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[ARCHIVED THREAD] - How long after a divorce is it ok to get married again??? (Page 1 of 2)

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:48:00 PM EST

To a different, much better woman that is.......

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:48:51 PM EST

[#1]

87 Day's, of course

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:51:07 PM EST

[#2]

"A second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience."

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:51:24 PM EST

[#3]

At least wait 24 hours.

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:51:51 PM EST

[#4]

I don't know. I've hit eight years this month, and still haven't even dated yet.

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:52:19 PM EST

[#5]

Quoted:
"A second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience."

Dude, thats deep. Now I'm really stumped.

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:52:40 PM EST

[#6]

Long enough to really think about what the fuck you're about to do this time. That's for damned sure!

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:53:52 PM EST

[#7]

When you deem it acceptable for yourself.

Why make same mistake twice though?

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:55:13 PM EST

[#8]

5-6 HUNDRED YEARS

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:55:20 PM EST

[#9]

Never...

I'm dead serious.
I'm never doing this again. Been doing it for 23 years, if it doesn't work out, I proved I could sustain it awhile...no need to prove it again.

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:57:59 PM EST

[#10]

why in the holy-blue-hell would you want to do it again? slow learner?

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:58:48 PM EST

[#11]

the next morning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I waited 3.5 years and wished I had waited longer since I havent grown up much in the past 38 years I am told!!!!!! Still can't wait til the next TDY to cut a little rug!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:59:18 PM EST

[#12]

right after you sign the papers

Posted: 7/19/2009 3:59:27 PM EST

[#13]

Quoted:
5-6 HUNDRED YEARS

Good answer.

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:00:04 PM EST

[#14]

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:00:08 PM EST

[#15]

you just bailed out of hell and you want to know how fast to get back?

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:01:27 PM EST

[#16]

Didn't you learn your lesson the frst time? Im sure every guy that has been married said she is a great women till they got divorced. A wise man once told me "Getting married is like grabbing a tiger by its tail, you have to try it once but you stupid to do it twice." Heed these words.

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:04:19 PM EST

[#17]

Quoted:
http://smiliesftw.com/x/ThisFkGuy.gif

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:11:07 PM EST

[#18]

soon as your ready good luck with that

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:12:00 PM EST

[#19]

Quoted:
Never...

I'm dead serious.
I'm never doing this again. Been doing it for 23 years, if it doesn't work out, I proved I could sustain it awhile...no need to prove it again.

darn toot'n

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:15:57 PM EST

[#20]

The advice given in the divorce care group I was in was that it for you to get over your previous spouse/marriage/situation it will take you 2 months for every year you were together. They said some might take longer but you are kidding yourself if you think you can do it in a shorter amount of time.

Who really knows. My cousin took a little time after his marriage, dated for awhile and took it slow in getting to know the girl. Then he seemed to jump from dating right into marriage without much of an engagement. After divorcing his second wife for cheating on him he swore he wasn't going to get married again. Three months later he was serious with a new girl, 9 months later they were married. A year later they had a kid. He just turned 1 last weekend and they seem to be doing great.

My question for you would be unless you plan on having a family with the girl, why would you want to get married again?

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:16:03 PM EST

[#21]

I'd wait till the clerk files the paperwork in...just a professional opinion.

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:41:40 PM EST

[#22]

Never.

Or in my case, five years.

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:49:00 PM EST

[#23]

If I ever get divorced, I will never marry again.

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:51:12 PM EST

[#24]

Quoted:
Never...

I'm dead serious.
I'm never doing this again.

Never is the accepted standard...

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:51:28 PM EST

[#25]

didn't learn the first time huh...?

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:54:44 PM EST

[#26]

Quoted:

At least wait 24 hours.

Only 24 minutes in vegas.

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:55:36 PM EST

[#27]

Quoted:

To a different, much better woman that is.......

The next day after your divorce is finalized. Screw everyone else's opinion. If your happy its your life. Live it to the fullest.

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:58:16 PM EST

[#28]

Very simple answer from someone has made that mistake.

NEVER get married again. There is no need to have a piece of paper from the government to be with the one you love.

Posted: 7/19/2009 4:59:16 PM EST

[#29]

A couple of years ago I was reading the local paper/rag/commie libtard propaganda sheet and was reading the divorces and marriage license section in the Matter of Record. It showed the divorce of this guy and his wife and right down the column, under marriage licenses, was the same guy getting a marriage license, with a different woman. They were one day apart.

So I would say that you only need to wait one day to get re-married.

In my case I waited 2 1/2 years. Although sometimes I wish I had never re-married, but this marriage is FAR better than my first one.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:01:40 PM EST

[#30]

Quoted:
There is no need to have a piece of paper from the government to be with the one you love.

The truth.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:02:00 PM EST

[#31]

I've learned that old expression is true. Marriage is the best way to fuck up a beautiful friendship. Long term relationships? Sure. Marriage? Never again.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:14:59 PM EST

[#32]

Quoted:
"A second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience."

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:19:40 PM EST

[#33]

when the Ink dries from the first one

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:19:51 PM EST

[#34]

So I take you were to oblivious to learn the first time ?

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:21:59 PM EST

[#35]

Stupid is as stupid does.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:22:49 PM EST

[#36]

As soon as the ink is dry.

Seriously when you and her are ready.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:25:04 PM EST

[#37]

One week for me

We were separated for a couple years though. Its working out much better this time.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:30:45 PM EST

[#38]

Dont do it

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:32:19 PM EST

[#39]

Quoted:
5-6 HUNDRED YEARS

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:34:30 PM EST

[#40]

Same day the divorce is final.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:36:12 PM EST

[#41]

Never, If she has kids––Never never never never never If you own anything never, If you do it just give her everything you own because she will get it anyway.
Don't even think of asking how I know this.

VM

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:38:20 PM EST

[#42]

As soon as you sober up from the divorce party I would suppose.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:38:44 PM EST

[#43]

Never.

But if you are determined to do it again, wait at least 70 years.

Then you may be ready.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:38:47 PM EST

[#44]

Quoted:
Same day the divorce is final.

thats what the ex wife thought.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:39:00 PM EST

[#45]

Doesn't matter after the divorce. It's no one's business but yours and the next girl.

HH

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:39:25 PM EST

[#46]

Dude, why buy the cow, when you are lactose intolerant.....

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:40:03 PM EST

[#47]

I waited 3 years. My wife's divorce was only 7 days old when we got married. We are going on our 21st year.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:40:24 PM EST

[#48]

Quoted:
Dude, why buy the cow, when you are lactose intolerant.....

Good one.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:41:26 PM EST

[#49]

Never would be a good choice.

Posted: 7/19/2009 5:43:06 PM EST

[#50]

My dad remarried after about 6 mo, to a woman he met online after the divorce. Mom is still single.

Personally I would say never.

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