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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:18:01 PM EDT
[#1]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She's lying. She cheated on you much more recently. This right here. She’s cheated on you many times. Every adulteress situation with my friends that I know the woman or the man has claimed it only happened once. No, it happened years in some cases. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:18:35 PM EDT
[#2]
Quote HistoryQuoted: That don't mean shit these days either. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Pinky promise aint shit without a promise ring |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:19:29 PM EDT
[#3]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This has potential Honestly, I don't know what to make of this.  There wasn't an agreement to be exclusive yet, but to let the other know about fucking someone else. I've never ran into a conversation like that. IME it's just understood after dating someone a while you don't fuck other people. Lots of factors like how often were you seeing each other, etc. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:19:39 PM EDT
[#4]
Good eject. If there’s no trust, there’s no relationship.
I’m not an “all women are whores” guy, but if she admitted to one almost a year after the fact there’s probably more. Life’s to short to deal with that shit. Sucks for the kids. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:19:40 PM EDT
[#5]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Good eject. She just randomly dropped that on you out of the blue though? OP mentioned needing to replace his radiator hose. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:19:44 PM EDT
[#6]
Quote HistoryThis.
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:19:54 PM EDT
[#7]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Is the other guy famous? No, I'm not. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:20:26 PM EDT
[#8]
I miss the days when stuff like this between me and a girl seemed so important.
After dealing with the challenges of raising my kids, a couple miscarriages, hurricane damage, a house fire, a forced career change, dealing with cancer, dementia, family Court, civil litigation, other health issues, caring for my parents (physically and financially) bad investments, taxes and financial concerns, I’d like to go back to something easy with only the potential to hurt my pride. Sorry, OP. I’m not trying to belittle your problem. Stay with her or not, that’s up to you, but if that’s the worst thing that happens in your life, consider yourself a lucky man. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:20:34 PM EDT
[#9]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Pinky promise aint shit without a promise ring A ring can't plug a hole. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:20:38 PM EDT
[#10]
Back to the streets
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:20:39 PM EDT
[#11]
Let it go man! You'd been dating a month. If all else is good, who cares!
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:20:46 PM EDT
[#12]
If it's really over you need to do it in her butt OP..
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:20:53 PM EDT
[#13]
As a previous poster mentioned if there's one, there's likely more.
Sucks for the kids as usual. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:20:54 PM EDT
[#14]
Good eject
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:22:12 PM EDT
[#15]
She told you for a reason.
She wants to either ejector feels guilty. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:22:19 PM EDT
[#16]
Good eject. You did the right thing.
Sucks, a year into it, you kinda start getting comfortable at that point. You didn't succomb to such emotions though. I would rate this thread as "based" if I could. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:23:02 PM EDT
[#17]
Quote HistoryQuoted: That don't mean shit these days either. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Pinky promise aint shit without a promise ring The only thing means is in the divorce she gets half of your stuff and money. I wouldn’t get married to anyone these days. Date them for a minimum of 5 years and if they can’t take that then they will not be there for you at your worst. I have friend who has been engaged for the last 7 years, his GF is older than he is. He’s been married once before and so was she. They told me it’s only a piece of paper between them and the government. She brings home like $60k a year and he brings home $80k, both have 1 adult daughter and she has an adult son. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:23:39 PM EDT
[#18]
Link to onlyfans?
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:24:10 PM EDT
[#19]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Good eject. If she told you about one there was at least 4 And once the cheating gets normalized, she'll be open 24/7 to all the strange meat that swings by. Rule #1: cheaters always cheat again. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:24:15 PM EDT
[#20]
Quote HistoryQuoted: A ring can't plug a hole. A whore can’t make a promise |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:24:29 PM EDT
[#21]
There are a lot of good women out there, you just need to know where to find them.
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:25:01 PM EDT
[#22]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Stuff Happens. You got to bang her for nearly a year. Pick Up & Move On. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:25:20 PM EDT
[#23]
Make sure to get your Letterman jacket back!
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:25:25 PM EDT
[#24]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Pinky promise aint shit without a promise ring Uh, no. Cheating is cheating. Go get tested for an STD OP. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:25:40 PM EDT
[#25]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I miss the days when stuff like this between me and a girl seemed so important. After dealing with the challenges of raising my kids, a couple miscarriages, hurricane damage, a house fire, a forced career change, dealing with cancer, dementia, family Court, civil litigation, other health issues, caring for my parents (physically and financially) bad investments, taxes and financial concerns, I’d like to go back to something easy with only the potential to hurt my pride. Sorry, OP. I’m not trying to belittle your problem. Stay with her or not, that’s up to you, but if that’s the worst thing that happens in your life, consider yourself a lucky man. Ain't that the damned truth. Something here to take to heart, OP. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:26:04 PM EDT
[#26]
Good eject.
