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Link Posted: 2/23/2024 3:03:20 PM EDT
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Can confirm. My sister teaches but feels more like a babysitter. All she does is break up fights and she's an elementary school teacher. On the flip side, these kids will be working for my kids.
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My wife had a knife pulled on her by a 1st grader.  Kid supposedly brought it to school because "he had a score to settle" with a classmate.  

She doesn't teach anymore.
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I still would say the parents / those who raise are more important.

If they don't help / drive the kid / be involved ... it won't matter what schools the kid goes to, things fall through.

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The absolute best gift for education I ever got from my parents (mostly my mom) was that she taught me to *love* reading. She didn't force me to. She found a way to get me to really really like it.
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Either you have students that perform exceptionally well or you have students coming into class grade levels behind. There are rarely students who are in between.


It's 100% parenting.  Kids learn most things at home and then fill in some gaps at school.  

It's amazing what kids can do when you give them that individual attention as a parent.  Read to your kids, do math with your kids, do sports with your kids.  They are just little sponges at that age and can learn virtually anything if you have the patience to teach them.  

I think my kids have been read to 99% of the nights of their lives at this point (5 and 7) with only a few rare nights where we skip it.  Not a surprise that they both test in the 90th percentile or higher on everything.

That works for anything, not just reading, writing, and math.  There's some kids out there with incredible talents and behind every one of them is a patient parent that put in the work.




No. That cannot be the expectation.

Attending school and gaining an education is your full time, 40 hour a week job for 12-13 years as a kid. That time should produce results.

The money spent on education in the US is very high. Nearly every chart I've ever seen has the US in the top two globally for education spending per pupil. That should also produce results.

It is completely inexcusable for the US public education system to perform the way it is while consuming the resources it does.

There is also a whole bunch of life that needs to happen between coming home from school and going to bed. That time shouldn't be used to replace the productivity of an 8 hour school day every day.

I was raised by a hard-nosed older woman that wasn't allowed to attend school when she was a kid, and she didn't gain literacy until her 20s, but somehow, I was in AP, honors, and college courses all the way through HS. The values she taught me helped me get there. Her academic knowledge did not. That's how it's supposed to work.

I still would say the parents / those who raise are more important.

If they don't help / drive the kid / be involved ... it won't matter what schools the kid goes to, things fall through.

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The absolute best gift for education I ever got from my parents (mostly my mom) was that she taught me to *love* reading. She didn't force me to. She found a way to get me to really really like it.


Yep.

We'd check books out from the library every week. Mom didn't really care what it was as long as it interested us.

I'm pretty sure I was the only kid who had read "The rise and fall of the Third Reich" before the ninth grade. That was ~40 years ago.

I'm currently halfway through "High Performance Cams and Valvetrain" by Billy Godblod, the former lead cam designer at Comp Cams. You'll never learn if you don't read...


Link Posted: 2/23/2024 3:05:31 PM EDT
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But hey.........those teacher's unions are flush with cash.
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Maybe there's a reason she doesn't, like she needs a job or something.
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This was on another site. From what I gather in the thread, this is a normal high school not in a poor area.




I teach high school. Age range 15-18 years old. I have seen students who can't do the following:

-Read at grade level. Some come into my classroom at a 3rd/4th grade reading level. There are some students who cannot sound out words.

-Write a complete sentence. They don't capitalize the first letter of the sentence or the I's. They also don't add punctuation. I have seen a student write one whole page essay without a period.

-Spell simple words.

-Add or subtract double-digits. For example, they can't solve 27-13 in their head. They also cannot do it on paper. They need a calculator.

-Know their multiplication tables.

-Round

-Graph

-Understand the concept of negative.

-Understand percentages.

-Solve one-step variable equations. For example, if I tell them "2x = 8. Solve for x," they can't solve it. They would subtract by 2 on both sides instead of dividing by 2.

-Take notes.

-Follow an example. They have a hard time transferring the patterns that they see in an example to a new problem.

