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Posted: 9/8/2022 10:50:40 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I live in a 55+ community and single/widowed women probably outnumber the men here, 8:1. If something were to happen to my wife, God forbid, female companionship would be the least of my problems. @Clint50 |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 10:51:32 PM EDT
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Meanwhile, what happens to after 40-something women?
Cat collecting? They can't find anyone with their value system. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 10:52:42 PM EDT
[#3]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Meanwhile, what happens to after 40-something women? Cat collecting? They can't find anyone with their value system.  Attached File |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 10:56:53 PM EDT
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"The only problem is that upwards of 62% of users are men and many women are overwhelmed by the number of options they have"
Um, what?  There are plenty of options, just not for the men. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 10:58:26 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: "The only problem is that upwards of 62% of users are men and many women are overwhelmed by the number of options they have" Um, what? There are plenty of options, just not for the men.  |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:25:12 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Women have always been selective, by their nature  Women tend to have 1 ancestor, men, 2 or none. Vagina is never worth zero.  But women don't have the same exactly level of up (and down) movement men can do in the dating market. Women IMHO on AVERAGE are better communicators, at the top levels, very well represented. Let me just say, they can't seem to translate that to romance though VERY few women have any game at all. Or as Patrice O'Neal would say, "LIKE, YOU DON'T HAVE TO TALK YOUR WAY INTO DICK. LOOK AT ME, I'M DISGUSTING - DO YOU KNOWWW HOW FUNNY I HAVE TO BE TO CATCH YOU?" But, there's a problem here: "and who share their values." IIRC it was Christina Hoff Sommers who said that one of the predictors being a Social Justice Warrior is being a woman. They're more likely on average to believe the modern leftie ideas (the cultural rot stuff). Young single women, that cluster of fertile women are often duped by this crap. SO many of them today, values wise expect a husband who does ALL the old traditional husband things, and expects fucking zero in return. I would say that's the biggest problem from my standpoint. I left swipe tons of pretty girls. There were a few dozen girls over the years that, if I saw they'd make a bad mother/wife, (or they were crazy), I'd go. No matter how pretty they were. I wouldn't stick it in the crazy, I can't run that fast away from a wreck If I thought this thing makes it to 30,000 feet after take off and will promptly run out of fuel? No sense in climbing aboard. Not when the ejector seat is tethered to my bank account, and she gets a much bigger parachute. "We're not teaching them to CommunicateTM enough." I don't think that's quite all it is. If women selected solely on that, my English teachers in highschool would have basically abducted me and I would likely have been placed in some arranged marriage. As we talk about the rise of lonely, single men, The suicide rate gap between the sexes: https://www.statista.com/graphic/1/187478/death-rate-from-suicide-in-the-us-by-gender-since-1950.jpg Anti depressant use: https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/144599/1111111FEhedX_WQAMg37N_jpg-2172798b_jpg-2519318.JPG The women are lonely too. https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/144599/1614559327542_jpg-1858333_jpeg-2519320.JPG That male death by suicide rate is driven by an aging population. Older white guys not only make up a larger part of the population, their rate of suicide is also highest, pulling up the aggregate rate. It's not as though men have suddenly gotten more hopeless, is that there's a Boomer Bulge swelling the numbers of at-risk age group. Regarding the Men v Women rate...we all know that men use means that are more likely to be lethal on the first attempt (firearms) while women choose less successful methods (pills.) It's not a state-of-mind difference, it's a success rate gap. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:28:45 PM EDT
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 The Rise of LONELY & SINGLE Men... |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:33:42 PM EDT
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:34:07 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: All a bunch of bullshit. The problem is that our society has pussified men. Women still want manly men. It's an instinctive desire and can't be changed by shifting cultural norms. They want a good provider. They want a good defender. They want good genetic material for their pups. Be those things and you won't need to pursue a mate. They will pursue you.  Attached File |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:35:02 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Meanwhile, what happens to after 40-something women? Cat collecting? They can't find anyone with their value system. On dating sites, a surprising number of them have something like *Hoping to start a family some day* in their bio. 
