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Posted: 9/5/2024 11:46:54 AM EDT
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I'm 40 and have had some similar experiences. My greatest joy now is settling down and having a family. I couldn't imagine going back to that lifestyle and never look back.
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Posted: 9/5/2024 11:53:30 AM EDT
[Last Edit: Boomer]
[#2]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Herewego: OP has them lining up and not just the skanks, well some are, but he has an angle to impress them. He flashes them some coin and sells the idea that he is a sincere romantic that can take care of them and gives them the opportunity to use sex to weasel into his life so that his money becomes their money. Think of it as playing a role. You gotta work on their dreams. OP really wants to close escrow. |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 12:04:17 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII: OP you need a hobby. You were miserable in your marriage and you're miserable now, because in both instances; your life revolved around women. You will never be satisfied or have peace as long as this is the case. Or go back to work if you can't handle that much free time. I have considered this a lot. I was miserable before but I'm not now. I feel so much better and for the first time in a decade I feel like now I have a real partner with my current GF. She's heavily invested in keeping me happy and goes above and beyond to take care of me on a level that I've never known before. Her family is wealthy and she doesn't accept gifts or give a damn about my money. She wants loyalty and respect. That was the major issue with my ex-wife, she just stopped caring after having kids. I wasn't needed anymore as long as the bills kept getting paid. |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 12:07:43 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JoeSP1: OP, what watch do you wear? I'm not into jewelry or watches. |
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AZ, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 12:13:11 PM EDT
[#5]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By SquatchAv8: Get over yourself and try to make the world a better place. wow, someone is jealous this guy is smashing a lot of ass... |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 12:13:40 PM EDT
[#6]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By BlueJames: I have considered this a lot. I was miserable before but I'm not now. I feel so much better and for the first time in a decade I feel like now I have a real partner with my current GF. She's heavily invested in keeping me happy and goes above and beyond to take care of me on a level that I've never known before. Her family is wealthy and she doesn't accept gifts or give a damn about my money. She wants loyalty and respect. That was the major issue with my ex-wife, she just stopped caring after having kids. I wasn't needed anymore as long as the bills kept getting paid. Nice. Some of your statements made it seem like you weren't happy now either. Why get married again and potentially put yourself back in the same situation? You ex changed after marriage/kids. What's going to stop this girl from doing the same? |
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TX, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 12:22:21 PM EDT
[#7]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII: You talked to young women lately? Honestly OP is dumb for trying to get married again, period. This; at 36 if this girl I'm with now didn't work out, I'd likely go older and hotter than try to go younger; I live near a city so the libshidz are everywhereeeeee god help us. |
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UT, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 12:22:53 PM EDT
[#8]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Elijah1: Why is it hard for you to believe women like to fuck? I guarantee if you put in the effort of the OP, you’d likely have similar results. Unless you’re short and fat. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Elijah1: Originally Posted By sabocat: This seems more like a greentext than something that actually happened. Why is it hard for you to believe women like to fuck? I guarantee if you put in the effort of the OP, you’d likely have similar results. Unless you’re short and fat. When I was in the dating game 5 years ago, most of the time it was the woman that initiated the act. On two occasions, they whipped their tops off in the car while we were driving, after dinner and a glass of wine on the first date. I guess they were proud of their assets. |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 1:01:02 PM EDT
[#9]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: if my main man cliff556 doesn't pick up an STD whilst boning the sexy tattoo artist gorl he's not doing it right. Thankfully I’ve only caught 1 STD and thankfully it wasn’t herpes |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 1:01:12 PM EDT
[Last Edit: DubyaB]
[#10]
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Posted: 9/5/2024 1:30:32 PM EDT
[#11]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: pics of tourists not loading there, chief.  Just click on the pier boardwalk live cam or YouTube  Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk Vlog! 
