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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:40:25 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I know.... I think my family and stuff (as usual) has me stressed and that stress is having me make poor decisions. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: WTF is right.... What are you doing? Get your shit together and move on. Stop talking to this person and getting involved in their shit. Or, maybe you need to get a threesome going with these people just to add some fuel to this fire. I know.... I think my family and stuff (as usual) has me stressed and that stress is having me make poor decisions. Yep. Text him back and tell him to check his camera, then block him. You’ll wait a long time waiting on him to make an apology. Block him and have one less reason to get stressed out. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:41:38 AM EDT
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Ghost them then move on with your life.
But IMHO who turned down me doing nice stuff for him, like trying to run a bath for him. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:45:35 AM EDT
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JFC this is some serious high school immature drama llama bullshit.
Here's a hint: STOP FUCKING REPLYING BACK TO PEOPLE TO VALIDATE THEIR ISSUES AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE! |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:48:13 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Yep. Text him back and tell him to check his camera, then block him. You’ll wait a long time waiting on him to make an apology. Block him and have one less reason to get stressed out. I'm not texting, calling or whatever him again. He needs to apologize cuz like I've posted here, from day one I met him all I did was care and treat him good - to the point he even said no other people did that much for him. So, for him to look past that and accuse me (over a fat drunk with a questionable past) of that bullshit tells me he's broken for real and I can't be with that. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:48:43 AM EDT
[#5]
Found the rubber owner
 
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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:51:48 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Ghost them then move on with your life. But IMHO is a basic difference between men and women. Men hate it when women offer unsolicited/unneeded/unwanted "help". Do you think he is incapable of running a bath to his own preference? Too disabled to turn the faucets on? Exactly how is it nice to turn on a faucet? Quote HistoryQuoted: Ghost them then move on with your life. But IMHO who turned down me doing nice stuff for him, like trying to run a bath for him. The running of the bath was cuz he got bruised and sore from cutting down some branches... He called me that day and told me about the tree hitting him and stuff and why wouldn't I wanna run an Epsom salt bath and rub him down? Aren't women supposed to take care of their guy? 
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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:51:57 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I know, I'm asking myself the same question here. I've put up with so much crap over this guy that I seriously have to ask myself WTF?? But tonight was the nail in the coffin. I mean, again, I'm being treated like shit while the actual shit is being put on a pedestal... Years ago I went through something similar. I was seeing a guy for a few months where because I didn't say ILY in three months of dating, he got pissed and started chatting up other chicks....Well, one of the chicks he dumped me for was a Panamanian chick who yes, was hot, but she was looking for a green card and was sleeping with everyone. He would get mad at me and tell me I can't wear this or that when we went out, but he didn't care that she dressed like the town garden tool. One day I found out she reported him to our commander cuz he wouldn't leave her alone. She done got what she could out of him, where he wanted his $500, some gloves and an igloo back from her. I mean, she had him so whipped that he would drive her to the club and she'd be chatting up other guys right in front of him, but if he saw me at the club, he'd walk over and demand to know who I was talking to and why...go figure. So, here I am again, where some skank ho is being treated better than me...And, while the ho's lie, I get put through 21 questions  I need to do better. I sooo do. I’m trying to be as helpful as I can here, so take this objectively. If the same scenario happens repeatedly in regards to you and guys, you might want to take a look in the mirror. I’m not saying it’s all you by any means. But people get scarred by all kinds of things when they are younger and that impacts their personality and how they act. It’s so ingrained most don’t even notice it, but since it’s mental trauma it affects their lives immensely in one way or another. Work on yourself, don’t put up with BS from guys. There are a lot of messed up people out there. It’s unfortunate, but you must learn to quickly identify them and stay away. You can’t fix everyone. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:53:29 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: The running of the bath was cuz he got bruised and sore from cutting down some branches... He called me that day and told me about the tree hitting him and stuff and why wouldn't I wanna run an Epsom salt bath and rub him down? Aren't women supposed to take care of their guy? Every guy is different, but in general no. At least not that way. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:54:35 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: JFC this is some serious high school immature drama llama bullshit. Here's a hint: STOP FUCKING REPLYING BACK TO PEOPLE TO VALIDATE THEIR ISSUES AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE! I agree.... I often said to myself that dealing with him I feel like this is bullshit high school drama despite us all being in our 40s. And I kid you not, this chick and some other chick he flirted with in front of me are chicks he dated in high school....go figure. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:56:27 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I agree.... I often said to myself that dealing with him I feel like this is bullshit high school drama despite us all being in our 40s. And I kid you not, this chick and some other chick he flirted with in front of me are chicks he dated in high school....go figure. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: JFC this is some serious high school immature drama llama bullshit. Here's a hint: STOP FUCKING REPLYING BACK TO PEOPLE TO VALIDATE THEIR ISSUES AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE! I agree.... I often said to myself that dealing with him I feel like this is bullshit high school drama despite us all being in our 40s. And I kid you not, this chick and some other chick he flirted with in front of me are chicks he dated in high school....go figure. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 10:58:50 AM EDT
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Good eject. And while I applaud your effort in doing sweet things for him, (God knows we men love a woman like that) a grown man should not take baths.
