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Posted: 8/12/2018 6:02:00 AM EST
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That thought crossed my mind but based on her self absorbed comments I'd guess she one of those who thinks sex is a means to an end not something she does because she enjoys it. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Posted: 8/12/2018 6:34:02 AM EST
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Generally speaking society values 20 YO women above 70 YO women. Are we going to dance around and pretend that their reproductive potential isn't a very large portion of that calculation? A similar trend is evident in regards to men as well. BUT men are reproductively viable well into the 50's and 60's with modern medicine etc. So it's a less hard wall than for many women. |
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Posted: 8/12/2018 8:33:21 AM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: This was my experience with online dating. As an official manlet, at 5'8", I lost count of how many times I was told I was too short to date, or "I'm only interested in guys 5'11" or taller". The thing that kills me, is all the women who thought that was ok, but if a guy said he only dated skinny women, he was some kind of giant asshole who deserved to be drawn and quartered. |
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Posted: 8/12/2018 8:39:42 AM EST
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The woman can control her weight but the man has no control over his height. I was on a "Christian" dating site back before I was red-pilled and got constant rejections because I am only 5'7". "Must be taller than I am in heels". I'm sure that must be in the Bible somewhere as often as it was repeated on that site. One got back to me 2 yrs. later with a try hard friendly message. I checked out her updated profile and it no longer had a height requirement, her status was single mother, and her pictures now included her with a mixed race baby. NOW I was good enough. FML. Quote HistoryQuoted:
Quoted: This was my experience with online dating. As an official manlet, at 5'8", I lost count of how many times I was told I was too short to date, or "I'm only interested in guys 5'11" or taller". The thing that kills me, is all the women who thought that was ok, but if a guy said he only dated skinny women, he was some kind of giant asshole who deserved to be drawn and quartered. Your online experience has happened to me a lot but in the real world, scores of times It’s sad but you feel empowered knowing that she has to chase after you with a “ball and chain” |
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Posted: 8/12/2018 8:41:28 AM EST
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The woman can control her weight but the man has no control over his height. I was on a "Christian" dating site back before I was red-pilled and got constant rejections because I am only 5'7". "Must be taller than I am in heels". I'm sure that must be in the Bible somewhere as often as it was repeated on that site. One got back to me 2 yrs. later with a try hard friendly message. I checked out her updated profile and it no longer had a height requirement, her status was single mother, and her pictures now included her with a mixed race baby. NOW I was good enough. FML. Quote HistoryQuoted:
Quoted: This was my experience with online dating. As an official manlet, at 5'8", I lost count of how many times I was told I was too short to date, or "I'm only interested in guys 5'11" or taller". The thing that kills me, is all the women who thought that was ok, but if a guy said he only dated skinny women, he was some kind of giant asshole who deserved to be drawn and quartered. Now, granted... I went after the exciting girls (hindsight, bad move.. but they were hott  )
And I am over 6'. These same girls? 10 years later? The excitement ran out, most are single mothers... and are very interested now. No thanks. |
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Posted: 8/12/2018 9:28:48 AM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: The woman can control her weight but the man has no control over his height. I was on a "Christian" dating site back before I was red-pilled and got constant rejections because I am only 5'7". "Must be taller than I am in heels". I'm sure that must be in the Bible somewhere as often as it was repeated on that site. One got back to me 2 yrs. later with a try hard friendly message. I checked out her updated profile and it no longer had a height requirement, her status was single mother, and her pictures now included her with a mixed race baby. NOW I was good enough. FML.  I don't know about dating *requirements* but I DO know that aside from good natured jokes from family and friends, it's other guys who seem to care about height the most and like to give *short* guys a hard time. Hence the *king of manlets* and *may as well kill yourself* meme for 5' 7" and under. I've never had a woman say anything negative to me about his height......but other men have. 
