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Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:21:48 PM EDT
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I can say, with 100% certainty, that neither my wife nor her friends appreciate that particular comment.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:22:43 PM EDT
[#2]
In today's social climate, as long as you say good birthing person hips you should be good to go. Note, this will work no matter the gender.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:26:26 PM EDT
[#3]
I just told my 8 month pregnant wife that she had nice birthing hips and she asked why I was being creepy and gross.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:29:21 PM EDT
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Cringy I can see.  But I disagree with several people calling it "creepy"

A womans literal biological job on earth is to have babies.  Recognizing a fertile woman is the first step to a man doing his job.
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Are you an OB/GYN & say this as part of an exam to reassure a woman Caesarian section is unlikely?

If not, it’s odd, bordering on creepy, IMO.

Or, as GD has been saying for a month: cringy.

Cringy I can see.  But I disagree with several people calling it "creepy"

A womans literal biological job on earth is to have babies.  Recognizing a fertile woman is the first step to a man doing his job.


So, “nice tits” is ok because she can feed an army?

I’m sticking with creepy.  It’s a weird thing to say—trust me, as an expert in inappropriate statements.  Like last year when I told an administrator his idea was “retarded.”

HR doesn’t like employees pointing out administrative dumbass ideas destined to fail.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:31:34 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:35:14 PM EDT
[#6]
just say "sexy hips"

then its sexual harassment
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:36:03 PM EDT
[#7]
Let me guess you watch Dark Shadows recently?
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:38:16 PM EDT
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It's meant as a compliment.
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Compliment or not, it's kind of creepy.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:39:20 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:39:45 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:47:16 PM EDT
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It's kinda creepy.
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Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:50:03 PM EDT
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Its weird & most likely creepy
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Yeah, and definitely won’t be taken as a compliment.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:56:37 PM EDT
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Ass does not equal hips...

If mom jeans weren't a thing you'd know the difference.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:58:49 PM EDT
[#14]
OP instead of saying child bearing hips.
Tell her she's got nice handle bars.

Wide and protruding Hip bones are great for holding onto from behind. Hence. Handlebars.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 9:59:38 PM EDT
[#15]
It is a compliment.

Women don’t seem to take it that way though.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:00:18 PM EDT
[#16]
I mean, it’s objectively a compliment. How can it be anything else?
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:02:41 PM EDT
[#17]
Just say "You are formed well in the hipular segment, carbon based unit.  You will do well with reproducing small noisy defecating carbon based units."
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:02:44 PM EDT
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Depends if you say it before or after the creampie.
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I laughed
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:16:41 PM EDT
[#19]
Safer saying it to a birthing guy.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:17:59 PM EDT
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Its fucking creepy dude.



Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:19:24 PM EDT
[#21]
I'm not a woman - but I can say for sure that it is something I would NEVER say to a woman.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:22:57 PM EDT
[#22]
Half of women today have no respect for the unborn. Taking that into account, do you really think they would consider your statement a compliment in today's society? You were born about 100 years too late if you do.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:23:47 PM EDT
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I mean, it’s objectively a compliment. How can it be anything else?
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You had to think about it,so yeah it's a compliment
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:23:55 PM EDT
[#24]
“Comfort Hips”
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:29:29 PM EDT
[#25]
Creepy comment, and demeaning at that.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:33:59 PM EDT
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Creepy comment, and demeaning at that.
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Is it demeaning to call a man virile and strong?
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:34:21 PM EDT
[#27]
If ya gotta ask GD…
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:35:36 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:35:56 PM EDT
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LOL the chick I did a threesome with on my birthday loves that movie, how did I forget that scene
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Humble brag.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:36:44 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:36:54 PM EDT
[#31]
Did you tell her she has nice teeth too op
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:39:26 PM EDT
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Is it demeaning to call a man virile and strong?
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Creepy comment, and demeaning at that.

Is it demeaning to call a man virile and strong?
So you're weakshaming everyone else?

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Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:39:50 PM EDT
[#33]
Well I probably wouldn’t lead with that
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:40:56 PM EDT
[#34]
If she's black, it could work. If she's white you finna get dragged.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:46:33 PM EDT
[#35]
At a bar at 18yrs old, saw her, figured she was 30-35yrs old.
Told her I was in love with her ass and asked her to dance, she smiled, said sure kid why not.
Memories
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:49:11 PM EDT
[#36]
OP

Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:49:39 PM EDT
[#37]
I told my wife that yesterday, actually. She laughed and seemed happy with the complement.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:49:50 PM EDT
[#38]
There’s no effing way a woman would take that as a compliment.
…But I have been known to elbow a buddy and say that to them under my breath.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:51:23 PM EDT
[#39]
If she's attracted to you it isn't creepy or an insult. If she isn't attracted to you, it's creepy and likely an insult.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:52:16 PM EDT
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While I'm on the same page as you...
Here's why/the logic behind why child bearing/birthing hips is "offensive"
Nuwave feminism has made motherhood become uncool, a drag, and demeaning.
For she can go to college and be a good corporate lackey/boss lady shattering glass ceilings, how demeaning to be barefoot pregnant and in the kitchen.
They're strong capable independent persons. Roar.
Anything else is insulting and reduces their worth to being nothing more than an object for arousal/barefoot pregnant and in the kitchen.

So while it is a compliment. In today's clown world? You just did turbo misogyny, that's 10 years in gulag.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:53:11 PM EDT
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When I was in high school there was a girl I liked who had child bearing hips.

We were playing around on the bus and I kinda bumped her out of the seat but one hip stayed in our seat and one hip landed on the other seat across the aisle.

Few days later I wrote WIDE LOAD on a piece of notebook paper put a couple of pieces of tape on it and walked up behind her and grabbed her by the hips and leaned in close to her ear and said Gotcha!

I smiled, she smiled, we laughed and I walked away leaving the WIDE LOAD sign taped to her butt.

Yeah... she was mad at me for days!
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:53:44 PM EDT
[#42]
I'm about 95% certain that you would have better luck just telling her "Guurrrl, you got a PHAT ASS." Some women will actually take that as a compliment. I don't know any that won't instantly feel creeped the fuck out by you when you start talking about "birthing hips".

You're a weird one OP.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:54:29 PM EDT
[#43]
If she's fat, insult. If she has narrow hips, compliment.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:58:59 PM EDT
[#44]
You have a nice figure.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 10:59:58 PM EDT
[#45]
Having a man offering unsolicited tips on child birth is probably more insulting than having a raging liberal who's never touched a gun telling us all about guns.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 11:01:30 PM EDT
[#46]
Insult. Probably thinking you're saying she's a fatty
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 11:02:30 PM EDT
[#47]
As with 99% of things, depends on context.  

In a relationship already?  Cool.  

As a pick-up line?  Good fucking luck.

As a random observation to the girl in front of you at the grocery store?   Watch out for the pepper spray.  

Link Posted: 7/9/2022 11:50:58 PM EDT
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OP is creepy as hell if he says that to women. It’s one thing to think it. It’s an entirely different thing to think you need to share it.
Link Posted: 7/9/2022 11:53:07 PM EDT
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These days, that statement assumes a person's gender, interest in child rearing, whether they identify as a birthing person, and is double-plus ungood for the body positivity movement.

Basically, it's white supremacy.

You racist.
Link Posted: 7/10/2022 12:00:15 AM EDT
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If you are behind her with your hands on them while you pull her hair
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Fixt.

In my experience women usually enjoy this....
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