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Link Posted: 10/16/2018 11:24:43 PM EST
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Well, when you put it like that...
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I have a friend that has been diagnosed as a sex addict. When he was at his worst he would literally hit on every Asian girl he could, and would interpret anything as flirting. It was unreal. I think at one point he had 4 girlfriends too.
What’s your point? Was that wrong?
I think it sounds pretty awesome myself.

I wonder if chicks at Sex Addicts Anonymous meetings are totally down to fuck in the parking lot.
Sure, if you think the all consuming emptiness that disassociated him from reality, caused him to seek dangerous and unhealthy relationships, interfered with all of his friendships, interfered with his jobs, led him to abuse drugs and alcohol, and led him to turn his body into a carving board, is awesome then have at it.

When I worked at bars I had a lot of friends and coworkers bang many a skank, this was something completely different.
Well, when you put it like that...
It's kind of like when someone says they have OCD because they have some odd behavior. That is not OCD, true OCD is something qualitatively and quantitatively different.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 11:42:13 PM EST
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"Sex addiction" is a disease inasmuch as "lack of self-control" is a disease.

So the answer is "no".
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 1:04:45 AM EST
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A sex addict’s service animal is a sheep. A purdy little bopeep with big eyes and soft curly hair and a tight little mouse.

Link Posted: 10/17/2018 1:29:08 AM EST
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We are programed to enjoy sex if you let any one thing rule your life your an addict.

Is it a disease no.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 2:03:30 AM EST
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I have a friend that has been diagnosed as a sex addict. When he was at his worst he would literally hit on every Asian girl he could, and would interpret anything as flirting. It was unreal. I think at one point he had 4 girlfriends too.
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So how's Charlie Sheen doing these days?
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 2:21:59 AM EST
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My dad was a sex addict, got HIV for his troubles.
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Gay or straight?

I've seen a guy go to rehab twice for sex addiction and he ended up tossing out a pretty lucrative career because of it. Let's just say the "ho's" he was banging wasn't worth it.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 2:29:47 AM EST
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Gay or straight?

I've seen a guy go to rehab twice for sex addiction and he ended up tossing out a pretty lucrative career because of it. Let's just say the "ho's" he was banging wasn't worth it.
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My dad was a sex addict, got HIV for his troubles.
Gay or straight?

I've seen a guy go to rehab twice for sex addiction and he ended up tossing out a pretty lucrative career because of it. Let's just say the "ho's" he was banging wasn't worth it.
If you're not gay, an IV drug user, or black, your chances of getting HIV are astronomically small.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 2:59:21 AM EST
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Stop it, you’re making WV look even worse than people already think it is.

But uhhhh.....could I like...get a service animal for that?
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A service animal for that
(Like a Penthouse Pet?)

+1 Internet Point for you
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 3:00:59 AM EST
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He went to see the shrink in Da Nang, started jerking off in the office.  Instant Section 8.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 3:11:59 AM EST
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It’s a terrible disease. I’ve had it since I was 14 or so, and hope to continue suffering from the affliction until I’m about 80, at which time I will die happily of a heart attack under two blonde 20-something escorts.

Eta: I guess the best serious answer I can give is “maybe”. Addiction is not simply liking something a lot; It’s liking something a lot (or maybe even not liking it that much) and continuing to do it even though you know it will have significant negative effects in your life. It depends on the individual circumstances.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 3:15:22 AM EST
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Link Posted: 10/17/2018 3:52:53 AM EST
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Slippery slope with this whole "addict" stuff. Literally anyone could be an addict to anything.

Some people like to buy ammo everyday, are they an addict? Some people like to fuck everyday, its human nature.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 4:02:40 AM EST
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If they make stuffing your face with food a disease (ie, obseity), why not anything?
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Yep.  Precedent....
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 5:38:32 AM EST
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It's a compulsion.
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Sexual behavior is compulsive, its not an addiction.  The term addiction has been overused to encompass anything someone does "too much of" that causes problems in their life that they do not wish to take responsibility. The DSM5 does not use the term "addiction" they label it a "Use Disorder."

I provide mental health treatment for sex offenders, getting them to understand that its NOT an addiction is Day 1 stuff.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 5:41:22 AM EST
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Yep.  Precedent....
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If they make stuffing your face with food a disease (ie, obseity), why not anything?
Yep.  Precedent....
Its not labeled an addiction in the DSM5. Its called Binge Eating Disorder.

