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Link Posted: 8/26/2022 2:44:16 AM EST
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"I don't know WHY I keep getting all these UTIs! Just unlucky I guess."

Link Posted: 8/26/2022 7:18:18 AM EST
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There is a double standard.

What people should be trying to understand is, "Why is there a double standard?"  

The current social consensus that denies the double standard is a historical anomaly in human society.
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If a man fucked 156 women by age 25 you'd want to high five rhe son of a bitch. He'd be a stud.

Well this bitch happens to be a whore because she did exactly that. Yeah yeah I know it's easy for women. Don't get me wrong. I am a chauvinist by most standards but your posts smack of double standards.

Work your noodles a little harder, gents. It's getting boring.

There is a double standard.

What people should be trying to understand is, "Why is there a double standard?"  

The current social consensus that denies the double standard is a historical anomaly in human society.
Good question.

Woke culture will blame the patriarchy or toxic masculinity but that's a canned answer spoon fed to them.

I find it a bit paradoxical to think that a large percentage of men put women on a pedestal but look down on them at the same time for their promiscuity. The Madonna Whore complex is getting weird at this point.

The double standard is a carryover from norms that are as old as time. People are trying to reshape our norms in current western culture but most of us find them bizzare. The gay pride movement is a great example. We are all supposed to praise it but deep down most of us look at twerking trannies at childrens libraries and grown men in thongs and high heels in a parade as really odd. We just can't say it openly. Sure it's a free country. They're free to be weird I suppose.

But I digress. The double standard exists but it is gut instinct. Trying to shed a natural reaction takes mental gymnastics. Then again that's what we are supposed to do in modern western culture.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 7:23:21 AM EST
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This.

I’m getting married oct 1st, been dating for 10 years, living together for 6. I got super lucky and found a old school values, really grounded, religious farm girl who’s loyal as hell.   I was single in 2012 and tried dating for a year and good god did it suck, crazy whores everywhere, if not crazy they were single moms with long lists of demands. Luckily my chick jumped me, shocked me as we were just friends, but I grabbed her quick as she’s awesome.

If she died or something I doubt I’d even look for another LTR chick, as it would be about impossible, probably just find a few no strings, friends with benefits to keep me company when I got lonely, vs trying to seriously find another gem out of the hordes of painted whores and desperate single moms and old chicks looking for retirement plans.
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So religious she shacked up with a man for 6 years.

Lol  why even get married?
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 7:28:44 AM EST
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So religious she shacked up with a man for 6 years.

Lol  why even get married?
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This.

I’m getting married oct 1st, been dating for 10 years, living together for 6. I got super lucky and found a old school values, really grounded, religious farm girl who’s loyal as hell.   I was single in 2012 and tried dating for a year and good god did it suck, crazy whores everywhere, if not crazy they were single moms with long lists of demands. Luckily my chick jumped me, shocked me as we were just friends, but I grabbed her quick as she’s awesome.

If she died or something I doubt I’d even look for another LTR chick, as it would be about impossible, probably just find a few no strings, friends with benefits to keep me company when I got lonely, vs trying to seriously find another gem out of the hordes of painted whores and desperate single moms and old chicks looking for retirement plans.


So religious she shacked up with a man for 6 years.

Lol  why even get married?

Maybe she isn’t Christian?
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 7:41:42 AM EST
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Who said anything about Christianity? I keep rereading my post to see where you managed to pull that from but it turns out you’re full of crap.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 7:42:33 AM EST
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Yet the culture is to blame for the apparent widespread sport fucking we just "know" all women do these days because Instagram?
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It isnt just women, Im wrapping up a taste of asia tour this month, getting mongolian and bengladashi this week and next.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 7:45:27 AM EST
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Who said anything about Christianity? I keep rereading my post to see where you managed to pull that from but it turns out you’re full of crap.
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Who said anything about Christianity? I keep rereading my post to see where you managed to pull that from but it turns out you’re full of crap.

You’re at least halfway implying that her being religious would mean she wouldn’t shack up with a guy for 6 years prior to marrying him.

