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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:05:24 PM EDT
[#1]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Are you the guy who waits about a year before asking girls out? Nope. I'm just the guy that doesn't get dates. 
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:05:59 PM EDT
[#2]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I mean that I try to avoid going out with them in the first place - it's usually pretty easy to pick out the SJW types right away, especially with some (maybe all now?) platforms going woke and offering ways to highlight just how much of a SJW you are. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: This is true, but doing it on the first date can scare off some of them unless they're more mature than most ?? I mean that I try to avoid going out with them in the first place - it's usually pretty easy to pick out the SJW types right away, especially with some (maybe all now?) platforms going woke and offering ways to highlight just how much of a SJW you are. That makes more sense 
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:12:51 PM EDT
[#3]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Nope. I'm just the guy that doesn't get dates. doesn't get dates or isn't good at dating? |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:14:38 PM EDT
[#4]
Quote HistoryQuoted: doesn't get dates or isn't good at dating? Both?
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:14:40 PM EDT
[#5]
Quote HistoryQuoted: That makes more sense Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: This is true, but doing it on the first date can scare off some of them unless they're more mature than most ?? I mean that I try to avoid going out with them in the first place - it's usually pretty easy to pick out the SJW types right away, especially with some (maybe all now?) platforms going woke and offering ways to highlight just how much of a SJW you are. That makes more sense One of the advantages of online dating. They're never shy about their wokeness - screening them out is so quick and easy. |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:14:54 PM EDT
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The quote is inaccurate. I doubt there are many women who aren't chill with women getting free food. The speaker meant men should be chill with women getting free food. By attempting to be inclusive, it misrepresents the issue. And, no, we don't need to chill. Previous posters got it right. Meet for coffee.
I once saw it with a Russian girl I dated once. She was cute and slender. She couldn't have weighed more than 110 lbs. We went to a nice seafood restaurant on the water. She ate an appetizer and wanted two entrees. I couldn't believe my eyes. She also got dessert. She ate twice what I did, and I was nearly twice her size. I don't think she had eaten much for days. It was amusing to watch, but that one evening did it for me. Have a nice life. |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:17:13 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: The quote is inaccurate. I doubt there are many women who aren't chill with women getting free food. The speaker meant men should be chill with women getting free food. By attempting to be inclusive, it misrepresents the issue. And, no, we don't need to chill. Previous posters got it right. Meet for coffee. I once saw it with a Russian girl I dated once. She was cute and slender. She couldn't have weighed more than 110 lbs. We went to a nice seafood restaurant on the water. She ate an appetizer and wanted two entrees. I couldn't believe my eyes. She also got dessert. She ate twice what I did, and I was nearly twice her size. I don't think she had eaten much for days. It was amusing to watch, but that one evening did it for me. Have a nice life. ooof 
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:17:28 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: One of the advantages of online dating. They're never shy about their wokeness - screening them out is so quick and easy. Pre-screening is a huge advantage of online dating. Unfortunately, it is also hampered by many people leaving their profiles mostly blank (and there are some that are likely just straight-up lying as well). I don't understand the point of having no profile unless you are solely on the platform looking for "casual relationships". It's particularly confounding on the platforms that purport to be the choices for those interested in something more serious / long-term. I do not understand that behavior. |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:19:58 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Pre-screening is a huge advantage of online dating. Unfortunately, it is also hampered by many people leaving their profiles mostly blank (and there are some that are likely just straight-up lying as well). I don't understand the point of having no profile unless you are solely on the platform looking for "casual relationships". It's particularly confounding on the platforms that purport to be the choices for those interested in something more serious / long-term. I do not understand that behavior. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: One of the advantages of online dating. They're never shy about their wokeness - screening them out is so quick and easy. Pre-screening is a huge advantage of online dating. Unfortunately, it is also hampered by many people leaving their profiles mostly blank (and there are some that are likely just straight-up lying as well). I don't understand the point of having no profile unless you are solely on the platform looking for "casual relationships". It's particularly confounding on the platforms that purport to be the choices for those interested in something more serious / long-term. I do not understand that behavior. automatic nope from me attention/validation might be a reason |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:22:08 PM EDT
[#10]
I had a doctor order a $18 brownie for desert, let me pay before abruptly leaving. Bizarre, so now I don’t do dates that cost more than $5 and usually free.
