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I spoke to the product manager on the US side (Bob) of FN. He did not sound like it was "intentional". He was not aware that the a2 grip could not be substituted and had to refer to the "military side" for clarification. They somehow got a hold of a reverse engineered TDP for the grip. Mod the lower grip tang and used a cutting disk on the grip screw if it contacts the lower trigger flat if you are using the factory grip screw and have "issues".
I'm sure he told you that, but Bob Ailes wouldn't know such things and he is way downstream of those that do. You'd be asking a seemingly esoteric engineering question to a salesman.
Not an FN Engineer, but I can tell you with a high degree of certainty that it was lengthened due to the comparatively weaker plastic threads. It's an obvious solution to a obvious problem. The M16 TDP is readily available on the company intranet, so it's highly unlikely there was any accident or guesswork involved.
They know precisely the dimensions as they should exist in the aluminum M16 lower and they know that using the same data on molded plastic, the same thread pattern and depth, will reduce the strength of that interface. Lengthen the tab to allow a deeper hole to allow more thread contact.
The incompatibility of the A2-spec grip for the .mil customers could not be less important here since it's not a high-wear or consumable part. Actual grip part commonality with the M4 or A2/A3/A4 was never a design parameter. The subjective, common "feel" of the A2 grip was the only intention here.