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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:10:28 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Iv got a thread about it, most women want to be mothers at some point, most mothers want to be stay at home moms once the kid pops out.. It’s prob better be honest about it and better off finding a good husband with good job and skip college and the debt that goes with it, getting a career job they will dump when first kid comes along, or be forced to keep working due to all their debt while the cry about not being able to spend more time with their kids. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Sounds like she put the cart in front of the horse. Don’t pop out a couple of kids before you have a steady job and spouse. Dumb bitch got it all backwards. In her defense: Having kids might only be possible at a certain age, meaning if she didn't have them then, that chance might have never come up again. It's a once in a lifetime thing. It's not like buying a car. It may seem that you can just delay but it's not a car purchase, often it just doesn't work that way. Usually in life you get one shot at something important, like kids or marriage. You think you can come back to something and do it and the stars never precisely align again. this doesn't nullify her idiotic financial decision-making, I get that. But the ones who got 'their ducks in a row' are the 40-something with nice income, little or no debt and no kids. Iv got a thread about it, most women want to be mothers at some point, most mothers want to be stay at home moms once the kid pops out.. It’s prob better be honest about it and better off finding a good husband with good job and skip college and the debt that goes with it, getting a career job they will dump when first kid comes along, or be forced to keep working due to all their debt while the cry about not being able to spend more time with their kids. My wife's parents paid for her $100k degree. Once she got close to popping our first kid out a few years after graduating she quit her job and has been a SAHM ever since. I wouldn't have any other way. She takes the "home maker" role seriously, works great for both of us and our kids. Her dad might be a little ticked though 
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:10:57 PM EDT
[#2]
Boo fucking hoo
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:12:43 PM EDT
[#3]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Wife’s coworkers husband has co-signed on $500k of student loans for his daughter that she refuses to pay. They are in the mid-60’s and will never be able to retire. I'd make her life hell................garnish her wages, whatever I could do |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:16:31 PM EDT
[#4]
400k in school debt and “no steady employment”?
What a fucking retard. What is even scarier is that this person votes. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:16:47 PM EDT
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One of the sons married a girl with a mechanical engineering degree and 1 other. Can't remember what it is at the moment.
She accrued almost $230k in student debt. The son had very little. They knocked both of theirs out in a out 4 or 5 years. They lived very frugal. We had them over a lot of nights for dinner so they could save where they could. Both have very good , well paying jobs. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:17:00 PM EDT
[#6]
I am laughing so hard right now, dumb bitch has 2 masters, 2 fuck trophies, is single and unemployed.
Her partner needs to run away fast. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:21:43 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: My wife's parents paid for her $100k degree. Once she got close to popping our first kid out a few years after graduating she quit her job and has been a SAHM ever since. I wouldn't have any other way. She takes the "home maker" role seriously, works great for both of us and our kids. Her dad might be a little ticked though Too bad that 100K was wasted on a college degree, it would be nice if parents just gave her the 100K and she invested it. You 2 would be way a head of the game. College once had some merit, its loosing value every year. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:24:27 PM EDT
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I'm 38 and have 4.2 million in debt.
It's called betting on yourself. Bitches can move on, or buy the ticket and take the ride. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:25:35 PM EDT
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She will be saved by hyper-inflation.
She's not marriage material if she allowed her debt to balloon that high. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:26:39 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: One of the sons married a girl with a mechanical engineering degree and 1 other. Can't remember what it is at the moment. She accrued almost $230k in student debt. The son had very little. They knocked both of theirs out in a out 4 or 5 years. They lived very frugal. We had them over a lot of nights for dinner so they could save where they could. Both have very good , well paying jobs. and what happens if they start a family? Is mommy going to be miserable and go back to work while having a stranger raise the kid? Odds are the maternal instinct will kick in and she'll hate going back to work. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:26:50 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Wife’s coworkers husband has co-signed on $500k of student loans for his daughter that she refuses to pay. They are in the mid-60’s and will never be able to retire. Classmate's daughter did that to my classmate. His credit is the sh*tz now because he co-signed for her loan. Her husband makes enough money to pay it off but her attorney told her not to pay. Never mind that her father (my classmate) got ph*cked hard. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:28:41 PM EDT
[#12]
Student loan delinquents should be greeted by these guys:
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:30:49 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I'm 38 and have 4.2 million in debt. It's called betting on yourself. I was approx 500K in debt at 36, I went into hock for a business, betting on myself too. Paid off, retired comfortably at 50. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:30:50 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I am laughing so hard right now, dumb bitch has 2 masters, 2 fuck trophies, is single and unemployed. Her partner needs to run away fast. The dude is banging the equivalent of a Dave Ramsey beater car. Reliable, high mileage and someone else took the hit on depreciation. Doesn't mean you spend the money for new tires. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:33:06 PM EDT
[#15]
Is she hot?
