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Posted: 10/23/2011 3:10:43 AM EDT
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Maybe she doesn't want a divorce so she can get all your stuff when you kick the bucket instead of half your stuff. Of course if she's doing that she thinks you'll be dead soon.
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Posted: 10/23/2011 3:14:44 AM EDT
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Why all of a sudden do you think she forged your name on a policy? I'm trying to figure out why she does not want a divorce. She has a man in her life. talk to the man in her life... Seriously, I would ask him, "wouldn't you want all ties to me severed? tell her to sign the papers... or are you afraid she still loves me?" He will get her to sign them. 
#1) he's afraid of me #2) he's 22 shes 41 (he's using her, they are using each other?) #3) She has just now put a restraining order on me (which i do not go around her anyway) Fight that restraining order if you still can, while it is in effect you aren't allowed to own guns. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 3:45:36 AM EDT
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She's not a sociopath....
She's a democrat! 
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Posted: 10/23/2011 3:59:04 AM EDT
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Not possible since you have to complete a medical exam for a sufficient amount of coverage. Not completely true i just got a new policy and they have "No Exam" ones. a bit more each month but no medical check at all. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 3:59:41 AM EDT
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Without my consent or knowledge, and most probably forged my name....Is there anyway i can check and see???? I dont think it was your wife........ It was her Boyfriend! |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:16:32 AM EDT
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If you suspect fraud, report it.
And why the hell are you still married? |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:19:23 AM EDT
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Back to my original question...is there ANYWAY i can find out if she has a policy on me or not? I know when my father died i thought he did not have ANY insurance on him and i was ready and willing to foot the bill. Turns out, he had $10,500 which help out A LOT!  I REALLY miss my dad.... See if any credit checks have been done on you is one suggestion I would have. 21, never gave her consent to use my ss# What the heck does that mean? You think "never gave her consent to use your SSN" = you don't need to check your credit? I was playing along a little right up until here..... |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:26:07 AM EDT
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Not possible since you have to complete a medical exam for a sufficient amount of coverage. Not necessarily. I got a 500k policy with no medical. Yeah, its pretty easy to get insurance round here. I have no idea which insurance company it would be. But i know when my father died and i thought he had no insurance, they ran his name and ss# through a computer and it came up he had $10,500 at the funeral home Really. If that is the way it the unknown insurance polocy on the father was uncovered; why does the OP simply not do the same for himself? 
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:33:58 AM EDT
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We've been separated for almost five years and she simply will not give me a divorce. She has had another man in her life from the beginning and i have had someone in my life for quite some time. She cannot get the house, it was a gift. I have her everything else, fair enough i thought. She cannot get alimony.....she has to be hanging on for a reason???? I know just a couple of months before we parted ways she INSISTED i get life insurance. After a bit of nagging i stopped in the middle of the road and said, o.k. lets go right now. I will get us "each" a million dollar policy. I said o.k.? She had that deer in the headlight look...i said o.k.?.......i said I'm parked inthe middle of the road and there are cars behind me, do you want to go? She said nothing and i drove off. She did tell me once she would poison me and i did get sick. I told my nephew if something happened to me, i wanted her investigated. Her best friend has a million dollars policy on her husband. "she" has been feeding him for the last five years. He's like 38-40 and has heart problems all of a sudden. He has had the wire ran through his legs whatever that is. She and my hope soon to be ex gos out and parties all the time. Her husband had to go to the emergency room because he thought he was having a heart attack. Someone else gets in touch with his wife and shes get to the hospital your husband might be having a heart attack. She shows up pretty lit. She sees he aint dead so while they are admitting him to the hospital to be watched over night, "he has good insurance" she fuckin leaves!!!!!! she leaves with my so called wife and they, two women, spend the night with five men, but says nothing happened, yeah right. I think he kicked her out but I'm not sure, i know i overheard someone saying they where moving her, did not mention him. Just watching my six....my ex is mental...no, really! Yup you live in AL She can't not give you a divorce. Get a different lawyer and get it done. It automatically goes if she refuses to show or sign. As for the life insurance: You can contact the State of AL Insurance Board, or the Attorney general with your suspicions. They can open an investigation just make sure you document your conversations and what lead to this concern. Forging your name on a document of that type is illegal. Also it is always best to go through the divorce before getting involved with another person regardless of what the other person has done. Risky behavior reflect badly and there are impacts current or future relationships. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:40:20 AM EDT
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:43:34 AM EDT
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If you are/were a soldier:
Have you EVER given her ANY power of attorney, for ANY reason? |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:45:55 AM EDT
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Sounds like an episode of Law & Order.
