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Posted: 1/23/2023 1:58:07 AM EST
[#1]
Women ruin everything.
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Posted: 1/23/2023 1:59:33 AM EST
[#2]
Valentines Day is coming up. She expects a ring. You should change the locks on your door.
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Posted: 1/23/2023 3:17:01 AM EST
[#3]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Put a baby in her and marry her 
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Posted: 1/23/2023 3:45:48 AM EST
[#4]
Controlling. Eject
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Posted: 1/23/2023 4:10:18 AM EST
[#5]
Wtf dude. Eject and don’t knock her up before you do.
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Posted: 1/23/2023 4:42:48 AM EST
[#6]
Dude you fucked up coming here of all places asking for relationship advice...
 I havent read all 9 pages but these guys are going to have you convinced she was getting someone else's seed planted in her those 2 hours she stopped all comms! 
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Posted: 1/23/2023 4:43:27 AM EST
[#7]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Lmao see, at the very least my GF isn't a cheater. These are wild stories. She's typically pretty traditional, conservative, has her CCW, doesn't drink too much or do drugs, lots of positives as well |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 4:49:53 AM EST
[#8]
It sucks that she has the last pussy god made.
Its not like there’s 3,904,727,342 women in the world to choose from. But I’ve seen this played out a dozen times. You’ll settle and marry her. 5 years from then we’ll get a “Arf.com curse done got me bros, HAAAALP!!” Seriously. Just give her a ring and get the show started already. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 4:54:30 AM EST
[#9]
You are in the training phase. She thinks she is in the training phase with you.
This will only get worse unless you fix it now. If this is the deal breaker for her, so be it. Plenty of Fish in the sea that don't play head games. You are an adult. You are not married. Stop texting her until she texts you. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 5:00:23 AM EST
[#10]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Eject |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 5:03:01 AM EST
[#11]
Reasons im single #3,597
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Posted: 1/23/2023 5:29:41 AM EST
[#12]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She was invited to an event and turned it down, then stayed out later than the reason she didn't want to go to the event. The rest of it, the texting and stuff isn't a big deal the way I see it, a lot of people are always texting. If they are always texting but never their S.O. that would be a red flag. If someone went out but never with their S.O. that would also be a red flag. But she was invited and turned down the invite for what sounds like a bullshit reason. The Other Resident and I hardly talk when I'm home, sure as shit not texting all day. She's always accusing me of bangin' every woman I meet but shuts me down if I start to tell her what I actually did all day. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 5:31:13 AM EST
[#13]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She is trying to pussy whip you. He's whipped already with the "texting every 30 minutes" thing. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 5:40:44 AM EST
[#14]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I think it's a good thing you went out with your boys against her wishes. In my experience, most men that kowtow to their women.. their women eventually cheat on them out of boredom. She got a taste of you not following her orders and despite her emotional BS over it probably respects you even more now and doesn't realize it. If your GF isn't fit, feminine, friendly, and letting you lead the relationship.. it's definitely time to eject. Don't put up with masculine energy from her/Western feminazi vibes or you will be miserable. Saw this somewhere: "Women hate men that they can't control but they have no respect for men that they can control." There's some middle ground in there somewhere but it's a delicate balancing act. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:13:23 AM EST
[#15]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I highly suspect that is the case too....but still OP should eject, because GROWN UPs "communicate" and discuss shit. They don't play Lifetime/drama passive/aggressive games. Can you imagine being married to her and "life" happens? More passive/aggressive, Lifetime/drama games - instead of handling shit like adults. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: its not the party. shes mad because youve been together 3 years and arent married. she probably should be unless you are young. I highly suspect that is the case too....but still OP should eject, because GROWN UPs "communicate" and discuss shit. They don't play Lifetime/drama passive/aggressive games. Can you imagine being married to her and "life" happens? More passive/aggressive, Lifetime/drama games - instead of handling shit like adults. This was my gut take as well. She wants a ring OP. And frankly after 3 years with you being 33 and she 28 I don’t think you’re interested in marriage. That’s fine but if you arent serious cut her loose. She is burning prime years of her youth here. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:23:44 AM EST
[#16]
That whole "I'm not talking to you" think has a maximum
effective range of zero with me. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:25:16 AM EST
[#17]
FPNI
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:33:47 AM EST
[#18]
I’m old and here’s my 2 cents. Your relationship today is the best it will ever be. Plan accordingly.
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:41:12 AM EST
[#19]
I'm confused. Do you not live together after 3 years?
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:42:15 AM EST
[#20]
How hot is she?