Here you can see the criteria. Never mentions "addiction"

Binge Eating Disorder Criteria
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 5:48:23 AM EST
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Sorry about your firing, OP.

Link Posted: 10/17/2018 5:50:46 AM EST
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A sex addict’s service animal is a sheep. A purdy little bopeep with big eyes and soft curly hair and a tight little mouse.

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Link Posted: 10/17/2018 5:55:14 AM EST
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A disease is: an abnormal condition that negatively affects a part or all of an organism, and that is not due to any external injury.
So, yeah, if someone is mentally addicted to sex, then it would qualify as a disease, much like drug addiction does.  Being crazy is a disease.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 6:00:02 AM EST
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Link Posted: 10/17/2018 6:05:56 AM EST
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It's a disease like opioids. Here's your Narcan

Link Posted: 10/17/2018 6:12:17 AM EST
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Its not labeled an addiction in the DSM5. Its called Binge Eating Disorder.

Here you can see the criteria. Never mentions "addiction"

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If they make stuffing your face with food a disease (ie, obseity), why not anything?
Yep.  Precedent....
Its not labeled an addiction in the DSM5. Its called Binge Eating Disorder.

Here you can see the criteria. Never mentions "addiction"

Binge Eating Disorder Criteria
Yeah... what happens if its a ongoing issue (as in, every meal) and not a 'binge' that just happens multiple times?
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 6:13:20 AM EST
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If you're giving handjobs in the truck stop bathroom for the fun of it, you might have a problem.
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What if you don't enjoy it but need the money?

Asking for @Aimless
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 6:24:14 AM EST
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Lots of things can be an addiction if you're wired that way.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 6:39:05 AM EST
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You’re making me feel abnormal
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If you know something is wrong and it is effecting you negatively and you do it anyway, you are not normal.

If you do continually something that negatively effects the people you truly love, you are not normal.

Is that a disease? Possibly. You certainly aren't normal mentally.

You guys who are just saying "don't do it" are normal. You can't understand it because you don't have that problem because you are normal.

It isn't normal.
You’re making me feel abnormal
LOL.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 6:39:52 AM EST
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Yeah... what happens if its a ongoing issue (as in, every meal) and not a 'binge' that just happens multiple times?
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Someone mentioned binge eating, that's why I mentioned the above.  Its still compulsive behavior. Your body wont go into withdrawal if you don't stuff your face for a meal. You might feel anxious, but that's due to the compulsive cycle of the behavior and a significant contributing factor to the problematic behavior in the first place.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:21:34 AM EST
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It's a disease.  You need sexual healing.
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Sign me up.  My wife has stated on several occasions that I am an addict.

She would be content with once a week whereas I am once a day.

We sat down one time and had a long discussion about this and when I finished explaining my needs our frequency increased to almost daily

In fact, when we got up at 0530 she said how about we go back to bed after the oldest leaves for school. We'll have about 30 minutes

If I'm lucky we will fool around again tonight when I get home from Boy Scouts
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:29:39 AM EST
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I'm tired of banging all these supermodels honestly. Its not like I have a choice I have two diseases, amazing god level genetics combined with sexual addiction. I think I found a miracle cure though.

Steroids
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:33:21 AM EST
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No it is not
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:34:48 AM EST
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If you're giving handjobs in the truck stop bathroom for the fun of it, you might have a problem.
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Ruh roh....
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:38:51 AM EST
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Rubbing one out at work is usually not the best idea. You could have at least went to the john.
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Yes. Yes you could. I heard.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:39:36 AM EST
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Slippery slope with this whole "addict" stuff. Literally anyone could be an addict to anything.

Some people like to buy ammo everyday, are they an addict? Some people like to fuck everyday, its human nature.
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Damn.  Guess I'm a sex addict and ammo addict. I definitely need a service animal
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:43:49 AM EST
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If you know something is wrong and it is effecting you negatively and you do it anyway, you are not normal.

If you do continually something that negatively effects the people you truly love, you are not normal.

Is that a disease? Possibly. You certainly aren't normal mentally.

You guys who are just saying "don't do it" are normal. You can't understand it because you don't have that problem because you are normal.

It isn't normal.
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I'm not normal..
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:48:38 AM EST
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I would love an ada placard for being a sex addict.

It's discrimination against my disability if I cant have sex in my office.
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Here ya go..



Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:52:07 AM EST
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If your married and have a proper marriage this is not a problem but a benefit
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:54:01 AM EST
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If you're not gay, an IV drug user, or black, your chances of getting HIV are astronomically small.
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My dad was a sex addict, got HIV for his troubles.
Gay or straight?

I've seen a guy go to rehab twice for sex addiction and he ended up tossing out a pretty lucrative career because of it. Let's just say the "ho's" he was banging wasn't worth it.
If you're not gay, an IV drug user, or black, your chances of getting HIV are astronomically small.
Fixed it for you. HIV rates among IV drug users and African Americans have become very remote. Today HIV is almost exclusively a homosexual male problem.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 7:54:38 AM EST
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Link Posted: 10/17/2018 8:24:30 AM EST
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Anything that provides a natural (or unnatural) high can be addictive to a person that does not posses the self-discipline to moderate the behavior.

It's a bullshit excuse for the guy or gal that gets caught with their pants down or ruins their life because they can't stop chasing the high.  It's no more a disease than the fact that my love of potatoes in fried form makes me fat.  Sex feels great.  Sex with someone new is exciting and feels good.  Very easy to ruin your life chasing that if you allow yourself to indulge in it inappropriately.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 8:42:33 AM EST
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There are sex therapists that fuck their patients. Helen Hunt played on in a movie a few years back. She finally showed bush, it's just too bad she was like 50-something at the time.

But yeah, service whore may be a thing.
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Link Posted: 10/17/2018 8:54:34 AM EST
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What in the actual fuck was that?
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 8:55:43 AM EST
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some employers might go light on someone who agrees to seek help, but in the #metoo era, I'm thinking sex addiction is not going to be so easily forgiven.
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Go to your employer and demand a masturbation facility for all employees.

As a minimum it should have tasteful decor, quiet surroundings, appropriate imagery, and individual privacy should be available if desired, if not a group facility shouod be provided.

Seek out some kind of government assistance with establishing such a facility.

Be a pioneer.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 9:00:16 AM EST
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"Sex addiction" is a disease inasmuch as "lack of self-control" is a disease.

So the answer is "no".
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This.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 9:01:44 AM EST
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Wait, jerking is a disease?
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 9:06:44 AM EST
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"He was jerking off 10 times a day."
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 9:17:09 AM EST
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I think it sounds pretty awesome myself.

I wonder if chicks at Sex Addicts Anonymous meetings are totally down to fuck in the parking lot.
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The higher class, better neighborhood chicks will do it by the dumpsters.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 9:18:37 AM EST
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Is Sex Addiction a real disease? Does it require a real doctor to diagnose it or can someone just say "I really like sex a lot and can't stop myself from trying to get laid or jerk it"?

And if so, does it fall under the Americans with Disabilities Act?

Like could it protect someone who was caught masturbating in his office this morning and might be fired after meeting with HR tomorrow afternoon? Like could our hypothetical hero just say "can't fire me, got a disease"? or if he gets fired could he sue for a bunch of money?

Asking for a friend.
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Only for women. They don't like being called sluts.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 9:20:43 AM EST
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I know I’m a sex addict.. however I don’t use that as an excuse to act inappropriately..
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 9:32:42 AM EST
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It's a disease until the cure is castration and it suddenly cures itself.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 10:13:23 AM EST
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It is real.  It's a dopamine addiction.
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 10:20:00 AM EST
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Stop it, you’re making WV look even worse than people already think it is.

But uhhhh.....could I like...get a service animal for that?
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Is Sex Addiction a real disease? Does it require a real doctor to diagnose it or can someone just say "I really like sex a lot and can't stop myself from trying to get laid or jerk it"?

And if so, does it fall under the Americans with Disabilities Act?

Like could it protect someone who was caught masturbating in his office this morning and might be fired after meeting with HR tomorrow afternoon? Like could our hypothetical hero just say "can't fire me, got a disease"? or if he gets fired could he sue for a bunch of money?

Asking for a friend.
Stop it, you’re making WV look even worse than people already think it is.

But uhhhh.....could I like...get a service animal for that?
I have a disease, I need an emotional support prostitute to follow me around, that should be covered by health insurance right?
Link Posted: 10/17/2018 10:43:54 AM EST
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I have a friend that has been diagnosed as a sex addict. When he was at his worst he would literally hit on every Asian girl he could, and would interpret anything as flirting. It was unreal. I think at one point he had 4 girlfriends too.
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I am pretty sure this is called player and not a disease.
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