Posted: 10/14/2005 9:23:25 PM EDT
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I’ve been dating my girl friend now for a little over half a year now and I can tell that things in the long run don’t look that great. I’m not really the person she thought I would be, and she’s not the person I thought she would be. Because of that I’m unhappy almost 2/3 of the week, and just don't feel like my self. So I just need to find the right way of telling her that I think we both would be better off dating other people, or just hot having a relationship as a bf/gf. Its hard on me because I just don’t want to crush her feelings, but I’m not doing either of us any favors if I keep doing something that just won’t work out. |
That's it right there. Why pretend? Get out of that relationship. It's no good for you or her. If she remains your friend (which may or may not happen), she'll thank you later. |
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No easy way to shoot someone down , so as already suggested Just be honest . The worst thing you can do in a case like this is to wait for an excuse to justify it ............ Trust me  Life is too short for everything but a relationship that you feel has no future , those just seem to drag on forever . So suck it up and tell her how you feel , and more importantly . Don't cave in , or you will come to regret it . |
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I once pulled the "I'm sorry, its not you, It's me" routine. But I would start it by asking, "How do you feel the way this relationship is going?" and see where it goes. Yeah, breaking up sucks but, better to break up now and not to let it drag on out. Good Luck. |
Man up... Tell her and walk away.. |
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you have the perfect opportunity to DUMP her - tell her "let's just be friends" or similar... eta: she will want you because you don't want her - so milk it for what it is worth, but don't let her turn the tables on you - and if you think I am being cruel here, you gotta understand that women would not think twice about it |