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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:33:11 PM EDT
[#1]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I'm a firm believer that men and women are unable to be "just friends".. Maybe the woman is serious when she says friends only but the dude is simply just waiting his turn, almost always.. But yeah it's a no for me  I agree. Men and women can't be friends. Women with men friends are only staying in touch to keep them as a potential simp option. Some would say that most women really only love their parents and children. That husbands, boyfriends and other men are looked at as providers to take care of their needs, and not capable of true love. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:34:15 PM EDT
[#2]
Quote HistoryQuoted: that literally does not happen. Unless pipe laying is being attempted, even then the interest if feigned. lol |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:34:30 PM EDT
[#3]
Quote HistoryQuoted: My wife is addicted to the online “words with friends” app. Literally every single day she’s got dudes hitting on her. It’s not a big deal. I disagree. OP's guy is local enough that he delivered to her work |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:34:33 PM EDT
[#4]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Definitely out of bounds. Might be innocuous but this is how something starts. I would tell the wife to put an end to it and block the guy. Ultimatum will get OP his answer most likely.... she either gets pissed but blocks him, get pissed and denies anything is happening but no block, or she agrees and make is more secretive. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:35:35 PM EDT
[#5]
This is not directed at any specific individual so I’m not quoting anyone before saying it.
I got bad news for most of you - if your wife/gf has the inclination and desire to cheat on you, there is not a fucking thing you can do to stop her, regardless of your overbearing monitoring and observation of her private correspondence. If anything you will make her more open to the possibility of jumping on another guy’s yardstick as soon as she realizes there are dudes out there who won’t sniff her panties at the end of every day checking for signs of another dude’s presence. “Guys, I’ve recently noticed that my wife has a tendency of looking at things. Things other than me. Who’s the best divorce attorney I can afford?!” Jesus fuck I honestly don’t know how some of you guys function in society these days |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:35:36 PM EDT
[#6]
Quote HistoryQuoted: If that chick don't wanna know forget her. Johnny agrees. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:36:33 PM EDT
[#7]
In for the discovery of dick pics on wife's phone,
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:37:13 PM EDT
[#8]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Yeah gonna go with there is shit going on for sure. If she's not riding the horse yet, she's definitely taken the saddle out of the barn 
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:37:27 PM EDT
[#9]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Johnny agrees. Chick slapped Johnny. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:37:42 PM EDT
[#10]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This is not directed at any specific individual so I’m not quoting anyone before saying it. I got bad news for most of you - if your wife/gf has the inclination and desire to cheat on you, there is not a fucking thing you can do to stop her, regardless of your overbearing monitoring and observation of her private correspondence. If anything you will make her more open to the possibility of jumping on another guy’s yardstick as soon as she realizes there are dudes out there who won’t sniff her panties at the end of every day checking for signs of another dude’s presence. “Guys, I’ve recently noticed that my wife has a tendency of looking at things. Things other than me. Who’s the best divorce attorney I can afford?!” Jesus fuck I honestly don’t know how some of you guys function in society these days You have not read many of these threads over the years in GD.... 87% of them turn out to be wife cheats and then divorce threads. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:38:02 PM EDT
[#11]
Your wife also could have chose to never respond.
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:38:12 PM EDT
[#12]
Quote HistoryQuoted: No. But I am right now.  Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Meh, I just got off a 20 minute phone call with a married friend of mine. No one died. Were you jerking off while talking to her? No. But I am right now. And you didn’t @ me? You promised you would tell me when you started so we could synchronize strokes! 
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:38:14 PM EDT
[#13]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Chick slapped Johnny. Man, we fell about the place. Kinda like this thread. 
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:40:00 PM EDT
[#14]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Affairs don't start in the Bedroom. They start in the Chat Room. DING! It starts off w/ innocent enough chatting/talking, discovering common interests, how was your weekend, etc. After the conversations become comfortable that's when trouble starts. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:40:31 PM EDT
[#15]
This is why I believe the single life is the way to go. Regardless
If it makes you uncomfortable enough to come on an online forum and ask about it. It’s crossing some type of boundary. I don’t think it would bother me but the fact that it bothers you is enough for me to say you should look into it. If there is nothing going on then it shouldn’t be an issue in regards of her letting you see what is said. My other advise is eject and buy a German shorthaired pointer. They are pretty loyal. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:40:40 PM EDT
[#16]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Man, we fell about the place. Kinda like this thread. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Chick slapped Johnny. Man, we fell about the place. Kinda like this thread. Friday night they’ll be dressed to kill down at Dino’s Bar and Grill! 
