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Quoted: The first type in your description is too busy slaying pussy to be always posting about MGTOW on gun boards. The 2nd? Well LOL View Quote Attached File |
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Quoted: I stopped reading at the pay gap BS. View Quote Yeah, this. If the cost of her meal is your toll to understand she's a useless piece of shit... you got off cheap. And maybe you can leave that feedback if you met on some sort of app... Thank God I met my wife the old fashioned way. You know, in person, not on a date... actually knew her a little before asking her out. And she knew me a little before agreeing to go out. Funny how that goes. |
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Quoted: Dating rules if the man pays based on the expenditure scale. If the ladies meal costs $0- $25 No expectation is justified. $26-$50 A tongue kiss is expected and required. $51-$70 1st base is expected but it assumes that first base is worth it. If first base is not worth it, the woman should give up 2nd base as it is not the mans fault god shorted you. $71-$99 Second based is expected with reciprocation. $100-$150 Unwritten social rule is that the lady gives the sex. +$150 Requires she be open for it all and makes you breakfast in bed. If she cannot make a decent breakfast it is eject time and consider the $150+ a small price to pay to find out. View Quote good luck with whores this looks like the menu at the chicken ranch |
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Quoted: Lol did they not know about coffee dates being the thing? View Quote I've always offered the option of coffee, drinks, or dinner for first dates sourced online (meaning not somebody you met already IRL). Only one has even chosen dinner for the first date, the others chose coffee/drinks. |
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Quoted: I would guess that they would be "triggered" by quite a number of my views and core values. View Quote You'd be surprised. Last year I met a girl from Kent State, she was the cutest black girl I've ever seen. She was obviously liberal, but I'd talk freely about my opinions on guns, Trump, and BLM and she never had a problem with it. Why? Because at the time I had strong masculine frame. |
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Sad to see so many guys here complaining about buying a woman dinner. I'm not sure what type of relationship you're trying to have but it definitely isn't the traditional type I'm interested in.
I'll also say that if you're seriously worried about losing a few bucks to dinner you must have a pretty damn poor track record with women. |
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Quoted: The first type in your description is too busy slaying pussy to be always posting about MGTOW on gun boards. The 2nd? Well LOL View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: There are multiple definitions. There's the "permanent bachelor hook-up artist" version and the "He-Man Woman Hater's Club" version. The first dies surrounded by thousands of notches in his bed. The second dies surrounded by a menagerie of Star Wars toys. Neither get married, so they won't die surrounded by a loving family of people who only exist because of them, but they also won't die from divorce. The first type in your description is too busy slaying pussy to be always posting about MGTOW on gun boards. The 2nd? Well LOL Your passive aggressiveness is making it impossible for me to nut, man up and call me an incel. kthnx |
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Quoted: You'd be surprised. Last year I met a girl from Kent State, she was the cutest black girl I've ever seen. She was obviously liberal, but I'd talk freely about my opinions on guns, Trump, and BLM and she never had a problem with it. Why? Because at the time I had strong masculine frame. View Quote I'm talking more about things that are immediately pertinent to a long-term relationship, such as my views on child rearing, religion, etc. |
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Quoted: Yeah, this. If the cost of her meal is your toll to understand she's a useless piece of shit... you got off cheap. And maybe you can leave that feedback if you met on some sort of app... Thank God I met my wife the old fashioned way. You know, in person, not on a date... actually knew her a little before asking her out. And she knew me a little before agreeing to go out. Funny how that goes. View Quote Sure is. I bet you weren't too concerned about who paid for dinner either. |
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Quoted: I've always offered the option of coffee, drinks, or dinner for first dates sourced online (meaning not somebody you met already IRL). Only one has even chosen dinner for the first date, the others chose coffee/drinks. View Quote FFS don't offer her choices and let her decide, it's seen as suplicant and needy. |
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Quoted: Meet at a coffee shop. Take a walk in a park View Quote correct. or get ice cream in the summer, or meet for drinks after dinner. meet at a book store and get coffee even meeting for breakast is more like 30 dollars than 75 for dinner. high dollar dates should be reserved for after 2 other successful dates so you know they have some real potential. im also a romantic so didn't have sex until at least date 2 when i was single |
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Quoted: Sad to see so many guys here complaining about buying a woman dinner. I'm not sure what type of relationship you're trying to have but it definitely isn't the traditional type I'm interested in. I'll also say that if you're seriously worried about losing a few bucks to dinner you must have a pretty damn poor track record with women. View Quote traditional dating is for traditional women - do you have a time machine? the less you spend per date = the more dates you can go on spend $50 on a one date, or spend $5 on 10 coffee dates...it's all about numbers |
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Quoted: Catranch, guzzle wine and die alone? ohwait... View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Basically, men already hold all the cards in the dating scene. This is true. Imagine what they'd do without us Catranch, guzzle wine and die alone? ohwait... Forgot RX. |
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Quoted: i used to go to vegas often for work. not a fan. y'all can have it. View Quote I found the experience very entertaining and had a great time, would love to go back some day. I'm certainly open to doing another trip for a concert if a band I love is going to be in Vegas but not local to either me or my parents, as it's actually often cheaper for both flights and hotels to go to Vegas than a lot of other places that are big tour stops. |
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Last first date I had we went and picked strawberries together. Dumb me I should have spent on a big meal.