Given that in this country, Christianity is by far the most common religion that frowns on such behavior, I took a wild guess at the religion you were referring to. You may have meant Judaism or Islam, though.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 7:48:37 AM EST
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If a man fucked 156 women by age 25 you'd want to high five rhe son of a bitch. He'd be a stud.

Well this bitch happens to be a whore because she did exactly that. Yeah yeah I know it's easy for women. Don't get me wrong. I am a chauvinist by most standards but your posts smack of double standards.

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When a woman has sex she is giving away her value. When a man gets married he is giving away his value. The male equal to a woman that fucked 156 men is a man that married 156 women. Both are examples of a broken person.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 7:52:54 AM EST
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When a woman has sex she is giving away her value. When a man gets married he is giving away his value. The male equal to a woman that fucked 156 men is a man that married 156 women. Both are examples of a broken person.
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If a man fucked 156 women by age 25 you'd want to high five rhe son of a bitch. He'd be a stud.

Well this bitch happens to be a whore because she did exactly that. Yeah yeah I know it's easy for women. Don't get me wrong. I am a chauvinist by most standards but your posts smack of double standards.

Work your noodles a little harder, gents. It's getting boring.


When a woman has sex she is giving away her value. When a man gets married he is giving away his value. The male equal to a woman that fucked 156 men is a man that married 156 women. Both are examples of a broken person.

I don’t agree with your premise, but I also understand that we will not change each other’s opinion on the matter. Suffice it to say that I think a man running up a tally like that indicates brokenness too.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 7:54:59 AM EST
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Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:00:43 AM EST
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If a man fucked 156 women by age 25 you'd want to high five rhe son of a bitch. He'd be a stud.

Well this bitch happens to be a whore because she did exactly that. Yeah yeah I know it's easy for women. Don't get me wrong. I am a chauvinist by most standards but your posts smack of double standards.

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A man fucking 156 women and a women fucking 156 men are completely opposite things. Why should they be judged the same when they are not the same thing?

A man only fucks 156 women if he is Chad or he pays for it. Any ugly women can fuck 156 men in a week just by laying on the sidewalk with her legs spread apart. Even ugly crack-whores are able to charge money for the use of their STD infested vaginas.

It takes absolutely zero effort for a women to get a high partner count and there is nothing attractive about it.

The sexual double standard is just as valid and logical as the double standard in men and women sports.

Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:02:16 AM EST
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Men and women are different. This new thing of saying we are the same is total bullshit.

The psychological effects of a man banging 150 women vs a women getting banged by 150 dudes is not the same.
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But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite (which is a red flag) and is creating and reveling in a problem he then condemns (which is a red flag). Furthermore, it indicates that he places little to no value on the act itself (anyone will do, red flag), treats people like masturbatory proxies (red flag), and is ok with the risks of drama, STDs, and creating bastards (all red flags).

A guy willing to do that has a ton of red flags. It’s not indicative of a healthy mindset.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:07:39 AM EST
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Men and women are different. This new thing of saying we are the same is total bullshit.

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Casual sex with many partners is damaging to both sexes. Maybe not in the same way but to the same degree.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:10:03 AM EST
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Maybe she isn’t Christian?
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This.

I’m getting married oct 1st, been dating for 10 years, living together for 6. I got super lucky and found a old school values, really grounded, religious farm girl who’s loyal as hell.   I was single in 2012 and tried dating for a year and good god did it suck, crazy whores everywhere, if not crazy they were single moms with long lists of demands. Luckily my chick jumped me, shocked me as we were just friends, but I grabbed her quick as she’s awesome.

If she died or something I doubt I’d even look for another LTR chick, as it would be about impossible, probably just find a few no strings, friends with benefits to keep me company when I got lonely, vs trying to seriously find another gem out of the hordes of painted whores and desperate single moms and old chicks looking for retirement plans.


So religious she shacked up with a man for 6 years.

Lol  why even get married?

Maybe she isn’t Christian?



My favorite part in the Bible is the verse that says you need a legal document from the government to be married to someone.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:14:16 AM EST
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But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite...
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What men find attractive is not necessarily the qualities that the man himself possesses.

I am attracted to feminine, soft spoken women with hour-glass figures and wide hips. I am none of those things. Am I a hypocrite for not being attracted to the qualities that I myself posses?

