Posted: 3/3/2012 7:57:36 AM EDT
well this year started off pretty rough. im getting a divorce and have been on my own for a while. things have been hard but slowly getting better. well a few days ago i found a really great woman. she loves to hunt, fish, shoot, is a awesome cook, can cook elk, deer, wild pig, bear, moose. shes basically a female arfcomer ! honestly my dream girl. things are going awesomely and we are having a great time.  i know, who cares, cool story bro, etc. but its a super great thing for me and im very damn happy. ! ! and of course ill post a pic for you guys. i think shes very pretty. 5'3", green eyes. 
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thanks guys. several of you probably remember my thread from december, where my soon to be ex wife, told me she hated my kids guts, and it was either her or them. well it was them. i moved out, took my daughters, and we have been living simply but have been pretty happy. then i met this great lady the other day. to say were a great match is a huge understatement. i have honestly never had a connection like this in my life.
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I am glad things seem to be on the up with you.
Just a comment that struck me as I read your post and I don't mean this at all to be a downer to you. I was 4 when I remember my folks divorcing and both of them got into bad second marriages. I have been married for 21 years and with all humility, I just don't know how ANYONE can have the objectivity they need to begin a new relationship when they are still in the process of a divorce or recently divorced. Having watched it with my folks and MANY others over the years, it seems like we all have an itch that needs scratched and unfortunately oftentimes, we make decisions on how to get the itch scratched when we don't have the emotional equipment to do so. I hope that isn't the case with you and I am not saying in this post that it is. Maybe just for others who read the thread. Again, I really hope things work out for you. Patrick |
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thanks guys. several of you probably remember my thread from december, where my soon to be ex wife, told me she hated my kids guts, and it was either her or them. well it was them. i moved out, took my daughters, and we have been living simply but have been pretty happy. then i met this great lady the other day. to say were a great match is a huge understatement. i have honestly never had a connection like this in my life. WTF, I assume your ex wasn't your kids biological mother. |
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I am glad things seem to be on the up with you. Just a comment that struck me as I read your post and I don't mean this at all to be a downer to you. I was 4 when I remember my folks divorcing and both of them got into bad second marriages. I have been married for 21 years and with all humility, I just don't know how ANYONE can have the objectivity they need to begin a new relationship when they are still in the process of a divorce or recently divorced. Having watched it with my folks and MANY others over the years, it seems like we all have an itch that needs scratched and unfortunately oftentimes, we make decisions on how to get the itch scratched when we don't have the emotional equipment to do so. I hope that isn't the case with you and I am not saying in this post that it is. Maybe just for others who read the thread. Again, I really hope things work out for you. Patrick thanks for the advice. i am really aware of the rebound issues. i have made mistakes in the past, but this time im being very careful, and not jumping into anything. this is going to be a really slow moving relationship. i know what to look for now, and shes had bad experiences as well so were both hesitant to get into something bad. were in no hurry, im loving just talking on the phone. shes going to church with me tomorrow, with me and my best friend. |
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thanks guys. several of you probably remember my thread from december, where my soon to be ex wife, told me she hated my kids guts, and it was either her or them. well it was them. i moved out, took my daughters, and we have been living simply but have been pretty happy. then i met this great lady the other day. to say were a great match is a huge understatement. i have honestly never had a connection like this in my life. WTF, I assume your ex wasn't your kids biological mother. nope. she was their step mom. honestly she WAS a rebound relationship. i didnt pay attention to warning signs and paid for it dearly. im going to be very paranoid with any future relationships. |
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You're only a few days in. Don't get too worked up. Not trying to be a downer, but if you go ga-ga and she doesn't she will unass the AO right quick. Either way, congrats. lmao.... true, ! luckily i was being reserved, and she was the one who went ga ga..lol i love it. |
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So let me see if I have this right, because I missed the previous thread on your divorce. 1. You have kids from some previous relationship or marriage. 2. Either Mom left you, died or you left her. 3. You meet some woman who doesn't like your kids and you marry her. 4. New wife finally has enough of dealing with kids she doesn't like and hands you an ultimatum "Me or the kids". 5. You fire up a few brain cells, divorce her and take the kids and leave. 6. Now you've got a new GF who's the "best thing evar!". She's your "Dream Girl", you're having a "great time!" and it's a "super great thing for you!". 7. And we've yet to hear how you're daughters are doing. That about it?
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So let me see if I have this right, because I missed the previous thread on your divorce. 1. You have kids from some previous relationship or marriage. 2. Either Mom left you, died or you left her. 3. You meet some woman who doesn't like your kids and you marry her. 4. New wife finally has enough of dealing with kids she doesn't like and hands you an ultimatum "Me or the kids". 5. You fire up a few brain cells, divorce her and take the kids and leave. 6. Now you've got a new GF who's the "best thing evar!". She's your "Dream Girl", you're having a "great time!" and it's a "super great thing for you!". 7. And we've yet to hear how you're daughters are doing. That about it? well i ddint intend to bring the kids into it. first wife decided she didnt like to be married, had a boyfriend while we were married and divorced me to run off with a loser with no job, and 4 kids with 4 different women, he was not paying anyone child support. yeah, that worked out well for her. second wife, liked the kids when they were little, they got along well. but over the years as they got older, she got more jealous. i got custody after my ex wife screwed the pooch while i was in iraq. wife and daughters got along well until i returned home. after i got home she got very jealous, and eventually the ultimatum. this girl is great. i know its early, but i have never had a relationship go like this before, and i have never met a woman who was this close to what i love to do. the kids are doing great. they are very happy being with me, and dont miss their step mother at all. they have met the girlfriend, and they really like her, hell my friends all love her and they all think shes perfect for me. she has a daughter, and loves kids. my kids are very happy, and doing great. |
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Best of all: No duck lips. http://radiodanny.files.wordpress.com/2011/05/duck_lips.jpg Thank you. Duck lips, indeed. |