-No research skills. The phrases they use to google are too vague when they search for information. For example, if I ask them to research the 5 types of chemical reactions, they only type in "reactions" in Google. When I explain that Google cannot read minds and they have to be very specific with their wording, they just stare at me confused. But even if their search phrases are good, they do not click on the links. They just read the excerpt Google provided them. If the answer is not in the excerpts, they give up.

-Just because they know how to use their phones does not mean they know how to use a computer. They are not familiar with common keyboard shortcuts. They also cannot type properly. Some students type using their index fingers.

These are just some things I can name at the top of my head. I'm sure there are a few that I missed here.

Now, as a teacher, I try my best to fill in the gaps. But I want the general public to understand that when the gap list is this big, it is nearly impossible to teach my curriculum efficiently. This is part of the reason why teachers are quitting in droves. You ask teachers to do the impossible and then vilify them for not achieving it. You cannot expect us to teach our curriculum efficiently when students are grade levels behind. Without a good foundation, students cannot learn more complex concepts. I thought this was common sense, but I guess it is not (based on admin's expectations and school policies).

I want to add that there are high-performing students out there. However, from my experience, the gap between the "gifted/honors" population and the "general" population has widened significantly. Either you have students that perform exceptionally well or you have students coming into class grade levels behind. There are rarely students who are in between.
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I remember that from when my daughter was in elementary school. Her math homework required the most ridiculous methods to get simple answers, like drawing diagrams, breaking down the calculation in to small parts, etc. It was a full page of nonsense just to do one long division problem. I showed her the old fashioned way and it was a revelation to her. She went to school and showed her friends and that resulted in parent-teacher conference where I was dressed down by her peevish math "teacher" and the Vice Principal. They actually said that if she didn't write our their ridiculous process that the problem would be considered wrong, even if she got the answer correct using the traditional method and showing her work.

And that was at a highly sought after public elementary school with a waiting list.


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Common Core is the root of the failure.


I understand Common Core math is functionally correct.  If I have one more snobby cunt say "you don't like it because you don't understand it," I'm going to break their jaw.


It's a terrible way to teach math.  The old way of teaching put men on the goddamn moon.  The current generation can't tell time without Siri.


Full disclosure: I have a Masters in Education.  Fight me.  
If you are inclined to elaborate on this or link to some good material, there are likely many here that would appreciate an accurate understanding of the new math concepts.

I don't have any good links at the moment and have a meeting shortly, but the overwhelming issue is this:

Common Core math was developed to try to teach "concepts" instead of simply methods and processes.  Remember how in early elementary school they'd teach you a number line and you jump forward on it to represent adding?  That's a good example of what Common Core does, but then they go off the deep end with the visuals.

They mercilessly have the kids "circle the number of frogs in this pond" that represent something else.  They have them do stupid diagrams, pictures, and nonsense, usually followed up with a final question, "and what core concept does this represent?"

I helped my friend's 4th grader with math last year and I wanted to tear the paper up.  NOT A SINGLE ITEM IN HER RESOURCES JUST HAD AN EXAMPLE OF HOW TO DO SOMETHING AND THEN AN OPPORTUNITY TO DO IT YOURSELF.

Every math textbook I saw growing up started a chapter with the "how the fuck you do this" page, followed by repetitious samples that you do yourself, with the answers in the back of the book.  Common Core is might work for the top 10% of performers, but the troubled students are left in the dust.

I remember that from when my daughter was in elementary school. Her math homework required the most ridiculous methods to get simple answers, like drawing diagrams, breaking down the calculation in to small parts, etc. It was a full page of nonsense just to do one long division problem. I showed her the old fashioned way and it was a revelation to her. She went to school and showed her friends and that resulted in parent-teacher conference where I was dressed down by her peevish math "teacher" and the Vice Principal. They actually said that if she didn't write our their ridiculous process that the problem would be considered wrong, even if she got the answer correct using the traditional method and showing her work.

And that was at a highly sought after public elementary school with a waiting list.



My brother is an engineer.  He had the same issue with his daughter's math homework and teacher.
Link Posted: 2/23/2024 3:22:40 PM EDT
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This was on another site. From what I gather in the thread, this is a normal high school not in a poor area.