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:47:40 AM EDT
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We've been separated for almost five years and she simply will not give me a divorce. She has had another man in her life from the beginning and i have had someone in my life for quite some time. She cannot get the house, it was a gift. I have her everything else, fair enough i thought. She cannot get alimony.....she has to be hanging on for a reason???? I know just a couple of months before we parted ways she INSISTED i get life insurance. After a bit of nagging i stopped in the middle of the road and said, o.k. lets go right now. I will get us "each" a million dollar policy. I said o.k.? She had that deer in the headlight look...i said o.k.?.......i said I'm parked inthe middle of the road and there are cars behind me, do you want to go? She said nothing and i drove off. She did tell me once she would poison me and i did get sick. I told my nephew if something happened to me, i wanted her investigated. Her best friend has a million dollars policy on her husband. "she" has been feeding him for the last five years. He's like 38-40 and has heart problems all of a sudden. He has had the wire ran through his legs whatever that is. She and my hope soon to be ex gos out and parties all the time. Her husband had to go to the emergency room because he thought he was having a heart attack. Someone else gets in touch with his wife and shes get to the hospital your husband might be having a heart attack. She shows up pretty lit. She sees he aint dead so while they are admitting him to the hospital to be watched over night, "he has good insurance" she fuckin leaves!!!!!! she leaves with my so called wife and they, two women, spend the night with five men, but says nothing happened, yeah right. I think he kicked her out but I'm not sure, i know i overheard someone saying they where moving her, did not mention him. Just watching my six....my ex is mental...no, really! File for divorce. She doesn't have to grant you shit, let the courts decide, She can't just refuse to sign the papers. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 5:01:11 AM EDT
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In before the homocide
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Posted: 10/23/2011 5:06:24 AM EDT
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contact the insurance company and ask them to do an 'alpha search' using your social security number. If there is a policy, it will surface. The agent will be liable as well as your soon to be ex....it is a criminal act to take out a policy on someone especially if your name was forged. Contact your state insurance commissioner. Good luck and check your six...
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Posted: 10/23/2011 5:14:02 AM EDT
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Op: no gov agencies will give you 3 seconds. Find a new lawyer. File. Be done. Her consent is not required.
Leave all the "she is gonna kill me, has tried, her friend is bad" shit out or the lawyer will figure you a fool. Just get the divorce. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 5:18:50 AM EDT
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Posted: 10/23/2011 5:23:29 AM EDT
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"Is Alabama a No-Fault Divorce State?
Every now and then one of my clients says something like "Alabama is a no-fault state, isn't it?" I always reply, "it depends." It depends on what you mean when you ask the question. If you're asking whether Alabama requires that a person prove fault to obtain a divorce, the answer is no. Ala. Code § 30-2-1 states the permissible grounds for divorce. In amongst the "traditional" grounds like adultery, abandonment, violence, and imprisonment lie the dual grounds of incompatible temperament and irretrievable breakdown of the marriage. Courts accept the testimony of either party that incompatibility exists, so there's no longer a requirement that either party prove that either party is "at fault" to obtain a divorce. The corollary to this principle, of course, is that neither party can stop a divorce from occurring. They can slow it down, they can make it more unpleasant, and they can make it more expensive, but a spouse who's determined to divorce can make it happen even if his or her spouse is fighting the divorce every step of the way. However, if what you're asking whether a judge will pay attention to fault in deciding how to determine property division or issues of spousal support, Alabama is most certainly not a no-fault state. Fault still matters. In those rare cases where the judge decides that one party is "at fault" and the other is innocent, the judge has the power to allocate property division in favor of the innocent party. Ditto with support. So in a divorce that would "normally" result in modest alimony to be paid by the husband to the wife, if the judge determines that the divorce occurred because the wife had an adulterous affair, the judge could decide that it's appropriate to award no alimony. And if a judge would in an equivalent-fault divorce grant the house to the husband and the retirement plan to the wife, a judge might change that and do it differently if the husband had been violent with the wife. Perhaps the judge might give the retirement plan to the wife and then order that the house be sold and the proceeds divided equally." Now go get a lawyer and get a divorce. Go get your credit report and see how many hits are on there. If you do have a forged ins. policy get that to the attorney too. I divorced without my ex there. Get off your ass and do it. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 5:29:14 AM EDT
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cliff's notes: You're too cheap to get a contested divorce, so you're continuing to keep this crazy woman in your life?
