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Link Posted: 1/25/2023 4:11:16 PM EST
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I Want....   The Can I is just the wrong way to go about it.
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A buddy of mine and I are in a bar, and some chunky slag starts trying to talk him up, he just turns to her and says "What about me says I'm into fat chicks?" And turns back and we keep talking football.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 4:45:44 PM EST
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Damn dude, that's a pretty mean-spirited thing to do.

OTOH, the reason there are so many fat chicks in the first place is that no one is allowed to shame them... or even say anything that is not affirming or enabling
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 4:50:28 PM EST
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No idea if it's changed, but in the late 80s you could walk into a bar in Australia, order a beer in a loud southern US accent and be approached by any number of extremely attractive women. I think it was mostly attributable to Aussie men (in Darwin, anyway) being really obnoxious when drunk...which seemed to be almost always.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 4:54:46 PM EST
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I lived the lyrics to the Rolling Stone song "Under My Thumb".  A chick who thought she was "it" and made fun of me to my face changed her mind later and decided she wanted me.  I delighted in stringing her along for 3-4 years before I wrote her a letter telling her to fuck off.  That was one of the most satisfying things I've ever done, and if that is what I was born for, so be it.

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Link Posted: 1/25/2023 4:55:12 PM EST
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I will subscribe to this thread so if I ever talk to a woman that is out of my league I can come back here and post about it.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 4:56:22 PM EST
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I wouldn't have handled it that way, you never know if that fat chick has a smoking hot friend and you can often leverage fat chicks to approach their prettier friends.  There are ways to communicate you're not interested without being a jerk.  Plus, heaven forbid that chick ends up being like some official or person you have to deal with professionally at some point in the future.   My philosophy is charm every woman, especially secretaries and clerk types.  

Link Posted: 1/25/2023 4:56:35 PM EST
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Happened to me once

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Link Posted: 1/25/2023 4:57:42 PM EST
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I'm always mistake foe being younger than I am and get approached often at our local arcade and pinball spots by other gamer chicks. Some are older some are younger, but the wife dosent care. I told her I am shopping to get us a young house keeper
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 4:58:15 PM EST
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I lived the lyrics to the Rolling Stone song "Under My Thumb".  A chick who thought she was "it" and made fun of me to my face changed her mind later and decided she wanted me.  I delighted in stringing her along for 3-4 years before I wrote her a letter telling her to fuck off.  That was one of the most satisfying things I've ever done, and if that is what I was born for, so be it.

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Good job King.

The best thing about being a man is that if you take care of yourself physically your stock just rise and rises as you get older while their stock plummets after they hit their wall at 30.
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Or just anybody?  I don't get the point of being rude or trying to make someone feel bad.  
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I've always said something along the lines of "I'm flattered, but my girlfriend would be heartbroken."  No need to be mean about it; I've been in their shoes a few times, and always appreciated an easy letdown.



Good man.


That’s what you tell the uglies with nice personalities.



Or just anybody?  I don't get the point of being rude or trying to make someone feel bad.  

I don’t get it either. I’ve always tried to be kind and empathetic. Sometimes people take that option off the table, but that takes a lot more than simple interest.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 5:20:03 PM EST
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It's like going to the French Quarter on a Friday night and random women approach you and want you to go somewhere with them. You know you're going to lose a kidney if you do. Fuck that.
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Link Posted: 1/25/2023 5:45:59 PM EST
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I don’t get it either. I’ve always tried to be kind and empathetic. Sometimes people take that option off the table, but that takes a lot more than simple interest.
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Very true.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 5:47:50 PM EST
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I lived the lyrics to the Rolling Stone song "Under My Thumb".  A chick who thought she was "it" and made fun of me to my face changed her mind later and decided she wanted me.  I delighted in stringing her along for 3-4 years before I wrote her a letter telling her to fuck off.  That was one of the most satisfying things I've ever done, and if that is what I was born for, so be it.

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A letter? How was WWII, Pops?

Link Posted: 1/25/2023 5:47:54 PM EST
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I don’t get it either. I’ve always tried to be kind and empathetic. Sometimes people take that option off the table, but that takes a lot more than simple interest.
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I've always said something along the lines of "I'm flattered, but my girlfriend would be heartbroken."  No need to be mean about it; I've been in their shoes a few times, and always appreciated an easy letdown.



Good man.


That’s what you tell the uglies with nice personalities.



Or just anybody?  I don't get the point of being rude or trying to make someone feel bad.  

I don’t get it either. I’ve always tried to be kind and empathetic. Sometimes people take that option off the table, but that takes a lot more than simple interest.

I try to start polite, but then get accused of leading women on.  Many women, just like men, are obtuse when it comes to interpersonal interactions.

I had more than one stalker in the past.  The polite no's didn't work.  The hard no's didn't work.  Had to release my inner asshole for the women to leave me alone.  Maybe, they were some of those "he didn't reject me, I rejected him" situations.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 5:53:40 PM EST
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A letter? How was WWII, Pops?

