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Posted: 10/16/2018 9:05:06 PM EST
Is Sex Addiction a real disease? Does it require a real doctor to diagnose it or can someone just say "I really like sex a lot and can't stop myself from trying to get laid or jerk it"?

And if so, does it fall under the Americans with Disabilities Act?

Like could it protect someone who was caught masturbating in his office this morning and might be fired after meeting with HR tomorrow afternoon? Like could our hypothetical hero just say "can't fire me, got a disease"? or if he gets fired could he sue for a bunch of money?

Asking for a friend.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:06:32 PM EST
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No but fun as hell
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:07:06 PM EST
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It's a shame about hand job
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:07:22 PM EST
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It's a compulsion.
Are you off your meds?
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:08:53 PM EST
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So OP has "a friend" that got caught jerking it at work?

Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:09:07 PM EST
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In on 1
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:12:01 PM EST
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If they make stuffing your face with food a disease (ie, obseity), why not anything?
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:12:50 PM EST
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It's a disease.  You need sexual healing.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:13:20 PM EST
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Holy shit OP

This is great
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:13:50 PM EST
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Personal responsibility is for suckers!
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:14:00 PM EST
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Is Sex Addiction a real disease? Does it require a real doctor to diagnose it or can someone just say "I really like sex a lot and can't stop myself from trying to get laid or jerk it"?

And if so, does it fall under the Americans with Disabilities Act?

Like could it protect someone who was caught masturbating in his office this morning and might be fired after meeting with HR tomorrow afternoon? Like could our hypothetical hero just say "can't fire me, got a disease"? or if he gets fired could he sue for a bunch of money?

Asking for a friend.
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It’s only a disease when you’re an ugly, fat, chick.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:15:11 PM EST
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Rubbing one out at work is usually not the best idea. You could have at least went to the john.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:15:21 PM EST
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Bravo sir.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:18:11 PM EST
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Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:19:57 PM EST
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How did your friend get caught
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:20:44 PM EST
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If you're giving handjobs in the truck stop bathroom for the fun of it, you might have a problem.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:21:40 PM EST
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Is Sex Addiction a real disease? Does it require a real doctor to diagnose it or can someone just say "I really like sex a lot and can't stop myself from trying to get laid or jerk it"?

And if so, does it fall under the Americans with Disabilities Act?

Like could it protect someone who was caught masturbating in his office this morning and might be fired after meeting with HR tomorrow afternoon? Like could our hypothetical hero just say "can't fire me, got a disease"? or if he gets fired could he sue for a bunch of money?

Asking for a friend.
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Stop it, you’re making WV look even worse than people already think it is.

But uhhhh.....could I like...get a service animal for that?
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:22:00 PM EST
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Sex addiction is what happens when an incel finally gets pussy.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:22:11 PM EST
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As long as you're not doing it for the fun of it....it's ok right?  Asking for a friend
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:22:14 PM EST
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If you know something is wrong and it is effecting you negatively and you do it anyway, you are not normal.

If you do continually something that negatively effects the people you truly love, you are not normal.

Is that a disease? Possibly. You certainly aren't normal mentally.

You guys who are just saying "don't do it" are normal. You can't understand it because you don't have that problem because you are normal.

It isn't normal.
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You’re making me feel abnormal
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:22:16 PM EST
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You forgot the “”s
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:22:26 PM EST
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Yes
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:24:06 PM EST
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You forgot the “”s
How did your friend get "caught"
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:26:11 PM EST
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Stop it, you’re making WV look even worse than people already think it is.