Did I get that right? WTF Arfcom? |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 5:37:17 AM EDT
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My Uncle got mixed up with a crazy one like that. He would show up to my Grandpa's house crying and saying she wouldn't give him a divorce, he went missing for a few days and then we got a call from his next door neighbor who was concerned about him we went over to his house and got in and we found him alive but barely he was given some sort of injection and he was never right after that.
File for divorce ricky tick! You should have also gotten tested for when you were feeling like shit. Her reaction was your cue to fo! Don't worry about the big screen tvs or the trivial shit man. Get out with your life! Plus you don't want to have to pay her alimony if she isn't trying to kill you, you are worried about divorces and lawyers costing over 1000 dollars. What about when you gotta pay her half of what you earned in your life? Might as well start working for her. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 5:52:27 AM EDT
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cliff's notes: You're too cheap to get a contested divorce, so you're continuing to keep this crazy woman in your life? Did I get that right? WTF Arfcom? I'm about to call BS on the whole story. It's a good one, but there is no fucking way anyone would put up with this. OP, if what you say is true, then I suggest that you lawyer up yesterday! Do whatever it takes to get the contested divorce, put a restraining order on her and call the police every single time she contacts you. Hire a detective if you have to to find out if she's using your SS# for insurance, credit cards, etc... If you aren't willing to do that, then I'm calling BS. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 6:02:57 AM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: cliff's notes: You're too cheap to get a contested divorce, so you're continuing to keep this crazy woman in your life? Did I get that right? WTF Arfcom? I'm about to call BS on the whole story. It's a good one, but there is no fucking way anyone would put up with this. OP, if what you say is true, then I suggest that you lawyer up yesterday! Do whatever it takes to get the contested divorce, put a restraining order on her and call the police every single time she contacts you. Hire a detective if you have to to find out if she's using your SS# for insurance, credit cards, etc... If you aren't willing to do that, then I'm calling BS. There are ways for people to find out if life insurance was taken out by wife, people take out house bills in their kids names all the time racking up thousands of dollars for the kid to discover when they are older. OP you can contest this with the insurance company when you find out if she did it, that sounds like the start of a good strong case against her. Make sure you document everything.
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Posted: 10/23/2011 6:06:13 AM EDT
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Hire a food taster. Stat. What he means is buy a food tasting monkey to live on your sholder. Win-WIn |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 6:06:49 AM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Why all of a sudden do you think she forged your name on a policy? I'm trying to figure out why she does not want a divorce. She has a man in her life. talk to the man in her life... Seriously, I would ask him, "wouldn't you want all ties to me severed? tell her to sign the papers... or are you afraid she still loves me?" He will get her to sign them. Unless he thinks a cash influx and a shiny new widow are the way to go. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 6:07:01 AM EDT
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Without my consent or knowledge, and most probably forged my name....Is there anyway i can check and see???? Your married, you gave up all consent when you said 'I Do' |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 6:17:38 AM EDT
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Not possible since you have to complete a medical exam for a sufficient amount of coverage. Not necessarily. I got a 500k policy with no medical. What you might have is a policy that pays only if you get struct by lightning while surfing in an ocean in Arizona. No insurance company insures someone for $500K with out med exam. Check the policy it's probably $5,000. I was just offered a no med policy and I want to say it was 150k. The price goes up without the med check though. I don't remember the cap but I am sure you can't get 500k life with no med. I just got 500k, and I just had to fill out a 'medical questionaire' i.e. tell them my full medical history. I'm healthy, and it was approved. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 6:25:43 AM EDT
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Not possible since you have to complete a medical exam for a sufficient amount of coverage. Not necessarily. I got a 500k policy with no medical. What you might have is a policy that pays only if you get struct by lightning while surfing in an ocean in Arizona. No insurance company insures someone for $500K with out med exam. Check the policy it's probably $5,000. I was just offered a no med policy and I want to say it was 150k. The price goes up without the med check though. I don't remember the cap but I am sure you can't get 500k life with no med. I just got 500k, and I just had to fill out a 'medical questionaire' i.e. tell them my full medical history. I'm healthy, and it was approved. How much is the annual premium and who is it through? |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 6:28:55 AM EDT
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Don't you have to get a physical to get life insurance? Could she have faked that?
