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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:35:10 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Pastor must be an arfcommer that's constantly suggesting meating women at church. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:35:31 PM EST
[#2]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Don’t talk to church leadership without talking to your buddy first. If I found out my friend knew and went to someone else other than me first, I would be red hot! This. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:36:10 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I would want to know. I would also want to know before you took it to the church leadership. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Your buddy definitely has a right now know. How you tell him is up to you. The longer you wait the more pissed he'll be at you. I would want to know. I would also want to know before you took it to the church leadership. Then they can go to the church leadership together. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:36:26 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Of all the options for a fuck-pad in modern America, this happens at a park during kiddo/daylight hours? Nah, don't believe it. People don’t have poor judgement? |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:36:32 PM EST
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Quoted: So I took the kids to a park (remote & quiet) to get some autumn photos when I see our assistant pastor sitting alone in his minivan. I wanted privacy so we avoided contact with preacher man... Then along comes my buddy's wife and she plops down in Bible boy's car after hugs and kisses. I could see nasty stuff going on in the minivan. Had the camera so I took some photos as they said their goodbyes. Just hugs and a kiss. Normally I mind my own business but I think this guy is a total predator. My Friend's wife has been going through major bout of post-partum and she's a total train wreck right now. Clearly mentally fragile. I've asked for a meeting with church leadership. Not sure if I should tell my friend yet. Having mixed feelings about not confronting them in the car... Could use some advice here. Pictures? 
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:36:47 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Confront “pastor” with pics tomorrow immediately before the service. I fucking HATE hypocrites I’d go with this. As an aside, did the woman’s head go south of the dashboard line? |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:36:58 PM EST
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Quoted: So I took the kids to a park (remote & quiet) to get some autumn photos when I see our assistant pastor sitting alone in his minivan. I wanted privacy so we avoided contact with preacher man... Then along comes my buddy's wife and she plops down in Bible boy's car after hugs and kisses. I could see nasty stuff going on in the minivan. Had the camera so I took some photos as they said their goodbyes. Just hugs and a kiss. Normally I mind my own business but I think this guy is a total predator. My Friend's wife has been going through major bout of post-partum and she's a total train wreck right now. Clearly mentally fragile. I've asked for a meeting with church leadership. Not sure if I should tell my friend yet. Having mixed feelings about not confronting them in the car... Could use some advice here.  I don't know what to tell you, but if what you say is true, it's going to get messy. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:38:10 PM EST
[#8]
I would tell the buddy first . Then burn the dude tomorrow in front of everybody..
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:38:21 PM EST
[#9]
Also make it clear to church leadership that they’ll either handle this biblically or you will without them. This cannot be swept under a rug.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:38:51 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Confront “pastor” with pics tomorrow immediately before the service. I fucking HATE hypocrites No. Tell buddy first, Sun Tzu tactics for his benefit. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:39:28 PM EST
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blackmail him for about $5k, tell your friend, split the money with your friend and make it look like your friend figured it out on his own.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:39:36 PM EST
[#12]
Troll
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:40:06 PM EST
[#13]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Also make it clear to church leadership that they’ll either handle this biblically or you will without them. This cannot be swept under a rug. This. Weak church leadership makes doing hard things harder. If they want to be nice men instead of good men find a new church. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:40:18 PM EST
[#14]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Of all the options for a fuck-pad in modern America, this happens at a park during kiddo/daylight hours? Nah, don't believe it. I don't know OP but I have a feeling he is not bs'n us. I really curious as to what park it was....For reasons. @ OP. State park? On the water? Today? |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:40:18 PM EST
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I am not reading 2 pages of shit.
Its not your business OP, butt out. Maybe she likes dick from other sources, maybe her husband cant provide it. Whatever the reason, butt out, its none of your business. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:41:11 PM EST
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:41:13 PM EST
[#17]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Of all the options for a fuck-pad in modern America, this happens at a park during kiddo/daylight hours? Nah, don't believe it. Ask me how I know you’re neither a civil servant or a tradesman looking for a quiet place to eat lunch or breakfast while on the road. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:41:18 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I’d go with this. As an aside, did the woman’s head go south of the dashboard line? Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Confront “pastor” with pics tomorrow immediately before the service. I fucking HATE hypocrites I’d go with this. As an aside, did the woman’s head go south of the dashboard line? Terrible idea, he needs to tell his friend and give him time to lawyer up and prepare. The church will NOT have op’s buddy’s back on this so he needs to be aware of that fact before hand. Because his support system is about to vaporize |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:41:43 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: He has photos… Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Your buddy definitely has a right now know. How you tell him is up to you. The longer you wait the more pissed he'll be at you. That's 50/50. There are guys that will deny and say you made shit up. Been there. He has photos… Probably just a goodbye peck on the cheek after getting some personal counsel on the wishes of our Lord Jesus. There is no limit to the mental gymnastics some people will complete to live in denial land. Joe Biden won fair and square. Epstein killed himself. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:41:56 PM EST
[#20]
Does your church have an AV system? Volunteer to run it this weekend and make your own slideshow, with background music of 2 Live Crew - Hoochie Mama.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:42:05 PM EST
[#21]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Burn him down ...down to the fucking ground. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:42:19 PM EST
[#22]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Tell your friend. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:42:21 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Confront "pastor" with pics tomorrow immediately before the service. I fucking HATE hypocrites |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:42:36 PM EST
[#24]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Confront “pastor” with pics tomorrow immediately before the service. I fucking HATE hypocrites And he's a predator too. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:42:46 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Ask me how I know you’re neither a civil servant or a tradesman looking for a quiet place to eat lunch or breakfast while on the road. Dear penthouse, I was parked behind Kroger entering in some case notes from my last call when... |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:43:09 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Troll We found the guy who thinks christians can do no wrong. 
