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I read every post. Thank all of you. I'm so busy. So many things to take care of. Taking a break to ease my mind with some grands time tomorrow. Word of advice, make sure your stuff is organized. I thought mine was, I was wrong. |
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter: I read every post. Thank all of you. I'm so busy. So many things to take care of. Taking a break to ease my mind with some grands time tomorrow. Word of advice, make sure your stuff is organized. I thought mine was, I was wrong. We all love you brother. Remember to grieve and let it out when its heavy on your heart. Don’t keep that pain inside or try to be stoic, it will only eat you up. You have every right before god and man to express the depth of your loss. |
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter: I read every post. Thank all of you. I'm so busy. So many things to take care of. Taking a break to ease my mind with some grands time tomorrow. Word of advice, make sure your stuff is organized. I thought mine was, I was wrong. Your word of advice is headed. Thank you for thinking of us instead of YOU in your time of needing of OUR strength. |
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Yes. Yes it does.
Yes. Yes it does.
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Originally Posted By sq40: We all love you brother. Remember to grieve and let it out when its heavy on your heart. Don’t keep that pain inside or try to be stoic, it will only eat you up. You have every right before god and man to express the depth of your loss. I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream. There is no dam. Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot. I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love." I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her. I choked up typing that. |
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Any opinions expressed are my own and do not reflect upon any agency or organization with which I may be employed or affiliated.
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter: I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream. There is no dam. Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot. I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love." I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her. I choked up typing that. Every person on earth should be as lucky as you to love or have loved someone as you loved her. |
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter: I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream. There is no dam. Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot. I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love." I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her. I choked up typing that. |
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I’m sorry man, I can’t imagine. What kept my grandfather going, and happy, and continuing to live a long healthy life after my grandma passed, was the kids, grandkids, and great grandkids. Family is the most important thing and you have a lot of it. Based on what I saw in him, you’ll miss her forever, but there’s still a lot of joy ahead of you. Hope I’m not out of line. I wish you the best. |
| Bama, Im sorry for your loss, I feel your pain as well. I lost my wife last Sunday, over a month on respirator. Its hard for someone to lose there special other. My emotions are up and down too, Ill pray for you, your loved ones and family. im at a loss myself, pray for me as well. GOD BLESS! |
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I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers sent. |
I always knew you had to be willing to die to even do this job. But, I don't want to push my chips forward and go out and meet something I don't understand. A man would have to put his soul at hazard. He'd have to say, "O.K.I'll be part of this world
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter: I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream. There is no dam. Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot. I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love." I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her. I choked up typing that. Bama, I am very happy that it has helped you! 20 |
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Grief never ends, but it changes. It is a passage, not a place to stay. It is not a sign of weakness nor a lack of faith. IT IS THE PRICE OF LOVE! -twayne
Grief never ends, but it changes. It is a passage, not a place to stay. It is not a sign of weakness nor a lack of faith. IT IS THE PRICE OF LOVE! -twayne
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Originally Posted By rinferno: Bama, Im sorry for your loss, I feel your pain as well. I lost my wife last Sunday, over a month on respirator. Its hard for someone to lose there special other. My emotions are up and down too, Ill pray for you, your loved ones and family. im at a loss myself, pray for me as well. GOD BLESS! You are added to my prayers
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I AM A PEACEABLE GUN OWNER
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter: I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream. There is no dam. Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot. I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love." I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her. I choked up typing that. Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter: Originally Posted By sq40: We all love you brother. Remember to grieve and let it out when its heavy on your heart. Don’t keep that pain inside or try to be stoic, it will only eat you up. You have every right before god and man to express the depth of your loss. I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream. There is no dam. Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot. I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love." I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her. I choked up typing that. You'll choke up a lot in the next weeks and months as you think upon your life with her. Love can be a very painful thing at times and it doesn't stop when one passes on. The alternative, a life without love, would not have made you who you are now. Still thinking and prayers for you and your family. |
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter: I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream. There is no dam. Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot. I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love." I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her. I choked up typing that. Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter: Originally Posted By sq40: We all love you brother. Remember to grieve and let it out when its heavy on your heart. Don't keep that pain inside or try to be stoic, it will only eat you up. You have every right before god and man to express the depth of your loss. I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream. There is no dam. Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot. I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love." I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her. I choked up typing that. You will know that your grieving is over when they put a smile on your face instead of a tear in your eye. God bless you both. |
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So sorry for you & yours in this most difficult time. Hang in there & let the warm memories of the love help with the pain you feel. You are in the prayers of your many brothers & sisters here on ARFCOM. BIGGER_HAMMER |
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| I'm sorry for your loss the pain is real. I know she is always your love forever. Take care of yourself and I had a major tragedy also. Just holding on is all you can do right now. I don't have any verses or words of wisdom that can help. I'm sure enough people have said a bunch of stuff to you. Take any good advice and best wishes in this very bad time. Good luck. |