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If that is what you think is going on then the people you've watched are doing it wrong.
Spanking should be thought of as the logical conclusion of incorrect behavior. And that is how the real world works so I really don't understand your stance.
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My kid hasnt "needed" a spanking yet but to me, I see it as a failure of the parents resorting to beating because they were unable to to come up with anything better. You are in fact, smarter than a kid.
True that.
Teaching a child to resort to violence when logic and reasoning doesn't work will only set them up for failure in the real world where there is a general lack of logic and reason.
If that is what you think is going on then the people you've watched are doing it wrong.
Spanking should be thought of as the logical conclusion of incorrect behavior. And that is how the real world works so I really don't understand your stance.
I used to think it woudl b e agood idea to "spank" (which is a euphamism for hit) my child, before I had any, b/c ultimately, that is how the worl works, you break the man's rules, the police will cage you and give you a beating/shooting if you don't go along w/ the "consequences."
That is true, that if you come up against the man, force will be applied. Unfortunately, this occurs for any number of arbitrary rules of hte man, not just for real crimes w/ real victims. The state uses violence for any many of arbitray
malun prohibito BS. I want my kids to understand that if they commit aggression, the will, and should be met with force, but I don't want teach htem that it is right for force to be applied to them for breaking arbitrary rules and to view all reltion ships in terms of a struggle for domination rathar than negotiation and comproise.
I WILL NOT be accessory to the state in forming my children to arrange themselves in world in victim/victimizer dynamic. They will be formed to NEVER be an aggressor NOR a victim.