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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:04:04 PM EDT

Been dating for 11 1/2 months.

Before we were "officially" BF/GF we did a Pinky Swear that we wouldn't F other people even tho we weren't official yet. Swore to each other we would tell each other if we did F someone else as a courtesy to the other person.

Last night she told me that about a month into me and her dating, she went on a date and Fd another dude. She and I had already had sex a bunch of times when this would have occurred.

I told her she lied and broke my trust and our little agreement we had.

Thing is, her kids and my kids have become friends and we were doing family functions together on both sides. Fing BS.

This morning I ejected.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:05:08 PM EDT

[#1]

Pinky promise aint shit without a promise ring

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:05:34 PM EDT

[#2]

Taste funny?

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:05:51 PM EDT

[#3]

Are you 16?

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:05:57 PM EDT

[#4]

Good eject. If she told you about one there was at least 4

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:06:28 PM EDT

[#5]

This has potential

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:06:34 PM EDT

[#6]

You made the right choice by ejecting, OP. Nobody needs a lying, cheating piece of shit in their life.

It says a lot about her that she waited for your kids to become friends with hers before saying anything. Almost like she's trying to play games with your attachment to them.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:06:44 PM EDT

[#7]

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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:06:58 PM EDT

[#8]

Shit sucks you’ll live. Next.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:07:56 PM EDT

[#9]

What were the details of her confession? Did this information just slip out? Did she come to confess?

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:08:01 PM EDT

[#10]

Your biggest issue is STD’s. Get yourself checked.

You can manage everything else.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:08:03 PM EDT

[#11]

NEVER BRING THE KIDS INTO YOUR DATING.

Unless they're mature enough to fend off adult sexual predators.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:08:03 PM EDT

[#12]

Is the other guy famous?

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:08:09 PM EDT

[#13]

You’re lucky you guys have been together less than a year. I feel like it makes the decision to break it off much easier.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:08:11 PM EDT

[#14]

Good thing she did it before any knot was tied. Sucks for the kids though.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:08:35 PM EDT

[#15]

Also, 10 pages by 5 pm central.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:08:48 PM EDT

[#16]

Single adults and everyone has kids?

Yeah, if you didn't put a ring on it and lock it up, something else was cleaning her pipes when you couldn't come over.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:09:44 PM EDT

[#17]

Was it her first date with him?

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:09:48 PM EDT

[#18]

She was testing you. She didn't tell you because she felt bad about it.

Good eject.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:10:06 PM EDT

[#19]

Pinky swear? How old are you???

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:10:15 PM EDT

[#20]

Quoted:
Been dating for 11 1/2 months.

Before we were "officially" BF/GF we did a Pinky Swear that we wouldn't F other people even tho we weren't official yet. Swore to each other we would tell each other if we did F someone else as a courtesy to the other person.

Last night she told me that about a month into me and her dating, she went on a date and Fd another dude. She and I had already had sex a bunch of times when this would have occurred.

I told her she lied and broke my trust and our little agreement we had.

Thing is, her kids and my kids have become friends and we were doing family functions together on both sides. Fing BS.

This morning I ejected.

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these things help me understand

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:10:15 PM EDT

[#21]

Good eject.

She just randomly dropped that on you out of the blue though?

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:10:37 PM EDT

[#22]

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What were the details of her confession? Did this information just slip out? Did she come to confess?

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These are the questions.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:10:49 PM EDT

[#23]

Dating a single mom?

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:11:05 PM EDT

[#24]

Since the cheating skank has been removed do we get pictures. You can PM me the really good ones.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:11:40 PM EDT

[#25]

Sofa-king……

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:11:50 PM EDT

[#26]

Your not going to miss a single slice of bread out of that loaf OP.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:11:58 PM EDT

[#27]

So you and her were dating but she went on another date and fucked the dude right away?

Good eject.

OP, not trying to be mean but you know what kind of girl she is if she just randomly dates and fucks other guys. I don't have a problem with women like that but they aren't the ones you want to get serious with.

