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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:20:46 PM EST
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:21:55 PM EST
[#2]
I have no idea what woman want or think. Learning from college the past few years, what that person said sounds right to me
Now, back to /r/foreveralone |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:24:55 PM EST
[#3]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I have no idea what woman want or think. Back to /r/foreveralone for me |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:24:56 PM EST
[#4]
Quote HistoryI first recognized the pattern as a young married man with unmarried coworkers. The attractive females would reject multiple offers from quality men in order to play the field. Then when they got older and wanted to settle down such men were no longer interested in them. But that blog is the first complete life cycle description of the entire process I've seen. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:25:03 PM EST
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Reddit, isn't that a neckbeard haven where guys all worry about "alphaness" yes ? so I don't need to read it to know its probably wrong.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:25:37 PM EST
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Sounds about right.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:25:52 PM EST
[#7]
When the Japs perfect the "Bimbobot 2000".
The women who believe they are all that... Will realize what has always been the truth. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:27:17 PM EST
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Someone else described the same thing.
Societal programing plays a large role in this. The whole feminist movement discredits the male and on the promise of "Go girl!" or "Girl Power!" a woman is told she can have everything she wants. Then around 35-40 she figures out she's been duped, used and can't compete against her younger siblings. Oh well. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:29:25 PM EST
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Unfortunately he failed to write about the true women like Jane that got pregnant.
 I have a 27 year old niece that is identical to Jane except she has two baby daddies. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:30:13 PM EST
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I've just seen EXACTLY this scenario played out twice, and both are female retired cops. Anyone who knows my secret identity can easily deduce which two.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:30:49 PM EST
[#11]
It applies to about 20% of the female population. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:32:10 PM EST
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I come to ARF to be told that I'm actually a deluded, gold-digging whore, because that's what all women are. If I deny it, I'm just in denial. Some guy I've never met will educate me about my 'true' nature. He's got women all figured out, see. We're all secretly shallow whores, or if we haven't shown that side of ourselves, it's only a matter of time. These men have all the answers, know all the patterns. It's no use denying my 'real' self.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:33:55 PM EST
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SMV = Sexual Market Value. When a person is seen in public with an attractive and charming partner, their SMV goes up, meaning they become more attractive to other potential partners.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:34:01 PM EST
[#14]
CC?
SMV? * ah, thank you. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:36:36 PM EST
[#15]
Quote HistoryQuoted:
SMV = Sexual Market Value. When a person is seen in public with an attractive and charming partner, their SMV goes up, meaning they become more attractive to other potential partners. Youth, height, fitness, fertility, wealth, humor, self confidence, ect all contribute to Sexual Market Value. There are calculators online if you want to determine yours 
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:37:09 PM EST
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Springsteen's song "Glory Days" was about women too.
I have a POF profile and I see these women all the time. They're usually holding a Bud Light or fruity drink and wearing outfits geared for college-aged women. Only the author's perception has changed. People have had the "I was beautiful once, dammit!" attitude since people were invented. At 47 years old I feel that my best days are in front of me, not behind me. I'd like for a woman to come along for the journey, but it's not necessary. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:37:21 PM EST
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CC? SMV? * ah, thank you. CC = cock carousel. She's not ready to settle down yet. She's still riding the cock carousel. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:37:35 PM EST
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I only use reddit for porn.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:37:47 PM EST
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STOP MANPLAINING
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:38:21 PM EST
[#20]
That sounds like it could basically describe a bunch of dudes too.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:38:22 PM EST
[#21]
Men have to play along for that to work.