I teach high school. Age range 15-18 years old. I have seen students who can't do the following:

-Read at grade level. Some come into my classroom at a 3rd/4th grade reading level. There are some students who cannot sound out words.

-Write a complete sentence. They don't capitalize the first letter of the sentence or the I's. They also don't add punctuation. I have seen a student write one whole page essay without a period.

-Spell simple words.

-Add or subtract double-digits. For example, they can't solve 27-13 in their head. They also cannot do it on paper. They need a calculator.

-Know their multiplication tables.

-Round

-Graph

-Understand the concept of negative.

-Understand percentages.

-Solve one-step variable equations. For example, if I tell them "2x = 8. Solve for x," they can't solve it. They would subtract by 2 on both sides instead of dividing by 2.

-Take notes.

-Follow an example. They have a hard time transferring the patterns that they see in an example to a new problem.

-No research skills. The phrases they use to google are too vague when they search for information. For example, if I ask them to research the 5 types of chemical reactions, they only type in "reactions" in Google. When I explain that Google cannot read minds and they have to be very specific with their wording, they just stare at me confused. But even if their search phrases are good, they do not click on the links. They just read the excerpt Google provided them. If the answer is not in the excerpts, they give up.

-Just because they know how to use their phones does not mean they know how to use a computer. They are not familiar with common keyboard shortcuts. They also cannot type properly. Some students type using their index fingers.

These are just some things I can name at the top of my head. I'm sure there are a few that I missed here.

Now, as a teacher, I try my best to fill in the gaps. But I want the general public to understand that when the gap list is this big, it is nearly impossible to teach my curriculum efficiently. This is part of the reason why teachers are quitting in droves. You ask teachers to do the impossible and then vilify them for not achieving it. You cannot expect us to teach our curriculum efficiently when students are grade levels behind. Without a good foundation, students cannot learn more complex concepts. I thought this was common sense, but I guess it is not (based on admin's expectations and school policies).

I want to add that there are high-performing students out there. However, from my experience, the gap between the "gifted/honors" population and the "general" population has widened significantly. Either you have students that perform exceptionally well or you have students coming into class grade levels behind. There are rarely students who are in between.
So what you are saying is teachers can't or will not teach?


I think it's more to do with facing an unwinnable task.

If you spend more time with the kids falling behind, the rest of the class suffers.

If you teach the class at the required level, the kids falling behind find themselves with a larger gap and the teacher's get penalized for all of the kids failing.


A lot of what these kids lack is basic life skills.

Like trying to work on a car or do construction when you don't even have the most basic tool kit.
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I live less than a mile from 3 public schools, K-12, in a good school district.  But I drive my daughter 25 minutes to a charter school.  It's apolitical, no talk of current events, and she studies math, science, history, literature, Latin, art, and music.  There are no phones or tablets.  Her teachers are passionate about teaching.  And I sleep like a baby knowing that I don't have to worry about public school bullshit.
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That makes me feel bad for your kids.
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I bet those kids can tell you all about lgbtq nonsense, climate change, and how awesome socialism is though.
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I think it's more to do with facing an unwinnable task.

If you spend more time with the kids falling behind, the rest of the class suffers.

If you teach the class at the required level, the kids falling behind find themselves with a larger gap and the teacher's get penalized for all of the kids failing.


A lot of what these kids lack is basic life skills.

Like trying to work on a car or do construction when you don't even have the most basic tool kit.
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This was on another site. From what I gather in the thread, this is a normal high school not in a poor area.




I teach high school. Age range 15-18 years old. I have seen students who can't do the following:

-Read at grade level. Some come into my classroom at a 3rd/4th grade reading level. There are some students who cannot sound out words.

-Write a complete sentence. They don't capitalize the first letter of the sentence or the I's. They also don't add punctuation. I have seen a student write one whole page essay without a period.

-Spell simple words.

-Add or subtract double-digits. For example, they can't solve 27-13 in their head. They also cannot do it on paper. They need a calculator.

-Know their multiplication tables.

-Round

-Graph

-Understand the concept of negative.

