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Posted: 6/5/2019 12:11:48 PM EST
Leaving out what that something is for the moment. I just want your initialial reaction.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:12:37 PM EST
[#1]
I want to know if this banter or is she serious
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:13:21 PM EST
[#2]
Ask was this something she had a dream about?
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:14:07 PM EST
[#3]
Why don't you go ahead and tell me what it is she doesn't trust me with before I tell you how I'd react.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:14:25 PM EST
[#4]
Serious
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:14:33 PM EST
[#5]
"Don't care I have to go to work, bye"
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:15:41 PM EST
[#6]
I can't imagine being in a marriage where a woman drops little hints and plays stupid fucking games. That's my initial reaction.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:16:10 PM EST
[#7]
I would want to know why she didn’t trust me. Having both been through serious marital shit before we married each other, trust is everything between me and my wife.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:17:38 PM EST
[#8]
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There's a major problem if you're married and your wife doesn't trust you.   Could be end of marriage major.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:18:24 PM EST
[#9]
Out of all the piss assed stuff that has come up in our 31+ years of being married, that is one of the few things that has never come up!
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:19:20 PM EST
[#10]
My wife doesn't trust me to buy clothes for her. Context M'Fer, do you speak it?
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:19:30 PM EST
[#11]
Context is everything.

If it’s ironing some clothes I’d totally get it.

If it’s leaving me alone with the kids then we have some
Issues.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:19:39 PM EST
[#12]
That sucks. Pass the Cheerios
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:21:17 PM EST
[#13]
if she didn't tell me what she didn't trust me with, I would ignore her.

she doesn't trust me with her best friend?  (she should, best friend is fugly and I don't cheat)
She doesn't trust me with the salt and vinegar chips? (she shouldn't , I'll plow through every last one of those fuckers)

so, don't care.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:22:32 PM EST
[#14]
If it’s cookies, I understand.

I will eat them no matter what she says.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:22:33 PM EST
[#15]
If she does something like that maybe it's time you two parted ways
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:22:36 PM EST
[#16]
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:22:41 PM EST
[#17]
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X87
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:23:33 PM EST
[#18]
My hypothetical response to her would be, "Okay, best of luck with that."

Matter fact, that's what my actual response was to my actual ex-wife, before she became my ex-wife.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:23:59 PM EST
[#19]
Need more context to answer this, op.

The answer could be anywhere from eject to a laugh.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:24:04 PM EST
[#20]
If you don’t trust me we’ve got serious problems. What’s on your mind babe?
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:24:32 PM EST
[#21]
I don't trust OP to create a meaningful discussion, for reasons I can't discuss.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:25:04 PM EST
[#22]
My wife doesn't trust me regarding other women.
I don't care, that is her problem not mine.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:25:29 PM EST
[#23]
A general all subjects lack of trust would be end of marriage material. Lack of trust that the ice cream in the freezer will see tomorrow is completely justified.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:27:00 PM EST
[#24]
My wife does not trust me to pick up our 13 year old on occasion from school.  Reminds me in person, text through the day then texts to son “look for dad at the car rider loop at school”

She has that family 360 on her phone with son and if he’s not moving 1 second  after pick up time I get a call...to which I hang up on.

And I’ve never ever forgotten. Better on time schedule then Amtrak or United.
Usually 10 minutes early.

Damn  annoying!
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:27:04 PM EST
[#25]
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My hypothetical response to her would be, "Okay, best of luck with that."

Matter fact, that's what my actual response was to my actual ex-wife, before she became my ex-wife.
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Brothers from another mother!
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:27:20 PM EST
[#26]
So many details......... details matter.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:28:06 PM EST
[#27]
Gutless fucked up thread. Spill it or gtfo. JFC. Worse than a fuckin safe thread
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:28:54 PM EST
[#28]
No problem. Do it yourself.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:29:18 PM EST
[#29]
If I know for a fact that I have done nothing wrong, then I will question what she is guilty of.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:29:52 PM EST
[#30]
My wife still doesn't think I am capable of keeping the kids alive, so I guess that it depends on WTF you are talking about.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:30:07 PM EST
[#31]
Sounds like her own guilty conscience is projecting...
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:31:00 PM EST
[#32]
If it’s with her washing machine and dryer I say good you finally figured out I dont separate colors.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:31:33 PM EST
[#33]
She doesn't trust me to prepare the Thanksgiving dinner?  OK, I get it.  Doesn't trust me to change the oil in her car?  LOL.

The thing she doesn't trust you with is really important OP.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:31:33 PM EST
[#34]
Mine considered the kitchen her domain and didn't want me in there. Was it something along those lines?
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:32:48 PM EST
[#35]
She doesn't trust me with my mistress?

Or

She doesn't trust me not to be awesome AF?

Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:33:18 PM EST
[#36]
Context asshole ... context?
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:33:57 PM EST
[#37]
OMG! When did I get married?!?!?!?
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:34:21 PM EST
[#38]
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OP is about as forthcoming with information as his wife...

I think I see the problem.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:35:40 PM EST
[#39]
Spill it, or send me a Postal Money Order for ten bucks for wasting my time.
Postal Money Order ONLY.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:36:25 PM EST
[#40]
Are you having a stroke OP?
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:37:10 PM EST
[#41]
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I can't imagine being in a marriage where a woman drops little hints and plays stupid fucking games. That's my initial reaction.
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Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:37:12 PM EST
[#42]
Trust issues are the foundation of a bad relationship.  You ready for the divorce op?
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:37:14 PM EST
[#43]
Its not a compliment, for sure. And it suggests a weakness in marital communication as well as a potential weakness in marital bond. If it was my wife I would want to get to the bottom of the lack of trust, and the secret.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:37:16 PM EST
[#44]
If you say "oh" and walk away you funked up the powerplay psyop.

PS: I hate that shit.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:37:36 PM EST
[#45]
Without context, there can be no good answer here.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:38:42 PM EST
[#46]
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:38:45 PM EST
[#47]
we need context op,

Wife tells me she doesn't trust me to pick out a bedroom set, yeah she's probably right.
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:40:46 PM EST
[#48]
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Its not a compliment, for sure. And it suggests a weakness in marital communication as well as a potential weakness in marital bond. If it was my wife I would want to get to the bottom of the lack of trust, and the secret.
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That's what she would want you to think and do.
It's a trap. Run away!

Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:41:48 PM EST
[#49]
Link Posted: 6/5/2019 12:42:19 PM EST
[#50]
My wife doesn't trust me to be on time. But she is not happy unless she is 2 hours early. If she pushes me too hard I'll make sure we get to an appointment right on the nose just to fuck with her. That's my revenge -- being on time.
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