of joining with others in order to survive.  He said those who attempted to go alone were quickly killed and their stuff taken.  

  What about that dude from Argentina or Chile?


I think he is a member here, talking about people getting jacked at stoplights.

I don't know about that.  I'm talking about a guy who lived through a complete collapse of society--no electricity, fuel, water, food, or any other thing we take for granted every day.  It made the e-mail rounds a few months ago.
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Since the chances of needing most "preps" is about 1%, the only way to get some return off the investment is to brag to other people I guess

It depends on what you are preparing for.

Do you live in tornado ally?  Something as simple as 5-7 days of food and drinking water per person along small comforts like a deck of cards, some board games and other things to occupy time to not focus on how much having no A/C, electricity, and running water sucks.  

Keeping a small rubbermaid box in your vehicle with some bottles of water, MREs, walking shoes, winter jacket and space blanket would have probably benefited those impacted by SouthernIceâ„¢ in Atlanta and Birmingham a few years ago.  

Eleventy Billion rounds of .22LR to kill zombies?  Yeah, I'd say that the chances are less than 1% of those being needed

Bama-Shooter's thread shows very practical ways to make a shitty situation less shitty.  That thread has been active 2009 and would have benefited those that were affected by Hurricane Sandy in 2012.

But hey man, it's all good. Good luck finding those food/water distro points in your county once your state-level emergency management agency sets those up.

Link to thread? Must have missed it

https://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_5/827830_Bama_s_Guide_to_SHTF_Survival_and_EandE___UPD_PG5.html
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For anyone who posts that sort of thing, being the one guy in the neighborhood with food is the only chance they'll ever have of scoring.

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Women. He has to have women with him, and my access to them is part of the dealio.


I've seen a lot of posts like this in similar threads.  Are you being serious or not?
For anyone who posts that sort of thing, being the one guy in the neighborhood with food is the only chance they'll ever have of scoring.

Everything leads back to sex (and, to a lesser extent, money and power).
 


Hehehehe, sheesh, I was kidding. Calllllllm yourself. Were you raped by a prepper or what?    
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5/12/2016 8:55:03 PM EDT
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While you trust him, if you know nothing of his female friend there may be a problem.  All he needs is some skank telling him "he" should be in charge or have all of your things as well, ect.....

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Women. He has to have women with him, and my access to them is part of the dealio.


I've seen a lot of posts like this in similar threads.  Are you being serious or not?


If a single friend comes to my house and my wife and kids are there i have to eventually worry about him getting lonely. Him bringing a girl friend reduces that risk.  The sharing thing might be a joke.


While you trust him, if you know nothing of his female friend there may be a problem.  All he needs is some skank telling him "he" should be in charge or have all of your things as well, ect.....

You would have to know both of them.



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