-Understand percentages.

-Solve one-step variable equations. For example, if I tell them "2x = 8. Solve for x," they can't solve it. They would subtract by 2 on both sides instead of dividing by 2.

-Take notes.

-Follow an example. They have a hard time transferring the patterns that they see in an example to a new problem.

-No research skills. The phrases they use to google are too vague when they search for information. For example, if I ask them to research the 5 types of chemical reactions, they only type in "reactions" in Google. When I explain that Google cannot read minds and they have to be very specific with their wording, they just stare at me confused. But even if their search phrases are good, they do not click on the links. They just read the excerpt Google provided them. If the answer is not in the excerpts, they give up.

-Just because they know how to use their phones does not mean they know how to use a computer. They are not familiar with common keyboard shortcuts. They also cannot type properly. Some students type using their index fingers.

These are just some things I can name at the top of my head. I'm sure there are a few that I missed here.

Now, as a teacher, I try my best to fill in the gaps. But I want the general public to understand that when the gap list is this big, it is nearly impossible to teach my curriculum efficiently. This is part of the reason why teachers are quitting in droves. You ask teachers to do the impossible and then vilify them for not achieving it. You cannot expect us to teach our curriculum efficiently when students are grade levels behind. Without a good foundation, students cannot learn more complex concepts. I thought this was common sense, but I guess it is not (based on admin's expectations and school policies).

I want to add that there are high-performing students out there. However, from my experience, the gap between the "gifted/honors" population and the "general" population has widened significantly. Either you have students that perform exceptionally well or you have students coming into class grade levels behind. There are rarely students who are in between.
So what you are saying is teachers can't or will not teach?


I think it's more to do with facing an unwinnable task.

If you spend more time with the kids falling behind, the rest of the class suffers.

If you teach the class at the required level, the kids falling behind find themselves with a larger gap and the teacher's get penalized for all of the kids failing.


A lot of what these kids lack is basic life skills.

Like trying to work on a car or do construction when you don't even have the most basic tool kit.


Of course, but the problem underneath that is that these kids are conditioned by black ghetto culture to reject and refuse the tool kit.

You really cannot teach people who are truly determined not to learn, where that rejection of education is a matter of their actual identity.

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APHG is typically the first AP class kids take in 9th grade, that or World History. In my daughter's classes kids pretty much got A's or failed, there's very little in-between in those classes. The kids either know how to study and follow directions or they don't. It's poor counseling IMO, those kids have no business in those classes.

AP sciences, Calculus, US History or Government you see more normal distributions.

There's something to the idea that the middle is disappearing. The high-achieving cohort I deal with every day is AMAZING, but behind them it's just a wasteland. Things are way better in our district than most but it's still terrifying how much potential is being wasted and it's not something we can blame on any particular thing, it's society across the board.

It isn't just public schools either, I know a lot of private school kids through my kid's ECs and they're sometimes YEARS behind and the parents brag about how good their grades are, grade inflation at privates is worse than publics, the schools have perverse financial incentives.

Home school is a mixed bag too, it can be the best thing ever or the worst.
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Damn
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I graduated in the mid 2000s.  I feel like I went to Harvard nowadays with these kids.  I barley graduated HS joined the military and graduated college with a 3.8 gpa.  I am not a super genius either.
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I remember that from when my daughter was in elementary school. Her math homework required the most ridiculous methods to get simple answers, like drawing diagrams, breaking down the calculation in to small parts, etc. It was a full page of nonsense just to do one long division problem. I showed her the old fashioned way and it was a revelation to her. She went to school and showed her friends and that resulted in parent-teacher conference where I was dressed down by her peevish math "teacher" and the Vice Principal. They actually said that if she didn't write our their ridiculous process that the problem would be considered wrong, even if she got the answer correct using the traditional method and showing her work.

And that was at a highly sought after public elementary school with a waiting list.


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That's ridiculous.

Here they taught math facts, then traditional methods, and then they had one unit a year where they'd go over the common core stuff for a week or two. Mostly it was way better than the stuff I see posted. I don't imagine you could opt out, but the kids had at least been taught the traditional method first.