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Posted: 8/12/2018 9:31:04 AM EST
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He's 5' 7". I was in 2 inch heels. https://i.imgur.com/zUKXJSX.jpg I don't know about dating *requirements* but I DO know that aside from good natured jokes from family and friends, it's other guys who seem to care about height the most and like to give *short* guys a hard time. Hence the *king of manlets* and *may as well kill yourself* meme for 5' 7" and under. I've never had a woman say anything negative to me about his height......but other men have. Quote HistoryQuoted:
Quoted: The woman can control her weight but the man has no control over his height. I was on a "Christian" dating site back before I was red-pilled and got constant rejections because I am only 5'7". "Must be taller than I am in heels". I'm sure that must be in the Bible somewhere as often as it was repeated on that site. One got back to me 2 yrs. later with a try hard friendly message. I checked out her updated profile and it no longer had a height requirement, her status was single mother, and her pictures now included her with a mixed race baby. NOW I was good enough. FML. https://i.imgur.com/zUKXJSX.jpg I don't know about dating *requirements* but I DO know that aside from good natured jokes from family and friends, it's other guys who seem to care about height the most and like to give *short* guys a hard time. Hence the *king of manlets* and *may as well kill yourself* meme for 5' 7" and under. I've never had a woman say anything negative to me about his height......but other men have. /shrugs |
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Posted: 8/12/2018 9:37:15 AM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: My experience is they won't, but they also won't be going for guys his height either. /shrugs They also tell me all the time that we should figure out a way to clone him. If they put a, "But maybe a taller version" in there they know I'd laugh because the jokes don't bother us----they never have though. Weird. 
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Posted: 8/12/2018 9:47:38 AM EST
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My experience is they won't, but they also won't be going for guys his height either. /shrugs Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Quoted: The woman can control her weight but the man has no control over his height. I was on a "Christian" dating site back before I was red-pilled and got constant rejections because I am only 5'7". "Must be taller than I am in heels". I'm sure that must be in the Bible somewhere as often as it was repeated on that site. One got back to me 2 yrs. later with a try hard friendly message. I checked out her updated profile and it no longer had a height requirement, her status was single mother, and her pictures now included her with a mixed race baby. NOW I was good enough. FML. https://i.imgur.com/zUKXJSX.jpg I don't know about dating *requirements* but I DO know that aside from good natured jokes from family and friends, it's other guys who seem to care about height the most and like to give *short* guys a hard time. Hence the *king of manlets* and *may as well kill yourself* meme for 5' 7" and under. I've never had a woman say anything negative to me about his height......but other men have. /shrugs I've seen some pretty crass things in women's dating profiles, which I assume they are more comfortable with, since it's not public. |
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Posted: 8/12/2018 11:25:23 AM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: The woman can control her weight but the man has no control over his height. I was on a "Christian" dating site back before I was red-pilled and got constant rejections because I am only 5'7". "Must be taller than I am in heels". I'm sure that must be in the Bible somewhere as often as it was repeated on that site. One got back to me 2 yrs. later with a try hard friendly message. I checked out her updated profile and it no longer had a height requirement, her status was single mother, and her pictures now included her with a mixed race baby. NOW I was good enough. FML. |
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Posted: 8/12/2018 11:33:30 AM EST
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That's funny and not at all surprising. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Posted: 8/12/2018 6:35:29 PM EST
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That's funny and not at all surprising. Quote HistoryQuoted:
Quoted: The woman can control her weight but the man has no control over his height. I was on a "Christian" dating site back before I was red-pilled and got constant rejections because I am only 5'7". "Must be taller than I am in heels". I'm sure that must be in the Bible somewhere as often as it was repeated on that site. One got back to me 2 yrs. later with a try hard friendly message. I checked out her updated profile and it no longer had a height requirement, her status was single mother, and her pictures now included her with a mixed race baby. NOW I was good enough. FML. |