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:45:16 AM EST
[#21]
Quote HistoryQuoted: That whole "I'm not talking to you" think has a maximum effective range of zero with me. It is like a mini vacation. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:50:15 AM EST
[#22]
Is there a plush Persian rug involved ?
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:53:24 AM EST
[#23]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Dude you fucked up coming here of all places asking for relationship advice... I havent read all 9 pages but these guys are going to have you convinced she was getting someone else's seed planted in her those 2 hours she stopped all comms! @Dru Wasn’t there a story recently here where a guy’s wife/girlfriend did just that? He went out for beer and by the time he got back she’d had a 3-some?
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:53:51 AM EST
[#24]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I'm confused. Do you not live together after 3 years? I had a gf of 5yrs once, we maintained separate residences and she was awesome. Not everyone moves in together, or maybe I'm just an old fucker
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:57:55 AM EST
[#25]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I had a gf of 5yrs once, we maintained separate residences and she was awesome. Not everyone moves in together, or maybe I'm just an old fucker Had... It just doesn't seem like a commitment after a year or so. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:58:54 AM EST
[#26]
Meh, either break up with her or ghost her for a minimum of two weeks.
Either way, you'll likely find out you want her more then she wants you. That is called a clue. FWIW, the couple years before and after 30 is when they start freaking out about ''my eggs'' and watching all her female friends settle down and have kidlets. If you two haven't, at the least, talked about the future, the relationship is doomed anyways because at 3 years, there should have been some kind of talk. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 6:59:21 AM EST
[#27]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Ignore her. Stop texting her. Do not answer the phone. Eject. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:00:28 AM EST
[#28]
Quote HistoryQuoted: So she told you 10 at the latest then stayed out til midnight? Fuck that. I fucking hate hypocrites. She went back to the other dudes house at 10 if that counts |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:03:15 AM EST
[#29]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I’m 33 she’s 28 She’s been caring less and checked out compared to normal, upset with me for not doing what she wants to do more (then when I asked her what she couldn’t give me an example). If she cheated on me that is what it is, I’m a little checked out at this point myself She was shit testing you and you failed. Tell her to fuck off and eject. Act like you have some respect for yourself because she has none for you |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:04:35 AM EST
[#30]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Had... It just doesn't seem like a commitment after a year or so. I will not debate that, we both were established in our own lives and career focused. We spent the night at each others places regularly though. 5yrs was plenty even with an awesome gal, I'm not the marrying type. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:06:16 AM EST
[#31]
She sounds like a Democrat
I’d cut ties |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:07:14 AM EST
[#32]
Quote HistoryQuoted: He's whipped already with the "texting every 30 minutes" thing. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: She is trying to pussy whip you. He's whipped already with the "texting every 30 minutes" thing.  Attached File |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:10:52 AM EST
[#33]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Projecting her cheating on you. A certain segment of the population is incapable of thinking others are any different from themselves. I have a buddy like this and he always projects his actions on me even when their is evidence that he is wrong. Even though he generally has high moral values his integrity doesn't exactly match. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:13:53 AM EST
[#34]
is her mom available?
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:21:22 AM EST
[#35]
+1 eject.
She's either testing you or controlling, or both. You are passing the test by not bowing to her and not being jealous. That said, most people, are not emotionally mature enough for a serious relationship. Unless you want kids, marriage is not something I'd ever recommend. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:26:04 AM EST
[#36]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Meh, either break up with her or ghost her for a minimum of two weeks. Either way, you'll likely find out you want her more then she wants you. That is called a clue. FWIW, the couple years before and after 30 is when they start freaking out about ''my eggs'' and watching all her female friends settle down and have kidlets. If you two haven't, at the least, talked about the future, the relationship is doomed anyways because at 3 years, there should have been some kind of talk. This right here. She's 28. She wants a ring and a fuck trophy and OP hasn't provided either after 3 years. I'm a little surprised she hasn't ejected for another guy yet. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:26:09 AM EST
[#37]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I don't play that shit. I set the boundary way back when my wife and I first got together that I have lots of friends and am a social person. I hunt, I fish, I hang out with the guys and do guy shit. I am not asking her permission when I am going out to do anything, I am politely letting her know what I am heading out to do. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:27:36 AM EST
[#38]
Another one for Is She Hot? Also why the texting? Messages get confused over texting. If it's something important, have a conversation.
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:28:23 AM EST
[#39]
Can he still eject if she ejected first?