I also think she was testing the waters, telling you about this one guy to see how you would react. There's probably more than one guy.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:12:29 PM EDT

[#28]

Just because you put a ring to it and lock it up, doesn't mean they are not going to cheat on you

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:12:38 PM EDT

[#29]

Good ejection. That sounds like the kind of situation where the truth comes out in pieces so it's likely that wasn't a full disclosure.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:12:50 PM EDT

[#30]

Good eject, but you must not have been "rattling her bell" if she's banging another dude only 1 month into the relationship.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:12:53 PM EDT

[#31]

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Are you 16?

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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:13:02 PM EDT

[#32]

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Pinky promise aint shit without a promise ring

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That don't mean shit these days either.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:13:10 PM EDT

[#33]

It was me, and yes, it was good.

but seriously, you're gf is trying to do the right thing by telling you. You should forgive her.

After all Jesus said something to the effect of: From the Bible John 8.7 where Jesus tells the accusers of a woman of adultery, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:13:18 PM EDT

[#34]

Until the "defining the relationship" talk, it's a free for all.
But if you've lost trust, that's it.

Kharn

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:13:43 PM EDT

[#35]

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Dating a single mom?

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OP is a single dad...

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:14:15 PM EDT

[#36]

She's lying. She cheated on you much more recently.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:14:22 PM EDT

[#37]

I know it's nearly impossible, but try to find a woman who hasn't already bred with another man and ruined his life.

You're just next on the list.

Choose better mates. This might mean you'll have to look outside the USA. I did. I have a fantastic traditional values feminine wife.

I tell you this route was far less stressful than plowing through a bunch of American whores trying to find the one who was less "whore".

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:14:26 PM EDT

[#38]

You get a threesome now with her and her best looking friend. It's the only way to reestablish trust.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:15:13 PM EDT

[#39]

You should marry her. I need a part 2 to this story.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:15:21 PM EDT

[#40]

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It was me, and yes, it was good.

but seriously, you're gf is trying to do the right thing by telling you. You should forgive her.

After all Jesus said something to the effect of: From the Bible John 8.7 where Jesus tells the accusers of a woman of adultery, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

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forgive sure. continue an intimate relationship with no.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:15:29 PM EDT

[#41]

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She was testing you. She didn't tell you because she felt bad about it.

Good eject.

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Confession may be good for the soul, but it's hell on the relationship.

Yep, better to know now and break cleanly before you've made legal entanglements. She may regret her infidelity badly, but the character test was on her side, and she failed.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:15:32 PM EDT

[#42]

Good eject. The kids will make new friends. Curious how the conversation came up where she admitted to it though.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:15:37 PM EDT

[#43]

Quoted:
Been dating for 11 1/2 months.

Before we were "officially" BF/GF we did a Pinky Swear that we wouldn't F other people even tho we weren't official yet.

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This ^ is why I hate "situationships".

If it's not defined, it leads to the: "Well sure I gave you every impression I wouldn't do X.
BUT, I never said I WOULDN'T do X haha you're a sucker for believing what I fully intended on making you believe so I could get what I wanted, you fucking dumbass haha" arguments.

Swore to each other we would tell each other if we did F someone else as a courtesy to the other person.

Last night she told me that about a month into me and her dating, she went on a date and Fd another dude. She and I had already had sex a bunch of times when this would have occurred.

I told her she lied and broke my trust and our little agreement we had.

Thing is, her kids and my kids have become friends and we were doing family functions together on both sides. Fing BS.

This morning I ejected.

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Posted: 9/28/2023 1:16:44 PM EDT

[#44]

Stuff Happens.

You got to bang her for nearly a year.

Pick Up & Move On.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:17:03 PM EDT

[#45]

Like alligators, for every one you’re aware of there’s 10 more

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:17:03 PM EDT

[#46]

Your kids can still be friends

You can’t trust their mother.

Good eject

Or fuck her sister and call it even.

Posted: 9/28/2023 1:17:07 PM EDT

[#47]

Quoted:
Been dating for 11 1/2 months.

Before we were "officially" BF/GF we did a Pinky Swear that we wouldn't F other people even tho we weren't official yet. Swore to each other we would tell each other if we did F someone else as a courtesy to the other person.

Last night she told me that about a month into me and her dating, she went on a date and Fd another dude. She and I had already had sex a bunch of times when this would have occurred.

I told her she lied and broke my trust and our little agreement we had.

Thing is, her kids and my kids have become friends and we were doing family functions together on both sides. Fing BS.

This morning I ejected.

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Sperm?