I didn't read the whole thing, some people want commitment (even as late teens) not banging from person to person. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:39:19 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I first recognized the pattern as a young married man with unmarried coworkers. The attractive females would reject multiple offers from quality men in order to play the field. Then when they got older and wanted to settle down such men were no longer interested in them. But that blog is the first complete life cycle description of the entire process I've seen. Quote HistoryQuoted: I first recognized the pattern as a young married man with unmarried coworkers. The attractive females would reject multiple offers from quality men in order to play the field. Then when they got older and wanted to settle down such men were no longer interested in them. But that blog is the first complete life cycle description of the entire process I've seen. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:44:04 PM EST
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Men have to play along for that to work. I didn't read the whole thing, some people want commitment (even as late teens) not banging from person to person. Yes. Men enable the whole thing by our willingness to have sex with lessor quality women because it's just sex. Guys that are a 7 and want a relationship can't get a chick that's a 7. Because she's used to sex with 8s and 9s giving her inflated self worth. It's kinda men's fault. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:45:16 PM EST
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Ladder theory.
There is a lot of truth for large swaths of the population, but the article make too many sweeping generalizations. There certainly is a culture problem though. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:45:33 PM EST
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May be true for some girls
I have noticed as a 29 year old single guy in the medical field, most of the young, attractive girls (20-25 or so) I work with/around, or just generally know from school etc. have already settled down. I personally have never really met any of the girls described, save for a couple of girls I knew in high school who used to be hot, and think they still are despite the past 10 years not being kind to them at all. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:47:42 PM EST
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When the Japs perfect the "Bimbobot 2000". The women who believe they are all that... Will realize what has always been the truth. Sexbots will change the evolution of mankind. A truer, fairer existence for all. No more leverage games. True social justice. Now the followup sexbot spontaneous on demand out in public gladiator games will rock! But then the AI revolution against the organics will spell the doom of humanity. It's gonna rock! |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:48:49 PM EST
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I'm doing my part to break this behavior among women. I recently friendzoned a 6/10 chick and denied her sex. She as strong hinting that she needed to get laid, but i dont want to give her false hope that she can get wit someone like me. Granted im no Brad pitt but i no my SMV is higher than hers.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:49:04 PM EST
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After reading the first few lines before I quit. I think.........
If the author is a male.....he probably needs to spend less time writing and thinking about it. And more time ___________. If the author is a female....she's gonna end up being another male basher. So hate on. If the author is unsure of their own gender.....well, it proves that they be crazy. Aloha, Mark PS....I believe the author is a male. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:49:14 PM EST
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When I read a narrative like this, I feel they should include a current picture of the author.
Yes, I'm insinuating they're fat weirdos. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:49:26 PM EST
[#30]
The fuck is SMV?
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:50:17 PM EST
[#31]
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That sounds like it could basically describe a bunch of dudes too. I think the dude problem is more complacancy. They pick a gal and think that's it I'm done. They then begin to treat thier woman like shit or let themselves go. If you remain desireable to your spouse she will desire you, pretty simple really. Worked for me 1O years now but who know what the future holds. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:51:18 PM EST
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The only thing I can really agree on is if a man or woman is in their mid-30s and never married there is a damn good reason for it and you should always proceed with caution......Otherwise it seemed more of a white millennial 1st world problem type of thing. 
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:51:50 PM EST
[#33]
As a male RN I see this occasionally.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:53:32 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted:
May be true for some girls I have noticed as a 29 year old single guy in the medical field, most of the young, attractive girls (20-25 or so) I work with/around, or just generally know from school etc. have already settled down. I personally have never really met any of the girls described, save for a couple of girls I knew in high school who used to be hot, and think they still are despite the past 10 years not being kind to them at all. In the medical field, once they've bagged a MD, PA, pharmacist, they probably wont want to give that up. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:54:56 PM EST
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I don't know if it's right or wrong as a generalization but I know someone who literally checks every one of those boxes.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:55:40 PM EST
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Dad always told me that you have to look in the mirror of life and reevaluate your self perception from time to time when you are young, and more often as
you age. Had an Ex that thought the grass was greener, but by her own admission she married a lessor version of me. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:56:02 PM EST