It’s a bigger problem with conservative, over-achiever type girls. |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:23:00 PM EDT
[#11]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I had a doctor order a $18 brownie for desert, let me pay before abruptly leaving. Bizarre, so now I don't do dates that cost more than $5 and usually free. It's a bigger problem with conservative, over-achiever type girls. was the brownie good? 
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:26:40 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: was the brownie good? Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: I had a doctor order a $18 brownie for desert, let me pay before abruptly leaving. Bizarre, so now I don't do dates that cost more than $5 and usually free. It's a bigger problem with conservative, over-achiever type girls. was the brownie good? I’m sure it wasn’t worth 18 damn dollars 
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:28:20 PM EDT
[#13]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Both? you gotta step up your clothes/fitness/grooming/personality/game/etc or you're gonna be alone and weird for a long time, brother.
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:28:50 PM EDT
[#14]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I'm sure it wasn't worth 18 damn dollars #lesad |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:29:02 PM EDT
[#15]
 Completely Honest First Date |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:32:48 PM EDT
[#16]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I had a doctor order a $18 brownie for desert, let me pay before abruptly leaving. Bizarre, so now I don’t do dates that cost more than $5 and usually free. It’s a bigger problem with conservative, over-achiever type girls. @hiyaboa oh? go on... |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:33:56 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I’m sure it wasn’t worth 18 damn dollars Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: I had a doctor order a $18 brownie for desert, let me pay before abruptly leaving. Bizarre, so now I don't do dates that cost more than $5 and usually free. It's a bigger problem with conservative, over-achiever type girls. was the brownie good? I’m sure it wasn’t worth 18 damn dollars maybe there were pot needlez in it 
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:41:39 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryLoL I then watched the Obgyn skit for the first time Good stuff LoL |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:42:01 PM EDT
[#19]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I stopped reading at the pay gap BS. But it's true! I read they only saved .12 on their July 4th barbecue.... 
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Posted: 7/13/2021 9:49:19 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Cook for her, put ex lax in dessert if she is just playing games. Make sure she drives HER car home.  Attached FileQue the “modern problems require modern solutions” meme that I can’t seem to find. |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 10:03:19 PM EDT
[#21]
Quote HistoryQuoted: you gotta step up your clothes/fitness/grooming/personality/game/etc or you're gonna be alone and weird for a long time, brother. I expect no more. I've been optimistic about finding somebody in the past, but I've become more and more of a realist as time goes on. A lifetime of rejection and dead-ends takes its toll, as does watching the clown world descend upon us. 
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Posted: 7/13/2021 10:09:09 PM EDT
[#22]
The “Gender Pay Gap” is a myth.
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Posted: 7/13/2021 10:09:41 PM EDT
[#23]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I expect no more. I've been optimistic about finding somebody in the past, but I've become more and more of a realist as time goes on. A lifetime of rejection and dead-ends takes its toll, as does watching the clown world descend upon us. https://media1.tenor.com/images/d4d8ff888610ff8768a95569284ccb98/tenor.gif?itemid=14029153 elaborate on this "lifetime of rejection and deadends" for us. |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 10:15:26 PM EDT
[#24]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Nope. I'm just the guy that doesn't get dates. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Are you the guy who waits about a year before asking girls out? Nope. I'm just the guy that doesn't get dates. Eh, just takes a few weeks of prep. Work out, lose weight, shave, get a hair cut. Maybe change cologne, everyone comments on the dollar store aqua velva “classic ice blue” I switched to. Keto and lifting is like magic. More bacon & eggs you eat, the More fat you lose, the more muscle you gain, the more women start eye-fucking you from across the room. Unless you’re like me, cursed with a mean-mugging look on your face, like a bulldog dragging his nutsack through a briar patch. Then you just need to look elsewhere for women, lol. Ran into quite a few college chicks that love a southern drawl, even more that said they liked me because I “looked mean.”  ETA: I see you’re in Ohio. There’s your first problem. I kid, I kid! |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 10:23:20 PM EDT
[#25]
@WhiskersTheCat
#winedanddined
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Posted: 7/13/2021 10:24:43 PM EDT
[#26]
There are women who do see online dating as a way to get a free meal. The way to screen them out is to only invite women to meet for a drink. It is much more practical and give both an easy way to bail out of a boring date quickly. If a women is more interested in getting a meal she will refuse to meet for a drink or other non-meal date. You can always turn a drink date into a meal date if you click.