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:38:41 AM EST
[#40]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This right here. She's 28. She wants a ring and a fuck trophy and OP hasn't provided either after 3 years. I'm a little surprised she hasn't ejected for another guy yet. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Meh, either break up with her or ghost her for a minimum of two weeks. Either way, you'll likely find out you want her more then she wants you. That is called a clue. FWIW, the couple years before and after 30 is when they start freaking out about ''my eggs'' and watching all her female friends settle down and have kidlets. If you two haven't, at the least, talked about the future, the relationship is doomed anyways because at 3 years, there should have been some kind of talk. This right here. She's 28. She wants a ring and a fuck trophy and OP hasn't provided either after 3 years. I'm a little surprised she hasn't ejected for another guy yet. That missing 2 hours was a recon mission. Or a '"test drive". Monkey.....branch.....etc. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:42:54 AM EST
[#41]
Quote HistoryQuoted: If you think it's worth saving them tell her all this upfront and see where things land. Shell either accept it or go nuts and you'll know what to do. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Lmao see, at the very least my GF isn't a cheater. These are wild stories. She's typically pretty traditional, conservative, has her CCW, doesn't drink too much or do drugs, lots of positives as well This makes a lot of sense to me. This is what I would do. For now I'm going my own way lol. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:43:17 AM EST
[#42]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Out with a coworker and the husband - she was sharing location with me Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Opinion withheld until you find out where SHE was during all this. Out with a coworker and the husband - she was sharing location with me |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:47:13 AM EST
[#43]
Quote HistoryQuoted: @Dru Wasn’t there a story recently here where a guy’s wife/girlfriend did just that? He went out for beer and by the time he got back she’d had a 3-some? Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Dude you fucked up coming here of all places asking for relationship advice... I havent read all 9 pages but these guys are going to have you convinced she was getting someone else's seed planted in her those 2 hours she stopped all comms! @Dru Wasn’t there a story recently here where a guy’s wife/girlfriend did just that? He went out for beer and by the time he got back she’d had a 3-some? Lol, I read that thread. Many laughs were had. I never came back to find out if it was true. I can confirm what he is saying though. I tried to be the super nice guy to my very controlling now ex-wife. Guess what, we are now divorced since October and she's been seeing somebody that is basically live in at her new residence. They met in July lol. Yeah right. I will never let a woman control me like that again. Doesn't mean I have to be an a****** but I will never cow tow again. I am ashamed I let it go so far. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:54:11 AM EST
[#44]
Time to square things with her in regards of corporate outings.
I hate corporate outing but I have to be there and I usually call it a day by 11pm or so as I need my sleep and I don't care if others are half sleep on next day meeting. Texting every 30 mins? Are you out of your effing mind, this isn't some teenage lovers shit Mine knows approx location and I text her "heading home" when done with it |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 7:59:25 AM EST
[#45]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I’m old and here’s my 2 cents. Your relationship today is the best it will ever be. Plan accordingly. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 8:05:01 AM EST
[#46]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Out with a coworker and the husband - she was sharing location with me Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Opinion withheld until you find out where SHE was during all this. Out with a coworker and the husband - she was sharing location with me this whole "sharing location" aspect is disturbing... there is zero trust |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 8:08:03 AM EST
[#47]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She's testing you and you're failing. Don't be fazed by it. Dirk gets it. It’s called a shit test. Look at her and roll your eyes if she starts up with the bullshit again. And turn off the stalker tech. Who gives af if she was cheated on. That’s not you and if she’s properly fucking you, she wouldn’t need to worry about it. She’s setting you up for 18 years of child support and misery. Nfw id stay with someone like that. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 8:11:36 AM EST
[#48]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I’m 33 she’s 28 She’s been caring less and checked out compared to normal, upset with me for not doing what she wants to do more (then when I asked her what she couldn’t give me an example). If she cheated on me that is what it is, I’m a little checked out at this point myself Three years together and your current ages suggest you either marry or leave. Since you both seem to like each other less and are irritating each other more, marriage is the obvious choice. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 8:14:22 AM EST
[#49]
New rules:
Tell her from this point forward neither of you goes out with friends or co-workers without the other being welcome to go too. |
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Posted: 1/23/2023 8:22:20 AM EST
[#50]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She was cheated on in the past so I give her my location when I'm out because I don't want her to be concerned. Too much I'm sure Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Wait, you voluntarily let her have your location? She was cheated on in the past so I give her my location when I'm out because I don't want her to be concerned. Too much I'm sure If she's still using the actions of others against you this long into the relationship that ain't a good sign for the future. 
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