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:35:23 PM EDT
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:35:39 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: On dating sites, a surprising number of them have something like *Hoping to start a family some day* in their bio.  Attached File |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:36:47 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Meanwhile, what happens to after 40-something women? Cat collecting? They can't find anyone with their value system. 
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:40:37 PM EDT
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I'd rather be lonely and single than lonely and married (I'm in my 60s and divorced, no kids.)
I'm not certain that "relationships" have ever lived up to expectations...we just have choices now. Casual sex is common, women can support themselves, and common single parenthood is into its third generation ("Parents Without Partners" was founded in 1957.) So what's the need to pair bond in the modern world? |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:40:43 PM EDT
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:42:40 PM EDT
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I doubt it will be long before another major war culls the male population. That's how these problems get resolved historically.
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Posted: 9/8/2022 11:46:56 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I just don't want to deal with the nonsense anymore. Bring on the AI sex bots This ^^ I'm tired of men and their neurosis.... |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:11:02 AM EDT
[#18]
Try chasing a married woman, it’s much easier. For example, I used to deliver office supplies to this lady’s office and she’s really nice and I think she likes me. I make sure I comment on all of her FB posts and other social media
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:15:02 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: "The only problem is that upwards of 62% of users are men and many women are overwhelmed by the number of options they have" Um, what? There are plenty of options, just not for the men. In reality, with all those OptionsTM they have: - At minimum, the men want to talk to them. - Most would sleep with them. - Some would even stay - From that crowd, some might consider marrying her. The density varies. A quick and lazy doodle I did some time ago explaining it -  Attached File |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:16:42 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: That male death by suicide rate is driven by an aging population. Older white guys not only make up a larger part of the population, their rate of suicide is also highest, pulling up the aggregate rate. It's not as though men have suddenly gotten more hopeless, is that there's a Boomer Bulge swelling the numbers of at-risk age group. Regarding the Men v Women rate...we all know that men use means that are more likely to be lethal on the first attempt (firearms) while women choose less successful methods (pills.) It's not a state-of-mind difference, it's a success rate gap. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Women have always been selective, by their nature Women tend to have 1 ancestor, men, 2 or none. Vagina is never worth zero. But women don't have the same exactly level of up (and down) movement men can do in the dating market. Women IMHO on AVERAGE are better communicators, at the top levels, very well represented. Let me just say, they can't seem to translate that to romance though VERY few women have any game at all. Or as Patrice O'Neal would say, "LIKE, YOU DON'T HAVE TO TALK YOUR WAY INTO DICK. LOOK AT ME, I'M DISGUSTING - DO YOU KNOWWW HOW FUNNY I HAVE TO BE TO CATCH YOU?" But, there's a problem here: "and who share their values." IIRC it was Christina Hoff Sommers who said that one of the predictors being a Social Justice Warrior is being a woman. They're more likely on average to believe the modern leftie ideas (the cultural rot stuff). Young single women, that cluster of fertile women are often duped by this crap. SO many of them today, values wise expect a husband who does ALL the old traditional husband things, and expects fucking zero in return. I would say that's the biggest problem from my standpoint. I left swipe tons of pretty girls. There were a few dozen girls over the years that, if I saw they'd make a bad mother/wife, (or they were crazy), I'd go. No matter how pretty they were. I wouldn't stick it in the crazy, I can't run that fast away from a wreck If I thought this thing makes it to 30,000 feet after take off and will promptly run out of fuel? No sense in climbing aboard. Not when the ejector seat is tethered to my bank account, and she gets a much bigger parachute. "We're not teaching them to CommunicateTM enough." I don't think that's quite all it is. If women selected solely on that, my English teachers in highschool would have basically abducted me and I would likely have been placed in some arranged marriage. As we talk about the rise of lonely, single men, The suicide rate gap between the sexes: https://www.statista.com/graphic/1/187478/death-rate-from-suicide-in-the-us-by-gender-since-1950.jpg Anti depressant use: https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/144599/1111111FEhedX_WQAMg37N_jpg-2172798b_jpg-2519318.JPG The women are lonely too. https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/144599/1614559327542_jpg-1858333_jpeg-2519320.JPG That male death by suicide rate is driven by an aging population. Older white guys not only make up a larger part of the population, their rate of suicide is also highest, pulling up the aggregate rate. It's not as though men have suddenly gotten more hopeless, is that there's a Boomer Bulge swelling the numbers of at-risk age group. Regarding the Men v Women rate...we all know that men use means that are more likely to be lethal on the first attempt (firearms) while women choose less successful methods (pills.) It's not a state-of-mind difference, it's a success rate gap. I will disagree with you here, and IMHO Jordan Peterson sure would too. The rest of that ^ Totally true to my knowledge. The success rate gap is the ugliest fact buried in those stats.  Men are more likely to pick, "permanent" methods. (That's not to say women don't ever do that, but, again on the population level, men are "more likely" to) |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:23:37 AM EDT
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Not single but I swear I'm becoming a robosexual once the sexdroids are good enough!