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I guess it is a question of perceived value. They think the value of their time is a meal. Given today's resturant prices, somehow they think they should be compensated at a very nice level.
In a way, I have done more foodie calls that I can count - but those were friends with benefits. The value of those worked out to about what I am under the impression is the going rate. |
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Quoted: FFS don't offer her choices and let her decide, it's seen as suplicant and needy. View Quote Ah yes, let me go right ahead and follow advice from the guy who was not only hoping to be a sugar daddy, but needed to ask ARF about it first. I'm sure he knows all about what works to get a LTR-quality woman. |
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Quoted: Ah yes, let me go right ahead and follow advice from the guy who was not only hoping to be a sugar daddy, but needed to ask ARF about it first. I'm sure he knows all about what works to get a LTR-quality woman. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: FFS don't offer her choices and let her decide, it's seen as suplicant and needy. Ah yes, let me go right ahead and follow advice from the guy who was not only hoping to be a sugar daddy, but needed to ask ARF about it first. I'm sure he knows all about what works to get a LTR-quality woman. Attached File |
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Quoted: I've always offered the option of coffee, drinks, or dinner for first dates sourced online (meaning not somebody you met already IRL). Only one has even chosen dinner for the first date, the others chose coffee/drinks. View Quote Yeah I get that. That's kinda too many choices realistically. A coffee date can easily turn into something more such as a second location for dinner, or it can be a well I gotta run kinda deal. |
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Back when I was young and dating and didn't make much money I could STILL afford to pay for a dates meal and enjoyed doing it.
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Quoted: You'd be surprised. Last year I met a girl from Kent State, she was the cutest black girl I've ever seen. She was obviously liberal, but I'd talk freely about my opinions on guns, Trump, and BLM and she never had a problem with it. Why? Because at the time I had strong masculine frame. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: I would guess that they would be "triggered" by quite a number of my views and core values. You'd be surprised. Last year I met a girl from Kent State, she was the cutest black girl I've ever seen. She was obviously liberal, but I'd talk freely about my opinions on guns, Trump, and BLM and she never had a problem with it. Why? Because at the time I had strong masculine frame. Who gives a shit if they get triggered. Be intelligent know your stuff, be confident, don't buy in to irrational bullshit and call it out. You'd be amazed how many women will actually be smitten if you challenge them. More people should be exposed to opposing viewpoints as well. Even the people that put rainbow frames on their profile pics or specify she/her are likely to call you if you go on a date and piss them off by showing them their own ignorance. Also if you want a 3 way you probably want to look for some of those... |
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Quoted: There is no point if fundamental incompatibility is a known from the get-go. I feel that one of the worst things a person can do is to waste another person's time. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: maybe wait for a couple dates before dropping the heavy stuff on her. There is no point if fundamental incompatibility is a known from the get-go. I feel that one of the worst things a person can do is to waste another person's time. This is true, but doing it on the first date can scare off some of them unless they're more mature than most ?? |
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Quoted: Ah yes, let me go right ahead and follow advice from the guy who was not only hoping to be a sugar daddy, but needed to ask ARF about it first. I'm sure he knows all about what works to get a LTR-quality woman. View Quote Are you the guy who waits about a year before asking girls out? |
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Quoted: Meet at a coffee shop. Take a walk in a park No fat chicks No free meals View Quote this!!!!!! If you meet someone for the first time have them meet you at Dunkin’ Donuts or Starbucks and then offer a walk in the park or around the lake or something do something that’s not gonna cost a lot of money to make sure it’s even worth your time |
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Quoted: Quoted: LoL Jesus, what an attention whore Any chaturbate channels? https://i.imgflip.com/qckcp.jpg |
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Going dutch is the ultimate reverse shit test. If she bails because of the "absurd gesture" of making her pay for here own meal, she wasn't into you regardless. It's really a great tactic. To add, if she's into you, as long as you don't say anything stupid...........you fuckin'
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No food for you…lol…gender inequality. What is she’s white dating an indigenous guy?
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Quoted: If you're meeting women, you can't be going MGTOW. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: MGTOW thread. Quoted: MGTOW thread. yes you can there is a sliding scale. i meet women all the time. and we both have fun. be upfront about: no marriage no cohabitation. ( this means no leaving toothbrushes, your monday work blouse, or a spare iphone charger at my house either.) |
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Quoted: This is true, but doing it on the first date can scare off some of them unless they're more mature than most ?? View Quote I mean that I try to avoid going out with them in the first place - it's usually pretty easy to pick out the SJW types right away, especially with some (maybe all now?) platforms going woke and offering ways to highlight just how much of a SJW you are. |
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My favorite test is the door lock test.
I open the girls door. She gets in and does she attempt to open mine or sit there on her phone. A good catch I was dating for a while, was falling over herself to reach across the car to OPEN my door for me. A good indicator of interest. W |
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