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:00:05 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryYou know you need him now! |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:10:20 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I’m trying to be as helpful as I can here, so take this objectively. If the same scenario happens repeatedly in regards to you and guys, you might want to take a look in the mirror. I’m not saying it’s all you by any means. But people get scarred by all kinds of things when they are younger and that impacts their personality and how they act. It’s so ingrained most don’t even notice it, but since it’s mental trauma it affects their lives immensely in one way or another. Work on yourself, don’t put up with BS from guys. There are a lot of messed up people out there. It’s unfortunate, but you must learn to quickly identify them and stay away. You can’t fix everyone. I wasn't trying to "fix" him... I chatted him up thinking that us being in our 40s, him probably just wanting to relax after a divorce - that it would be a great match. But he still seemed to have a lot of baggage to unpack - where I guess I was trying really hard to ease his pain...again, as women, our nature is to nurture and kiss boo boos away. From what he's told me he had a rough childhood and the exes didn't do much better by him either. So, like I said, it transformed into me believing I needed to end it cuz I think he wasn't over his ex; was chatting up other women and seemed to not want to move past the rut/depression from his divorce and death of his dad...I kid you not, I met him when literally, his dog died, dad died and finalized his divorce....like a bad country song. I guess the pattern is sometimes I try too hard...maybe that has to do with me not getting enough hugs as a kid |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:18:02 AM EDT
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As entertaining as follow up threads could be if you were to stay in pursuit of this lad I'm going to suggest avoiding him like the plague.
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:26:24 AM EDT
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:32:27 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I wasn't trying to "fix" him... I chatted him up thinking that us being in our 40s, him probably just wanting to relax after a divorce - that it would be a great match. But he still seemed to have a lot of baggage to unpack - where I guess I was trying really hard to ease his pain...again, as women, our nature is to nurture and kiss boo boos away. From what he's told me he had a rough childhood and the exes didn't do much better by him either. So, like I said, it transformed into me believing I needed to end it cuz I think he wasn't over his ex; was chatting up other women and seemed to not want to move past the rut/depression from his divorce and death of his dad...I kid you not, I met him when literally, his dog died, dad died and finalized his divorce....like a bad country song. I guess the pattern is sometimes I try too hard...maybe that has to do with me not getting enough hugs as a kid This is all very complicated and would take months to unpack but real quick. Think objectively, did you have a parent, or older sibling, that was always very emotional, or displaying feelings more than normal? Did you try to console that person? You may be carrying that over into adulthood. You actually seek psychologically traumatized people in order to console them. Habits we learn to do in our childhood are incredibly difficult to break. Especially bad ones. This is just a shot in the dark. This scenario might not apply to you. But something probably occurred like this. Yes, women tend to be more nurturing, but other factors can really push that past where it should stop. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:34:36 AM EDT
[#17]
All pretty terrible advice so far.
I think you should have his baby. You, him and the fat drunk should all move in together. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:35:56 AM EDT
[#18]
Quote HistoryQuoted: All pretty terrible advice so far. I think you should have his baby. You, him and the fat drunk should all move in together.  Attached File |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:37:15 AM EDT
[#19]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: What does your buddy say? This  |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:42:27 AM EDT
[#20]
Ahhh geez.
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:54:02 AM EDT
[#21]
Is this fo' real?
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:55:31 AM EDT
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:56:25 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Block number then delete contact. Unless you crave drama, consciously or subconsciously, then Eject and be done.. Some folks need the drama and BS in their life or they get bored and crave it. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 11:57:41 AM EDT
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TLDR
I'm just here to say there are no condoms or drama in my life 
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:01:16 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Was it your buddys condom? 
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:02:47 PM EDT
[#26]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Is this fo' real? Some days I'm convinced that Site Staff start these threads because they know it'll boost membership sales so that people have access to the Ignore Feature.
