[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Two Questions (Mil / Air Force) (Page 1 of 2)
Posted: 12/14/2008 7:18:47 PM EDT
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1. Is adultery against military code?
2. How do I find out who someone's CO is? |
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1. Is adultery against military code? 2. How do I find out who someone's CO is? If you have a problem with someone, be a fucking real man and talk it out or fight with him. If not, you're a loser. Sorry to bring realism and chivalry to your life. You just made the assumption the OP is a man. That might not be the case. |
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1. Is adultery against military code? 2. How do I find out who someone's CO is? If you have a problem with someone, be a fucking real man and talk it out or fight with him. If not, you're a loser. Sorry to bring realism and chivalry to your life. That's a great way to get killed. 
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1. Is adultery against military code? 2. How do I find out who someone's CO is? If you have a problem with someone, be a fucking real man and talk it out or fight with him. If not, you're a loser. Sorry to bring realism and chivalry to your life. I asked politely. Then I asked not so politely. Now I go to the CO or I go to the gun. Which way do you think is more manly? |
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1. Is adultery against military code? 2. How do I find out who someone's CO is? If you have a problem with someone, be a fucking real man and talk it out or fight with him. If not, you're a loser. Sorry to bring realism and chivalry to your life. First I would discuss it with the person(s) involved. But to answer your questions, yes it is punishable under the UCMJ and the public affairs officer of the base should be able to get you in touch with the specific command C.O. Just dial information or a Google search . |
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1. Is adultery against military code? 2. How do I find out who someone's CO is? If you have a problem with someone, be a fucking real man and talk it out or fight with him. If not, you're a loser. Sorry to bring realism and chivalry to your life. You just made the assumption the OP is a man. That might not be the case. perhaps. but advice still stands to understand the other party. |
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Please don't fuck over some Airman's career over a personal issue. As a fellow Zoomie, I say stick it into him and break it off. We don't need his kind of trash in my Air Force. You don't even know what has happened yet and you're ready to throw some guy to the wolves? I'd at least want to know the full story before handing over some guy's CO's phone number. If the guy is out there cheating on a faithful, loving spouse, then yea, fuck him. But if they mutally split up, started seeing other people, and now she feels like fucking him over for the hell of it, why would you want any part in that? |
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Adding this - getting charged under the UCMJ is unlikely. One person's word against the other is usually not enough to get enough "evidence". In 17 years I have never seen somebody charged with adultery because you pretty much have to have the CO or other senior officer walk in on the act. That being said please post up other info so we can arm chair legal O your problem and recommend some charges. Please also add some details - is it your spouse stepping out with a .mil guy or gal or is it somebody elses? In other words what exactly makes it YOUR business? ETA - ok I got enough details. Your best bet is to go to the public affairs officer of the base and register a complaint against a service member. They will direct you to the proper authority. If that doesn't get results call your local congressional seats military affairs desk and that will definitely get you to the right person. |
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Please don't fuck over some Airman's career over a personal issue. As a fellow Zoomie, I say stick it into him and break it off. We don't need his kind of trash in my Air Force. You don't even know what has happened yet and you're ready to throw some guy to the wolves? I'd at least want to know the full story before handing over some guy's CO's phone number. It's the Chain's job to figure this out. If the OP has enough of a problem to bring it up the chain (after bringing it up with involved individuals), then there's probably merit to whatever's going on. I'm still fuming over the AF cop that raped my sister, who's still in.  It almost cost her her career too.
