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Posted: 1/29/2018 2:46:46 PM EST
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You're still the same Adonis as the day you were married? |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 2:47:08 PM EST
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I'm not married, but if it ever happens you'd better believe that will be included. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Which vow mentioned “until you blimp out do us part?” 
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Posted: 1/29/2018 2:48:14 PM EST
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Stay single. Commitment isn't for you.
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Posted: 1/29/2018 2:49:24 PM EST
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I believe in taking care of myself and a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I'll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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You're still the same Adonis as the day you were married? 
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Posted: 1/29/2018 2:51:04 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Not always the case. My wife looks and is shaped nothing like her mother. She looks and is shaped just like her dad's side the family. She could pass a s sister to two of her cousins. Her aunt looks like she could be her mom more than her mom. 
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Posted: 1/29/2018 2:51:34 PM EST
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Maybe she is. Quote HistoryQuoted:
Quoted: Not always the case. My wife looks and is shaped nothing like her mother. She looks and is shaped just like her dad's side the family. She could pass a s sister to two of her cousins. Her aunt looks like she could be her mom more than her mom. 
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Posted: 1/29/2018 2:53:10 PM EST
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Lol at the “tell death” blah blah posts giving there spouses a free pass to be a selfish person.
Have any of you thought about how their weight will effect you, your children, your retirement? Teaching your kids that it’s ok to be fat because “married, kids”. How about when your wife drops dead of heart disease at 45/50/55? Still proud you didn’t stand up for her? How about when your retirement is blown on health problems because, fat? It’s more than being shallow. My wife’s parents were both dead by the time I met her. At 22. From, being unhealthy, fat, etc. I’m not going to watch my wife kill herself by being lazy/fat. With my help and encouragement, she’s back to her Pre-marriage weight and runs all the time. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 2:53:33 PM EST
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Look at her Mom it TELLS YOUR EVERYTHING. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 2:55:36 PM EST
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Lol at the “tell death” blah blah posts giving there spouses a free pass to be a selfish person. Have any of you thought about how their weight will effect you, your children, your retirement? Teaching your kids that it’s ok to be fat because “married, kids”. How about when your wife drops dead of heart disease at 45/50/55? Still proud you didn’t stand up for her? How about when your retirement is blown on health problems because, fat? It’s more than being shallow. My wife’s parents were both dead by the time I met her. At 22. From, being unhealthy, fat, etc. I’m not going to watch my wife kill herself by being lazy/fat. With my help and encouragement, she’s back to her Pre-marriage weight and runs all the time. 
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Posted: 1/29/2018 2:59:41 PM EST
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If I woke up from a coma and my lady was a fat body... not long.
Luckily getting fat doand ant happen overnight. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:04:34 PM EST
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Lol at the “tell death” blah blah posts giving there spouses a free pass to be a selfish person. Have any of you thought about how their weight will effect you, your children, your retirement? Teaching your kids that it’s ok to be fat because “married, kids”. How about when your wife drops dead of heart disease at 45/50/55? Still proud you didn’t stand up for her? How about when your retirement is blown on health problems because, fat? It’s more than being shallow. My wife’s parents were both dead by the time I met her. At 22. From, being unhealthy, fat, etc. I’m not going to watch my wife kill herself by being lazy/fat. With my help and encouragement, she’s back to her Pre-marriage weight and runs all the time. And in any case, words still mean things. Honor consists in an internal state; it has nothing whatsoever to do with any external circumstance. Honor is not conditional. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:05:08 PM EST
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Why is adultery the lynch pin that makes your marriage disposable? I thought righteous Christians "hate the sin, not the sinner". Why are the other 9 Commandments not grounds for divorce? I don't mind answering your questions but I don't want to derail the thread. You can PM me though. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:07:13 PM EST
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We shouldn’t judge women on being fat. They can’t help it and are just naturally fat. God made them to be fat. Some lucky women do have a good man around to help them understand this and keep most of the fat off until they are too old to have sex. Which is around 40. Usually. I feel bad for you son 
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:11:13 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: These days they blimp out long before getting hitched. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:11:30 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Nah, that's bullshit. The spirit of the question in the OP has absolutely nothing to do with addressing your wife's weight for health reasons. And in any case, words still mean things. Honor consists in an internal state; it has nothing whatsoever to do with any external circumstance. Honor is not conditional. Honor is not conditional, respect isn’t either. If your spouse selfishly chooses to be fat, and you’re not ok with that. They are not respecting you, they are not honoring your marriage. Period. You think a spouses weight doesn’t effect their health? If your a chubby chaser, then none of this has fuckall to do with vows, honor, or OP’s ? Grab a sports illustrated swimsuit edition and pound your pud to the fattys in there. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:12:04 PM EST
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I’m not married, but I would expect my wife to stay in reasonable shape outside of pregnancy or a serious health issue. It goes both ways though. If I was a fatass, I wouldn’t expect my wife to be a fitness model.