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Posted: 8/12/2018 6:39:09 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: She will just have to do what all the other single moms do and go to the local Baptist Church, join the singles group, and wait for the preacher to pressure some poor beta sucker to "see her as Jesus sees her"...and "that baby needs a REAL MAN in his life"...and everyone will cheer for the poor beta sucker. Later, everyone will stare at the ground and kick rocks when he finds out that Becky went back to the BBC or never actually left it in the first place...but now demands half his stuff and child support for whatever kids she managed to get pregnant with while they were "married". |
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Posted: 8/12/2018 6:40:43 PM EST
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She will just have to do what all the other single moms do and go to the local Baptist Church, join the singles group, and wait for the preacher to pressure some poor beta sucker to "see her as Jesus sees her"...and "that baby needs a REAL MAN in his life"...and everyone will cheer for the poor beta sucker. Later, everyone will stare at the ground and kick rocks when he finds out that Becky went back to the BBC or never actually left it in the first place...but now demands half his stuff and child support for whatever kids she managed to get pregnant with while they were "married". Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Posted: 8/12/2018 7:32:32 PM EST
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Holy crap. Personal experience? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Posted: 8/12/2018 7:56:19 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Personal experience at a lot of Baptist Churches full of reformed thots seeking their new life....but not so much new life that they have to let go of their old life on the weekends. My dad taught me better than to every marry one, thankfully. My dad was RP before RP was a thing. He pulled no punches when it came to calling BS on that sort of emotional nonsense pretending to be biblical. 
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Posted: 8/12/2018 7:57:46 PM EST
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Personal experience at a lot of Baptist Churches full of reformed thots seeking their new life....but not so much new life that they have to let go of their old life on the weekends. My dad taught me better than to every marry one, thankfully. My dad was RP before RP was a thing. He pulled no punches when it came to calling BS on that sort of emotional nonsense pretending to be biblical. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Posted: 8/12/2018 8:14:52 PM EST
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I don’t trust any of those religions
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Posted: 8/12/2018 11:34:04 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Not sure which female member said it here, but men wished to feel respected and appreciated. Men want to feel an element of respect in the way they're appreciated. Women want to feel an element of desire and emotional support in the way they're appreciated. |
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Posted: 8/12/2018 11:41:00 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Women crave sex even more than men, it's just society's trying to make the double standard a single standard Not suggesting that a particular woman can't have a strong libido, but on average I'm not convinced that women have even close to the same sex drive as men have. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 11:10:46 AM EST
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I don't know about dating *requirements* but I DO know that aside from good natured jokes from family and friends, it's other guys who seem to care about height the most and like to give *short* guys a hard time. Hence the *king of manlets* and *may as well kill yourself* meme for 5' 7" and under. I've never had a woman say anything negative to me about his height......but other men have. I regularly see women indicate expectations regarding a man's height on a local dating app. Not all of the women, but it isn't uncommon to see a profile that overtly does. "Ariely found that a 5'4" man would need to make $229,000 more than a 6' man to have equal appeal; a 5'6" man would need $183,000 more; a 5'10" man would need $32,000 more." Lori Gottlieb (2010). Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 11:25:12 AM EST
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I regularly see women indicate expectations regarding a man's height on a local dating app. Not all of the women, but it isn't uncommon to see a profile that overtly does. "Ariely found that a 5'4" man would need to make $229,000 more than a 6' man to have equal appeal; a 5'6" man would need $183,000 more; a 5'10" man would need $32,000 more." Lori Gottlieb (2010). Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough. Quote HistoryQuoted:
Quoted: I don't know about dating *requirements* but I DO know that aside from good natured jokes from family and friends, it's other guys who seem to care about height the most and like to give *short* guys a hard time. Hence the *king of manlets* and *may as well kill yourself* meme for 5' 7" and under. I've never had a woman say anything negative to me about his height......but other men have. "Ariely found that a 5'4" man would need to make $229,000 more than a 6' man to have equal appeal; a 5'6" man would need $183,000 more; a 5'10" man would need $32,000 more." Lori Gottlieb (2010). Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 1:15:41 PM EST
