My wife has been a surgical RN for 35 years. She took gifts to two surgeons she has worked with for many years. One guy got a 6 pack of various craft beers and the other a bottle of ice wine....something I had never heard of.
There are good ones, great ones, and not so good ones. My wife has been at the same hospital (35 years) that she has seen new doctors arrive and eventually retire. Her retirement is coming in a few years if she can hang on. Her body is worn out in spots but since she is only 58 and insurance is so expensive, she works just enough so we have coverage.
I am 60 and will have to work at least 5 more years. That will mean 52 years in the work force for me.
We aren't jealous of doctors. They made good choices and get to enjoy the benefits. We made our choices and enjoy them, too.