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:33:45 PM EDT
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I have friends that went through undergrad and med school for a fraction of that. Seriously, how the hell do you rack up almost $400k in student debt (for what would appear to be totally unmarketable degrees).
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:34:02 PM EDT
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So odd. When I was 35 I had worked to pay for school, was paying off my mortgage on our house in CT and had a bought outright house in FL.... Blue collar life is terrible
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:34:33 PM EDT
[#18]
McDonald's is hiring !
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:36:39 PM EDT
[#19]
My girl had $300k+ in student debt.
But she also has MD, PhD on her letterhead. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:37:21 PM EDT
[#20]
Wouldn't bother me if I was a heart doctor or Vaxxed.
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:38:14 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: DangerhairSheOgre.jpg @JLPettimoreIII Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: pics of partner? DangerhairSheOgre.jpg @JLPettimoreIII  Attached File |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:38:16 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I was approx 500K in debt at 36, I went into hock for a business, betting on myself too. Paid off, retired comfortably at 50. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: I'm 38 and have 4.2 million in debt. It's called betting on yourself. I was approx 500K in debt at 36, I went into hock for a business, betting on myself too. Paid off, retired comfortably at 50. It sure gets your ass out of bed everyday, don't it? Lol ????? |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:43:32 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I wonder what those two Masters degrees are in? My thoughts too. Somehow I doubt it’s an MBA and MS in Engineering of some flavor. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:45:08 PM EDT
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Quoted: from two master’s degrees. What should I do? Question: “I’m 35 years old, I have one kid and another on the way. My partner is afraid to marry me because of my debt, and I don’t have a steady income. I have two masters degrees, and I owe $380K in student loans. I’m on the income program already and am worried about what happens when payments resume in January. I can’t afford to have the loans forgiven, because I think it’s a taxable event. Is there anything I can do to protect my family and lessen the blow for me?”  Yeah lady, your partner is smart - but not smart enough to not reproduce with you  Indebted woman looking for a man thread, Arfcom MGTOW Squad........ASSEMBLE!
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:48:11 PM EDT
[#25]
You must be one smart idiot.
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:51:46 PM EDT
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My short and to the point reply if I could actually reply on that page: To the original question: I wouldn't marry you. Perhaps if I were a multimillionaire several times over where $380k is an annoyance. That's not most people's reality. In your current situation your finances are an incredible, life altering liability. Would you want to marry a man who was nearly $400k in the hole with no steady income let alone an actual CAREER... at 35? I highly doubt it. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:51:48 PM EDT
[#27]
Since you are broke do you feel smarter?
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:52:12 PM EDT
[#28]
Enter the hvac tech with no college debt, and a 125k per year pay.
Who is smarter? |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:54:22 PM EDT
[#29]
Hmm. 2 masters but no good jobs. I recommend going back to school for a doctorate.
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:54:53 PM EDT
[#30]
I don’t know how much my daughter owes, but she just keeps putting it off. Her worthless degree hasn’t got her sh*t she couldn’t have got without it. She’s 35 now.
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:55:48 PM EDT
[#31]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I wonder what those two Masters degrees are in? I am sure they are in highly marketable high paying STEM subjects. 
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:56:14 PM EDT
[#32]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Dumb shit and Dumber shit Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: I wonder what those two Masters degrees are in? Dumb shit and Dumber shit Lesbian dance theory is NOT dumb..! |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:58:12 PM EDT
[#33]
Quote HistoryQuoted: and what happens if they start a family? Is mommy going to be miserable and go back to work while having a stranger raise the kid? Odds are the maternal instinct will kick in and she'll hate going back to work. This is a major issue with educated women in professional careers. My wife always made more, she worked for a brokerage firm in Manhattan and then the Bay Area. I knew if we had kids the money would be gone cause she would want to stay home. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:58:37 PM EDT
[#34]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Just default the loan. If they are that old and they have their ducks in a row the loans won’t affect them at all. Are they buying a house or other big purchase that late in life? And defaulted student loans don’t hurt your credit score that bad. They would be fine. On the other hand, do they still allow their daughter to come around? After the fucking she gave them, she should be out of the family. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Wife’s coworkers husband has co-signed on $500k of student loans for his daughter that she refuses to pay. They are in the mid-60’s and will never be able to retire. Just default the loan. If they are that old and they have their ducks in a row the loans won’t affect them at all. Are they buying a house or other big purchase that late in life? And defaulted student loans don’t hurt your credit score that bad. They would be fine. On the other hand, do they still allow their daughter to come around? After the fucking she gave them, she should be out of the family. This maybe a dumb question but is the government powerless to collect on the debt. Don’t they have the ability to seize bank accounts, houses, cars etc? Can they attach your wages? |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 8:58:50 PM EDT
[#35]
Why can't she get a job and why did she get two useless degrees?