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:43:37 PM EST
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ALET, ALET MGTOW justification thread.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:46:02 PM EST
[#28]
I would definitely tell my friend. And more than likely the church leadership.
Absolute scum to prey on someone as vulnerable as your buddy’s wife. Not saying she isn’t culpable too…but the pastor is on another level. Disgusting. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:46:42 PM EST
[#29]
If it's actually a buddy you need to let him know.
Pics go to all parties concerned, including church leadership. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:46:56 PM EST
[#30]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Mind your own business. It’s not your problem so why inject yourself are you fucking stupid? We'll remember this when your curse thread involving men of the cloth comes around to inject themselves into your problem.  Pastor is engaging in a mortal sin. There's 3 things you don't fuck with. A man's woman A man's truck A man's means to provide for him and his. Bury the shitbag. Heres what I would do. Place pics in collection plate. Print said pics and wrap the prayer candles with them. Have walmart make one of those throw blankets and lay it on the organ. Have book covers, made to wrap all the bibles. What I'd also do? Have OPs friend sell me everything he cherishes for a dollar. With Bill of sale. Then get a lawyer. And when the divorce is final? Sell him his stuff back for a dollar. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:47:06 PM EST
[#31]
I need more details. When you say nasty things, are we talking kissing and ass grabbing or are we talking blowjobs?
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:48:12 PM EST
[#32]
MYOFB. Your friend will only be pissed at you when you tell him. That's the way this shit works.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:48:15 PM EST
[#33]
Emotionally fragile or not, the wife has some blame in this shit show.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:48:21 PM EST
[#34]
You should talk to your buddy first. You owe him that. And maybe he already knows all about it. Some people do that sort of thing you know.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:48:27 PM EST
[#35]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Does your church have an AV system? Volunteer to run it this weekend and make your own slideshow, with background music of 2 Live Crew - Hoochie Mama.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:48:33 PM EST
[#36]
Where are the damn pics?
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:49:41 PM EST
[#37]
OP, this is an awkward position you find yourself in.
If he's really a friend, I would tell him. Then I would let him decide if he wants to (or wants you to) take it up with the church. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:51:04 PM EST
[#38]
Tell your buddy he was chasing demons from her.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:52:27 PM EST
[#39]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Don’t talk to church leadership without talking to your buddy first. If I found out my friend knew and went to someone else other than me first, I would be red hot! This X 1000 You never know what goes on behind closed doors in relationships. Hell, she could have been facetiming her husband because he likes to watch. Probably not, but the truth is, people do strange things. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:53:04 PM EST
[#40]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Confront “pastor” with pics tomorrow immediately before the service. I fucking HATE hypocrites The church seems to be the epicenter for it. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:53:09 PM EST
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Got a theoretical for you to ponder.
You tell your Buddy, he then kills one or both. They’re dead, he’s a lifer in prison. How do you cope? Not advice, I’m not qualified. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:53:10 PM EST
[#42]
I found that anyone involved in the church is a predator and trash.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:54:35 PM EST
[#43]
Quoted:. Normally I mind my own business but I think this guy is a total predator. My Friend's wife has been going through major bout of post-partum and she's a total train wreck right now. Clearly mentally fragile. . You forgot the whore part, but yeah, fuck them both. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:55:40 PM EST
[#44]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Also make it clear to church leadership that they’ll either handle this biblically or you will without them. This cannot be swept under a rug.  Attached File |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:55:55 PM EST
[#45]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This. Weak church leadership makes doing hard things harder. If they want to be nice men instead of good men find a new church. That’s profound. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:58:51 PM EST
[#46]
Quoted: People don't have poor judgement? Quoted: Ask me how I know you're neither a civil servant or a tradesman looking for a quiet place to eat lunch or breakfast while on the road. I'm not surprised by the activity, I'm surprised by the location. Why have an affair where it could lead to criminal repercussions? |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:59:06 PM EST
[#47]
Your buddy deserves to know . Make the paster scum tell him. Then burn it down. Also maybe the wife has gilt , probably should dna test the kid.
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Posted: 10/30/2021 9:59:27 PM EST
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If true and not a troll A Step-by-Step Primer for Church Discipline
You may want to skip to step #2 Step #1: Have a private conversation. Step #2: Take one or two others along (Matt. 18:16). Step #3: Involve leaders or elders by informing them of the situation. Step #4: Give adequate notice to the one caught in sin. Step #5: Tell it to the church (Matt. 18:17). Step #6: Remove the unrepentant person from membership (Matt. 18:17). |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 10:00:42 PM EST
[#49]
Quoted: So I took the kids to a park (remote & quiet) to get some autumn photos when I see our assistant pastor sitting alone in his minivan. I wanted privacy so we avoided contact with preacher man... Then along comes my buddy's wife and she plops down in Bible boy's car after hugs and kisses. I could see nasty stuff going on in the minivan. Had the camera so I took some photos as they said their goodbyes. Just hugs and a kiss. Normally I mind my own business but I think this guy is a total predator. My Friend's wife has been going through major bout of post-partum and she's a total train wreck right now. Clearly mentally fragile. I've asked for a meeting with church leadership. Not sure if I should tell my friend yet. Having mixed feelings about not confronting them in the car... Could use some advice here. |
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Posted: 10/30/2021 10:04:18 PM EST
[#50]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Does your church have an AV system? Volunteer to run it this weekend and make your own slideshow, with background music of 2 Live Crew - Hoochie Mama. Or done video and synced it to  Hey, Hey, What Can I Do (Remaster)  Crazy Bitch - Buckcherry (UNCENSORED)  bad girlfriend lyrics dirty |
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