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The OP (hopefully) has enough info to warrant bringing it to the CO's attention. At which point, if the CO is worth his salt, he'll investigate before scheduling the offender for termination. All I'm saying is that for all we know it's a false accusation just meant to stir shit. Not all CO's are level headed, some will make a knee jerk decision and "make an example" out of an innocent person. |
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Article 134 (Adultery):
(1) That the accused wrongfully had sexual intercourse with a certain person; (2) That, at the time, the accused or the other person was married to someone else; and (3) That, under the circumstances, the conduct of the accused was to the prejudice of good order and discipline in the armed forces or was of a nature to bring discredit upon the armed forces. Maximum punishment. Dishonorable discharge, forfeiture of all pay and allowances, and confinement for 1 year. Adultery charges are rarely brought against someone as a stand alone charge (in my experience), it is usually a charge tacked on with some other misconduct. |
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Yes, it is. Thing is it's very hard to prove. They pretty much want to see pics or video, or at least a few handwritten dirty letters. But fear not, the UCMJ is designed to make anything punishable, up to and including going to the library. Trick is to motivate the individual's C.O. to take action.
To all the folks telling him to leave it alone, why do you think that's a good idea? A troop that likes to screw married women is not someone fit to wear the uniform. |
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so this guy is fooling around with the OP's wife? Am I correct in that take?
They may or may not actively pursue this. Adultery is still against the UCMJ, but is usually an "additional charge" they will throw in there if someone does something else stupid. good luck, and don't get yourself thrown in jail doing something stupid. |
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Yes, it is. Thing is it's very hard to prove. They pretty much want to see pics or video, or at least a few handwritten dirty letters. But fear not, the UCMJ is designed to make anything punishable, up to and including going to the library. Trick is to motivate the individual's C.O. to take action. To all the folks telling him to leave it alone, why do you think that's a good idea? A troop that likes to screw married women is not someone fit to wear the uniform. I'm all for a cheater getting creamed by their CoC, but at this point we have a random person on the internet wanting to know who someone's CO is. Obviously that person isn't the spouse of the person they want to report, cause they'd know. Basically we don't know jack shit about the situation and I can't believe anyone would hand over a fellow soldier/airman's info like that without knowing the facts. |
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Yes, it is. Thing is it's very hard to prove. They pretty much want to see pics or video, or at least a few handwritten dirty letters. But fear not, the UCMJ is designed to make anything punishable, up to and including going to the library. Trick is to motivate the individual's C.O. to take action. To all the folks telling him to leave it alone, why do you think that's a good idea? A troop that likes to screw married women is not someone fit to wear the uniform. Also understand that in addition to this info here, it takes two to tango. This isnt a onesided issue or it would be called rape. I'd toss the wife out the door since she is willing to fuck another person. |
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If you have a problem with someone, be a fucking real man and talk it out or fight with him. If not, you're a loser. What is it about fighting that "makes you a man"? 
Seriously... that's no different than saying the biggest, toughest guy in town has license to do whatever he wants. Assuming that the OPs spouse is cheating on him/her, that spouse is the person s/he needs to be dealing with... this Air Force guy didn't make any vows to either one of them. Blaming him, unless he raped the OPs wife (?), is idiotic. |
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My soon to be ex-wife. As I already stated, I asked him to back off very politely. Mutual good friends asked him to ease up. Then I asked him in a very unpolite way. No effect. Zero.
Make no mistake, I hold my wife equally accountable for this. But I asked like a man. I asked to be respected as a man and a husband. He blew me off completely. My marriage is over. My kids have an unclear future at best. My entire family has been destroyed by this "man", with help from my wife. Now my choice is CO or gun. |
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If you lodge a complaint against the airman with their command, its likely that he will get a cease and desist order from his CO. If he shows up again or calls your wife etc that is breaking that order and then the command can press charges for violation of a legal order which is something that actually has some teeth rather than the adultery charge.
Also - if you lodge a civil complaint against him with the local LEO agency they will definitely find his boss. |
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My soon to be ex-wife. As I already stated, I asked him to back off very politely. Mutual good friends asked him to ease up. Then I asked him in a very unpolite way. No effect. Zero. Make no mistake, I hold my wife equally accountable for this. But I asked like a man. I asked to be respected as a man and a husband. He blew me off completely. My marriage is over. My kids have an unclear future at best. My entire family has been destroyed by this "man", with help from my wife. Now my choice is CO or gun. Gun is NOT a choice. How would that help your family? |