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Link Posted: 4/8/2022 8:30:26 PM EDT
[#1]
Not when I owned my business and they worked for me.

Don't recall it happening any other time.
Link Posted: 4/8/2022 8:35:44 PM EDT
[#2]
I'm not reading 5 pages to make sure someone else didn't already say "I expect them to call me boss", or "What are they supposed to call me?".
Link Posted: 4/8/2022 8:37:45 PM EDT
[#3]
I’m a white male.  I almost never get offended because life is just fucking awesome.
Link Posted: 4/8/2022 8:51:24 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/8/2022 9:08:27 PM EDT
[#5]
I'm not offended by it but in my experience everyone who's said it to me was either a prior felon or convict or a serious manipulator working an angle of some sort.
Link Posted: 4/8/2022 9:11:51 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/8/2022 9:16:06 PM EDT
[#7]
I like being called boss personally. I need to get my friends to start calling me boss.
Link Posted: 4/8/2022 9:40:59 PM EDT
[#8]
Depends. Am I their boss? I don't currently have any downstream but if I did and they called me boss, I wouldn't be offended. <shrugs>

Nick
Link Posted: 4/8/2022 10:18:53 PM EDT
[#9]
I prefer Master
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 5:59:10 AM EDT
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I prefer Master
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What's it like riding around on Blaster?

Link Posted: 4/9/2022 6:04:39 AM EDT
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I'm not offended by it but in my experience everyone who's said it to me was either a prior felon or convict or a serious manipulator working an angle of some sort.
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Yep.

It's offensive to me when anybody calls me that.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 6:28:39 AM EDT
[#12]
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I couldn’t care less
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Me either. People get offended too easy.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 6:37:25 AM EDT
[#13]
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Term of endearment.
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I don't know why more people don't understand this. It's not like most people want to start a conversation that will lead to a confrontation. Just play along, eventually learn each other's mannerisms and get along with life, Dude.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 8:03:36 AM EDT
[#14]
I don’t remember the last time I was offended by anything.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 8:06:44 AM EDT
[#15]
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It always make me think they were in prison.

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Link Posted: 4/9/2022 8:10:56 AM EDT
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I don’t remember the last time I was offended by anything.
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The day is young. . . .

Link Posted: 4/9/2022 8:27:25 AM EDT
[#17]
As an adult I have never had a male with a high dermal melanin concentration call me “boss” or “baas.”  

I did have it happen as a lad living in Africa. We had two servants who called me “klein bass” or “boss mudiki” (“little boss” in Afrikaans and Shona respectively), but it was a nickname as Father was the boss, and referred to that way.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 8:31:57 AM EDT
[#18]
Boss is a prison term.

When a guy calls you "boss" generally it means he's done time.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 8:34:59 AM EDT
[#19]
No, I'm not emotionally soft.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 8:41:54 AM EDT
[#20]
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I've known people who call other people Boss a lot.

But they were all white guys.
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Yep
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 8:42:22 AM EDT
[#21]
It is all about the situation and context .

I myself don't use the term because I could end up using it at the wrong time and have someone take it as disrespect .

I live in the northeast and most of the time that term got used on me it some southern guy I didn't know (truck driver or whatever) on a construction job.

Can be tricky depending on the situation.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 8:52:58 AM EDT
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I hear that a lot.
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No.  I don't find stupid crap to get offended over.   I did work with a black guy that got ticked when people called him boss, though.   It was a a job where everyone called the managers "boss" for some reason.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 9:46:04 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/9/2022 2:15:12 PM EDT
[#24]
NSFW

SNL Digital Short: Like a Boss

Link Posted: 4/9/2022 2:19:43 PM EDT
[#25]
I get called boss by white guys too.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 2:29:16 PM EDT
[#26]
I'm only offended when they say it while dancing a little soft shoe...
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 2:40:24 PM EDT
[#27]
I'm not a genetics major, so I can't be sure if he's black.
I'm not a biologist, so I can't be too sure if "he" is a "him".
I will refrain from answering.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 2:42:28 PM EDT
[#28]
no in the slightest, cheif.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 3:04:57 PM EDT
[#29]


I would not mind her calling me bosmang
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 3:06:48 PM EDT
[#30]
Nope, I am a boss.