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As a male RN I see this occasionally. You do see it more in certain fields. Law enforcement, military, firefighting. There are two theories why: women with higher than average testosterone are drawn to those fields and more sexually active. Or women are only as faithfull as their options and in those male dominated fields they have lots of options. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:58:26 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: That is when they also start to sabotage relationships of many other women as well. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: I first recognized the pattern as a young married man with unmarried coworkers. The attractive females would reject multiple offers from quality men in order to play the field. Then when they got older and wanted to settle down such men were no longer interested in them. But that blog is the first complete life cycle description of the entire process I've seen. There is no doubt that happens. My wife deals with it constantly at work. She is pretty good at shrugging it off. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:01:30 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: You do see it more in certain fields. Law enforcement, military, firefighting. There are two theories why: women with higher than average testosterone are drawn to those fields and more sexually active. Or women are only as faithfull as their options and in those male dominated fields they have lots of options. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: As a male RN I see this occasionally. You do see it more in certain fields. Law enforcement, military, firefighting. There are two theories why: women with higher than average testosterone are drawn to those fields and more sexually active. Or women are only as faithfull as their options and in those male dominated fields they have lots of options. Almost every female cop I had the chance to encounter picked the field so they could just be around a lot of dick. I specifically can think of one that didn't. I would have trusted my life to her as a partner as well, but we worked at neighboring departments, not the same one. She was also the only female cop I know that was in really good at her job. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:03:21 PM EST
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Pro tip: They don't either. They just want it all and the best. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I have no idea what woman want or think. Back to /r/foreveralone for me Close. The women I knew/know just want: "MORE" |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:04:23 PM EST
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The fallacy in this whole discussion is that life is not all about "banging" people. Not even close.
The shallowness here is unbelievable. Where are the people with substance? |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:04:44 PM EST
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That applies to low self esteem people in general. The ones choosing mates based on a visual/monetary gain percentile are obviously low self esteem/low self worth and shallow, regardless of what they portray to others or tell themselves. It might apply to those types of folks, but most everyone I know that is happily married or in a healthy stable relationship would probably say they don't look at it that way, including myself.
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:10:09 PM EST
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It applies to about 20% of the female population. Oh, no. It's eighty percent. Just ask them. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:10:11 PM EST
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The fallacy in this whole discussion is that life is not all about "banging" people. Not even close. The shallowness here is unbelievable. Where are the people with substance? I'm gonna go with they don't post stuff like this on reddit because they aren't ill adjusted shallow people and already have it figured out. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:10:38 PM EST
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Workout for 30 mins a day, become in top percentile in this nation of the obese, take your pick of ladies?
Doesn't seem hard to me. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:11:04 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted:
That applies to low self esteem people in general. The ones choosing mates based on a visual/monetary gain percentile are obviously low self esteem/low self worth and shallow, regardless of what they portray to others or tell themselves. It might apply to those types of folks, but most everyone I know that is happily married or in a healthy stable relationship would probably say they don'5 look at it that way, including myself. "Jane" doesn't look at it that way either. She doesn't really understand why she does it if she even realizes she is doing it. Because feels. It's evolution, guys suppossed to spread his seed, woman's supposed to mate with the highest value male. I don't blame Jane. Biology made her that way. It's my job to understand biology made her that way and to make my decisions knowing that truth. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:11:32 PM EST
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I got left for a woman if that says anything
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:11:47 PM EST
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Oh, no. It's eighty percent. Just ask them. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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It applies to about 20% of the female population. Oh, no. It's eighty percent. Just ask them. If we ask "them" it's 100% AWALT |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:14:06 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: The fallacy in this whole discussion is that life is not all about "banging" people. Not even close. The shallowness here is unbelievable. Where are the people with substance? If you are out cruising the dating scene, they are few and far between. They are out living their lives and not spending all of their time worrying about relationships. |
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Posted: 10/2/2016 2:14:24 PM EST
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Workout for 30 mins a day, become in top percentile in this nation of the obese, take your pick of ladies? Doesn't seem hard to me. You answered a question not asked. those that understand that blog post have no trouble getting laid. As soon as I stopped treating women the way women told me they wanted to be treated, I had access to more women than ever before. Unsolicited declarations of love. Accusations of broken hearts. Women competing for me knowing they are competing with others. Because I stopped treating them the way every woman in my life from my mother, sister to ex wife told me they wanted to be treated. Turns out those were pretty lies. |
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