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Posted: 9/5/2024 1:33:28 PM EDT
[#12]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII: Nice. Some of your statements made it seem like you weren't happy now either. Why get married again and potentially put yourself back in the same situation? You ex changed after marriage/kids. What's going to stop this girl from doing the same? Endlessly smashing leads to unhappiness. When the challenge isn't there it's no different than prostitution. I want a hot, dedicated wife and 3-4 more kids. I've learned a lot about myself and women in hopes of not repeating the dame mistakes. But I'm not sure knowing what I know now would have prevented me from marrying my ex. So I probably have a lot more to learn about marriage and who to marry. My parents have been married for 45 years, I want the same thing. |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 1:38:08 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By HappyCamel: Bro isn't your wife like 20 years older than you? And you're giving your parents shit? My marriage works. Theirs don’t. |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 1:40:30 PM EDT
[#14]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Wizzy: To get to 50% you have to include 2nd and 3rd etc marriages, because some people get married multiple times. So "50% of marriages end in divorce". But it's not "50% of people who get married get divorced". If I recall correctly the real number might be like 30%. Still though-would you enter into a business agreement that required you to put everything on the line, along with future business earnings on a venture with a 30% chance of crashing and burning? Gotta look HARD before you leap-you really don’t get to know your fiance until the first year of marriage is over. |
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USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 1:48:56 PM EDT
[#15]
"Making a big effort sets you apart from other men. Like traveling to another state or country just for them"
Your conclusion is off target-- your wallet is setting you apart from other men, not your effort. Women arent stupid when it comes how deep your pockets appear to go and your travel is a huge indicator of that. Im not even saying thats a bad thing if your goal is to be a passport bro, just your effort is very obviously backed by money for anybody who cares to notice... that being any quasi single woman ive ever met. |
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USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 2:13:09 PM EDT
[#16]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Boomer: Think of it as playing a role. You gotta work on their dreams. OP really wants to close escrow. 
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Posted: 9/5/2024 2:15:20 PM EDT
[#17]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By TheOtherDave: Still though-would you enter into a business agreement that required you to put everything on the line, along with future business earnings on a venture with a 30% chance of crashing and burning? Gotta look HARD before you leap-you really don’t get to know your fiance until the first year of marriage is over. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By TheOtherDave: Originally Posted By Wizzy: To get to 50% you have to include 2nd and 3rd etc marriages, because some people get married multiple times. So "50% of marriages end in divorce". But it's not "50% of people who get married get divorced". If I recall correctly the real number might be like 30%. Still though-would you enter into a business agreement that required you to put everything on the line, along with future business earnings on a venture with a 30% chance of crashing and burning? Gotta look HARD before you leap-you really don’t get to know your fiance until the first year of marriage is over. That's why you marry a girl from another country. |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 3:23:41 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Snozberry: "Making a big effort sets you apart from other men. Like traveling to another state or country just for them" Your conclusion is off target-- your wallet is setting you apart from other men, not your effort. Women arent stupid when it comes how deep your pockets appear to go and your travel is a huge indicator of that. Im not even saying thats a bad thing if your goal is to be a passport bro, just your effort is very obviously backed by money for anybody who cares to notice... that being any quasi single woman ive ever met. You are not entirely wrong. But something I have heard time and time again from these women is that they always say they are impressed by how much of an effort I make. I'm based in France part of the time so some of them are not far at all. The flowers do the same thing, men in their 20s don't know you're supposed to show up with them. The same goes for wearing a sports jacket to dinner. Dudes now just want to go 50/50 on a coffee date they show up to in their normal clothes then expect to smash. That's not what women want but it's what they've come to expect. |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 3:57:40 PM EDT
[#19]
I rated this a troll thread. Penthouse Letters was much better.
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Posted: 9/5/2024 4:08:28 PM EDT
[#20]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CarmelBytheSea: Thankfully I’ve only caught 1 STD and thankfully it wasn’t herpes I hear they've come a long way with HIV treatment 
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Posted: 9/5/2024 4:14:12 PM EDT
[#21]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By origbadbob: I rated this a troll thread. Penthouse Letters was much better. I think that was way before Millennials time |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 4:17:07 PM EDT
[Last Edit: CarmelBytheSea]
[#22]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Dam17er: I hear they've come a long way with HIV treatment LOL thankfully not that either but yeah I saw some commercial saying only 6 shots a year and you can have a great time in San Francisco again Herpes people in the porn industry are stuck with Valtrex |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 4:20:43 PM EDT
[#23]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By jhoyda1: When I see threads like this I picture Pete Brownell at his desk with a tall drink muttering “I paid too much for that fucking website.” Well, considering how it’s dying off, yeah. But these threads are the very heartbeat of Arfcom. He should be sending a thank you card to op, with 87% discount codes, and the number of a half dozen pre-paid whores. |
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OK, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 4:21:02 PM EDT