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:29:07 AM EDT
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Are there really "lonely" men?
Men need sex, if they don't need that any more they go do stuff. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:30:33 AM EDT
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Being alone is amazing after the women I’ve had in my life. Marriage in America is a giant, expensive farce designed to emasculate and impoverish any man ensnared in it.
I have zero desire to invite another vituperative, avaricious harpy into my life at this point. They can go snuggle with their legions of cats and complain about how no one understands them. I will go fish, hunt, fix guns and spend time with my beautiful four year old daughter, and I will be happy. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:30:44 AM EDT
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Lonely and single? No shit with offerings like this:
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:36:51 AM EDT
[#25]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Prefer men emotionally available and share their values? If you want an emotional tampon who shares your feminist values to “validate my feelings” then go date a chic. Not a man. In single womanspeak: Emotionally available = listen to me constantly complain about how miserable my life is. Values = You’re 6 ft and make at least 6 figures. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:37:54 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: "They prefer men who are emotionally available, who are good communicators, and who share their values." Funny way to say "the tall good looking guy who makes 200k+ a year" lol Dammit you beat me to it! |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:42:55 AM EDT
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Quoted: I hear recurring dating themes from women between the ages of 25 and 45: They prefer men who are emotionally available, who are good communicators, and who share their values. What women want and what women say they want are usually entirely different things. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:43:01 AM EDT
[#28]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Try chasing a married woman, it’s much easier. For example, I used to deliver office supplies to this lady’s office and she’s really nice and I think she likes me. I make sure I comment on all of her FB posts and other social media Keep reeling her in, just a matter of time before the panties drop.
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:43:19 AM EDT
[#29]
 Studies show men’s options are drying up ?? Time to set some new standards for modern men. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:48:47 AM EDT
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The K-12 public school system, College, and feminized Christianity is designed to take a perfectly normal boy. And break him like a cowboy breaks a bronco. Turning what would of been a formidable man into a simp that just wants to watch sportsball and guzzle cheap beer.
There’s a very good reason for this. A man you need to use reason and logic or fight him to get your way. A simp you just need to utter a few threatening food pellet words an it’s “happy wife, happy life.” Once you understand this. Understanding the rest of it gets a lot easier. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:52:39 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Lonely and single? No shit with offerings like this: https://preview.redd.it/t8zxg9zeddez.jpg?auto=webp&s=3bc1c35d09fb16f3487e66bc2b66db6ed80ae40f pretty much. if you want a purple hair, covered in shitty looking tats, cat herding leftist then theres plenty of those on dating apps. or maybe my area just fucking sucks |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:55:34 AM EDT
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Buy a nice house.
Bring a good looking woman home. Nesting instinct kicks in. Enjoy the ride. Repeat as boner dictates. "Always let your johnson be your guide" Jiminey Somethingorother |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 12:59:13 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Buy a nice house. Bring a good looking woman home. Nesting instinct kicks in. Enjoy the ride. Repeat as boner dictates. "Always let your johnson be your guide" Jiminey Somethingorother Never move her in if you want to keep the house. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 1:09:23 AM EDT
[#34]
There is more women than men on planet Earth and in America so the more single and lonely men the more the women are sharing a man. In the end those women get no one too.
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Posted: 9/9/2022 1:21:17 AM EDT
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Well when you see the abuse of men at the hands of the family court system - you'll start to understand why they don't want to marry again...
