Posted: 4/7/2010 10:13:01 PM EDT
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18 year old guy dating a 15 year old girl
40 year old guy dating a 20 year old girl 60 year old guy dating anyone under 40 |
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Quoted: Arfcom, home of creepy old men.  Or young men with self-preserving foresight, or younger men whose grade school sweetheart still hasn't cleared age of consent. In fact I'm sure it's mostly the latter - that would explain why ExtremeShock! recently started advertising airsoft ammo here. |
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There is a pretty big maturity jump between 15 and 18. As a 19 year old, I would never consider dating someone under 18. WAY too immature. By the time you're 40, if you're single and not in love with a wonderful woman, you'll probably think, "fuck it, I might as well get good sex." So 20 is understandable. And 60 vs 40? At that age, who gives a shit? |
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There is a pretty big maturity jump between 15 and 18. As a 19 year old, I would never consider dating someone under 18. WAY too immature. By the time you're 40, if you're single and not in love with a wonderful woman, you'll probably think, "fuck it, I might as well get good sex." So 20 is understandable. And 60 vs 40? At that age, who gives a shit? Hell, when I was a teenager, way in the way back, I never dated girls younger than me! I like the experienced type! Now I'm pushing hard on fifty and my wife is nine years younger than me. |
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Quoted: There is a pretty big maturity jump between 15 and 18. As a 19 year old, I would never consider dating someone under 18. WAY too immature. By the time you're 40, if you're single and not in love with a wonderful woman, you'll probably think, "fuck it, I might as well get good sex." So 20 is understandable. And 60 vs 40? At that age, who gives a shit? Yeah sorry to be the bearer of bad news but you're gonna find that there's not a whole lot of development between 18 and mid-to-late-20s either. I've heard it doesn't really improve after that either but I can only attest to what I've seen. Anecdotal observations suggest they realize it's socially acceptable to use words over two syllables and thus employ an expanded vocabulary in order to rationalize irrational behavior. Most can actually pay for their own sushi nights out with the girls... not that they will, but they potentially could. However, in terms of tangible progress or practical development, science has yet to develop a brain microscope with the adequate sensitivity to measure such. And THAT is why we get prenups and reserve our most intimate care for machined aluminum. |
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40 year old guy dating a 20 year old girl
I went with this because I'm 34 and just got done bangin the 18yo I'm seeing about 1/2 hour ago (she's asleep in my bed right now), but I didn't see a provision for that. She's physically gorgeous, no ex husband, no kids, no baggage, thinks sex is a sport, and rough sex should be in the X-Games. Who loses? She seems ok with it for the last 6 months, and I'm obviously cool with it. Oh wait, her mother wishes me dead. I still can't believe she told her 
I told her to tell her mom "that's what you get for voting Obama". And that was right after I videotaped her shooting my M&P15, which she immediately videotexted to her libtard mother. Win? WIN. |
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One of my servers, age 26, is dating one of my hostesses, age 17 and in HS. It's the creepy. That's completely in the norm for south Florida. Completely - from everything I've seen. I don't like the 40/20 answer being the most popular because... I've damned near done it (was not 40 though)... but girls 24 and under are generally way too immature for a guy in his 30's. But as for the age-gap thing, for some reason (maybe cost of living), I see bigger, and more, discrepancies here in Florida than I have anywhere else. |
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None of the above? +1 +2 +3 Let me begin by saying I do NOT have money. I work for a living. I am now 44 and she is 23. Four years ago, at age 40, I married my fiance. We started dating when she was 18 and we married when she was 19. Yep....21 year age difference. And, 4 years later, we are still happy...have a beautiful 11 month old daughter...and looking forward to trying for a son this summer....with lots of practice thrown in until then. It's not the age that matters. It's how devoted the two of you are to God and to each other that keeps any marriage going. Let me also say that it was maturity that attracted my wife to me. She will tell anyone that she had huge doubts and hang-ups about going out with a 40 year old man when she was 18, but, she was sick of dating immature boys and wanted to date a man instead. The local boys wanted one thing, as always. I wanted a relationship, a wife and a family. She wanted the same. Don't let age keep you from someone great. 
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18 year old guy dating a 15 year old girl 40 year old guy dating a 20 year old girl 60 year old guy dating anyone under 40 18/2 + 7 = 16 15/16 = 0.94 (a little creepy, but not too bad) 40/2 + 7 = 27 20/27 = 0.74 (pretty damned creepy) 60/2 +7 = 37 40/37 = 1.08 (perfectly fine) |
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Why is it creepy for an older male to date a younger woman yet that usually doesn't hold true if it's reversed? As for me, I'm 38 and a 24 year old is trying to get my attention these days.
The most flak you'll catch is mainly from older women that view these things with ire as they age out of the dating pool but that doesn't bother me or should any man. They didn't seem to care about dating the bad boys and losers when they still had their looks. Keep that in mind if people try and shame you. |
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How about the only one where one of the two isn't an adult? 20 with a 15 year old is pretty ridiculous. What 20 year old wants to put up with a 15 year old's bullshit anyway? While most probably illegal in most states, I can assure you that a 20 y/o's bullshit is no different than a 15 year old's. You really not talking about a noticeable age and maturity difference there - at least not in America. Of course a third-world country would be different. |
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Years ago I used to keep books & do payroll records fro small businesses.
One of my customers was a 40 year old divorced business owner engaged to (and eventually marries) 18 year old. I was there when his fiance met his 18 year old daughter. Daughter: "I know you! You have Miss Campbell for science!" Fiance: "Yes! And you were in Mr. Smith's English class!" I just tried to fade into the wallpaper. Whole lotta wtf goin' on there. |