Most men have a visceral repulsion toward high partner count women just as most women have a visceral repulsion toward short fat bald men.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:14:16 AM EST
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I don’t agree with your premise, but I also understand that we will not change each other’s opinion on the matter. Suffice it to say that I think a man running up a tally like that indicates brokenness too.
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If a man fucked 156 women by age 25 you'd want to high five rhe son of a bitch. He'd be a stud.

Well this bitch happens to be a whore because she did exactly that. Yeah yeah I know it's easy for women. Don't get me wrong. I am a chauvinist by most standards but your posts smack of double standards.

Work your noodles a little harder, gents. It's getting boring.


When a woman has sex she is giving away her value. When a man gets married he is giving away his value. The male equal to a woman that fucked 156 men is a man that married 156 women. Both are examples of a broken person.

I don’t agree with your premise, but I also understand that we will not change each other’s opinion on the matter. Suffice it to say that I think a man running up a tally like that indicates brokenness too.


Absolutely, especially so when the cost of paying for a child he didn’t want comes into play.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:15:59 AM EST
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But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite (which is a red flag) and is creating and reveling in a problem he then condemns (which is a red flag). Furthermore, it indicates that he places little to no value on the act itself (anyone will do, red flag), treats people like masturbatory proxies (red flag), and is ok with the risks of drama, STDs, and creating bastards (all red flags).

A guy willing to do that has a ton of red flags. It’s not indicative of a healthy mindset.
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Men and women are different. This new thing of saying we are the same is total bullshit.

The psychological effects of a man banging 150 women vs a women getting banged by 150 dudes is not the same.

But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite (which is a red flag) and is creating and reveling in a problem he then condemns (which is a red flag). Furthermore, it indicates that he places little to no value on the act itself (anyone will do, red flag), treats people like masturbatory proxies (red flag), and is ok with the risks of drama, STDs, and creating bastards (all red flags).

A guy willing to do that has a ton of red flags. It’s not indicative of a healthy mindset.


Agreed.  And rarely do those men remain monogamous after marriage.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:17:48 AM EST
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100%

But due to the dynamics between the genders, he’s more likely to have a potential high-value mate take an interest in him than a female with a similar track record.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:18:38 AM EST
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If a man fucked 156 women by age 25 you'd want to high five rhe son of a bitch. He'd be a stud.

Well this bitch happens to be a whore because she did exactly that. Yeah yeah I know it's easy for women. Don't get me wrong. I am a chauvinist by most standards but your posts smack of double standards.

Work your noodles a little harder, gents. It's getting boring.
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Men and women aren’t the same.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:18:40 AM EST
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What men find attractive is not necessarily the qualities that the man himself possesses.

I am attracted to feminine, soft spoken women with hour-glass figures and wide hips. I am none of those things. Am I a hypocrite for not being attracted to the qualities that I myself posses?

Most men have a visceral repulsion toward high partner count women just as most women have a visceral repulsion toward short fat bald men.
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But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite...


What men find attractive is not necessarily the qualities that the man himself possesses.

I am attracted to feminine, soft spoken women with hour-glass figures and wide hips. I am none of those things. Am I a hypocrite for not being attracted to the qualities that I myself posses?

Most men have a visceral repulsion toward high partner count women just as most women have a visceral repulsion toward short fat bald men.

None of that had anything to do with what I posted. I am speaking of ethics, morals, and personal standards. You are speaking of physical characteristics. These are not the same.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:20:17 AM EST
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I wish you all of the best, but "been dating for 10 years, living together for 6. "  

Is difficult to juxtapose with, "got super lucky and found a old school values, really grounded, religious farm girl"

Again, I wish you both the best, and as someone who is also making my LTR official in a few months, I feel much as you do about the dire prospect of having to prospect in the current crop of US womenfolk.  Ugh.
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This.

I’m getting married oct 1st, been dating for 10 years, living together for 6. I got super lucky and found a old school values, really grounded, religious farm girl who’s loyal as hell.   I was single in 2012 and tried dating for a year and good god did it suck, crazy whores everywhere, if not crazy they were single moms with long lists of demands. Luckily my chick jumped me, shocked me as we were just friends, but I grabbed her quick as she’s awesome.