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I lived the lyrics to the Rolling Stone song "Under My Thumb".  A chick who thought she was "it" and made fun of me to my face changed her mind later and decided she wanted me.  I delighted in stringing her along for 3-4 years before I wrote her a letter telling her to fuck off.  That was one of the most satisfying things I've ever done, and if that is what I was born for, so be it.

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A letter? How was WWII, Pops?



Frankly, I didn't even want to speak to her.  IIRC I even waited until that semester had let out for the summer before I mailed the letter just so there was no chance I'd run into her for months.

Funny thing is, she married a guy that could have been my twin brother, and after they'd been married for ten years he was found dead in a motel room from a cocaine overdose.  

I might have felt a little sorry for her after that, but to this day I don't think I could have ever dated her.  She was the kind of chick that would be with one guy and flirt with others right in front of him.  That doesn't fly with me.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:16:55 PM EST
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Looks like the usual factions have joined.  This should be good.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:21:29 PM EST
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is it finally a MGTOW thread? @jpetsdogbellies
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:22:57 PM EST
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I never get attention from any women, hot or not. I am totally straight. I can only read these posts and try to imagine what would be like. It must really boost a guys self esteem when women judge you worthy of attention.
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I'm what many of you call a "Manlet" Five foot six. One of the last gals I asked out looked at me like she had just vomited in her mouth. Talk about invisible.  
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:23:58 PM EST
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is it finally a MGTOW thread? @jpetsdogbellies
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Looks like the usual factions have joined.  This should be good.


is it finally a MGTOW thread? @jpetsdogbellies

I’m not sure.  I’m in to see where the memes and shitposting take us.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:32:07 PM EST
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Most women today are fat. Overweight. Too much blubber.

The tats and blue hair make matters worse.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:34:06 PM EST
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I'm what many of you call a "Manlet" Five foot six. One of the last gals I asked out looked at me like she had just vomited in her mouth. Talk about invisible.  
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I never get attention from any women, hot or not. I am totally straight. I can only read these posts and try to imagine what would be like. It must really boost a guys self esteem when women judge you worthy of attention.

I'm what many of you call a "Manlet" Five foot six. One of the last gals I asked out looked at me like she had just vomited in her mouth. Talk about invisible.  


I bet you'd be a 10/10 to a midget gal
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:37:28 PM EST
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I have to admit, after having faced rejection many times as a young man, I get a sick pleasure in shooting down women who approach me.

Now that I am older, wealthier, and generally more desirable I can afford to do that.  Just like the young women who wouldn't give me the time of day when I was young and poor.
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There is that revenge.   And guys generally age better than women.  Nothing like the satisfaction seeing someone who thought she was too hot for you when she was 20 and now, at 50 or even 40 or younger, looks like a buffalo you wouldn't even glance at.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:44:19 PM EST
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I'm what many of you call a "Manlet" Five foot six. One of the last gals I asked out looked at me like she had just vomited in her mouth. Talk about invisible.  
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I never get attention from any women, hot or not. I am totally straight. I can only read these posts and try to imagine what would be like. It must really boost a guys self esteem when women judge you worthy of attention.

I'm what many of you call a "Manlet" Five foot six. One of the last gals I asked out looked at me like she had just vomited in her mouth. Talk about invisible.  


Fellow 5’6”er here. Except I’m almost fifty years old, grey hair, and glasses.
I don’t even bother anymore. Fuck it.

I’m in decent shape and make a fair amount of money. So I do have that going for me.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:47:09 PM EST
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You ever been with a warrior wobbly woman?

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negative.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:48:02 PM EST
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is it finally a MGTOW thread? @jpetsdogbellies
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relax, everybody.

i'm here.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:49:29 PM EST
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I'm not sure.  I'm in to see where the memes and shitposting take us.
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Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:49:49 PM EST
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Fellow 5'6"er here. Except I'm almost fifty years old, grey hair, and glasses.
I don't even bother anymore. Fuck it.

I'm in decent shape and make a fair amount of money. So I do have that going for me.
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Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:52:16 PM EST
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Saw this BS in-gratification this Summer at my buddies apartment pool.  Land whales with tans thinking they were so hot, barf  

They main problem is that fit, hot girls nowadays are 1 to 2 in 10, the rest are blubber sloths.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:55:01 PM EST
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Saw this BS in-gratification this Summer at my buddies apartment pool.  Land whales with tans thinking they were so hot, barf
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pics of buddy?
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:56:13 PM EST
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You looking for dick pics, try Grinder…
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 6:57:20 PM EST
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I worked with a couple fat girls that were very pleasant and sweet. Theres nothing more off putting than a arrogant entitled fat chick. A fat chick like that is is like equivalent a neckbeard reddit mod elliot roger incel supreme gentleman types
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You ever been with a warrior wobbly woman?

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Used to work at a bar in college.  About 15 minutes before last call the fat chicks would stroll in and snap up any stray drunk guys and take them home.  

you say that like it's a bad thing.


You ever been with a warrior wobbly woman?



@midcap has.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 7:29:03 PM EST
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Used to work at a bar in college.  About 15 minutes before last call the fat chicks would stroll in and snap up any stray drunk guys and take them home.  