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:26:05 PM EDT
[#27]
Quote HistoryQuoted: It was me, and yes, it was good. but seriously, you're gf is trying to do the right thing by telling you. You should forgive her. After all Jesus said something to the effect of: From the Bible John 8.7 where Jesus tells the accusers of a woman of adultery, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her. Nope |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:26:06 PM EDT
[#28]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Let it go man! You'd been dating a month. If all else is good, who cares! If you can’t trust your spouse who can you trust? I have a wife, not a “bangmaid”. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:26:38 PM EDT
[#29]
A pinky promise? WTH?
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:26:54 PM EDT
[#30]
Lol
Good on you for doing the needful. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:27:34 PM EDT
[#31]
More like fucked him 10 times but she’s not lying because she did say she fucked him.
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:27:43 PM EDT
[#32]
1 month in, 10 months ago.
Good eject, because that's 10 months of her still on the fence of looking for someone else and she would cave in the future if she thought Mr. Right came around, IMO. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:31:16 PM EDT
[#33]
pics?
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:32:15 PM EDT
[#34]
Quoted: Been dating for 11 1/2 months. Before we were "officially" BF/GF we did a Pinky Swear that we wouldn't F other people even tho we weren't official yet. Swore to each other we would tell each other if we did F someone else as a courtesy to the other person. Last night she told me that about a month into me and her dating, she went on a date and Fd another dude. She and I had already had sex a bunch of times when this would have occurred. I told her she lied and broke my trust and our little agreement we had. Thing is, her kids and my kids have become friends and we were doing family functions together on both sides. Fing BS. This morning I ejected. OP....how old are you? |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:32:28 PM EDT
[#35]
Quote HistoryQuoted: It was me, and yes, it was good. but seriously, you're gf is trying to do the right thing by telling you. You should forgive her. After all Jesus said something to the effect of: From the Bible John 8.7 where Jesus tells the accusers of a woman of adultery, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her. well they wern't married just fornicators... |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:32:31 PM EDT
[#36]
Both have kids and are doing pinky promises? WTF?
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:32:58 PM EDT
[#37]
Quoted: Before we were "officially" BF/GF we did a Pinky Swear that we wouldn't F other people even tho we weren't official yet. Swore to each other we would tell each other if we did F someone else as a courtesy to the other person. I have so many questions. This is important stuff, please @ me in your reply because I'm dying to know: Did you write a note on a scrap of paper that you passed through an intermediary to her with a "will you go steady with me? Check yes/no" scribbled on it? If so, did you use pencil, pen, or crayon? Are you both in middle school? Because that's the last time I heard any of my kids say "pinky promise". Who first called it a pinky swear? If you did then I think I know why she was looking for better dick elsewhere. Did you ask her if she crossed her fingers behind her back while she agreed to the pinky promise? Because if she did then the pinky promise isn't binding. She told you, so she's batting 1 of 2. My math says that's a 0.500 average... isn't all star like 0.270? Sounds like you've got a keeper as long as you don't mind sloppy seconds. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:33:16 PM EDT
[#38]
I need to know -
Did she play Dr in first date with other dude? How many dates it take you to? |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:33:20 PM EDT
[#39]
Quoted: Been dating for 11 1/2 months. Before we were "officially" BF/GF we did a Pinky Swear that we wouldn't F other people even tho we weren't official yet. Swore to each other we would tell each other if we did F someone else as a courtesy to the other person. Last night she told me that about a month into me and her dating, she went on a date and Fd another dude. She and I had already had sex a bunch of times when this would have occurred. I told her she lied and broke my trust and our little agreement we had. Thing is, her kids and my kids have become friends and we were doing family functions together on both sides. Fing BS. This morning I ejected. Have you been tested for STD yet? |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:33:40 PM EDT
[#40]
you made the right call.
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:33:51 PM EDT
[#41]
Take the blow job first. Due eject later.
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:33:52 PM EDT
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:34:07 PM EDT
[#43]
Weird she told you after 10 months. Might be worth getting to the bottom of why she told you now before you fully commit to ejecting.
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:34:08 PM EDT
[#44]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Both have kids and are doing pinky promises? WTF? Exactly....sounds like something a teenager would do....
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:34:53 PM EDT
[#45]
Quoted: ...Thing is, her kids and my kids have become friends and we were doing family functions together on both sides. Fing BS. This morning I ejected. No Brady Bunch life for you. Next... |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:35:02 PM EDT
[#46]
STD thread through the roof. Nothing really matters.
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:35:22 PM EDT
[#47]
Good eject, especially since you have kids. Hope you changed the locks, blocked her number, etc.....
Don't pay any attention to the god squad here. |
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:37:04 PM EDT
[#48]
A fucking pinky promise
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:37:57 PM EDT
[#49]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Is the other guy famous? No, he was 70! 
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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:39:05 PM EDT
[#50]
I'm guessing, or maybe hoping, OP meant "pinky swear" figuratively. Probably didn't want to mess up the couch with a blade drawn across both of their palms in the traditional, solemn GD to-death vow.
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