Warning

 

Close

Confirm Action

Are you sure you wish to do this?

Confirm Cancel
BCM
User Panel

Site Notices
Page / 6
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:30:20 PM EDT
[#1]
Just answer the phone, sport.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:30:30 PM EDT
[#2]
Because it takes me 30 seconds to leave a voicemail that has all the details of what I need to say. Yeah, not going to spend 5 minutes sending a test message that contains all the info in that one voicemail.

Better question is why you young punks can't actually communicate in a meaningful way. You'd rather waste an hour going back and forth with text messages instead of a 30 second phone call. Much as I hate talking on the phone, it's a one and done thing.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:30:30 PM EDT
[#3]
Quoted:
... trying to leave voicemail when calling someone who specifically told you to text them?

Why are you not texting people?

Do you not like the fact that there is a transcribed document that is proof of something you said? Do you say dumb shit constantly?

Is new technology not for you? Do you have trouble tying your shoes in the morning? Do you have velcro sneakers?

Have you not talked to people in years because of this? Are you living in shame? Or do you just talk to f****** much?

What's the reason?

Please surprise me by actually typing out your response. You get double the points if you did it on your smartphone. You get triple the points if you use one you own and not your child's.
View Quote
Voice calls are for something that needs an answer RFN.  On the other hand if it goes to voicemail, it's time to send an email.
Email is for things that just need to be done relatively soon.
I maybe check texts once a day.  Some days I don't bother.

I've found that some people text.  Some people use voice calls.  Some use email.   If you're dealing w/ someone it's often best to use the method that works to get their attention.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:32:09 PM EDT
[#4]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Well then I guess you're not talking to me are you?
View Quote View All Quotes
View All Quotes
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Quoted:

Your not my boss
Well then I guess you're not talking to me are you?
Nope - nor would i care to, thank you.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:34:56 PM EDT
[#5]
OP has maturity issues. You know we old folk just don't care what your preference is? We have preferences too. 1: We know you will delete a message and claim you never got it. 2: If you have that thin a skin, we'll call every time just to piss you off. It's called entertainment.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:34:58 PM EDT
[#6]
I wonder if the irony is lost on all the angry boomers, that OP got you to communicate with him through text right now.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:35:37 PM EDT
[#7]
If it's like here some spelling/grammar Nazi would be on the other end.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:35:37 PM EDT
[#8]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:

If you have something important to say, call me. If not, I probably won't read the text for a day or two
View Quote
I am one of the old people OP is addressing.
The above pretty much sums up my take on his very childish screed.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:36:12 PM EDT
[#9]
Why is OP so Age-ist?  Back to diversity training for you.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:40:08 PM EDT
[#10]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Because we still have social skills and actually talk to people.
View Quote
Right here!
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:42:37 PM EDT
[#11]
I'm afraid of the consequences of leaving voicemail.

I was born.  I cried.  North Korea attacked South Korea.  Coincidence?  Maybe, but I don't want to start WWIII.

So I text.  I changed the voicemail number to 5555555555 so I wouldn't get any voicemails.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:50:40 PM EDT
[#12]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Because it takes me 30 seconds to leave a voicemail that has all the details of what I need to say. Yeah, not going to spend 5 minutes sending a test message that contains all the info in that one voicemail.

Better question is why you young punks can't actually communicate in a meaningful way. You'd rather waste an hour going back and forth with text messages instead of a 30 second phone call. Much as I hate talking on the phone, it's a one and done thing.
View Quote
The young punks also can't spell and never had a class in grammar. It's better to call and hang up when done talking. Texting my grandmother would be problematic as she is legally blind. She loves to hear a human voice though.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:57:33 PM EDT
[#13]
#ZFG about the opinion of a non-team member from Armenia.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:57:54 PM EDT
[#14]
Hey kid.  Don't be a dick.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 12:58:09 PM EDT
[#15]
That does it OP, now I am really mad................................
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:03:30 PM EDT
[#16]
OP does not realize many "old people" have got along just fine without texting their entire life.

