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Posted: 1/19/2017 10:28:52 AM EDT
Maybe it's the singles scene where she lives (I commute from another town.) I'm married 20 years and not in the game, so the advice I have on tap is of limited value.
She likes to hunt and fish, carries a Springfield XD-9 compact, and has two kids who are actually pretty cool. As a single mom she seems to be doing a damn good job of making things work. She can cook like crazy, and has OCD and caffeine-fueled bouts of house cleaning. Her sense of humor is what you wished every one of your female coworkers had. Southeast Georgia must not be the cat's ass when it comes to finding a dude who isn't a man-child who wears his ass on his shoulders, I reckon. I read more than I post, so I know the rules (posted with permission): Attached File Pole inbound. ETA: 4'10", 103lbs, some tats but nothing cheesy. |
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in before all the whiteknighting
eta: op is a stalker posting her pic for millions to see and i know her, i will text her about your creepiness |
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Maybe it's the singles scene where she lives (I commute from another town.) I'm married 20 years and not in the game, so the advice I have on tap is of limited value. She likes to hunt and fish, carries a Springfield XD-9 compact, and has two kids who are actually pretty cool. As a single mom she seems to be doing a damn good job of making things work. She can cook like crazy, and has OCD and caffeine-fueled bouts of house cleaning. Her sense of humor is what you wished every one of your female coworkers had. Southeast Georgia must not be the cat's ass when it comes to finding a dude who isn't a man-child who wears his ass on his shoulders, I reckon. I read more than I post, so I know the rules (posted with permission): https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/161834/ash-128875.JPG Pole inbound. View Quote Unless you're making a Brady bunch family, that's a big one right there. |
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Id have my pole inbound to her vagina, instead of posting a thread about her
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i am going to guess its a mix of where she lives and the kids.
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OP lusting after another woman thread.
In before "the curse". |
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What is she looking for in a guy? You didn't really provide anything useful for information except pic and kids
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Too short and too many kids but Ill throw her some mercy D if she wants to travel up here.
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I may have found the issue. View Quote And there you have it. No self made successful guy is willing to take that on. Sorry but that's the harsh truth. When I divorced ( no kids ) I dated a gal with 2 kids an it didn't work out. Ex kept on interfering and stuff. I bailed after 6 months. Was fun though. |
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The two kids are holding her back. View Quote It's the kids. She looks young too. What age dudes is she trying to date? She'll have to suck up her decreased marketability. She needs a mature dude, willing to take on the two kids. She better be willing for at least #3 or that really thins out the candidates. |
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Two kids.
Everyone has the power of the internet at their fingertips. Who wants to go slow and date a mom when there are young college girls looking to bang on Tinder? |
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I won't go so far as to say kids are baggage but I imagine to the males in the age bracket she's looking for it is a huge negative. What young male wants to bankroll some other man's kids? At my age it wouldn't be a deal breaker but I would bet that's a big part of the problem.
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What is she, about 12 years old? Why is she hiding one of her eyes? I can't stand that look.
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She's pretty hot. It's got to be the kids.
She needs a man who also had kids. |
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A million pages describing the perfect girl can all be ruined when it ends with "and I have 2 kids".
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Sounds like she requires a man with his shit together and knows what he wants.
2 kids from one or two other baby daddys probably arent on the top of that kinda man's list. Her best hope is to find a guy that has custody of his own child and hadles his own business, but this man wont be found in a bar. This kinda guy can also land a lot of tail so she is at a disadvantage. |
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You left out the part where she dumps her kids on her mom every weekend so she can dress like a hooker and hang around bars like she did before the 2 kids almost ruined all that.
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How long is the list she carries,a lot of people ,men and women have unrealistic expectations
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I've known plenty of great women who are cool as hell and can't seem to find someone. I've concluded that there's something in them that doesn't translate to good intimate relationships even though they're awesome friends. Where I live it's not *normal* to reach 25 and not be married for several years already so when someone is nearing or already into their 40s (unless they're known for being an unabashed bachelor(ette)) I have to assume they're sabotaging themselves in some way.
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Because a mature, stable man probably would run at that beacon of immaturity and instability, single motherhood.
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Most guys are not interested in a woman with kids for a serious relationship. I hear it usually causes lots of drama.
ETA, kids, tats, used goods. |
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I'm a single guy who's 40 now, but I don't have any kids and have never been married. I'm not perfect, but I'm a decent guy.
I'd have a hard time wanting to get involved with a woman that has kids. I don't dislike kids, but I'm also not sure I'd want kids around quite yet. I'd say having kids is going to be one of THE biggest detractors to possible suitors. Some women don't seem to understand that guys don't have some super huge urge to sweep into a single-mother situation and plant their flag. Most of us would rather have our own kids. So this goes back to a piece of advice I'd give to any young woman or girl - DON'T GET KNOCKED UP BY A DOUCHEBAG. |
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It is the kids. In today's world that is more or less asking a guy to commit to $10k a year or more in expenses plus dealing with one or more baby daddies. If she had the kids out of wedlock they also are a huge red flags as to poor choice making.
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So many red flags in this thread alone. She's attractive for sure, but that's not all factors of a relationship. especially when there are kids involved. How old are the kids exactly?
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