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Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:16:29 PM EDT
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Tried find iphone app, tracked gps, everything short of a PI?
One i called quoted me $3900.
Need concrete proof to eject
Been together 27 years
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:17:19 PM EDT
[#2]
Fuckin A, I'm in.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:17:33 PM EDT
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Thats how i caught her the first time !
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Then you need no additional evidence. Eject
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:17:34 PM EDT
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Send her flowers at work "From your one true love."

If she doesn't tell you about them, she's cheating.
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That's actually pretty fucking brilliant lol.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:18:07 PM EDT
[#5]
What ever you do....don't put a cam in your bedroom.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:18:45 PM EDT
[#6]
Since she did once before, you can bail for the heck of it or google cuckold lifestyle and enjoy the new relationships CNN enjoys.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:18:47 PM EDT
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Thats how i caught her the first time !
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Check the phone bill.
Thats how i caught her the first time !
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:18:48 PM EDT
[#8]
Nevermind. I see it’s been covered already.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:19:30 PM EDT
[#9]
Hide in the closet, if you didn't the first time
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:19:47 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:19:49 PM EDT
[#11]
Is she staying late at "work" lately?

Or being out late with "friends"?
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:20:31 PM EDT
[#12]
We need a picture to determine if she has been cheating
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:20:57 PM EDT
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Tried find iphone app, tracked gps, everything short of a PI?
One i called quoted me $3900.
Need concrete proof to eject
Been together 27 years
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She cheated on you, then you cheated on her, now you suspect she is cheating on you once again.  This isn't a marriage, I don't know why you need further proof of anything to separate from each other.  Just call a divorce attorney on Monday morning.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:22:23 PM EDT
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Routine panty check?
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cant be 100% b/c discharge.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:22:54 PM EDT
[#15]
Why is everyone looking at me?
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:23:22 PM EDT
[#16]
Seriously just looking for constructive suggestions.
She works a 9-5 at an office and has the freedom to come and go as she pleases.
I think she just leaves her cell phone at work if she goes!
She doesnt go out after work or weekends?
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:24:41 PM EDT
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Seriously just looking for constructive suggestions.
She works a 9-5 at an office and has the freedom to come and go as she pleases.
I think she just leaves her cell phone at work if she goes!
She doesnt go out after work or weekends?
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So tell us why do you think she is cheating
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:25:00 PM EDT
[#18]
In like the other guy
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:25:03 PM EDT
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Why bother? You already can’t trust her and think she’d fuck around on you. Bail.
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This.

I had proof via my soon to be ex becoming pregnant. Made no difference on my end when it came to property, $$, or court anything.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:26:54 PM EDT
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In like the other guy
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Not gonna lie, I lol'ed!
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:27:27 PM EDT
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I am a retard, she fucked around i in turn did too, 3 years later and never trusted her since.
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Run.  Open the door n just leave
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:27:36 PM EDT
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She cheated on you, then you cheated on her, now you suspect she is cheating on you once again.  This isn't a marriage, I don't know why you need further proof of anything to separate from each other.  Just call a divorce attorney on Monday morning.
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THIS. That's not a marriage. That's a mess.
BTW, IMHO once either side cheats... it will NEVER be the same again (the "magic" is gone forever).
Just eject already. Both of you obviously are easily capable of cheating, so don't fool yourselves. Just get divorced already (and don't be a weak soyboy who just stays "separated" because you don't have the man balls to go through with the divorce). Just my .02
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:27:52 PM EDT
[#23]
Private Investigator
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:27:56 PM EDT
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Seriously just looking for constructive suggestions.
She works a 9-5 at an office and has the freedom to come and go as she pleases.
I think she just leaves her cell phone at work if she goes!
She doesnt go out after work or weekends?
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Drop a voice activated tape recorder under the seat of her car, or in the seatback pocket. Check it once a week.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:28:10 PM EDT
[#25]
you know what to do, harry

Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:28:56 PM EDT
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Not gonna lie, I lol'ed!
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Me too. *sigh*
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:29:53 PM EDT
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Drop a voice activated tape recorder under the seat of her car, or in the seatback pocket. Check it once a week.
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Grandpa, what's a "tape recorder?"
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:29:56 PM EDT
[#28]
She will go missing for long periods from the phone and say she was with a client etc.
Almost like clock work the same times  for a 1 or 2 hour period
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:30:13 PM EDT
[#29]
In.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:31:25 PM EDT
[#30]
Walmart voice activated recorder hidden in car.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:31:32 PM EDT
[#31]
Dude women cheat on men all the time and they have no clue it’s even happening.

If your wife is cheating on you AND the man suspects it, she wants to get caught.

Sorry man.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:32:02 PM EDT
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Grandpa, what's a "tape recorder?"
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Drop a voice activated tape recorder under the seat of her car, or in the seatback pocket. Check it once a week.
Grandpa, what's a "tape recorder?"
Digital voice recorder.  Same shit. They still sell microcasette recorders, you whippersnapper.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:33:13 PM EDT
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Get a burner phone and text her pretending to be the other guys wife/girlfriend.  Text her when you are in the same room.  See how she reacts.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:34:02 PM EDT
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Dude women cheat on men all the time and they have no clue it’s even happening.

If your wife is cheating on you AND the man suspects it, she wants to get caught.

Sorry man.
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This is what im starting to think !
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:34:19 PM EDT
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She will go missing for long periods from the phone and say she was with a client etc.
Almost like clock work the same times  for a 1 or 2 hour period
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Umm, hate to say it but, someone else is buttering the oyster.
Same shit happened to me,run as fast as possible
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:35:10 PM EDT
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She will go missing for long periods from the phone and say she was with a client etc.
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Take a day off from work and rent a car.  Follow her.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:36:27 PM EDT
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Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice get the fuck out of my house, bitch!...
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FIFY
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:36:50 PM EDT
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OP https://www.ar15.com/forums/manageReply.html?b=1&f=5&t=2087435&tl=How-to-catch-a-cheating-spouse-&r=71141280&page=2no shit true advice : you do not trust your spouse why stay married file for divorce, claim adultery use your 3 year old incident

just eject
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:36:55 PM EDT
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Take a day off from work and rent a car.  Follow her.  
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I have thought about this !
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:37:35 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:37:43 PM EDT
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Umm, hate to say it but, someone else is buttering the oyster.
Same shit happened to me,run as fast as possible
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How did u find out ?
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:38:34 PM EDT
[#42]
The whole damn marriage is a train wreck man !
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:39:00 PM EDT
[#43]
He is an old test.  Take some of her hair and place it in a jar.  Fill the jar half way up with vinegar.  Add two tablespoons of baking soda.  If you wife is off sucking someone’s dick while you play with your volcano then she is cheating.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:40:03 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:40:21 PM EDT
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Why bother? You already can’t trust her and think she’d fuck around on you. Bail.
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Thats the answer
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:40:59 PM EDT
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The whole damn marriage is a train wreck man !
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Dude, it sounds like you have no reason to stay.  As others have said, that doesn't sound like much of a marriage at this point.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:41:10 PM EDT
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Does NJ have at fault divorce, or is she getting half your shit no matter what?
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Half my shit
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:41:49 PM EDT
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Nj has a no fault clause and lifetime alimony.
Thank God we never were able to have kids
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:42:06 PM EDT
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Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice...
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Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:43:27 PM EDT
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The flip side is there is a girl from HS that i used to bang, who has been hitting me up .
Maybe just stay in this shitty relationship keep half my shit and fuck all her friends and co workers ?
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