If she died or something I doubt I’d even look for another LTR chick, as it would be about impossible, probably just find a few no strings, friends with benefits to keep me company when I got lonely, vs trying to seriously find another gem out of the hordes of painted whores and desperate single moms and old chicks looking for retirement plans.



I wish you all of the best, but "been dating for 10 years, living together for 6. "  

Is difficult to juxtapose with, "got super lucky and found a old school values, really grounded, religious farm girl"

Again, I wish you both the best, and as someone who is also making my LTR official in a few months, I feel much as you do about the dire prospect of having to prospect in the current crop of US womenfolk.  Ugh.


It’s more of being realistic and understanding it’s much better to take your time and be sure of what your getting into, vs enter quickly and discover there were things you didn’t see. We were both gun shy and didn’t want to face getting divorced, thus a long engagement. We have already been thru more together than many marriages survive, discovered were great together, can count on each other, no hidden bullshit, and want the marriage now. While living together unmarried is a sin, imho it’s a much lesser sin than getting into a future divorce by jumping into marriage too quickly.

Iv also got a low mileage model, the total opposite of the OP chick. My woman was married at 16, and been with the same guy the last 30 years, now me.  
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:23:35 AM EST
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But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite (which is a red flag) and is creating and reveling in a problem he then condemns (which is a red flag). Furthermore, it indicates that he places little to no value on the act itself (anyone will do, red flag), treats people like masturbatory proxies (red flag), and is ok with the risks of drama, STDs, and creating bastards (all red flags).

A guy willing to do that has a ton of red flags. It's not indicative of a healthy mindset.
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I don't think it's hypocritical because we don't look for the same things, but I also agree on the red flags. It's not unexpected or in some way problematic that a man might have more partners and want a woman to have less, but there are definitely limits.
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If a man fucked 156 women by age 25 you'd want to high five rhe son of a bitch. He'd be a stud.

Well this bitch happens to be a whore because she did exactly that. Yeah yeah I know it's easy for women. Don't get me wrong. I am a chauvinist by most standards but your posts smack of double standards.

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Says a man whose never known the type of woman that fucks 156 men.

That type of lady is probably going to be wearing diapers by 45 because they have an asshole the size of a Pringles can.

As a youngster I was sort of a high value guy for sex, nothing I did would have been physically damaging to me if I had gotten to number 156.  Some of the stuff I did to women definitely was, and it was consensual and done while both parties were sober for the most part.

The double standards are physiological and mental and they  aren’t social constructs.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:28:26 AM EST
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I worked with a lady engineer, she is about 45 now…very nice lady, very sweet, had a monster set of honkers and used that to her advantage.   We were actually real good friends. But she was as loose as a goose.  Been with a lot of guys, had two kids and I remember her telling me one time a physical relationship is easy for her but getting emotional is the hard part.  I said what do you mean and she said quote “finding a guy and fucking him is the easy part, but after that becomes the work”.  

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Women like that, like the OP chick, are broken IMHO and so cavalier about hooking up with randos, they will never feel or develop the needed mental attachments to make any LTR relationship work, damn sure not while remaining faithful in the proces, as that same mentality makes her cheating, that much higher.


There are women you fuck and have flings with and women you marry because they are solid, good women who will be good wives and mothers and good role models to their daughters as to what a woman should be, the high body count / easy fuck chicks are not the ones anyones wanting to marry / think will be good wives or mothers and damn sure not good role models to their daughters of what a woman should be. .

It becomes painfully obvious once they get older and looks start fading, the smart chicks focused on finding a good man early in life, when they were hot and fertile , while the old bitter washed up whores didn’t, and ride into retirement alone with a herd of cats, not a stable family, loving husband, kids and grandkids to enrich their lives and care for them in old age.
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My favorite part in the Bible is the verse that says you need a legal document from the government to be married to someone.
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This.

I'm getting married oct 1st, been dating for 10 years, living together for 6. I got super lucky and found a old school values, really grounded, religious farm girl who's loyal as hell.   I was single in 2012 and tried dating for a year and good god did it suck, crazy whores everywhere, if not crazy they were single moms with long lists of demands. Luckily my chick jumped me, shocked me as we were just friends, but I grabbed her quick as she's awesome.