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Posted: 10/23/2011 6:42:31 AM EDT
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what channel will this be on?
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Posted: 10/23/2011 6:53:36 AM EDT
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what channel will this be on? It's already all been on. Frankly sounds like the OP just finished a 5 day marathon of soap operas, Jersey Shore, Real Whorewives of Wherever, with a little bit of Matlock thrown in for the accent. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 11:47:33 AM EDT
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Quoted: I am sorry but I was corrected by my bride... there was a blood test, checked vitals, height and weight and questionnaire (do you smoke?, do you drink?... blah blah blah) ... Nothing "in depth" ... so I was "WRONG!" Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Not possible since you have to complete a medical exam for a sufficient amount of coverage. Not necessarily. I got a 500k policy with no medical. What you might have is a policy that pays only if you get struct by lightning while surfing in an ocean in Arizona. No insurance company insures someone for $500K with out med exam. Check the policy it's probably $5,000. I was just offered a no med policy and I want to say it was 150k. The price goes up without the med check though. I don't remember the cap but I am sure you can't get 500k life with no med.  |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 12:01:00 PM EDT
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Without my consent or knowledge, and most probably forged my name....Is there anyway i can check and see???? Monitor the monthly finances (ie. Checking Account and Credit Card Statements) that will tell you where the money is going |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 12:08:40 PM EDT
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Quoted: Yes, when you actually run into a sociopath you know it. Looks like you did. I've seen one too. No sense of right or wrong, just evil. You two dated my mother?!?!!?????    |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 12:12:45 PM EDT
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I am sorry but I was corrected by my bride... there was a blood test, checked vitals, height and weight and questionnaire (do you smoke?, do you drink?... blah blah blah) ... Nothing "in depth" ... so I was "WRONG!"
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Not possible since you have to complete a medical exam for a sufficient amount of coverage. Not necessarily. I got a 500k policy with no medical. What you might have is a policy that pays only if you get struct by lightning while surfing in an ocean in Arizona. No insurance company insures someone for $500K with out med exam. Check the policy it's probably $5,000. I was just offered a no med policy and I want to say it was 150k. The price goes up without the med check though. I don't remember the cap but I am sure you can't get 500k life with no med.