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:41:13 PM EDT
[#17]
Quote HistoryQuoted: DING! It starts off w/ innocent enough chatting/talking, discovering common interests, how was your weekend, etc. After the conversations become comfortable that's when trouble starts. You have seen these GD threads before I can see... |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:41:26 PM EDT
[#18]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Friday night they’ll be dressed to kill down at Dino’s Bar and Grill! OP's wife is driving all the delivery men crazy. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:41:44 PM EDT
[#19]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This is not directed at any specific individual so I’m not quoting anyone before saying it. I got bad news for most of you - if your wife/gf has the inclination and desire to cheat on you, there is not a fucking thing you can do to stop her, regardless of your overbearing monitoring and observation of her private correspondence. If anything you will make her more open to the possibility of jumping on another guy’s yardstick as soon as she realizes there are dudes out there who won’t sniff her panties at the end of every day checking for signs of another dude’s presence. “Guys, I’ve recently noticed that my wife has a tendency of looking at things. Things other than me. Who’s the best divorce attorney I can afford?!” Jesus fuck I honestly don’t know how some of you guys function in society these days You know, it's not that people want to STOP them from cheating, just to end up staying with them. It's that they don't want to be the chump that has their wife flirting with other men, or worse, whilst unaware. For myself, she's welcome to entertain that kind of attention. But, I'll be long gone. Speaking with another man over DM, in this context, seems like an untrustworthy thing to do. Not all contexts is it untrustworthy. But there are plenty where it is. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:41:45 PM EDT
[#20]
Facebook is for cheaters. Good luck OP!
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:41:56 PM EDT
[#21]
Use wife’s account to set up a quick last minute late night date, she’s sleeping, and you meet at previously disclosed place and kick the shit out of him.
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:42:24 PM EDT
[#22]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This is not directed at any specific individual so I’m not quoting anyone before saying it. I got bad news for most of you - if your wife/gf has the inclination and desire to cheat on you, there is not a fucking thing you can do to stop her, regardless of your overbearing monitoring and observation of her private correspondence. If anything you will make her more open to the possibility of jumping on another guy’s yardstick as soon as she realizes there are dudes out there who won’t sniff her panties at the end of every day checking for signs of another dude’s presence. “Guys, I’ve recently noticed that my wife has a tendency of looking at things. Things other than me. Who’s the best divorce attorney I can afford?!” Jesus fuck I honestly don’t know how some of you guys function in society these days Well said. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:43:12 PM EDT
[#23]
Quote HistoryTrust is earned. How big a paycheck does this wife deserve right now? |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:43:28 PM EDT
[#24]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Use wife’s account to set up a quick last minute late night date, she’s sleeping, and you meet at previously disclosed place and kick the shit out of him. Show up dressed like Biden's Secretary of Health dude. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:44:03 PM EDT
[#25]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Friday night they’ll be dressed to kill down at Dino’s Bar and Grill! the drinks will flow and the blood will spill  |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:44:18 PM EDT
[#26]
Quote HistoryQuoted: My wife is addicted to the online "words with friends" app. Literally every single day she's got dudes hitting on her. It's not a big deal. My X-wife said to me... as I was leaving a marriage of fifteen years for adultery... I'm addicted to the beginning euphoria of a relationship so I keep talking to guys... 
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:44:22 PM EDT
[#27]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This is why I believe the single life is the way to go. Regardless If it makes you uncomfortable enough to come on an online forum and ask about it. It’s crossing some type of boundary. I don’t think it would bother me but the fact that it bothers you is enough for me to say you should look into it. If there is nothing going on then it shouldn’t be an issue in regards of her letting you see what is said. My other advise is eject and buy a German shorthaired pointer. They are pretty loyal. Pics ? |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:44:24 PM EDT
[#28]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Use wife’s account to set up a quick last minute late night date, she’s sleeping, and you meet at previously disclosed place and kick the shit out of him. Wife is just as guilty what does being violent against the man accomplish except you going to jail and him banging your wife while he recovers and getting get well soon BJs |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:44:39 PM EDT