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Posted: 7/13/2021 10:30:09 PM EDT
[#27]
I never minded paying, especially for early dates, or at least offering.
But I've never had anyone abuse it. Girls I've dated and my girl friends that I still take out... while sometimes I insist on treating them as a gift, they will usually offer to split or ask to take me out. I guess I've just never been into golddiggers. ... My partner, our first date we split, the next I treated, the third she treated. 13 years later we still follow a similar pattern, for vacations and what not too. Works for me.
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Posted: 7/13/2021 10:42:15 PM EDT
[#28]
I get tired repeating myself. But here goes:
Never, ever, ever buy a woman dinner. If a woman wants to eat dinner with you, then she should cook it for you. If a woman wants you to buy her dinner, tell her that she has not earned it yet. |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 10:48:11 PM EDT
[#29]
Quote HistoryQuoted: If someone gave me a dollar for every time that's brought up, she'd have 77 cents...... This is not the gap you're looking for. Obie-Wan Kenobi |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 11:39:06 PM EDT
[#30]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I get tired repeating myself. But here goes: Never, ever, ever buy a woman dinner. If a woman wants to eat dinner with you, then she should cook it for you. If a woman wants you to buy her dinner, tell her that she has not earned it yet. This actually makes sense for early dates and serial man-whoring. If you actually want to settle down though, it makes sense to occasionally do something nice for a girl who has earned it. What's the longest committed relationship you've ever been in though, @FluffyTheCat (and are you still in it?)? Or are you a committed bachelor? |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 11:42:22 PM EDT
[#31]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I used to really enjoy going on dates when I was younger and single. Going to one of the local joints for some drinks and dive bar food, and usually having some semi decent conversation with someone was a pretty good time. I'd usually pick up the check too, mostly because it felt good to be nice to someone if I had a good time with them. People these days are fucking weird. it was good times,never knew how it would go but pretty much always was fun now a days I'm grateful to be married to a good woman and not deal with all the BS anyone remember the guy bailing out the back and sticking women with the restaurant bill a year or two ago,he might not have been as big a dick as I previously thought. |
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Posted: 7/13/2021 11:43:06 PM EDT
[#32]
Just pay for a whore. That way all parties are on the same page.
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Posted: 7/13/2021 11:47:37 PM EDT
[#33]
Leftists are working so hard to break traditional roles and create strife between men and women. It's great to see so many willing accomplices.
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Posted: 7/13/2021 11:50:27 PM EDT
[#34]
Demand sex before the meal. You want to eat, I want to bang. Flip the script.
Get everyone's priorities out there. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 12:12:20 AM EDT
[#35]
Quote HistoryQuoted: My favorite test is the door lock test. I open the girls door. She gets in and does she attempt to open mine or sit there on her phone. A good catch I was dating for a while, was falling over herself to reach across the car to OPEN my door for me. A good indicator of interest. W Do you take the battery out of your key fob? I do enjoy opening the car door and seeing the reaction. But unlock with key fob is reflexive. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 12:34:59 AM EDT
[#36]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Do you take the battery out of your key fob? I do enjoy opening the car door and seeing the reaction. But unlock with key fob is reflexive. No it is reflexive. It doesn't work as well with power locks henceforth why the attempting to open my door is a big deal. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 12:50:04 AM EDT
[#37]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This actually makes sense for early dates and serial man-whoring. If you actually want to settle down though, it makes sense to occasionally do something nice for a girl who has earned it. What's the longest committed relationship you've ever been in though, @FluffyTheCat (and are you still in it?)? Or are you a committed bachelor? Here's a better way of explaining it. Tell little Miss Free Food the following. "A man has sex with a woman and then he never calls her again. On the other hand, a man takes a woman out for dinner and he never hears from her again either. So that's why I won't take a woman out for dinner unless she desires me as a man. Unless I've had sex with her, there's no dinner from me. I won't allow a woman to use me for free food. If you want free food, go to the food bank or a soup kitchen" |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 12:56:06 AM EDT
[#38]
First date should be something so cheap and simple that it doesn't matter who pays. Like a coffee.