Yeah, that's a pretty standard medical. Usually they do a swab inside your cheek also that checks for tobacco use too. (Unless you admit to using it already) Don't sweat it. An insurance med exam is a pretty forgettable experience. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 12:15:33 PM EDT
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most people don't know what a mean wifer is capable of. Video of Woman attempting to Murder for Hire of Husband for Money Forged Husbands Signature on Life Insurance Documents |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 12:18:30 PM EDT
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We've been separated for almost five years and she simply will not give me a divorce. She has had another man in her life from the beginning and i have had someone in my life for quite some time. She cannot get the house, it was a gift. I have her everything else, fair enough i thought. She cannot get alimony.....she has to be hanging on for a reason???? I know just a couple of months before we parted ways she INSISTED i get life insurance. After a bit of nagging i stopped in the middle of the road and said, o.k. lets go right now. I will get us "each" a million dollar policy. I said o.k.? She had that deer in the headlight look...i said o.k.?.......i said I'm parked inthe middle of the road and there are cars behind me, do you want to go? She said nothing and i drove off. She did tell me once she would poison me and i did get sick. I told my nephew if something happened to me, i wanted her investigated. Her best friend has a million dollars policy on her husband. "she" has been feeding him for the last five years. He's like 38-40 and has heart problems all of a sudden. He has had the wire ran through his legs whatever that is. She and my hope soon to be ex gos out and parties all the time. Her husband had to go to the emergency room because he thought he was having a heart attack. Someone else gets in touch with his wife and shes get to the hospital your husband might be having a heart attack. She shows up pretty lit. She sees he aint dead so while they are admitting him to the hospital to be watched over night, "he has good insurance" she fuckin leaves!!!!!! she leaves with my so called wife and they, two women, spend the night with five men, but says nothing happened, yeah right. I think he kicked her out but I'm not sure, i know i overheard someone saying they where moving her, did not mention him. Just watching my six....my ex is mental...no, really! Thank God she is your EX. It sounds like she and her friend are whores at times. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 12:21:47 PM EDT
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I think OP is serious... Dude, alot of good and harsh advice here.... GTF away from this chick.
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Posted: 10/23/2011 12:25:47 PM EDT
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Back to my original question...is there ANYWAY i can find out if she has a policy on me or not? Can't buy insurance on someone without the insurance company getting consent from the insured to pull records per HIPAA. Can't get a signature without documented proof of the signer. You failed to control the situation or notify authorities- so no sympathy here.
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Posted: 10/23/2011 12:43:02 PM EDT
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"On todays episode of As The Bolt Turns, we find out if Elite-Soldier's seperated wife took out an insurance policy on him and placed a contract on his life with TRG. Like brass through the ejection port, so are the days until fo time."
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Posted: 10/23/2011 12:49:54 PM EDT
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Without my consent or knowledge, and most probably forged my name....Is there anyway i can check and see???? THIS is how Law & Order episodes start. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 1:54:09 PM EDT
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Most of that list just reads "woman" to many of us.
Quoted: This is my wife to a T Everything listed below is "exactly" her personality!  * Glibness and Superficial Charm * Manipulative and Conning They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims. * Grandiose Sense of Self Feels entitled to certain things as "their right." * Pathological Lying Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests. * Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way. * Shallow Emotions When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises. * Incapacity for Love * Need for Stimulation Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common. * Callousness/Lack of Empathy Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them. * Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others. * Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc. * Irresponsibility/Unreliability Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed. * Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts. * Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively. * Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 2:55:53 PM EDT
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This is my wife to a T Everything listed below is "exactly" her personality!
* Glibness and Superficial Charm * Manipulative and Conning They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims. * Grandiose Sense of Self Feels entitled to certain things as "their right." * Pathological Lying Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests. * Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way. * Shallow Emotions When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises. * Incapacity for Love * Need for Stimulation Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common. * Callousness/Lack of Empathy Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them. * Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others. * Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc. * Irresponsibility/Unreliability Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed. * Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts. * Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively. * Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily. I find that humorous, but PlaneJane is gonna be on you like a bum on a baloney sandwich !! |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 3:04:09 PM EDT
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satan hard at work.
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Posted: 10/23/2011 3:13:21 PM EDT
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I'm slow, but maybe I'm
IN before the last dose of poison.
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Posted: 10/23/2011 3:45:52 PM EDT
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1) some policies are easy. Who here has the NRA insurance or a policy through your employer or your checking account? Those often let you add family coverage easily. My wife did not need to do anything for me to add coverage on her on any of those.
2) I've been in this trap. Worry that going to divorce court will go horribly wrong. My past divorce made Rodent's look cheap and easy. But after enough years, it is hard to contest or change the established pattern of support. What is happening today tends to stay as it is. 13) offshore divorces are a grey area. Look into Dominican republic. A cheap weekend and you could be divorced and then a precedent is set for us court to follow. 4) just file and have papers served. If she does not respond in time, it happens by default. What will get worse? You can start a divorce yourself, online, for about $200 plus paying a process server to deliver the papers to her. The clock starts then 5) remember that until you divorce, she is your next of kin. You get in a car wreck, she decides what care you get. Think about that and file for divorce. Move in.. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:27:00 PM EDT
[#46]
As real as your super secret method of buying cars and reselling them, which turned out to be an episode of Pawn Stars? Just like that thread, I don't expect you to post here again.