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:08:54 PM EDT
[#27]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Is this fo' real? Lol, no. The only people dumb enough to believe women would log onto a website based around black rifles to talk about sex and relationships, are people who log onto websites based around black rifles to give relationship advice. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:11:31 PM EDT
[#28]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I'm not texting, calling or whatever him again. He needs to apologize cuz like I've posted here, from day one I met him all I did was care and treat him good - to the point he even said no other people did that much for him. So, for him to look past that and accuse me (over a fat drunk with a questionable past) of that bullshit tells me he's broken for real and I can't be with that. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Yep. Text him back and tell him to check his camera, then block him. You’ll wait a long time waiting on him to make an apology. Block him and have one less reason to get stressed out. I'm not texting, calling or whatever him again. He needs to apologize cuz like I've posted here, from day one I met him all I did was care and treat him good - to the point he even said no other people did that much for him. So, for him to look past that and accuse me (over a fat drunk with a questionable past) of that bullshit tells me he's broken for real and I can't be with that. Just block his number and forget about him. Any further interactions aren't going to do you any good even if he does apologize what does that get you? |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:13:30 PM EDT
[#29]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Lol, no. The only people dumb enough to believe women would log onto a website based around black rifles to talk about sex and relationships, are people who log onto websites based around black rifles to give relationship advice. The number of guys who like to come to Arfcom and pretend to be women is second only to the number of Arfcommers with a ready stash of gay porn in the level of concern that it raises. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:18:21 PM EDT
[#30]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Some days I'm convinced that Site Staff start these threads because they know it'll boost membership sales so that people have access to the Ignore Feature. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Is this fo' real? Some days I'm convinced that Site Staff start these threads because they know it'll boost membership sales so that people have access to the Ignore Feature. Ratings are low on the net right now. Plus, the Chester’s are coming up-internet equivalent award of the Oscar. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:26:03 PM EDT
[#31]
Quote HistoryQuoted: The running of the bath was cuz he got bruised and sore from cutting down some branches... He called me that day and told me about the tree hitting him and stuff and why wouldn't I wanna run an Epsom salt bath and rub him down? Aren't women supposed to take care of their guy? Wife and I have been married 33 years and this is still my biggest gripe. Without specifically asking me, she will try to help in a way that pisses me off. Two recent examples: I'm cleaning my guns and go to take a piss. Come back and everything is packed up. Wife: Why are you mad, I was helping you? Me: I was not through and now have to unpack everything again! I'm making an outdoor Bonsai stand out of repurposed pallets. My plan is to use gray outdoor stain on it, when finished. Turn around and wife has started painting the wood with Teal paint. Wife: Why are you mad, I was helping you? Teal is a cute color. ME: Big sigh, never mind. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:33:43 PM EDT
[#32]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This. Tell the guy to fuck off. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Block number then delete contact This. Tell the guy to fuck off. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:34:36 PM EDT
[#33]
Quote HistoryQuoted: The number of guys who like to come to Arfcom and pretend to be women is second only to the number of Arfcommers with a ready stash of gay porn in the level of concern that it raises. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Lol, no. The only people dumb enough to believe women would log onto a website based around black rifles to talk about sex and relationships, are people who log onto websites based around black rifles to give relationship advice. The number of guys who like to come to Arfcom and pretend to be women is second only to the number of Arfcommers with a ready stash of gay porn in the level of concern that it raises. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:34:40 PM EDT
[#34]
If a guy posted this thread it would be half a page and on page 8 of GD within an hour.
 (Also good eject if you actually follow through or this is real) |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:37:46 PM EDT
[#35]
This is when you tell him to lose your number and forget where you live.
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:39:26 PM EDT
[#36]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This thrrad is for those who miss SnowLeopard or Annatrosity threads... Annatrosity posted pics. Has a pic been posted yet? Before anyone says anything, I've posted pics before. I'm just getting started on this train wreck, but thanks OP for a thread that isn't about Trump, covid, the border, or the medical field. It's all so tiresome and we need a break. Not all heros wear capes. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:40:07 PM EDT
[#37]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Was it your buddys condom? Nahh…it just fell off a rubber tree |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:42:36 PM EDT
[#38]
Isn't he your neighbor? If so, this is why you don't shit where you eat, makes it harder to ghost people. lol
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:46:31 PM EDT
[#39]
Quote HistoryQuoted: JFC, chick. Get yer shit together. WTF. He's an ex-boyfriend. Yer done. Whatever he's doing or not doing is no longer your concern. Get out of the relationship, for fuck's sake. Fucking hell. Also LMAO, not often do you see a response like this from Subnet. 
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:47:21 PM EDT
[#40]
Run!