[#29]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Ok that’s just weird. What about email? Do you get BCC’d on every work email where she has to communicate with a man? I have to communicate with the office girls all day long via texting on company devices. I don’t take them to lunch and we only communicate about work and during work. Why not just have her stay home and locked in the kitchen to avoid temptation? My wife's texts to men are probably 6 texts per year, not often. She's a stay at home mom with a couple part time jobs here and there. I don't ask her to do it, she just does it and I ignore them. If it makes her feel more respectful, I won't complain, as she did it on her own accord. I told her she didn't need to. Email... we have the passwords to each others email, but my wife hates computers, so she doesn't use email much. She always complains to me when people send her email. I don't have Facebook, so people often think she's single, but she doesn't friend dudes either. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:44:58 PM EDT
[#30]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This is not directed at any specific individual so I’m not quoting anyone before saying it. I got bad news for most of you - if your wife/gf has the inclination and desire to cheat on you, there is not a fucking thing you can do to stop her, regardless of your overbearing monitoring and observation of her private correspondence. If anything you will make her more open to the possibility of jumping on another guy’s yardstick as soon as she realizes there are dudes out there who won’t sniff her panties at the end of every day checking for signs of another dude’s presence. “Guys, I’ve recently noticed that my wife has a tendency of looking at things. Things other than me. Who’s the best divorce attorney I can afford?!” Jesus fuck I honestly don’t know how some of you guys function in society these days Because it is a matter of respect for each other, neither would allow themselves to participate in such manner. It borns mistrust. Would I do that to my wife? Fuck no. Would I want my wife to do that to me? Fuck no. Would my wife want me to do that to her? Fuck no. Would my wife want to do that to me me? Fuck no. These are things the two should talk about. Not just finances, what the kids have going on, where we’re going to dinner. Got to talk about your fears to one another. ETA: I mean, straight up - I’m not ashamed to admit I’m afraid of losing my wife. I love her. I love our family. I’d never want that destroyed by Jodie. I kill the motehrfucker. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:45:57 PM EDT
[#31]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Major blow out time with the wife. Looks like I'm heading out in the Daniel Boone National Forest near me and downing a pint. Fuck all this. 19 years of marriage and work two jobs to give us a good life and some dickhead motherfucker can try to slide on in using the Cross as his method. Of course, she doesn't realize that this is what he's doing and is somewhat defensive. If she is becoming defensive that is definitely a bad sign. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:46:56 PM EDT
[#32]
I will say this, if your girl’s talking to other dudes on Snapchat, pepper your angus. That app might as well be called Evidence-B-Gone
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:46:59 PM EDT
[#33]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Why would it increase the chance? If your partner not leaving you is dependent on them not meeting or communicating with other people... that's a problem. Mental gymnastics, and now word games. We're not talking about "meeting or communicating with other people", we are talking about engaging in private messages with other men while married. Your bending of words and narrative is reminiscent of MSM reporting. If the truth is on your side, why obfuscate? And why would it increase the chance? Because anyone with common sense knows that's the outcome. But for those without it, a quick Google search shows Facebook is mentioned in 30% of divorce filings. Eta - https://www.divorcewriter.com/facebook-and-divorce |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:47:38 PM EDT
[#34]
Quote HistoryQuoted: My wife will not friend any men on Facebook. She considers it to be playing with fire. We give each other passwords to our accounts and phones. If she texts a dude, even for her job, she puts me on the text. I didn’t ask for any of this, but wife came from a previous marriage where her husband cheated, so we just agreed on ground rules and both follow them. And that's the way it should be.... In some religions they say when a man and woman are in the room together, the devil is the 3rd party. And, as much as I can't stand Pence (now that he has revealed himself to be a shit and a traitor), I always respected the "Pence rule" when it comes to his dealigns with women who aren't his wife...He won't be alone with them. Billy Graham had a similar practice: https://www.beautifulchristianlife.com/blog/5-biblical-reasons-why-the-billy-graham-rule-shows-wisdom There's also Jewish sayings/old stories about a Rabbi not even standing near a store on the Sabbath - because at the end of the day, appearances matter. In sum, no one is saying not to trust your SO, but humans are part animal and limiting interactions not only can protect ourselves from subcoming to basic instincts it will avoid the "appearance" of impropriety. I am all for women not talking to, etc. with any man that is not their husband/SO and/or a male relative. I do not believe it is meant to "control" women, it is to "protect" them (especially from rapist, stalkers, etc.). |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:47:46 PM EDT
[#35]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Pics ? @rtlm https://i.imgur.com/pktrL2a.jpg This was from a couple years ago. They are quite a bit gray now. Males on the left females on the right. She’s about a year older than him. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:48:40 PM EDT
[#36]
Quote HistoryYour girl fucking other men? Send her my way then. I’ll make you both happy. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:49:26 PM EDT
[#37]
Shes hiding contact and making excuses when discovered.