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:12:53 PM EST
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Nah, that's bullshit. The spirit of the question in the OP has absolutely nothing to do with addressing your wife's weight for health reasons. And in any case, words still mean things. Honor consists in an internal state; it has nothing whatsoever to do with any external circumstance. Honor is not conditional. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Lol at the “tell death” blah blah posts giving there spouses a free pass to be a selfish person. Have any of you thought about how their weight will effect you, your children, your retirement? Teaching your kids that it’s ok to be fat because “married, kids”. How about when your wife drops dead of heart disease at 45/50/55? Still proud you didn’t stand up for her? How about when your retirement is blown on health problems because, fat? It’s more than being shallow. My wife’s parents were both dead by the time I met her. At 22. From, being unhealthy, fat, etc. I’m not going to watch my wife kill herself by being lazy/fat. With my help and encouragement, she’s back to her Pre-marriage weight and runs all the time. And in any case, words still mean things. Honor consists in an internal state; it has nothing whatsoever to do with any external circumstance. Honor is not conditional. For some of us, it being a deal breaker has a lot to do with the health (physical and mental) side of it. It is also about what example you set for your kids. It is also about the sexual side of the relationship. So it's not just that they are fat, it's everything that lead to it and results from it. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:12:57 PM EST
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You must define blimp.
115lbs before kids - 225lbs after kids= blimp 115lbs before kids- 135lbs after kids=not blimp |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:14:30 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: My wife honors me by caring, and choosing to spend as much time together as possible. (Not being fat and dying unnecessarily early) Honor is not conditional, respect isn’t either. If your spouse selfishly chooses to be fat, and you’re not ok with that. They are not respecting you, they are not honoring your marriage. Period. You think a spouses weight doesn’t effect their health? If your a chubby chaser, then none of this has fuckall to do with vows, honor, or OP’s ? Grab a sports illustrated swimsuit edition and pound your pud to the fattys in there. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:15:31 PM EST
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i actually like em a little on the fat side
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:17:47 PM EST
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We mistake common for normal.
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:18:23 PM EST
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We shouldn’t judge women on being fat. They can’t help it and are just naturally fat. God made them to be fat. Some lucky women do have a good man around to help them understand this and keep most of the fat off until they are too old to have sex. Which is around 40. Usually. Wow...I'm not too old yet. 
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:20:07 PM EST
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You people and your weird problems. Just stop feeding her so much. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:21:30 PM EST
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LOL Wow...I'm not too old yet. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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We shouldn’t judge women on being fat. They can’t help it and are just naturally fat. God made them to be fat. Some lucky women do have a good man around to help them understand this and keep most of the fat off until they are too old to have sex. Which is around 40. Usually. Wow...I'm not too old yet. Ya no. My wife is 40+ and we’re still humping like we did I’m our 20’s. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:21:39 PM EST
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Poll fail. Where is the "pre-agreed upon not allowed to blimp out in the first place" option?