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:01:05 PM EDT
[#36]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Your orthopedist had $750,000 in debt when he got out of med school and he is 68 years old? Say he's 18 starting college, 4 years undergrad, 4 years med school, say he's late 20's when got out, so 40ish years ago, in 1980, he had racked up $750,000 college loans? That seems high. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: I can't even imagine having that much debt at 35. If he's not able to turn 2 masters degrees into a very high paying job, then he's the biggest sucker ever. talking to my orthopedist he said he had something like $750K when he got out of med school. He's the same age that I am and he's just about set to pay that loan off. I asked him when he's going to pull the pin. He said as soon as he works down his daughter's education loans. I'm 68. Damn it's bad enough paying off your own loans without having to cover someone else's. But, at least he's doing it and not relying on the state to do it. I am so glad that I had my old man's steel setting company to work for while in hs and college. I graduated with very, very, little owed. Your orthopedist had $750,000 in debt when he got out of med school and he is 68 years old? Say he's 18 starting college, 4 years undergrad, 4 years med school, say he's late 20's when got out, so 40ish years ago, in 1980, he had racked up $750,000 college loans? That seems high. With separate Ortho surgical schools for shoulders, knees, and backs, I met him the first time while he was doing a second residency for knee replacements at a Chicago teaching University in 85. He was board qualified but not certified in Lathroscopic ACL surgery when I met him. He did a revision on the first knee replacement I had in 2004 about 7 years ago. At that time he'd been the orthopedic surgical director for a couple of years. Those are the numbers he gave me. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:01:19 PM EDT
[#37]
Quote HistoryQuoted: They do on death. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Student loans never go away. They do on death. That is kind of like burning your house down to roast a pig. Where does the government stand in line for your estate? I bet they are number one on the list. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:02:25 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Who the fuck assume $380k of student loan debt? Seriously? My ex wife's best friend joined the army doctor program. She served and they payed for her education. I got a B.S. and a masters off the gi bill after serving. I've worked with people who's parents paid their education. There's always a way. Loaning $380k and having no real money making power afterwards is dumb. Eject worthy. I'd never stay with a woman much less breed with one with over a quarter million dollars of debt. Evidently your degrees weren’t for English. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:03:01 PM EDT
[#39]
Quote HistoryQuoted: My BIL had about 400K in loans... He made just shy of a million bucks his first year out and paid them off in about 18 months or so. Was his degree in gender studies or underwater basket weaving? |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:03:52 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Lucky for the person in the story...... I hear they are opening a huge Feminist Dance Therapy Factory right down the road from her.  Good! I tried to buy a Feminist Dance Therapy on Amazon today, but they were all out. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:06:24 PM EDT
[#41]
This shit wouldn't happen if they were able to discharge the loans in bankruptcy. Banks and schools need skin in the game. Right now they're just skinning the student who don't understand that they're being fleeced.
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:10:21 PM EDT
[#42]
Quote HistoryQuoted: and what happens if they start a family? Is mommy going to be miserable and go back to work while having a stranger raise the kid? Odds are the maternal instinct will kick in and she'll hate going back to work. They just had their first child about 3 months ago. They are both back to work. The son and her are workaholics. The son has a twin brother that his wife doesn't work. She is a stay at home mom. She watches both the grandkids during the day. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:11:38 PM EDT
[#43]
Art History and English?
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:14:20 PM EDT
[#44]
People are such complete idiots.
PLEASE let us give them California and let them all move there and form their dependency Gov. Please! |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:30:14 PM EDT
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:31:35 PM EDT
[#46]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I like how this goes to show that having a college education, two masters degrees in this case, is not an indication of intelligence. So many people see it that way. Yep, book smart, street stupid. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:33:35 PM EDT
[#47]
lmao
I'm a few years older than her and about to retire. If not for inflation, anyway.
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:36:03 PM EDT
[#48]
someone wasn't smart enough to apply for grants.
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:42:27 PM EDT
[#49]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I wonder what those two Masters degrees are in? This is what I want to know. Link no worky. |
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Posted: 12/14/2021 9:45:28 PM EDT
[#50]
that dude isn't a fuckin idiot.
I wouldn't marry that lady either. Fuck all that. |
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