She at the least is enjoying the attention. Time to draw a line. Bitches respect strength so dont be weak. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:49:29 PM EDT
[#38]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I agree. Men and women can't be friends. Women with men friends are only staying in touch to keep them as a potential simp option. Some would say that most women really only love their parents and children. That husbands, boyfriends and other men are looked at as providers to take care of their needs, and not capable of true love. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: I'm a firm believer that men and women are unable to be "just friends".. Maybe the woman is serious when she says friends only but the dude is simply just waiting his turn, almost always.. But yeah it's a no for me I agree. Men and women can't be friends. Women with men friends are only staying in touch to keep them as a potential simp option. Some would say that most women really only love their parents and children. That husbands, boyfriends and other men are looked at as providers to take care of their needs, and not capable of true love. I think more and more are realizing this |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:49:29 PM EDT
[#39]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Wife is just as guilty what does being violent against the man accomplish except you going to jail and him banging your wife while he recovers and getting get well soon BJs What if he gets his ass kicked by his wife's huge new online friend. That would be embarassing. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:49:33 PM EDT
[#40]
Quote HistoryQuoted: @rtlm https://i.imgur.com/pktrL2a.jpg This was from a couple years ago. They are quite a bit gray now. Good looking pointers. A pointer on point in the field is a thing of beauty. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:50:01 PM EDT
[#41]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Mental gymnastics, and now word games. We're not talking about "meeting or communicating with other people", we are talking about engaging in private messages with other men while married. Your bending of words and narrative is reminiscent of MSM reporting. If the truth is on your side, why obfuscate? And why would it increase the chance? Because anyone with common sense knows that's the outcome. But for those without it, a quick Google search shows Facebook is mentioned in 30% of divorce filings. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Why would it increase the chance? If your partner not leaving you is dependent on them not meeting or communicating with other people... that's a problem. Mental gymnastics, and now word games. We're not talking about "meeting or communicating with other people", we are talking about engaging in private messages with other men while married. Your bending of words and narrative is reminiscent of MSM reporting. If the truth is on your side, why obfuscate? And why would it increase the chance? Because anyone with common sense knows that's the outcome. But for those without it, a quick Google search shows Facebook is mentioned in 30% of divorce filings. That’s like blaming guns for shootings. If your wife cheats on you, using Facebook, it is your wife’s fault, not Facebook’s fault. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:50:03 PM EDT
[#42]
She's having an "emotional Affair" with said crap weasel. she needs to stop it. Hopefully When Op said he was going out to the Forest he wasn't contemplating something doing anything to himself. It sounded kinda dark to me.
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:50:35 PM EDT
[#43]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Your girl fucking other men? Send her my way then. I’ll make you both happy. Not mine lol |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:52:16 PM EDT
[#44]
Quote HistoryQuoted: That's like blaming guns for shootings. If your wife cheats on you, using Facebook, it is your wife's fault, not Facebook's fault. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Why would it increase the chance? If your partner not leaving you is dependent on them not meeting or communicating with other people... that's a problem. Mental gymnastics, and now word games. We're not talking about "meeting or communicating with other people", we are talking about engaging in private messages with other men while married. Your bending of words and narrative is reminiscent of MSM reporting. If the truth is on your side, why obfuscate? And why would it increase the chance? Because anyone with common sense knows that's the outcome. But for those without it, a quick Google search shows Facebook is mentioned in 30% of divorce filings. That's like blaming guns for shootings. If your wife cheats on you, using Facebook, it is your wife's fault, not Facebook's fault. You're right. Using FB is not bad. Using FB to private message men other than your husband, is. Eta, and it is common, and as the link shows, detrimental to marriage. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:53:13 PM EDT
[#45]
Quote HistoryQuoted: What if he gets his ass kicked by his wife's huge new online friend. That would be embarassing. This is true and he would not get the get well soon BJs. |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:53:43 PM EDT
[#46]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Similar. I see nothing wrong with her actions in a vacuum. But he doesn't trust her. That's a separate issue. Maybe her fault. Maybe his. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: I have female friends, and my wife has guy friends. If you don’t trust her, get a new wife that you can. This. It sounds like OP and his wife have bigger fish to fry than just this guy DMing OP's wife. Similar. I see nothing wrong with her actions in a vacuum. But he doesn't trust her. That's a separate issue. Maybe her fault. Maybe his. So in other words, you really had nothing to say at all except the thrill you get from interjecting yourself into yet another thread, that high must be so amazing |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:54:04 PM EDT
[#47]
Eject
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:54:21 PM EDT
[#48]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Good looking pointers. A pointer on point in the field is a thing of beauty. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: @rtlm https://i.imgur.com/pktrL2a.jpg This was from a couple years ago. They are quite a bit gray now. Good looking pointers. A pointer on point in the field is a thing of beauty. Indeed |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:54:50 PM EDT
[#49]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This is not directed at any specific individual so I’m not quoting anyone before saying it. I got bad news for most of you - if your wife/gf has the inclination and desire to cheat on you, there is not a fucking thing you can do to stop her, regardless of your overbearing monitoring and observation of her private correspondence. If anything you will make her more open to the possibility of jumping on another guy’s yardstick as soon as she realizes there are dudes out there who won’t sniff her panties at the end of every day checking for signs of another dude’s presence. “Guys, I’ve recently noticed that my wife has a tendency of looking at things. Things other than me. Who’s the best divorce attorney I can afford?!” Jesus fuck I honestly don’t know how some of you guys function in society these days True to a degree, but when you dont put yourself in front of the truck you have a better chance of not being run over by it.... |
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Posted: 9/8/2022 5:55:59 PM EDT
[#50]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This is true and he would not get the get well soon BJs. It would settle the question of who the Alpha is at least. |
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