At this point all I have to know is how to dial 911.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:03:47 PM EDT
[#17]
I'm reading a lot of excuses right now.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:13:52 PM EDT
[#18]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
I'm reading a lot of excuses right now.
View Quote
For people who do things differently than you?   Texts are fucking annoying when you want to transfer any significant amount of info.  Either call or send an email.   Your argument is a whiny case of "Stop liking things I don't like!"
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:14:21 PM EDT
[#19]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
my fav is when Aging Boomer goes to type his porn search terms into Google or Bing, but doesn't realize that he's actually posting a message on his facebook wall instead.
View Quote
why would I want a facebook wall?
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:21:56 PM EDT
[#20]
Why are you children so damn afraid or incapable of conversation?  Do you get nervous, tongue tied, or weak in the knees when you have to actually speak with another person?  I get that talking with your thumbs is less threatening to you, and it keeps you in your safe space, but it's really not an effective form of communication beyond the simplest of messages.

Be brave.  Answer the damn phone.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:22:47 PM EDT
[#21]
Leave us old people your e-mail and phone number so we can text and e-mail you.
I think most of us would love to piss you off.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:23:57 PM EDT
[#22]
ITT we have dozens of people playing the OPs game
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:25:18 PM EDT
[#23]
Quoted:
... trying to leave voicemail when calling someone who specifically told you to text them?

Why are you not texting people?

Do you not like the fact that there is a transcribed document that is proof of something you said? Do you say dumb shit constantly?

Is new technology not for you? Do you have trouble tying your shoes in the morning? Do you have velcro sneakers?

Have you not talked to people in years because of this? Are you living in shame? Or do you just talk to f****** much?

What's the reason?

Please surprise me by actually typing out your response. You get double the points if you did it on your smartphone. You get triple the points if you use one you own and not your child's.
View Quote
Maybe they hoped to reach you when they called, and have a meaningful conversation --  instead of a series cryptic text messages that take longer to resolve an issue than conversing with someone (texts are the equivalent of a telegraph from 125 years ago - they serve a purpose, but not best for everything).
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:28:36 PM EDT
[#24]
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:29:04 PM EDT
[#25]
cry me a river....lower case....
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:29:17 PM EDT
[#26]
I love when dumbasses send me a text wanting me to do something I don't really want to do.

Nope, Sorry I didn't get your text.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:30:12 PM EDT
[#27]
text.  dont bother calling me, i wont answer.  Im 40
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:32:28 PM EDT
[#28]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
This right here.

Every fucking old person I encounter is an obviously lonely gasbag who wants to ear rape you for an hour with the same story they told you last week about some lame shit that happened when they were in high school 50 years ago.

I just want the information, not your fucking life's story.
View Quote View All Quotes
View All Quotes
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Quoted:

I hate taking calls.

If you have something important to say, write a concise text or email that I can read in 10-20 seconds instead of your rambling vm or phone call.
This right here.

Every fucking old person I encounter is an obviously lonely gasbag who wants to ear rape you for an hour with the same story they told you last week about some lame shit that happened when they were in high school 50 years ago.

I just want the information, not your fucking life's story.
Not every topic can be condensed to 20 seconds of reading, but maybe you have very simple lives that involve no complex topics. Trying to get the younger generation to even scroll past the preview pane on an email is nearly impossible.  In my experience the younger generation is fucking hopeless at communication - they don't read what they're sent, they don't converse, and they're dumb enough to be arrogant about their shortcoming.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:33:08 PM EDT
[#29]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
I wonder if the irony is lost on all the angry boomers, that OP got you to communicate with him through text right now.
View Quote
/thread
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:36:45 PM EDT
[#30]
Looks like some snot nosed puke needs a good,swift kick in the duck.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:39:08 PM EDT
[#31]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
It is, but it's not as efficient as you think for many people.

The damn phone can't understand my east Kentucky hillbilly accent, so I have to manually correct half the message, or I have to take time to figure out what pronunciation the phone will understand, then slowly enunciate.
View Quote View All Quotes
View All Quotes
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Quoted:

Ah voice texting is a thing, you know that right?
It is, but it's not as efficient as you think for many people.

The damn phone can't understand my east Kentucky hillbilly accent, so I have to manually correct half the message, or I have to take time to figure out what pronunciation the phone will understand, then slowly enunciate.
This.  Voice to text works for messages like "pick up milk on the way home", but it's worthless for anything technical like "make sure they check the cardan shaft angles after they re-mount the drive".  The autocorrect on that one was amusing at least.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:43:14 PM EDT
[#32]
If you won't pick up the phone you're not worth my time sending you a text.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:43:46 PM EDT
[#33]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
/thread
View Quote View All Quotes
View All Quotes
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Quoted:
I wonder if the irony is lost on all the angry boomers, that OP got you to communicate with him through text right now.
/thread
No irony.   I was born at the end of the boomer era, and I am not angry about technology choices.  I use text, e-mail, voice mail, I send letters and cards, I use typing on forums like AR15.COM, I meet with people in person, and speak to them by phone.  They each have merit.  The irony is youngsters not choosing the best tool for the job -- or being in business and not realizing the market may not only want to use the one they have limited themselves to.