[#24]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By TheOtherDave: This isn’t a ciriticism of you, your life choices or anything like that, but my observation of your post and of my choices in life: Don’t get married. We all want what we don’t have-I waited until I was 49 to get married for the first time and had to find a woman 19 years older than me to get a ‘good one’. Even though she’s a good wife, all women have their shit. I don’t regret getting married but I won’t remarry ever again. What I found was that being single wasn’t so bad after all, no matter how envious I was of the stability of my friend’s marriages, and the perceived love of their wives and kids. The way you describe women seems almost like they are a commodity to you. Most marriages that stay together end up doing it because of the fear of the unknown if they split up. You won’t have that problem if you are financially secure for life. Yes, having someone at home that cares about you is worth a lot, but be honest with yourself about how willing you are to settle down, be honest about whether you can properly value a partner beyond the physical characteristics she brings to the table-bottom line is that when you meet a woman, you have to tell yourself that the is the best she is every going to look, because once out of their 20’s it’s all downhill from there….. and you’re dating women from parts of the world that tend to age like milk. Look at their mothers and ask yourself with your apparent high standards if you can see yourself married to that in 20 years. Nothing wrong with just living life and having your fun. But yeah, don’t get married. Marries 68 year old woman at 49 and your sage advice based on that decision is don't get married. Goddamn this place always delivers. |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 4:54:45 PM EDT
[#25]
Pg8
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Posted: 9/5/2024 5:38:12 PM EDT
[#26]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff:  I'm soooo gonna be a draft dodger if Kamala starts the draft.  you're single and childfree and have no money. you'll be amongst the first to be called up by prez kamala for WWIII. |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 5:39:07 PM EDT
[#27]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: You know, I went out to breakfast yesterday and every waitress in the place had tattoos. Otherwise they looked normal/seemed nice, and a few of them might have actually been attractive if not for the fact that they had tattoos.  PICS?!  @rtlm |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 5:40:21 PM EDT
[#28]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII: You're supposed to go to Roadhouse on friday nights, not wednesday mornings.  when he hears "ay papi!" he knows it's fo time. 
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Posted: 9/5/2024 5:41:01 PM EDT
[#29]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: Haha, though it's been recommended numerous times it actually wasn't the Texas Roadhouse. And I was there with my parents, so I wasn't there to hit on the waitresses (not that I would have if I had gone there alone because they all had tattoos, and I don't know how to hit on anyone anyways). And the age gap was big, all the waitresses were in their 20s... I don't want anything to do with women that young, I'd need to find someone closer to my own age. MA THE MEATLOAF |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 5:41:39 PM EDT
[#30]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By raygixxer89: Those heels look like they weigh more than she does, haha! Buy her a burger. 
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Posted: 9/5/2024 5:42:11 PM EDT
[#31]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CarmelBytheSea: Thankfully I've only caught 1 STD and thankfully it wasn't herpes |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 5:42:53 PM EDT
[#32]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By BlueJames: Endlessly smashing leads to unhappiness. When the challenge isn't there it's no different than prostitution. I want a hot, dedicated wife and 3-4 more kids. I've learned a lot about myself and women in hopes of not repeating the dame mistakes. But I'm not sure knowing what I know now would have prevented me from marrying my ex. So I probably have a lot more to learn about marriage and who to marry. My parents have been married for 45 years, I want the same thing. want doesn't get. |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 5:44:47 PM EDT
[#33]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: poor thing has been on the all snausage diet. My guess is it’s from railing a ball of cocaine with OP every night |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 5:45:49 PM EDT
[#34]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By AS556: My guess is it's from railing a ball of cocaine with OP every night she don't lie she don't lie |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 5:54:10 PM EDT
[#35]
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Posted: 9/5/2024 6:01:24 PM EDT
[#36]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: https://media.tenor.com/msh7oYwRigAAAAAM/wolf-of-wall-street-oh-my-god.gif PICS?! @rtlm Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: You know, I went out to breakfast yesterday and every waitress in the place had tattoos. Otherwise they looked normal/seemed nice, and a few of them might have actually been attractive if not for the fact that they had tattoos. https://media.tenor.com/msh7oYwRigAAAAAM/wolf-of-wall-street-oh-my-god.gif PICS?! @rtlm 
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Posted: 9/5/2024 6:02:47 PM EDT
[#37]
Quote Historywho wants to eat somewheres with ugly pureskin waitresses who spend every friday and saturday night alone?  MA MOAR NACHO CHEESE HOTPOCKETS AND FLUSHABLE WIPES |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 6:45:33 PM EDT
[#38]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: who wants to eat somewheres with ugly pureskin waitresses who spend every friday and saturday night alone? MA MOAR NACHO CHEESE HOTPOCKETS AND FLUSHABLE WIPES Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: MA MOAR NACHO CHEESE HOTPOCKETS AND FLUSHABLE WIPES She works hard for the money So ya better treat her right |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 8:56:45 PM EDT
[#39]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JCIN: Marries 68 year old woman at 49 and your sage advice based on that decision is don't get married. Goddamn this place always delivers.  Attached File Attached File |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 9:10:55 PM EDT
[#40]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JCIN: Marries 68 year old woman at 49 and your sage advice based on that decision is don't get married. Goddamn this place always delivers. Everyone has a different life experience. Based on what he said, he probably shouldn’t. Not everyone has their ship come in with a Trad Wife and not everyone manages their marriage well enough to keep it. OP seems to know what he wants but he measured every one of the women he’s dated by how hot they were, if they put out, and if he could have but circumstances allowed it. He wants to fuck a lot of girls, not find a woman and settle down. That’s not wrong in and of itself if everything is above board, but he’d be a fool to settle down right now. |
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MN, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 9:14:34 PM EDT
[#41]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JCIN: Marries 68 year old woman at 49 and your sage advice based on that decision is don't get married. Goddamn this place always delivers. 