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I'm not convinced of that. Women suffer from HSDD at notably higher rates than men. Not suggesting that a particular woman can't have a strong libido, but on average I'm not convinced that women have even close to the same sex drive as men have. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 1:45:28 PM EST
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Posted: 8/13/2018 2:07:08 PM EST
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Is it a lower sex drive, or is it a sex drive that is really only geared to desire the top 20% of men? Aren't there a lot of stories out there about the frigid women who go years without sex, get divorced, and then act like they're 18 again? It raises other, ugly questions as well. If a woman acts sexually aggressive with a top 20% man but not with her previous husband who may have been around the top 35% bracket, is it really a manifestation of sincere 'sexual desire' or is it merely a baited hook presented to catch an extraordinarily successful man? How different is that than a particular man who only wants a woman because she's physically hot and so he pretends to care about her emotionally in order to get her pants off? |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 2:21:12 PM EST
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For some, no doubt. For many others, they seem to be afterthoughts if considered at all. Men who ignore blatantly obvious personality flaws, men who know nothing of their woman’s hobbies or interests, and of course study after study that show education/career accomplishments aren’t given positive weight in selection. Anecdotal, but i’ve observed that often men differ very little in the way they seek out short term partners and long term partners. It seems more a case of they decide it’s time to settle down and do so with whoever they happen to be currently dating. And if they’ve always prioritized looks over everything else, they just keep on with that prioritization. The truth is somewhere in the middle. If the man isn't feeling chemistry towards a woman, he's not very likely to develop a serious relationship with her. Now, a wise man will want to find a woman who has good character, is responsible, is smart, talented, etc... but if he finds a woman with those traits and he doesn't feel physical chemistry towards her then the probability that he will seek a long term relationship with her is low. In summary, chemistry matters a lot. It isn't everything. It isn't necessarily the most important trait over the long run, but it ranks pretty high as an essential thing for inspiring a man to commit to a long term relationship at all. Yes, it is a priority. That doesn't make it wrong. Without it, exceedingly few men would commit to long term relationships. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 2:26:42 PM EST
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I guess this is the new incel thread now lol.
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Posted: 8/13/2018 2:30:58 PM EST
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A valid question but I don't know the answer. It raises other, ugly questions as well. If a woman acts sexually aggressive with a top 20% man but not with her previous husband who may have been around the top 35% bracket, is it really a manifestation of sincere 'sexual desire' or is it merely a baited hook presented to catch an extraordinarily successful man? How different is that than a particular man who only wants a woman because she's physically hot and so he pretends to care about her emotionally in order to get her pants off? |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 2:33:33 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: "Ariely found that a 5'4" man would need to make $229,000 more than a 6' man to have equal appeal; a 5'6" man would need $183,000 more; a 5'10" man would need $32,000 more." Lori Gottlieb (2010). Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 2:34:24 PM EST
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What I get from that is that in the end the short guy has a whole shitload of “fuck you money” Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Posted: 8/13/2018 2:49:09 PM EST
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Posted: 8/13/2018 2:56:46 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Maybe women want taller men because they belive they'll make more money: |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 3:05:34 PM EST
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Maybe women want taller men because they belive they'll make more money: Business Insider The Atlantic If a woman only wants to date men 6' and over it's their choice but a guy shouldn't be ridiculed because he wants a woman with big breasts or to not outweigh him. At 5'10 I'm average height but I bet women would be really pissed if I told them I only dated women with a really tight vagina, but hey they can even fix that now.