If she died or something I doubt I'd even look for another LTR chick, as it would be about impossible, probably just find a few no strings, friends with benefits to keep me company when I got lonely, vs trying to seriously find another gem out of the hordes of painted whores and desperate single moms and old chicks looking for retirement plans.


So religious she shacked up with a man for 6 years.

Lol  why even get married?

Maybe she isn't Christian?



My favorite part in the Bible is the verse that says you need a legal document from the government to be married to someone.

I've been with my SO longer than the average dude posting a divorce thread on here. Got little use of the church or the gov when it comes to such things.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:32:11 AM EST
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Are you an incel? Because that's a pathetic incel-like take.
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None of that had anything to do with what I posted. I am speaking of ethics, morals, and personal standards. You are speaking of physical characteristics. These are not the same.
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I was attempting to explain why many high partner count men will likely still not want a slut as a long term partner. It may be seen as hypocritical, but you can't change what men are naturally attracted to.
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I don't think it's hypocritical because we don't look for the same things, but I also agree on the red flags. It's not unexpected or in some way problematic that a man might have more partners and want a woman to have less, but there are definitely limits.
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But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite (which is a red flag) and is creating and reveling in a problem he then condemns (which is a red flag). Furthermore, it indicates that he places little to no value on the act itself (anyone will do, red flag), treats people like masturbatory proxies (red flag), and is ok with the risks of drama, STDs, and creating bastards (all red flags).

A guy willing to do that has a ton of red flags. It's not indicative of a healthy mindset.


I don't think it's hypocritical because we don't look for the same things, but I also agree on the red flags. It's not unexpected or in some way problematic that a man might have more partners and want a woman to have less, but there are definitely limits.

You don’t think a woman who has kept herself relatively chaste due to moral and ethical convictions and personal standards would look for similar moral and ethical convictions and personal standards in a man?
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You don’t think a woman who has kept herself relatively chaste due to moral and ethical convictions and personal standards would look for similar moral and ethical convictions and personal standards in a man?
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But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite (which is a red flag) and is creating and reveling in a problem he then condemns (which is a red flag). Furthermore, it indicates that he places little to no value on the act itself (anyone will do, red flag), treats people like masturbatory proxies (red flag), and is ok with the risks of drama, STDs, and creating bastards (all red flags).

A guy willing to do that has a ton of red flags. It's not indicative of a healthy mindset.


I don't think it's hypocritical because we don't look for the same things, but I also agree on the red flags. It's not unexpected or in some way problematic that a man might have more partners and want a woman to have less, but there are definitely limits.

You don’t think a woman who has kept herself relatively chaste due to moral and ethical convictions and personal standards would look for similar moral and ethical convictions and personal standards in a man?

They definitely should.
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Says a man whose never known the type of woman that fucks 156 men.

That type of lady is probably going to be wearing diapers by 45 because they have an asshole the size of a Pringles can.

As a youngster I was sort of a high value guy for sex, nothing I did would have been physically damaging to me if I had gotten to number 156.  Some of the stuff I did to women definitely was, and it was consensual and done while both parties were sober for the most part.

The double standards are physiological and mental and they  aren't social constructs.
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If a man fucked 156 women by age 25 you'd want to high five rhe son of a bitch. He'd be a stud.

Well this bitch happens to be a whore because she did exactly that. Yeah yeah I know it's easy for women. Don't get me wrong. I am a chauvinist by most standards but your posts smack of double standards.

Work your noodles a little harder, gents. It's getting boring.


Says a man whose never known the type of woman that fucks 156 men.

That type of lady is probably going to be wearing diapers by 45 because they have an asshole the size of a Pringles can.

As a youngster I was sort of a high value guy for sex, nothing I did would have been physically damaging to me if I had gotten to number 156.  Some of the stuff I did to women definitely was, and it was consensual and done while both parties were sober for the most part.

The double standards are physiological and mental and they  aren't social constructs.
Don't assume, my friend. I've known and still know many women that lost count around 100.