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Years ago I was a bouncer in a big, popular bar. There was a little dumpy blonde girl who used to come in. Not huge, but chubby and plain. She'd walk in, say hi to me, go up to some guy and talk to him for a couple of minutes, then they'd leave together. Different guy all the time. Got to where she'd even joke with me about what she was doing for a bit before she chose her prey.

Occasionally I think about how some poor sap is probably married to her now with kids, grandkids even, not knowing what she was. Or maybe still is.
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I’m young-ish, tall, good hair and find myself on the receiving end of a lot of cougar-age flirting. Oh and black women. No idea why but black women seem to love me haha
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I'm not young, very large build, balding, and fat. Like an offensive lineman who retired and really let himself go. Black women LOVE me. Always have. I get along well with them (and most people) but I've never been interested in one who was interested in me. The young, slim, pretty ones want nothing to do with me.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 7:33:51 PM EST
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I don’t want to live in a world where fat chicks all the sudden think they are hot.

I miss the old days where fatties were so low on self esteem they would give you a blowjob and think that you were the one doing them a favor by letting them.
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I was watching one of those Jubilee videos on YouTube where people rate each other.

They had a bunch of women agree among themselves on a ranking from hottest to least hot. The only fat one put herself #1 and all the women agreed with it. None of them were beauty queens but the cute ones put themselves at the end of the line.

The guys then got to rearrange them. They put the fatty last and totally changed the way the women did it, moving the cute ones to the front. They were all worried they were going to "get in trouble" for moving the fat chick.

This world is a strange place these days, and getting weirder fast.

I've always gotten along well with young people, but the group mentality of young people today is foreign to me.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 7:39:51 PM EST
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I have to admit, after having faced rejection many times as a young man, I get a sick pleasure in shooting down women who approach me.

Now that I am older, wealthier, and generally more desirable I can afford to do that.  Just like the young women who wouldn't give me the time of day when I was young and poor.
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Same. My wife thinks if I ever get hit on, I might take the bait... secretly I wish I would get hit on, just so I can turn them down and walk away. The sins of the... mother, I guess?
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 7:43:03 PM EST
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There is that revenge.   And guys generally age better than women.  Nothing like the satisfaction seeing someone who thought she was too hot for you when she was 20 and now, at 50 or even 40 or younger, looks like a buffalo you wouldn't even glance at.
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The ones who were hot at 20 really tend to put on the mileage... I think most of the women from my home town in that category were completely used up by 40.

You would think that given their limited window of biological usefulness, women would plan better for when that expires.  Oh well
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Pow!  Right in the ego.
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I'm always mistake foe being younger than I am and get approached often at our local arcade and pinball spots by other gamer chicks. Some are older some are younger, but the wife dosent care. I told her I am shopping to get us a young house keeper
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Very considerate of you.
Link Posted: 1/25/2023 7:51:26 PM EST
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I don't want to live in a world where fat chicks all the sudden think they are hot.

I miss the old days where fatties were so low on self esteem they would give you a blowjob and think that you were the one doing them a favor by letting them.
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QFMFT!


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Fellow 5’6”er here. Except I’m almost fifty years old, grey hair, and glasses.
I don’t even bother anymore. Fuck it.

I’m in decent shape and make a fair amount of money. So I do have that going for me.
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MGTOW alert!

Link Posted: 1/25/2023 7:58:36 PM EST
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6’4” 225, full set of natural hair, and all CDL endorsement’s plus a mail forwarding service
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Does @midcap like anorexic women now?
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I grew up chonky, so the idea that a lady thinks I'm handsome to some degree?
It's flattering and it never gets old, whether she's my type or not

To be fair though, they can pretty quickly tell I'm a goofball and a softy, they smell that on me and early - If I say something savage to their face to reject them in a cruel way?
It'll basically make them question their radar on who they think is a safe person to deal with.
I can't do it man, it messes them up.


Don't get me wrong, I'm no Mother Teresa or anything, I have my "primitive" and incredibly accurate views on the savage realities of dating, BUT face to face person to person?
I wouldn't verbally tear down a lady whose great awful crime was liking me. Couldn't do it.


WITH ALL THAT SAID...
When you end up with a nice ladyfriend, all the well situated (happy) people you know?
They're happy for you too.
Their buddy made it.
He done did it.


Lmao, BUT, the Copium Express train starts running
A lot of the girls who do the:
"He needs to be 6'5 and he needs to do this and he needs to do that and this and this and the other thing" routine, who look down their nose at you?
(To be fair they do it to a ton of people)

They watch you walk in with a woman who is noticeably prettier than she is, and the math starts in their head

"Wait so he's not on My LevelTM, but.. she's... prettier than me... but... thaaat meannns...

But I passed on him*
Yes of course!
Muh LevelTM
But he upgrayedd to...
Wait...
If you carry the 1...."


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When a woman touches a man it generally means interest in the man.  It intrudes into the privacy/comfort zone and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested.

Now, sometimes it's just plain rude.  I was at the symphony when some women seated behind me tugged gently on my hair.  She and her male companion thought I was wearing a wig.  "It's real" she told him.
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