Tighter kitty arf thread All of the women acknowledged that they couldn't present a legitimate argument against his point. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 4:47:20 PM EST
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Nope. its an evolutionary response. The cave girl brain associates height with security and safety for herself and her offspring. Even if she consciously doesn't want to have children. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Posted: 8/13/2018 4:53:42 PM EST
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Not so sure because cave girl brain would associate security with a 5'10 200lb guy with a lot of muscle vs the 6'1 165lb skinny guy. But I've heard he's too bulky....WTF point being it's superficial requirement. They're entitled to it but to Shane's point they don't like it when called out on it.Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Posted: 8/13/2018 5:02:59 PM EST
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For some, no doubt. For many others, they seem to be afterthoughts if considered at all. Men who ignore blatantly obvious personality flaws, men who know nothing of their woman’s hobbies or interests, and of course study after study that show education/career accomplishments aren’t given positive weight in selection. Anecdotal, but i’ve observed that often men differ very little in the way they seek out short term partners and long term partners. It seems more a case of they decide it’s time to settle down and do so with whoever they happen to be currently dating. And if they’ve always prioritized looks over everything else, they just keep on with that prioritization. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Many don't care much (if at all) about education, hobbies, interests, even personality traits, and will give women a pass if they're pretty. When I was single and nailing chics, looks were paramount, then body, then a tight snatch, then discretion. I doubt that has changed for the young men of today. For many others, they seem to be afterthoughts if considered at all. Men who ignore blatantly obvious personality flaws, men who know nothing of their woman’s hobbies or interests, and of course study after study that show education/career accomplishments aren’t given positive weight in selection. Anecdotal, but i’ve observed that often men differ very little in the way they seek out short term partners and long term partners. It seems more a case of they decide it’s time to settle down and do so with whoever they happen to be currently dating. And if they’ve always prioritized looks over everything else, they just keep on with that prioritization. But, anecdotally, a large selection of female posters here get all in an uproar when you start talking biology. 
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Posted: 8/13/2018 5:19:56 PM EST
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A valid question but I don't know the answer. It raises other, ugly questions as well. If a woman acts sexually aggressive with a top 20% man but not with her previous husband who may have been around the top 35% bracket, is it really a manifestation of sincere 'sexual desire' or is it merely a baited hook presented to catch an extraordinarily successful man? How different is that than a particular man who only wants a woman because she's physically hot and so he pretends to care about her emotionally in order to get her pants off? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Is it a lower sex drive, or is it a sex drive that is really only geared to desire the top 20% of men? Aren't there a lot of stories out there about the frigid women who go years without sex, get divorced, and then act like they're 18 again? It raises other, ugly questions as well. If a woman acts sexually aggressive with a top 20% man but not with her previous husband who may have been around the top 35% bracket, is it really a manifestation of sincere 'sexual desire' or is it merely a baited hook presented to catch an extraordinarily successful man? How different is that than a particular man who only wants a woman because she's physically hot and so he pretends to care about her emotionally in order to get her pants off? |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 5:35:43 PM EST
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Quoted: The woman can control her weight but the man has no control over his height. I was on a "Christian" dating site back before I was red-pilled and got constant rejections because I am only 5'7". "Must be taller than I am in heels". I'm sure that must be in the Bible somewhere as often as it was repeated on that site. One got back to me 2 yrs. later with a try hard friendly message. I checked out her updated profile and it no longer had a height requirement, her status was single mother, and her pictures now included her with a mixed race baby. NOW I was good enough. FML. A lot of girls put a height requirement on their profiles. I'm 5'7", and newly divorced. Meeting someone in person has never been a problem, as I feel I can hold a conversation and I'm not heinous. Online, it's a different story. To test this, I contacted girls I felt I could be compatible with, with my true height. Very few responses. Then another profile, similar pics, but on a different site, but said I was 6'. The responses poured in. Some were the same girls. I never contacted any of them, as it would be obvious I'm short, and a lair. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 5:54:41 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Not so sure because cave girl brain would associate security with a 5'10 200lb guy with a lot of muscle vs the 6'1 165lb skinny guy. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 5:56:25 PM EST