Don't look back. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:50:25 PM EDT
[#41]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This is the thing.... We've been talking on/off for a minute where he recently told me he thinks things were moving too fast with her. So, I got all excited thinking I got a chance and to just be patient.... But, all I saw was no change. So, I told him that I'm getting ready to finally stop looking for breadcrumbs and move on...I told him that like two days ago. So, Idk, what he's accusing me off tonight is just so sus/weird. I mean, why would I plant a condom on her if I told him I was giving up on waiting on him to make up his mind??? Maybe she figured out that me and him are talking and she decided to plant the condom to see if she could get a reaction out of him?? I don't get it, they're just guys, is it really that hard to get one? Because back in the day when I wanted one, for whatever reason, it was like flagging down a taxi. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 12:54:39 PM EDT
[#42]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Annatrosity posted pics. Has a pic been posted yet? Before anyone says anything, I've posted pics before. I'm just getting started on this train wreck, but thanks OP for a thread that isn't about Trump, covid, the border, or the medical field. It's all so tiresome and we need a break. Not all heros wear capes. If you've seen one doublewide, you've seen them all. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 1:01:08 PM EDT
[#43]
Ignore him. Block him on your phone and all social media.
YOU keeping contact continues the drama. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 1:13:56 PM EDT
[#44]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I know, I'm asking myself the same question here. I've put up with so much crap over this guy that I seriously have to ask myself WTF?? But tonight was the nail in the coffin. I mean, again, I'm being treated like shit while the actual shit is being put on a pedestal... Years ago I went through something similar. I was seeing a guy for a few months where because I didn't say ILY in three months of dating, he got pissed and started chatting up other chicks....Well, one of the chicks he dumped me for was a Panamanian chick who yes, was hot, but she was looking for a green card and was sleeping with everyone. He would get mad at me and tell me I can't wear this or that when we went out, but he didn't care that she dressed like the town garden tool. One day I found out she reported him to our commander cuz he wouldn't leave her alone. She done got what she could out of him, where he wanted his $500, some gloves and an igloo back from her. I mean, she had him so whipped that he would drive her to the club and she'd be chatting up other guys right in front of him, but if he saw me at the club, he'd walk over and demand to know who I was talking to and why...go figure. So, here I am again, where some skank ho is being treated better than me...And, while the ho's lie, I get put through 21 questions I need to do better. I sooo do. It's sounds to me like you like this drama. Cut all contact with him and block his number and be done. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 1:16:32 PM EDT
[#45]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Good eject. And while I applaud your effort in doing sweet things for him, (God knows we men love a woman like that) a grown man should not take baths. You can pry my epsom salt baths from my cold, dead hands!
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Posted: 1/23/2024 1:22:33 PM EDT
[#46]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Wife and I have been married 33 years and this is still my biggest gripe. Without specifically asking me, she will try to help in a way that pisses me off. Two recent examples: I'm cleaning my guns and go to take a piss. Come back and everything is packed up. Wife: Why are you mad, I was helping you? Me: I was not through and now have to unpack everything again! I'm making an outdoor Bonsai stand out of repurposed pallets. My plan is to use gray outdoor stain on it, when finished. Turn around and wife has started painting the wood with Teal paint. Wife: Why are you mad, I was helping you? Teal is a cute color. ME: Big sigh, never mind. My ex was into "feeding" each other. I guess it's supposed to be a sexy endearing gesture. I don't like it. Feed your own self and I will gobble my food like a starving dog, as is my way. We only had a half hour to eat at work, if we got a break at all. Try as I may, I cannot do anything besides inhale my food. Plus it's weird when they do it in movies, it's weirder in real life. If you want to impress me, empty the dishwasher. Vacuum. Do something useful. Or get the fuck out. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 1:42:47 PM EDT
[#47]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Pics of overweight drunk? for research and comparison. |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 1:44:14 PM EDT
[#48]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Annatrosity posted pics. Has a pic been posted yet? Before anyone says anything, I've posted pics before. I'm just getting started on this train wreck, but thanks OP for a thread that isn't about Trump, covid, the border, or the medical field. It's all so tiresome and we need a break. Not all heros wear capes. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: This thrrad is for those who miss SnowLeopard or Annatrosity threads... Annatrosity posted pics. Has a pic been posted yet? Before anyone says anything, I've posted pics before. I'm just getting started on this train wreck, but thanks OP for a thread that isn't about Trump, covid, the border, or the medical field. It's all so tiresome and we need a break. Not all heros wear capes. Here's a sanitized screenshot of some of the texts from last nite:  Attached File |
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Posted: 1/23/2024 1:44:47 PM EDT
[#49]
Hilarious thread thanks OP.
At this late I doubt my input would be helpful. However, this is a perfect case study of "women do it too" So let's be a little easy on our GD boys and their curse threads
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Posted: 1/23/2024 1:45:32 PM EDT
[#50]
Quote HistoryQuoted: And OP. for research and comparison. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Pics of overweight drunk? for research and comparison.  Attached File |
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