My problem has always been trying to find a solution to fix their problem and that isn't what they want. Because that isn't what they want most of the time. [unless the brakes quit working or they lock themselves out of a car] It is doubly so if it's a relationship issue they have with someone else like a co-worker.

I'm alone.  I'm not lonely.

The US population  is 50.52 percent female compared to 49.48 percent male. So unless there is a lot of polygamy going on...

Yet the "problem" is men being lonely and the "solution" is that they need to be more like women...

https://igotstandardsbro.com/

This is a great site to share with the cat ladies.

Are any of those women wealthy?

Asking for a friend.

It's a very target rich environment for successful men.

Well, not in the Unabomber convention that is GD, where a shack in the woods and an enemies list is the dream.
However, most single folks I know aren't single by choice and would much rather have someone.

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Might be cheaper in the long run for some guys.

That's brutal!  

But can she cook...........naked and barefoot?

I have a girlfriend but I guess you can still file me in the lonely category.  It's just my turn with her anyway.  

I see what the majority of men go through, and I'm far from envious.

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Women want Brad Pitt with Jeff Bezos money. 100%. Any woman that says they don’t is a liar. Anyone else is just a compromise to what they really want. But you can up your chances with money. Also be an asshole, women like that.

They become angry Karenbeasts, an outlook of nothing but despair for the next 50 years of their life, roaming the lands in search of customers to harass and managers to yell at.

Good point.  And add in the fact that both men and women are becoming ever fatter.

The women are looking at broke fat dudes.

The men are looking at chubby girls who think they're tens because Chads and Tyrones will fuck them.  The feminist movement doesn't tell them the Chads are only using them as cum dumpsters and will never marry them.

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Technology is the solution to all of societies problems.

Feminism has not just empowered, but overpowered women, spoiling them and over inflating their egos and favoring them in the courts.

But technology will fuck them over badly and you can see it already, as feminists with foresight have come out against the potential of sex robots. Why? Well No matter the reason they spout, the truth is they can’t afford to lose their power over simps and male feminists as Without those, their validation for their ongoing “crisis” will be reduced along with their political power and funding.

Then there’s medical technology, imagine people in better health and appearance?
Do you have any idea how much feminist and todays spoiled women will be fucked if everyone’s an 9 or ten?

What will spoiled attractive women do when there are not just sex robots, but there are multiple attractive women men can chose from?

Personality will have to play a bigger role, women would have to be polite and nice to keep a man again, as their man will be able to easily replace any asshole with a new model on par with the last more easily than before.


Feminism in that future can only survive if they jerry rig the laws in even more obvious and unfair ways, as well as ban sexbots.

But even then, there will be ways to adapt, such as not getting married to avoid rigged divorce laws, ditching women/carouseling through women before common law dictates you’re married, harems (good luck stealing another womens share or the house if you’re only 1/3rd in divorce court!)  etc etc etc.

What's hilarious is attractive women who buy and parrot feminist ideology since that crap was invented by and for fat chicks who won't put in the work to have an ass.

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This exactly!  Why is there so many people running around with allergies/asthma?  They would have died in infancy.  Now, they make it to breeding age and perpetuate that weakness.  The gene pool is getting polluted.

I think the irony I see is that single guys over 40 and well into their 50’s who have their shit together are enjoying life vastly more than the over 40, single women.  My wife works with a fair number of teachers from 30’s up to their 50’s who are single, bitter, miserable, and based on the weight, looks, and overall shitty attitudes, will be single the rest of their lives.

Companionship is a big commodity over 50 and most women have zero chance with anyone their age. Most of those that were attractive and promiscuous likely have tats out the ass, STD’s, and look like they were road hard and put away wet.

If I was looking for a woman and was over 40, I would be hitting the churches and looking for a younger divorcee or widow that has a higher probability of not banging 10-15 dudes a month.

Granted, this story is a trash job on men, but the real story should be the lonely women over 40 who will likely never find a companion or partner, let alone a husband.

Case in point. A great friend of ours is 52, single, active, attractive (if you like blonds), and generally fun to hang out with. She’s recently divorced (about two years), she’s employed and independent and has raised two excellent boys (one self-employed the other just joint the Army). She tried some dating app, and ended up meeting some guy she knew of. Not a bad guy, but he can be a selfish dick; required state trooper and works at a golf course and all he cares about is golfing…and he knows “everything”. He won’t do anything she wants to do, has zero desire to get married, and when he doesn’t want sex, he doesn’t want her around (her words, not mine). Still, she just wants to have a “man”…

She’s wasting valuable years unless she just like being in a convenient relationship with no strings. I warned her that as soon as a younger option pops up, she’ll be back to BOB (battery operated boyfriend).

Single and under 40? Stay employed, improve your financial position in life. Hit the gym, get in shape, stay active. Don’t dress like a schlub in public. Consider finding an active church with a good population near your age. Take a public speaking class or something like Toastmasters; improve your communications skills.

Depending on your area, look into groups like “Meetup” that mirror your interests. I spent almost 9 months in Northern VA and joined a few Meetup groups, one was “hike and brew”, another was simply for “backpacking” (actually mostly day hikes), and a brewery group. I must have met a few dozen very attractive single women from late 20’s to early 40’s. I was (still am!) married and more than a few didn’t give a shit, wanting to join them for the evening or weekend.  Thank God I’m married and don’t live up there, I would have been “whored” to death!