Do youngsters only text fast food orders on their phone for delivery, or do some drive up to the establishment and place an order into the scary voice box?   Do some venture so far as to go sit inside for a relaxing meal?  I guess the angry old world should only get their food by texting and deliver so as not to piss off the youngsters.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:49:07 PM EDT
[#34]
Lol we do it to piss off smart asses like you.....and it works!

On to the next one!
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:51:25 PM EDT
[#35]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
I Hate texts.

If you have something important to say, call me. If not, I probably won’t read the text for a day or two
View Quote
This.  I send about ten texts a year.

My father-in-law, who is 93, texts all the time.  More power to him.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:53:00 PM EDT
[#36]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
No irony.   I was born at the end of the boomer era, and I am not angry about technology choices.  I use text, e-mail, voice mail, I send letters and cards, I use typing on forums like AR15.COM, I meet with people in person, and speak to them by phone.  They each have merit.  The irony is youngsters not choosing the best tool for the job -- or being in business and not realizing the market may not only want to use the one they have limited themselves to.

Do youngsters only text fast food orders on their phone for delivery, or do some drive up to the establishment and place an order into the scary voice box?   Do some venture so far as to go sit inside for a relaxing meal?  I guess the angry old world should only get their food by texting and deliver so as not to piss off the youngsters.
View Quote View All Quotes
View All Quotes
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
I wonder if the irony is lost on all the angry boomers, that OP got you to communicate with him through text right now.
/thread
No irony.   I was born at the end of the boomer era, and I am not angry about technology choices.  I use text, e-mail, voice mail, I send letters and cards, I use typing on forums like AR15.COM, I meet with people in person, and speak to them by phone.  They each have merit.  The irony is youngsters not choosing the best tool for the job -- or being in business and not realizing the market may not only want to use the one they have limited themselves to.

Do youngsters only text fast food orders on their phone for delivery, or do some drive up to the establishment and place an order into the scary voice box?   Do some venture so far as to go sit inside for a relaxing meal?  I guess the angry old world should only get their food by texting and deliver so as not to piss off the youngsters.
This is the answer here.   You use the best method of transmitting the information in the situation, but you need to remember different people communicate differently and you can't expect them to default to the same methods you use.  If I'm dealing w/ a network admin to put hardware on their network I'm generally going to talk to them voice to make sure we all understand what's happening, then I'll send them email w/ all the information to actually do it.   If someone wants me to pickup something on the way home a text is good for small amounts of info as a reminder.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:53:02 PM EDT
[#37]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Not every topic can be condensed to 20 seconds of reading, but maybe you have very simple lives that involve no complex topics. Trying to get the younger generation to even scroll past the preview pane on an email is nearly impossible.  In my experience the younger generation is fucking hopeless at communication - they don't read what they're sent, they don't converse, and they're dumb enough to be arrogant about their shortcoming.
View Quote View All Quotes
View All Quotes
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:

I hate taking calls.

If you have something important to say, write a concise text or email that I can read in 10-20 seconds instead of your rambling vm or phone call.
This right here.

Every fucking old person I encounter is an obviously lonely gasbag who wants to ear rape you for an hour with the same story they told you last week about some lame shit that happened when they were in high school 50 years ago.

I just want the information, not your fucking life's story.
Not every topic can be condensed to 20 seconds of reading, but maybe you have very simple lives that involve no complex topics. Trying to get the younger generation to even scroll past the preview pane on an email is nearly impossible.  In my experience the younger generation is fucking hopeless at communication - they don't read what they're sent, they don't converse, and they're dumb enough to be arrogant about their shortcoming.
I'm an engineer. Send me a diagram and a succinct message. If it bears conversation, we can talk about it later, at my convenience, after I've read your message and digested your diagram.

Calling someone and insisting they talk to you RFN is the height of rudeness in my world. Everyone is busy, and I'm usually multi-tasking with at least one phone line, if not two already tied up on a conference call.