Furthermore, pussy is cheap and easy to get, while relationships are extremely expensive - both emotionally and financially....even "good" ones come with a set of expectations that you need to meet, and financial obligations you need to fulfill. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 1:38:01 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Try chasing a married woman, it’s much easier. For example, I used to deliver office supplies to this lady’s office and she’s really nice and I think she likes me. I make sure I comment on all of her FB posts and other social media Did you ask for prayers for your mom too? |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 1:44:52 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Meanwhile, what happens to after 40-something women? Cat collecting? They can't find anyone with their value system. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 2:19:48 AM EDT
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Quoted: Competition in online dating is fierce, and lucky in-person chance encounters with dreamy partners are rarer than ever. Relationship Standards. With so many options, it's not surprising that women are increasingly selective. I do a live TikTok show (@abetterloveproject) and speak with hundreds of audience members every week; I hear recurring dating themes from women between the ages of 25 and 45: They prefer men who are emotionally available, who are good communicators, and who share their values. Skills Deficits. For men, this means a relationship skills gap that, if not addressed, will likely lead to fewer dating opportunities and longer periods of being single. There's less patience for poor communication skills today. The problem for men is that emotional connection is the lifeblood of healthy, long-term love and it requires all the skills that families still are not consistently teaching young boys. This entire thing is just a put-down for men. Just re-read this and think about this - "Dreamy partners" are rarer than ever as women become more and more obese. There are very few men who consider a grossly over weight woman as desirable or dreamy. As for "sharing their values", how about women sharing men's values? Modern-day American women have a lot of learning to do and most do not have the attitude to ever get there. So, tell me, who is not "teaching young boys" all those important skills, hmm?? I could go on but will stop here hoping I've made my point. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 3:05:59 AM EDT
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Widening wealth gap. Men just don't have that bread anymore. Women can't escape their primitive instincts: they want men with resources.
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Posted: 9/9/2022 4:37:10 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I got so lucky finding a good one and tricking her to into loving me. And that's no shit. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 4:52:53 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: There is more women than men on planet Earth and in America so the more single and lonely men the more the women are sharing a man. In the end those women get no one too. AGree'd' always heard women out number men.. all that means.. each bitch has like 3-4 boyfriends. with plenty of guys left over with nothing. oh well! |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 4:53:42 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I'd rather be lonely and single than lonely and married ? Super profound statement.... cant agree more. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 6:28:20 AM EDT
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Divorced twice, been hopping from one short term fling to another for over a decade. Yes, I'm occasionally lonely, but that's one problem weighed against the mountain of hassles that comes with cohabitation/marriage. I'm good.
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Posted: 9/9/2022 6:36:56 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: This. I love being alone. Yep. If you are lonely, get a GSD. They will cure that feeling pretty quick. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 6:40:33 AM EDT
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Where’s the top G…. We need him now more than ever to set these young men and women straight
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Posted: 9/9/2022 6:47:34 AM EDT
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Women are easy to meet:
Just yesterday, a thin cute Asian in her late 20's approached me in a parking lot and chatted with me. She asked for $20 so she could get some gas and something to eat. Being me, at 6' 1", charming, and cash in wallet, I know she was hitting on me |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 6:47:46 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: More single men and women from what I've been seeing. People are super unhappy all over. The feminist movement has killed relationships between men and women. Everyone just get a cat or dog I guess, ha Male-female relations have never been worse in the history of the human race. The West is exceedingly efficient at indoctrinating girls to believe they don't need or want a man, or that men don't have qualities worth desiring. Men are in obsessive competition with each other and will work together to oppress each other at every opportunity. Plus now you have to contend with the health issues caused by the mrna clot shots. Its a fucking wasteland out there. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 6:55:09 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I could only be so lucky as to be single and lonely again. Yeah. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 7:04:07 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Bullshit. For most women, if you tell them the concerns occupying your mind, suddenly they see you as weak, and they see that as unattractive. The idea that men might have emotions seems to be a foreign concept to a lot of women. They want to be able to unburden every minute aspect of their daily lives on you, and you must sit there enraptured listening to every word and remembering every detail They don't want to hear your problems. |
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Posted: 9/9/2022 7:04:37 AM EDT
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If you live in a town with single women, especially one with a college, and are lonely...
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