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Posted: 7/14/2021 12:57:27 AM EDT
[#39]
Quote HistoryQuoted: doesn't get dates or isn't good at dating? Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Nope. I'm just the guy that doesn't get dates. doesn't get dates or isn't good at dating? Whatever. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 5:12:09 AM EDT
[#40]
Once the Japanese get the Sex Robot thing worked out - some ladies will be seriously out of work...
 Futurama-I Dated a Robot |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 6:01:13 AM EDT
[#41]
Several years ago I took a lady on a date. She ordered the most expensive thing on the menu. Then I never saw her again.
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Posted: 7/14/2021 6:31:06 AM EDT
[#42]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Once the Japanese get the Sex Robot thing worked out - some ladies will be seriously out of work...  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IrrADTN-dvgCan’t happen soon enough to suit me. I’m all in favor legalizing prostitution, too. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 6:42:24 AM EDT
[#43]
Quote HistoryQuote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: We haven’t found a picture of the big ‘un that wrote this? https://i.imgur.com/qr9Dukb.jpg Pretty, but that's a Myspace angle if I've ever seen one. She could be a hippopotamus. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 6:43:32 AM EDT
[#44]
Quote HistoryQuoted: flexible. i'd buy her a croissanwich value meal at the BK. https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/253414/index_jpg-2012692.JPG Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: We haven't found a picture of the big 'un that wrote this? flexible. i'd buy her a croissanwich value meal at the BK. https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/253414/index_jpg-2012692.JPG Another angle pic though. And it's hard to tell but she could have a FUPA. I'd want to see a normal, standing up, full body picture before I commit to a Happy Meal. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 6:44:15 AM EDT
[#45]
Quote HistoryQuoted: That picture is 5 years old. She is a self proclaimed jugellette as well. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: We haven’t found a picture of the big ‘un that wrote this? https://i.imgur.com/qr9Dukb.jpg That picture is 5 years old. She is a self proclaimed jugellette as well. Then you're good. Take her White Trash ass to In n Out. I'd pay $12 to hit that. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 6:46:53 AM EDT
[#46]
Quote HistoryQuoted: https://www.instagram.com/magdajtaylor/?hl=en link left cold d/t naughty pics. Ok, after seeing that I'd hit it like a retard on a drum set. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 6:51:00 AM EDT
[#47]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Yeah, ok. Quote HistoryQuoted: Basically, men already hold all the cards in the dating scene. Yeah, ok. Apparently someones parents were mad they had a girl and did not raise her to be one. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 6:55:05 AM EDT
[#48]
I’ve never split a check on a date. Women to this day like it when a guy pays. It’s all part of the foreplay.
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Posted: 7/14/2021 6:58:39 AM EDT
[#49]
This is basically solved in a sense by not having the need to go on random dates. Meet someone that has some actual interest, not an app swipe, and problem solved.
Doesn’t mean he or she is the one, but it’s really not hard to tell if a women is in to you or not before you actually go on a date. Then is it a waste to find out if there is more to it? Dinner isn’t a great fist date anyway. Do something else. Have a coffee, maybe it turns into dinner, maybe it turns into a happy ending. If things don’t work out with the Mrs, I’ll never take part in this social media version of speed dating, and I’m never going to be that desperate to get laid. I have no interest in that nonsense. |
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Posted: 7/14/2021 7:01:33 AM EDT
[#50]
She has an Only Fans. Which I would not pay for, even though she looks damn good on Instagram.
Found some leaked nudes online. Full frontal. Cute, but no better than any girl her age who's not fat. Wouldn't pay for them. |
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