Being single ? being lonely.

I’m quite confident that if I was single tomorrow, I would be more than comfortable and lonely would be a concerted effort and choice.

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2 years post divorce and I've started dipping my toe into the dating pool. And dang it needs some chlorine!!!

I'm fit, good job, nice house, and have a car collection.  On average I'm dating women 10 years or more younger than me. The mid 30s women that I meet are generally a mess. Those that never married, but have been on the carousel for the past 15 years, don't realize they are a walking red flag. But now they want to settle down and have kids... Hard pass.

The divorcees are largely emotionally/psychologically damaged. Women initiate 70% of divorces, yet I think men recover quicker and more completely. Women can't seem to move on, and I really don't want to constantly have myself compared to your ex.

best synopsis I have read all year

Nope. INCELs.

There’s a TikTok trend celebrating this and the women are dating other women instead of men.

That's not the way God created it but then again more and more people reject God all the time so what would you expect to happen?

At least for apps like tinder and bumble, the amount of swipe right vs lefts for each gender isn't even close.

I think the virtual office space is going to really mess with relationships as well. I know a LOT of people, myself included. That met their spouse though work or in my case my co-worker introduced me to her SIL.

Come to this of it almost every girl I dated I met though work.

I was in a long term relationship all though my 20's and then it fell apart as I was hitting 30. Yeah the dating pool @ 30 sucks, especially when you've never been married or had kids. Most women already have a kid or a baby daddy from a failed relationship, they have a shit ton of baggage and many are just trying to snag the first man they can catch. Most of the ones that are still single are single for a reason.

Typical thread of lonely guys incapable of self reflection complaining women and convincing themselves they aren't lonely.

Sorry, Youtube MGTOW gurus and red pilling won't help you. Its the blind leading the blind. I know a hundred happy guys in happy relationships with good looking girls that aren't 10/10 pussy slaying masters.

Get a hobby you enjoy, socialize more, and stop exposing yourself to incel/red pill internet circle jerks.

I’ve never witnessed a marriage that I was jealous of. Just sayn

Also I dont believe humble young women exist anymore.

Jesus goddamn christ warn us next time.

Sex is free from escorts.  

You pay them to leave.

After my divorce, I have zero trust. It was about five years ago and I'm still financially recovering.  I don't get to retire, I'm 65 and don't have the time to rebuild my retirement (that she stole).  
I get laid often enough to keep the beast happy, but I just don't have any motivation to have a girlfriend.
It's fucking great!  I do what I want, when I want, with who I want.  Get up at 4AM to go fish or deer hunt?  Great!  A long nap on Saturday?  Great!  Go see a movie?  Don't have to spend time figuring out what she wants to watch.  Went to see Top Gun by myself last weekend, it was... Great!  Come home after work and spend time in the garage wrenching on a bike?  Great?  Don't feel like dinner?  Great!  Don't eat dinner!  Want to take the quad out and run around the hills scouting for elk, setting up game cams?  Great!  How about stopping off for a couple beers on the way home from work?  Great!  
You get the idea.


Keanu Reeves is single.  He said a while back, "Once you know how to take care of yourself company becomes an option and not a necessity."

Yup.  Enjoying my singularity.

Of course there's one guy that's gotta pop in and reply without reading a single response in the thread.

Ugh, the level of simp in this post is disgusting.

I knew this would be a JLPIII thread before I even opened it........

Laughs in fuck you, I’m going my own way.

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Dating over 50 is like shooting fish in a barrel. Sure, lots of brain damage out there but, there’s plenty of hotties who love to fuck.

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Don’t you go all midcap on us Pettimore!


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Close. They become miserable leftists and viciously defend and vote for every nanny-state policy they can. Probably while continuing to insist that they're so strong and independent. If no man will look after them then it's the government's job to be their husband...

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“Enemies List” is not the preferred nomenclature,  “Accountability List” please.

Could it be because most American women are self centered, vapid twats?

It's true. I "match" FAR more women than I could hope to actually vet out. I just focus on the best.

Some guys I know rarely match, and on the rare occassions when they do they don't get 2nd dates. You have to be able to make conversation and be confident. Believe me, if I can do it, then literally anyone can. And I'm spoiled for choice.

His ex-wives don't.  And even today he is still paying for his divorce, he was just sued for $250-million over a joint venture winery with Angelina Jolie.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/pagesix.com/2022/09/06/brad-pitt-sued-for-300-million-in-wine-war-with-angelina-jolie/amp/

Maybe I’m simply well adjusted, but if I got divorced today I’d have a date tomorrow night.  I’m 54, not overweight though certainly not muscular, make probably an average-ish wage given my location, and I drive a 2006.   I don’t find it difficult to talk to women (or men).  It’s not that difficult to be somewhat charming.  I did have the benefit of relatively social parents and a large extended family.

Meanwhile, there's a bunch of married dudes getting extra credit smashing chicks off dating apps.  Sucks to suck, lonely guys...

“Sure, honey but I charge some pretty steep interest…”

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