My kids are posting 760 math PSAT scores in 9th grade, so I can't complain.
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I'm not sure how anything I said would bother you or be considered a naive take.

I'm not just talking about my experience with my kids but my wife's experiences with her kids when she was a teacher.  Short of an actual disability, every struggling kid she ever had her class had shit bird parents and it was no different when I was in school.  All of the "smart" kids had parents who were present and active in their lives.  I don't think it's a coincidence.



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It's 100% parenting.  Kids learn most things at home and then fill in some gaps at school.  

It's amazing what kids can do when you give them that individual attention as a parent.  Read to your kids, do math with your kids, do sports with your kids.  They are just little sponges at that age and can learn virtually anything if you have the patience to teach them.  

I think my kids have been read to 99% of the nights of their lives at this point (5 and 7) with only a few rare nights where we skip it.  Not a surprise that they both test in the 90th percentile or higher on everything.

That works for anything, not just reading, writing, and math.  There's some kids out there with incredible talents and behind every one of them is a patient parent that put in the work.


This post should be read several times by all parents.
@woodsie, you are a wise man.


I love it when parents of 5 and 7 year olds lecture the rest of us about parenting. Give me a fucking break. Get back to us in about 10 years, kiddo.


I'm not sure how anything I said would bother you or be considered a naive take.

I'm not just talking about my experience with my kids but my wife's experiences with her kids when she was a teacher.  Short of an actual disability, every struggling kid she ever had her class had shit bird parents and it was no different when I was in school.  All of the "smart" kids had parents who were present and active in their lives.  I don't think it's a coincidence.





I didn't really mean it like that. You're not wrong. I just get a kick out of these things, with younger parents bragging on their kids all over social media. Yeah, just fucking give it a few years. Here, I'll put a ...
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This has been going on for some time.

My second trip through college I could already see how few of the people in it could put a cogent thought into a sentence.
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Sigh...

You can't teach chemistry to kids who can't do basic math no matter how good you are.

Everything is scheduled and there isn't time for me to get you from fractions through algebra in a school year even with willing and capable students.  

I taught a young lady stoichiometry when she spoke almost no English.  She was intelligent and worked hard and was able to do the math.  It was a piece of cake, in comparison.
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I recently moved from Private high school math and physics to public school seventh grade math. What does person reports is just the tip of the iceberg. It's not that the students are dumb, they just don't know anything. And the reason they don't know anything is because nobody cares to know anything, it's no longer valued. We live in a culture that is now openly hostile to intellectualism.

classical education is the immediate answer, but we also need the culture at large to value scholarship.

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Says the guy who doesn't capitalize or punctuate properly.

Sorry, pet peeve.
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Sigh...

You can't teach chemistry to kids who can't do basic match no matter how good you are.

Everything is scheduled and there isn't time for me to get you from fractions through algebra in a school year even with willing and capable students.  

I taught a young lady stoichiometry when she spoke almost no English.  She was intelligent and worked hard and was able to do the math.  It was a piece of cake, in comparison.
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Sure, but what was the basic math teacher doing?

How did administrators think social promotion was going to turn out?

Where were the parents?

Everybody needs to take responsibility.
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So in regards to some of this, you need to factor in this phenomenon:

https://features.apmreports.org/sold-a-story/

If you want the TL/DR version, it's that some "progressive" teachers thought they had a better idea for teaching kids how to read using "whole language learning" that was better than the tried and true method of phonics and they naturally started a nationwide campaign.

The teaching "profession" in general, having been "professionalized" to the extent that it was filled with relentless "progressives" couldn't get enough of the new reading ideology because it was "exciting and beautiful" and they went whole hog into "whole language learning"

...except for the teeny tiny little detail that it made learning to read and comprehend significantly harder for everybody, but especially the kids at the bottom. And as a result a generation and a half of kids grew up with stunted reading skills.