I'm not unfamiliar with this.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:34:22 AM EST
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It's still not the same. Men and women are different. We are hardwired differently. It's just how it is. No amount of feelz is going to change that.
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Men and women are different. This new thing of saying we are the same is total bullshit.

The psychological effects of a man banging 150 women vs a women getting banged by 150 dudes is not the same.

But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite (which is a red flag) and is creating and reveling in a problem he then condemns (which is a red flag). Furthermore, it indicates that he places little to no value on the act itself (anyone will do, red flag), treats people like masturbatory proxies (red flag), and is ok with the risks of drama, STDs, and creating bastards (all red flags).

A guy willing to do that has a ton of red flags. It’s not indicative of a healthy mindset.


It's still not the same. Men and women are different. We are hardwired differently. It's just how it is. No amount of feelz is going to change that.

Or perhaps there are similarities and you just don’t want there to be because feelz.

Unequally yoked and all that.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:35:49 AM EST
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You don't think a woman who has kept herself relatively chaste due to moral and ethical convictions and personal standards would look for similar moral and ethical convictions and personal standards in a man?
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But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite (which is a red flag) and is creating and reveling in a problem he then condemns (which is a red flag). Furthermore, it indicates that he places little to no value on the act itself (anyone will do, red flag), treats people like masturbatory proxies (red flag), and is ok with the risks of drama, STDs, and creating bastards (all red flags).

A guy willing to do that has a ton of red flags. It's not indicative of a healthy mindset.


I don't think it's hypocritical because we don't look for the same things, but I also agree on the red flags. It's not unexpected or in some way problematic that a man might have more partners and want a woman to have less, but there are definitely limits.

You don't think a woman who has kept herself relatively chaste due to moral and ethical convictions and personal standards would look for similar moral and ethical convictions and personal standards in a man?
Unfortunately morals and ethics are quickly becoming outdated and restructured by a lot of folks.
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I was attempting to explain why many high partner count men will likely still not want a slut as a long term partner. It may be seen as hypocritical, but you can't change what men are naturally attracted to.
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None of that had anything to do with what I posted. I am speaking of ethics, morals, and personal standards. You are speaking of physical characteristics. These are not the same.


I was attempting to explain why many high partner count men will likely still not want a slut as a long term partner. It may be seen as hypocritical, but you can't change what men are naturally attracted to.

He may be naturally attracted to it, but she also has to decide he’s worth her time.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:40:28 AM EST
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years ago,

I cannot for the life of me remember what article it was, but a research article was about how they were finding male DNA matter in women's tissue and blood that was not their fathers. in some cases, MANY different male DNA material. those with more male DNA in their body had higher numbers of mental illness and issues in life.

the hypothesis was that a woman absorb's male DNA from semen which ultimately causes a internal issue inside her ( basically a system where the male DNA was possibly disrupting other male DNA)


in the words of one DNA specialist (PhD's in Genetics, Embryology and Microbiology) that I went to a CE with, " DNA is dangerous. its dangerous because we don't really know and understand it. we talk a good game and like to believe we are masters of it, but the reality is that we know very little about it"

it was a tripping article.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:40:41 AM EST
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Numbers 32-39 are hilarious to me. Also looks like she porked 5 different guys on a 3-day vacation, solid work there.

This Twitter comment made me lol….
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Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:42:51 AM EST
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Don't assume, my friend. I've known and still know many women that lost count around 100.

I'm not unfamiliar with this.
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If a man fucked 156 women by age 25 you'd want to high five rhe son of a bitch. He'd be a stud.

Well this bitch happens to be a whore because she did exactly that. Yeah yeah I know it's easy for women. Don't get me wrong. I am a chauvinist by most standards but your posts smack of double standards.

Work your noodles a little harder, gents. It's getting boring.


Says a man whose never known the type of woman that fucks 156 men.

That type of lady is probably going to be wearing diapers by 45 because they have an asshole the size of a Pringles can.

As a youngster I was sort of a high value guy for sex, nothing I did would have been physically damaging to me if I had gotten to number 156.  Some of the stuff I did to women definitely was, and it was consensual and done while both parties were sober for the most part.