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:27:04 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: My wife honors me by caring, and choosing to spend as much time together as possible. (Not being fat and dying unnecessarily early) Honor is not conditional, respect isn’t either. If your spouse selfishly chooses to be fat, and you’re not ok with that. They are not respecting you, they are not honoring your marriage. Period. You think a spouses weight doesn’t effect their health? If your a chubby chaser, then none of this has fuckall to do with vows, honor, or OP’s ? Grab a sports illustrated swimsuit edition and pound your pud to the fattys in there. Virtue isn't reciprocal. You cannot lie to someone because that person is a liar. You cannot steal from someone because that person is a thief. You cannot suspend your own honor because you (in this case quite weakly and disingenuously) perceive them to have lost their own. This is, by the way, simply the ideal. I make no claims to successfully live by these principles. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:43:48 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: You're still missing the point. If you are only nice to people who are nice to you, then you are not a "nice" person; you reflexively returning one behavior for a similar one; input = output. There's not much moral value in that. Some to be sure, but not much. It's easy enough to do. Virtue isn't reciprocal. You cannot lie to someone because that person is a liar. You cannot steal from someone because that person is a thief. You cannot suspend your own honor because you (in this case quite weakly and disingenuously) perceive them to have lost their own. This is, by the way, simply the ideal. I make no claims to successfully live by these principles. If your wife selfishly chooses to be fat, she’s not honoring you. You can type out 2 pages of non-sense. Doesn’t change the fact the staying with someone who chooses to be unhealthy is honorable. Being a poor example for your kids isn’t honorable. You do you, I’ll live my life my way. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:44:12 PM EST
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Which vow mentioned “until you blimp out do us part?” It's not. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:47:32 PM EST
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My wife has too much respect for herself and for me to blimp out, even after having kids. My wife is the hottest 49 y/o on a skateboard. I don't understand normal sized people who are married to fat asses. Neither have self respect. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:49:00 PM EST
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... Would your wife have the same option if you lost your job, broke your leg, got a beer gut, grew a beard she didn't like, or if anything she didn't like happened with you? .... |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:51:49 PM EST
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The chemo would slim her down and she could get some fake ones like Amy Anderson. Hnnnnng. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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OP, Your futuristic wife develops breast cancer: how long until you pitch her? |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 3:56:58 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Breast cancer has nothing to do with oral cancer.... |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:03:35 PM EST
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GF popped out 2 kids, and hovers around 115 to 120 at 5'5" ish.
Perhaps people should put down the fork. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:06:32 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I’m not missing shit. If your wife selfishly chooses to be fat, she’s not honoring you. You can type out 2 pages of non-sense. Doesn’t change the fact the staying with someone who chooses to be unhealthy is honorable. Being a poor example for your kids isn’t honorable. You do you, I’ll live my life my way. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:07:02 PM EST
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Well, when vows don't mean shit anymore, why wait OP? |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:09:40 PM EST
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:10:30 PM EST
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GF popped out 2 kids, and hovers around 115 to 120 at 5'5" ish. Perhaps people should put down the fork.
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:11:57 PM EST
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Muh wife weighs 94 pounds. My mistress weighs 115 pounds.
When each of them had kids they were back to their normal weight immediately after weaning the kids. Depending on how much weight your wife needs to loose it could take more or less than 6-months. I lost 20-pounds in 6 weeks and 40-pounds in 4 months just with portion control and will power. It was really easy. Easier after the first couple of weeks but easy. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:14:44 PM EST
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My wife is not as skinny as she was when we met...and neither am I. I only care if she is healthy....
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:15:58 PM EST
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1. How fat did you get? 2. How fat did she get? Are we talking obese? or just thicker than a bowl of oatmeal? cant get in doors at Walmart |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:16:45 PM EST
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At what BMI number would you put your kids up for adoption OP?
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:17:02 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Sex is a very important part of a healthy marriage. In order to have regular sex you probably need a fair amount of sexual attraction towards your wife. |
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:23:18 PM EST
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Muh wife weighs 94 pounds. My mistress weighs 115 pounds. When each of them had kids they were back to their normal weight immediately after weaning the kids. Depending on how much weight your wife needs to loose it could take more or less than 6-months. I lost 20-pounds in 6 weeks and 40-pounds in 4 months just with portion control and will power. It was really easy. Easier after the first couple of weeks but easy.
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:24:29 PM EST
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I love my wife so I would never do that. My wife does Pilates several times a week so she is very fit. You are not a weak person because you love your spouse unconditionally.
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:25:09 PM EST
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Muh wife weighs 94 pounds. My mistress weighs 115 pounds. When each of them had kids they were back to their normal weight immediately after weaning the kids. Depending on how much weight your wife needs to loose it could take more or less than 6-months. I lost 20-pounds in 6 weeks and 40-pounds in 4 months just with portion control and will power. It was really easy. Easier after the first couple of weeks but easy. Sarcasm or humble brag?
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:25:19 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted:Wait, what 
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:25:48 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted:I was waiting for someone to catch it. Sarcasm or humble brag? 
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:28:01 PM EST
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On year 20 at the moment.
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:28:24 PM EST
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My wife is getting real close to weighing more than me. It's hard to breech the subject. It's also hard to look at her when her belly hangs below her shirt most days. She has some medical issues that she blames most of it on but refuses to see a doctor. It sucks because it's bringing both of us down. I don't want to be hamstrung because she isn't able to do everything I can.
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Posted: 1/29/2018 4:30:04 PM EST
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