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WA, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 9:52:07 PM EDT
[#42]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: negative. you're single and childfree and have no money. you'll be amongst the first to be called up by prez kamala for WWIII. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: I'm soooo gonna be a draft dodger if Kamala starts the draft. you're single and childfree and have no money. you'll be amongst the first to be called up by prez kamala for WWIII. Probably true. I'm gonna try pulling the "I'm too old" card first and see where it goes from there. |
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PA, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 9:54:47 PM EDT
[#43]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JCIN: Marries 68 year old woman at 49 and your sage advice based on that decision is don't get married. Goddamn this place always delivers. That’s some good stuff right there. |
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WA, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 9:54:55 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 556Cliff]
[#44]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: https://media.tenor.com/msh7oYwRigAAAAAM/wolf-of-wall-street-oh-my-god.gif PICS?! @rtlm Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: You know, I went out to breakfast yesterday and every waitress in the place had tattoos. Otherwise they looked normal/seemed nice, and a few of them might have actually been attractive if not for the fact that they had tattoos. https://media.tenor.com/msh7oYwRigAAAAAM/wolf-of-wall-street-oh-my-god.gif PICS?! @rtlm No pics. I'm not that brave. Plus there were way too many people around, and inked up tattoo girls aren't picture worthy anyways. |
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WA, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 9:56:49 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 556Cliff]
[#45]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: hot little 20 year old 105-lb Latina waitresses from the roadhouse want to sit on my main man cliff556's uncut 11" herpes dispenser. when he hears "ay papi!" he knows it's fo time. Wait, when and how did I contract herpes? I think that's something I'd remember. 
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WA, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 9:58:06 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 556Cliff]
[#46]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: you want your mom to hit on the waitresses for you? MA THE MEATLOAF Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Haha, though it's been recommended numerous times it actually wasn't the Texas Roadhouse. And I was there with my parents, so I wasn't there to hit on the waitresses (not that I would have if I had gone there alone because they all had tattoos, and I don't know how to hit on anyone anyways). And the age gap was big, all the waitresses were in their 20s... I don't want anything to do with women that young, I'd need to find someone closer to my own age. MA THE MEATLOAF That would be helpful, but not those inky waitresses. 
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Posted: 9/5/2024 10:01:26 PM EDT
[#47]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: and people in heck want ice wudder, my dude. want doesn't get. College, dye blonde spinner with a GD approved ass no tits and a history of fucking everyone on campus apparently That was when I crafted my preventative steps measures to avoid any more STDs and so far it’s been working |
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Posted: 9/5/2024 10:05:08 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Phil_Billy]
[#48]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CarmelBytheSea: Thankfully I’ve only caught 1 STD and thankfully it wasn’t herpes Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CarmelBytheSea: Originally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: if my main man cliff556 doesn't pick up an STD whilst boning the sexy tattoo artist gorl he's not doing it right. Thankfully I’ve only caught 1 STD and thankfully it wasn’t herpes Chlamydia is pretty common, I have a "friend" who got it twice on his last let's sleep around phase. Also like 70% of the population carries a version of the Herpes Virus. You more than likely already have it. |
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WA, USA
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Posted: 9/5/2024 11:31:11 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Phil_Billy: Also like 70% of the population carries a version of the Herpes Virus. You more than likely already have it. I don't, you could bet on it!
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Posted: 9/5/2024 11:35:36 PM EDT
[Last Edit: CarmelBytheSea]
[#50]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Phil_Billy: Chlamydia is pretty common, I have a "friend" who got it twice on his last let's sleep around phase. Also like 70% of the population carries a version of the Herpes Virus. You more than likely already have it. If I had a dime for every time I’ve heard that 70% stuff, especially from women with it trying to pressure me into sex Nope don’t have it, have paid out of pocket for additional testing and examination beyond the free generic county tests Man that 70% thing sure makes the rounds when herpes ever gets brought up |
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