The double standards are physiological and mental and they  aren't social constructs.
Don't assume, my friend. I've known and still know many women that lost count around 100.

I'm not unfamiliar with this.

You work vice?

If you tell me that they are happy healthy and prosperous and have stable relationships I will never take you seriously again.
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:47:30 AM EST
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Girl who works with my woman is a career whore, 39, no kids, ( because it’s all about her ) doesn’t want any, fucks randos off tinder constantly, adds 2-3 new dicks to her body count every weekend. Always having UTI infections, and other issues. Claims she wants a good man, but runs from them. Her current boyfriend she met off tinder, got a dui the day she met him, he was in a company vehicle, fired, drug / booze problems, supposedly ptsd, alcoholic, she instantly fell in love. Lol
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:55:03 AM EST
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Just because a dude goes to a titty bar doesn't mean we wants to marry a stripper.


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Men and women are different. This new thing of saying we are the same is total bullshit.

The psychological effects of a man banging 150 women vs a women getting banged by 150 dudes is not the same.

But a man who is willing to bang 150 women who then also wants a low-partner count woman to settle down with is a hypocrite (which is a red flag) and is creating and reveling in a problem he then condemns (which is a red flag). Furthermore, it indicates that he places little to no value on the act itself (anyone will do, red flag), treats people like masturbatory proxies (red flag), and is ok with the risks of drama, STDs, and creating bastards (all red flags).

A guy willing to do that has a ton of red flags. It’s not indicative of a healthy mindset.


It's still not the same. Men and women are different. We are hardwired differently. It's just how it is. No amount of feelz is going to change that.

Or perhaps there are similarities and you just don’t want there to be because feelz.

Unequally yoked and all that.


Just because a dude goes to a titty bar doesn't mean we wants to marry a stripper.



Neither do women at an all-male revue. So?
Link Posted: 8/26/2022 8:58:04 AM EST
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MGTOW is happening.

Link Posted: 8/26/2022 9:15:01 AM EST
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She might. She could also have some flexibility there if everything else is good.

"Relatively chaste" (is that like a little bit pregnant?) seems subjective and even two people of similar moral convictions can have varying opinions on what that is- especially if one is male and one female.

ETA and the biological differences between men and women are objective.
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That is not true.
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My favorite part in the Bible is the verse that says you need a legal document from the government to be married to someone.
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This.

I’m getting married oct 1st, been dating for 10 years, living together for 6. I got super lucky and found a old school values, really grounded, religious farm girl who’s loyal as hell.   I was single in 2012 and tried dating for a year and good god did it suck, crazy whores everywhere, if not crazy they were single moms with long lists of demands. Luckily my chick jumped me, shocked me as we were just friends, but I grabbed her quick as she’s awesome.

If she died or something I doubt I’d even look for another LTR chick, as it would be about impossible, probably just find a few no strings, friends with benefits to keep me company when I got lonely, vs trying to seriously find another gem out of the hordes of painted whores and desperate single moms and old chicks looking for retirement plans.


So religious she shacked up with a man for 6 years.

Lol  why even get married?

Maybe she isn’t Christian?



My favorite part in the Bible is the verse that says you need a legal document from the government to be married to someone.



That part is right after the part that says to give 10% of your pre-taxed income to the religious building.

I'm a King James bible believing Christian.

MGTOW
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He's banged at least one chick from the audience every show night.

The stripper is going home to bang her boyfriend of the week.

He will marry some random good girl. She will continue on a path of randoms.

They are not the same, never will be.
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Neither do women at an all-male revue. So?


He's banged at least one chick from the audience every show night.

The stripper is going home to bang her boyfriend of the week.

He will marry some random good girl. She will continue on a path of randoms.

They are not the same, never will be.

Most of the men at an all-male revue are gay. And the ones who aren’t don’t usually get married, much less to a good girl. Strippers are strippers.
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That is not true.
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That is not true.



Damn sure viewed that way by many.

IMHO, it’s a wise move, learn the facts before you commit for life , much harder for someone to hide who they really are when your living together for a extended period, vs marry quickly and suddenly start finding new things you definately don’t like popping up constantly once you move in together as husband n wife.
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