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We've been separated for almost five years and she simply will not give me a divorce. She has had another man in her life from the beginning and i have had someone in my life for quite some time. She cannot get the house, it was a gift. I have her everything else, fair enough i thought. She cannot get alimony.....she has to be hanging on for a reason???? I know just a couple of months before we parted ways she INSISTED i get life insurance. After a bit of nagging i stopped in the middle of the road and said, o.k. lets go right now. I will get us "each" a million dollar policy. I said o.k.? She had that deer in the headlight look...i said o.k.?.......i said I'm parked inthe middle of the road and there are cars behind me, do you want to go? She said nothing and i drove off. She did tell me once she would poison me and i did get sick. I told my nephew if something happened to me, i wanted her investigated. Her best friend has a million dollars policy on her husband. "she" has been feeding him for the last five years. He's like 38-40 and has heart problems all of a sudden. He has had the wire ran through his legs whatever that is. She and my hope soon to be ex gos out and parties all the time. Her husband had to go to the emergency room because he thought he was having a heart attack. Someone else gets in touch with his wife and shes get to the hospital your husband might be having a heart attack. She shows up pretty lit. She sees he aint dead so while they are admitting him to the hospital to be watched over night, "he has good insurance" she fuckin leaves!!!!!! she leaves with my so called wife and they, two women, spend the night with five men, but says nothing happened, yeah right. I think he kicked her out but I'm not sure, i know i overheard someone saying they where moving her, did not mention him. Just watching my six....my ex is mental...no, really! Christ man, I hope to god you are just trolling. I promise I'm not, this is as real as it gets!!! |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:31:47 PM EDT
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Not possible since you have to complete a medical exam for a sufficient amount of coverage. Sufficient, meaning a new benz and a mansion. For a new ford and a 3 bedroom house with the pool boy, you can bet she got enough coverage. You will probably have to live a year before she can collect..... I suggest banging some whores. 
You can probably leverage out the pool boy for about $10000. If you want to fix the rest of the situation, remember the road flares. Lime, water, shovel, and road flares. nope, i just went through with the whole deal .... this policy is a second, and would only pay off a nice house, i had to do a med exam, show ID, verify employment,show SS card, piss in a cup, have blood drawn, and play 20 questons with the nurse who visited at my house to comfirm address |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:33:40 PM EDT
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Huh. Well, at least we know what happened if you fall off the face of the earth.
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:57:22 PM EDT
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I can tell you what you need to do. You need to request the free once a year credit report from the 3 main agencies... Equifax.com Experian.com Transunion.com The first is free and you'll get them in the mail in about 2 weeks. In them look for any credit opened in your name that you didn't do. The most obvious will be CCs or short payday loans in your name. If she is crazy she is probably using the new guy to steal your identity and she prolly has your SS#. Also look for any insurance companies that have run a check on you and call them. Also look to make sure there isn't any false mailing addresses used for you. While you are at the 3 main sites you want to set up a fraud report and a contact number. The fraud alert will get attached to your credit report and anyone issuing credit in your name is then required by law to contact you to verify. You can set fraud alerts at equifax and experian online, but you need to call transunion. Fraud alerts stay on for 90 days after that you need to renew them. If there is anything out of the ordinary don't hestitate to dispute it. If you are a victim of ID theft you'll want to file a report at your local PD and get a copy. And you'll want to file a report online with the FTC to cover your own ass. |
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Posted: 10/23/2011 5:01:08 PM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: Back to my original question...is there ANYWAY i can find out if she has a policy on me or not? Can't buy insurance on someone without the insurance company getting consent from the insured to pull records per HIPAA. Can't get a signature without documented proof of the signer. You failed to control the situation or notify authorities- so no sympathy here. I don't know. I was under the impression anyone can take out insurance on anyone. Like the guy who took it out on the missing woman in Aruba. He met her on match.com. I doubt he had access to all her records. |
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