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I was listening to a podcast where a man addressed something like this. He interviewed women asking about whether they had height preferences for men that they'd consider dating. Overwhelmingly the women expressed preference for taller men. Then he asked them what their waist size was. Of course the women became very indignant and accused him of being insensitive...until he responded that height is primarily determined by genes and is outside a person's control, while waist size is determined by lifestyle choices and is within a person's control. He emphasized that their preference for height was far more shallow and insensitive than a man's preference for waist size. All of the women acknowledged that they couldn't present a legitimate argument against his point. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 5:56:35 PM EST
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Op is absolutely right. A lot of girls put a height requirement on their profiles. I'm 5'7", and newly divorced. Meeting someone in person has never been a problem, as I feel I can hold a conversation and I'm not heinous. Online, it's a different story. To test this, I contacted girls I felt I could be compatible with, with my true height. Very few responses. Then another profile, similar pics, but on a different site, but said I was 6'. The responses poured in. Some were the same girls. I never contacted any of them, as it would be obvious I'm short, and a lair. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Posted: 8/13/2018 5:59:16 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Op is absolutely right. A lot of girls put a height requirement on their profiles. I'm 5'7", and newly divorced. Meeting someone in person has never been a problem, as I feel I can hold a conversation and I'm not heinous. Online, it's a different story. To test this, I contacted girls I felt I could be compatible with, with my true height. Very few responses. Then another profile, similar pics, but on a different site, but said I was 6'. The responses poured in. Some were the same girls. No well thought out heartfelt about me paragraph will be as effective as that simple statement of height. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 6:10:15 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I've said he before than it you are over 6 feet tall then your entire Bio should be something to the effect of; "I'm 6-2" No well thought out heartfelt about me paragraph will be as effective as that simple statement of height. I'm 6'2" and my height was in the first line of my 4 line class clown bio. Too easy. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 6:53:51 PM EST
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I've said he before than it you are over 6 feet tall then your entire Bio should be something to the effect of; "I'm 6-2" No well thought out heartfelt about me paragraph will be as effective as that simple statement of height. Quote HistoryQuoted:
Quoted: Op is absolutely right. A lot of girls put a height requirement on their profiles. I'm 5'7", and newly divorced. Meeting someone in person has never been a problem, as I feel I can hold a conversation and I'm not heinous. Online, it's a different story. To test this, I contacted girls I felt I could be compatible with, with my true height. Very few responses. Then another profile, similar pics, but on a different site, but said I was 6'. The responses poured in. Some were the same girls. No well thought out heartfelt about me paragraph will be as effective as that simple statement of height. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 7:53:39 PM EST
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Ding ding ding! I'm 6'2" and my height was in the first line of my 4 line class clown bio. Too easy. Quote HistoryQuoted:
Quoted: I've said he before than it you are over 6 feet tall then your entire Bio should be something to the effect of; "I'm 6-2" No well thought out heartfelt about me paragraph will be as effective as that simple statement of height. I'm 6'2" and my height was in the first line of my 4 line class clown bio. Too easy. 
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Posted: 8/13/2018 8:00:20 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Sure they can. People can change if they want too. |
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Posted: 8/13/2018 9:10:05 PM EST
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Is it a lower sex drive, or is it a sex drive that is really only geared to desire the top 20% of men? Aren't there a lot of stories out there about the frigid women who go years without sex, get divorced, and then act like they're 18 again? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I'm not convinced of that. Women suffer from HSDD at notably higher rates than men. Not suggesting that a particular woman can't have a strong libido, but on average I'm not convinced that women have even close to the same sex drive as men have. It's not that she doesn't want to have sex. She just doesn't want to have sex with you. |
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Posted: 8/14/2018 11:43:01 AM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Do chicks even read bios anymore? or even better, clever and demonstrating value "Im 6 foot 8 inches, two separate measurements" |
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Posted: 8/14/2018 11:48:18 AM EST
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I've said he before than it you are over 6 feet tall then your entire Bio should be something to the effect of; "I'm 6-2" No well thought out heartfelt about me paragraph will be as effective as that simple statement of height. |
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Posted: 8/14/2018 2:42:22 PM EST
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Do chicks even read bios anymore? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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