But uhhhh.....could I like...get a service animal for that?
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Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:26:43 PM EST
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OP is too busy beating it to reply
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:28:35 PM EST
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Lol I love gd
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:30:29 PM EST
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But uhhhh.....could I like...get a service animal for that?
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Been to Colorado recently?
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:32:51 PM EST
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Find and check into a 30 day program tonight or by 8am tomorrow.  Be sure to use your insurance.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:36:25 PM EST
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I have a friend that has been diagnosed as a sex addict. When he was at his worst he would literally hit on every Asian girl he could, and would interpret anything as flirting. It was unreal. I think at one point he had 4 girlfriends too.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:43:52 PM EST
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What’s your point? Was that wrong?
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:46:47 PM EST
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If you are asking whether sex addiction is widely recognized, the answer is no.  It is a "process addiction" similar to gambling and video gaming and there is a great deal of resistance within the psychological community (which leans heavily liberal and has been pushing the "its all good just get consent" mantra for decades).  It is not currently in the DSM, though there is a wealth of science to back it up as an addiction.

in fact, if you look at the brain chemistry of a sex addict, you will find that it looks nearly indistinguishable from the brain chemistry of a meth addict.

more info here:  https://addictioneducationsociety.org/dr-kevin-mccauley-pleasure-unwoven/
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:47:33 PM EST
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I have a friend that has been diagnosed as a sex addict. When he was at his worst he would literally hit on every Asian girl he could, and would interpret anything as flirting. It was unreal. I think at one point he had 4 girlfriends too.
What’s your point? Was that wrong?
I think it sounds pretty awesome myself.

I wonder if chicks at Sex Addicts Anonymous meetings are totally down to fuck in the parking lot.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:49:00 PM EST
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If you are asking whether sex addiction is widely recognized, the answer is no.  It is a "process addiction" similar to gambling and video gaming and there is a great deal of resistance within the psychological community (which leans heavily liberal and has been pushing the "its all good just get consent" mantra for decades).  It is not currently in the DSM, though there is a wealth of science to back it up as an addiction.

in fact, if you look at the brain chemistry of a sex addict, you will find that it looks nearly indistinguishable from the brain chemistry of a meth addict.

more info here:  https://addictioneducationsociety.org/dr-kevin-mccauley-pleasure-unwoven/
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All kidding aside, who decides if something goes in or gets taken out of the DSM?
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:49:01 PM EST
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If you are asking whether sex addiction is widely recognized, the answer is no.  It is a "process addiction" similar to gambling and video gaming and there is a great deal of resistance within the psychological community (which leans heavily liberal and has been pushing the "its all good just get consent" mantra for decades).  It is not currently in the DSM, though there is a wealth of science to back it up as an addiction.

in fact, if you look at the brain chemistry of a sex addict, you will find that it looks nearly indistinguishable from the brain chemistry of a meth addict.

more info here:  https://addictioneducationsociety.org/dr-kevin-mccauley-pleasure-unwoven/
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So, no service animal for my “friend” then?
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:49:51 PM EST
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DSM-5 doesn't recognize it as a condition, so thinking any chance of claiming ADA protection won't fly, let alone a lawsuit after termination.

ETA: Beat. Not beatING [/b]but I was beaten to the reply. [/b]
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:50:28 PM EST
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God help us all I'm addicted to pussy!
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:51:03 PM EST
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If you are asking whether sex addiction is widely recognized, the answer is no.  It is a "process addiction" similar to gambling and video gaming and there is a great deal of resistance within the psychological community (which leans heavily liberal and has been pushing the "its all good just get consent" mantra for decades).  It is not currently in the DSM, though there is a wealth of science to back it up as an addiction.

in fact, if you look at the brain chemistry of a sex addict, you will find that it looks nearly indistinguishable from the brain chemistry of a meth addict.

more info here:  https://addictioneducationsociety.org/dr-kevin-mccauley-pleasure-unwoven/
So, no service animal for my “friend” then?
There are sex therapists that fuck their patients. Helen Hunt played on in a movie a few years back. She finally showed bush, it's just too bad she was like 50-something at the time.

But yeah, service whore may be a thing.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:53:00 PM EST
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I think I may have been vaccinated at some point I’m my life.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:53:33 PM EST
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My name is SBZ06 and I'm an addict.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:55:14 PM EST
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Uhh... phrasing?
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:55:40 PM EST
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No idea, I am not a mental health professional.

if you want to find out whether you are a sex addict, though, or at least, the likelihood, there is a test:  https://psychology-tools.com/sast
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 9:59:56 PM EST
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Link Posted: 10/16/2018 10:02:43 PM EST
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Is Sex Addiction a real disease? Does it require a real doctor to diagnose it or can someone just say "I really like sex a lot and can't stop myself from trying to get laid or jerk it"?