I absolutely hate being called “Yo.” I won’t respond to it no matter what. Not sure why, it just irritates the shit out of me.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 3:07:05 PM EDT
[#31]
I call people boss and I am called boss. So far none of us seem to care. Maybe because we failed our liberal arts degrees and had to get real jobs.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 3:08:47 PM EDT
[#32]
I get offended by anyone calling me boss! Doesn't matter what they're skin color is!

It's rude and disrespectful!

eta: +2 its usually white ex cons
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 3:22:39 PM EDT
[#33]
No, but as an Australian the worst thing you can call someone is a low down scumy dog so I get offended at "yo dog" whomever's mouth it spews from.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 3:33:03 PM EDT
[#34]
I call people “Cheeto”.  

Context example: “Hey Cheeto, what’s up?”

Link Posted: 4/9/2022 3:41:34 PM EDT
[#35]
No.  I don't have the mental fragility of an egotistical liberal.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 4:27:28 PM EDT
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I’m offended that your offended that OP asked if you’d be offended. Gosh.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 5:53:35 PM EDT
[#37]
FWIW cab drivers are traditionally addressed as 'Chief'.

You don't hear it much these days but it's an Old School form of address to a cabbie.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 5:55:49 PM EDT
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I get called boss by white guys too.
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Is that you, Bruce Springsteen?
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 6:03:16 PM EDT
[#39]
I don't get offended by words because they only have the power you give them...and I'm not a whinebag
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 6:06:36 PM EDT
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yeah, "buddy" makes me go straight to "I'm not your buddy, pal"
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Its supposed to be "I'm not your Buddy, Guy" Followed by "I'm not your Guy, Friend". "I'm not your Friend, Buddy" rinse and repeat. I tinks I watch South Park too much.
Link Posted: 4/9/2022 6:14:59 PM EDT
[#41]
I had a friend stop by clinic the other day with his new dog he adpoted. He wanted a microchip and check-up.

We were closed at the time, after hours, and we were heading up front and I saw a client getting back into his car. I ducked into the pharmacy so they couldn't see me. My buddy was in the hall and I asked did that car go? I told him if I am there people always stop in for just a quick this or that. (I'd never get out!)

He says "Well they probably saw me!"

I said, totally deadpan, "That's OK, they will just think we are being robbed."

The next day his dog was spayed and he told my wife to give me something. He's like  


Link Posted: 4/10/2022 7:59:57 AM EDT
[#42]
Blacks complain about living on the plantation, then call white people 'Boss.'

Perhaps I shouldn't expect them to cast off their chains and take some responsibility for integrating into the society they were born into.

The prison thing makes sense.

Those of you who are an employer or supervisor chiming in about being called 'Boss' are some deep thinkers...
Link Posted: 4/10/2022 8:01:16 AM EDT
[#43]
Am I his boss? If yes, then no. I call my boss, boss.
Link Posted: 4/10/2022 8:14:56 AM EDT
[#44]
How do I know they're black? I'm not a geneticist...
Link Posted: 4/10/2022 8:32:15 AM EDT
[#45]
No, why?
Link Posted: 4/10/2022 8:37:22 AM EDT
[#46]
I don't get offended by words.
Link Posted: 4/10/2022 8:43:28 AM EDT
[#47]
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This ^ because I am the boss.
Link Posted: 4/10/2022 8:50:13 AM EDT
[#48]
What if I’m am the boss?
Link Posted: 4/10/2022 8:55:22 AM EDT
[#49]
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I hear that a lot.
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Not offended. Considering that 30% have felony convictions, it may be just part of the "diversity" thing. Coming from a white guy (and maybe the same for most blacks), I would take it as an expression of deference like "sir".
Link Posted: 4/10/2022 9:04:19 AM EDT
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No, but as an Australian the worst thing you can call someone is a low down scumy dog so I get offended at "yo dog" whomever's mouth it spews from.
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Dunno, "pommie" has to be close. Aussie guy (hard to believe he was actually speaking "English" as it was almost impossible to understand) used that term and I finally figured out that it meant "Prisoner Of Mother England", referring to Australia being used as a penal colony by the Brits.
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