If you're text averse, and insist I talk to you, then at least send me a short message that says "Hey, when you get a minute, I need to talk to you about X, give me a call please."
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:55:26 PM EDT
[#38]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:My wife said I was until she considered 1) it's extra cost to access voicemail on Tracphone 2) I could read a text covertly at work, but I CANNOT put a personal phone up to my ear. Company policy when on the sales floor.
View Quote
I'm one of those strange people who doesn't carry his phone at work.  If someone really needs to reach me, they can call the store directly.  I'm here to work and hang out on ARFCOM, not chat on the phone.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 1:56:02 PM EDT
[#39]
I do what's convenient.  Short texts.  If I need to convey more than 2 pieces of information, it's going to be a phone call (and probably a reminder text/email if it's something I actually care about).

I use voice-to-text a lot, but it means I also spend a lot of time arguing with my phone.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:06:00 PM EDT
[#40]
Sorry OP, it was me. Had to use a payphone(you know how hard those are to find?)

Anyways, when I got done with your mom, she wanted something to remind her of me, so she took my phone, took a picture of me and put it on vibrate and shoved it up her coochie. I just wanted to ask you if you'd tell your mom to give it back.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:06:35 PM EDT
[#41]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
You could just leave your voicemail full like a normal person.
View Quote
Best answer.

Especially if you get wound up like a 20 ball tomcat because an oldster leaves you a voice message.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:09:58 PM EDT
[#42]
Just fax it to me, I will look at it later
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:10:06 PM EDT
[#43]
I don't have my voice mail set up, and haven't for a decade.

I did this to prevent certain people from filling it with twenty minutes of incoherent rambling, with the reason they called vaguely hidden somewhere in the middle of it. These same people treat phone calls the same way, and you can't have a conversation with them, because you can't get a word in.

They have to text me, and it forces them to pare it down to the essentials.

If you're not one of those people I'll pick up when you call, but I would prefer the text. I'm usually driving or working and don't need to be dicking with a phone. I'll check it when I get a minute.

It's obviously different if it's a business or work contact, as opposed to a personal contact that just wants to bullshit about what the dog did last week.

I also can't send memes or links over voice.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:10:10 PM EDT
[#44]
Total geezer here. I prefer text messages for most communication. I can look at it when I get a chance. If you can't text it's going to be difficult for me to communicate with you. My geezer friends that don't text call me and want to sit on the phone for a half-hour, I ain't got time for that.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:15:21 PM EDT
[#45]
It's dependent on what needs to be conveyed in a conversation. Some discussions utilizing a text don't offer the proper context.

Plus, I'm not a basement dwelling, anti-social momma's boy either.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:17:43 PM EDT
[#46]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
Hate to break it to you but with a join of 2002, you are old too
View Quote
Came here to say this!

While I was finally, reluctantly dragged kicking and screaming into the world of texting a couple years ago, I still contend that
texting is a technological step backwards.

Now, leave me alone.   I'm going to join the two old guys up in the balcony to yell at the rest of the muppets.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:23:34 PM EDT
[#47]
Geezer (62) checking in. If I'm only asking or answering a question, I'd much rather text. Even if it's a relatively short "conversation" I'd usually rather text. There are few people I want to spend more than a couple of minutes on the phone with.

Sent from my iPad
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:23:37 PM EDT
[#48]
I dt tx n my od pn

y u cnt tk
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:26:29 PM EDT
[#49]
Simple, I don't have a data or text plan on my phone and I am not going to pay extra to get one, my smartphone costs me $10 bucks a month.
Link Posted: 1/28/2019 2:27:48 PM EDT
[#50]
Discussion ForumsJump to Quoted PostQuote History
Quoted:
We created the technology so fuck off.
View Quote
Really? You were on the design team?   Or do you just mean other people your age?  Fucking random.
Page / 6
Close Join Our Mail List to Stay Up To Date! Win a FREE Membership!

Sign up for the ARFCOM weekly newsletter and be entered to win a free ARFCOM membership. One new winner* is announced every week!

You will receive an email every Friday morning featuring the latest chatter from the hottest topics, breaking news surrounding legislation, as well as exclusive deals only available to ARFCOM email subscribers.


By signing up you agree to our User Agreement. *Must have a registered ARFCOM account to win.
Top Top