And if so, does it fall under the Americans with Disabilities Act?

Like could it protect someone who was caught masturbating in his office this morning and might be fired after meeting with HR tomorrow afternoon? Like could our hypothetical hero just say "can't fire me, got a disease"? or if he gets fired could he sue for a bunch of money?

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To answer your other questions:  NO.

just because you are an addict does not absolve you of responsibility for your actions.  If you're a drunk and if affects your work, you get fired.  Doesn't matter that you have a disease.  No different with any other addiction.

some employers might go light on someone who agrees to seek help, but in the #metoo era, I'm thinking sex addiction is not going to be so easily forgiven.

there are treatment centers for sex addiction just like drugs and alcohol.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 10:06:28 PM EST
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I have a friend who has been helped by SAA and targeted therapy for sex addiction.

When you smack the same dopamine rush enough times you stop getting the effect that made you do it in the first place.  That leads to a cycle of more and more to try to get that feeling again, which can end up having substantial negative affects on a person's life.

I think the "disease" concept is tough for a lot of people to get on board with.  But if that's the buzz word needed to get people help that really makes a positive difference in their lives then I'm fine with it.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 10:21:22 PM EST
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I have a friend that has been diagnosed as a sex addict. When he was at his worst he would literally hit on every Asian girl he could, and would interpret anything as flirting. It was unreal. I think at one point he had 4 girlfriends too.
What’s your point? Was that wrong?
No, it was Wong.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 10:22:01 PM EST
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I think it sounds pretty awesome myself.

I wonder if chicks at Sex Addicts Anonymous meetings are totally down to fuck in the parking lot.
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I have a friend that has been diagnosed as a sex addict. When he was at his worst he would literally hit on every Asian girl he could, and would interpret anything as flirting. It was unreal. I think at one point he had 4 girlfriends too.
What’s your point? Was that wrong?
I think it sounds pretty awesome myself.

I wonder if chicks at Sex Addicts Anonymous meetings are totally down to fuck in the parking lot.
Sure, if you think the all consuming emptiness that disassociated him from reality, caused him to seek dangerous and unhealthy relationships, interfered with all of his friendships, interfered with his jobs, led him to abuse drugs and alcohol, and led him to turn his body into a carving board, is awesome then have at it.

When I worked at bars I had a lot of friends and coworkers bang many a skank, this was something completely different.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 10:39:55 PM EST
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Sex by nature is an addiction, if it were not then you would only do it once and be satisfied. OK, maybe twice
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 10:52:42 PM EST
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Sure, if you think the all consuming emptiness that disassociated him from reality, caused him to seek dangerous and unhealthy relationships, interfered with all of his friendships, interfered with his jobs, led him to abuse drugs and alcohol, and led him to turn his body into a carving board, is awesome then have at it.

When I worked at bars I had a lot of friends and coworkers bang many a skank, this was something completely different.
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I have a friend that has been diagnosed as a sex addict. When he was at his worst he would literally hit on every Asian girl he could, and would interpret anything as flirting. It was unreal. I think at one point he had 4 girlfriends too.
What’s your point? Was that wrong?
I think it sounds pretty awesome myself.

I wonder if chicks at Sex Addicts Anonymous meetings are totally down to fuck in the parking lot.
Sure, if you think the all consuming emptiness that disassociated him from reality, caused him to seek dangerous and unhealthy relationships, interfered with all of his friendships, interfered with his jobs, led him to abuse drugs and alcohol, and led him to turn his body into a carving board, is awesome then have at it.

When I worked at bars I had a lot of friends and coworkers bang many a skank, this was something completely different.
Well, when you put it like that...
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 11:09:09 PM EST
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I would love an ada placard for being a sex addict.

It's discrimination against my disability if I cant have sex in my office.
Link Posted: 10/16/2018 11:13:18 PM EST
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Link Posted: 10/16/2018 11:13:39 PM EST
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My dad was a sex addict, got HIV for his troubles.
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