And in this you can see a process that fuels most of what is wrong in our society. Over-credentialed do gooders convinced they have near magic powers at everything but no ability for self reflection substituted what they thought sounded good for what worked, and have pig-headedly clinged to it because it's an identity and ideology regardless of the damage it has done to countless children. Because if you dare question them then you must be some sort of fucking Republican or something because it's impossible to have a legit reason to disagree with them.

Now take the violence done to children in that one area by our public education system and ponder that they've done the same evil shit to literally everything else. And it's not a surprise that a child who has what were mid level reading comprehension skills when we were in high school would be a goddamn superstar in many schools today.
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I think life would be better for a lot of people if real estate prices were with in reach.

Land and home ownership is a primal need.
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It's 100% parenting.  Kids learn most things at home and then fill in some gaps at school.  

It's amazing what kids can do when you give them that individual attention as a parent.  Read to your kids, do math with your kids, do sports with your kids.  They are just little sponges at that age and can learn virtually anything if you have the patience to teach them.  

I think my kids have been read to 99% of the nights of their lives at this point (5 and 7) with only a few rare nights where we skip it.  Not a surprise that they both test in the 90th percentile or higher on everything.

That works for anything, not just reading, writing, and math.  There's some kids out there with incredible talents and behind every one of them is a patient parent that put in the work.


This post should be read several times by all parents.
@woodsie, you are a wise man.


I love it when parents of 5 and 7 year olds lecture the rest of us about parenting. Give me a fucking break. Get back to us in about 10 years, kiddo.


I'm not sure how anything I said would bother you or be considered a naive take.

I'm not just talking about my experience with my kids but my wife's experiences with her kids when she was a teacher.  Short of an actual disability, every struggling kid she ever had her class had shit bird parents and it was no different when I was in school.  All of the "smart" kids had parents who were present and active in their lives.  I don't think it's a coincidence.





I didn't really mean it like that. You're not wrong. I just get a kick out of these things, with younger parents bragging on their kids all over social media. Yeah, just fucking give it a few years. Here, I'll put a ...


I'm not bragging.  It was just a case in point.  I think anyone that did the same thing would have a similar result.  I'm particularly mentioning it because it was my wife's idea and I didn't initially think it was that important until I started seeing my kids read at unusually young ages after putting in a couple years of that work.  It was a good lesson for myself to get early on and now I apply it to everything with my kids.  

OP was talking about kids being completely unprepared for a particular level in school and I'm just asserting that parents play a huge role in putting them in a position to succeed at school.  

I agree with where he's coming from that it's not all on the teachers.  Even the good ones have an impossible task these days.  Show me a classroom where 25 kids show up ready to learn with good behavior and some foundational skills in place from the parents and they'll make even a shitty teacher look pretty good.

As far as 10 years from now, I know it's no cake walk.  I've been 15 before too and I had siblings and friends and have seen it at least from that angle.  I'm not looking forward to it but it's not like setting my kids up to succeed at their current age was easy either.  I remember my parents working their asses off to straighten out my teenage sisters.  I was the easy one.





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I'm not sure how anything I said would bother you or be considered a naive take.

I'm not just talking about my experience with my kids but my wife's experiences with her kids when she was a teacher.  Short of an actual disability, every struggling kid she ever had her class had shit bird parents and it was no different when I was in school.  All of the "smart" kids had parents who were present and active in their lives.  I don't think it's a coincidence.
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Practically every parent that is active and involved in their kids lives is going to end up in conflict with the "experts" in the school at some point. Where they will do their best to browbeat the parent into submission using their superior credentials to argue, often, against bare common sense.

It's not just shitbird parents.

Public education as an institution is just as corrupt and decaying as most of the rest of the institutions of our society and for the same reason.
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It's amazing to watch how getting an actual education has turned from an act of rebellion against real racism and biggotry into "acting white" and thus is to be eschewed while at the same time ranting that two little black girls are the first to "solve" the "Pythagorus therum" and that black people were the original samurai.
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In what field of study is your Master's degree?
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I'm guessing "Social Justice/Engineering" of some type.
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Practically every parent that is active and involved in their kids lives is going to end up in conflict with the "experts" in the school at some point. Where they will do their best to browbeat the parent into submission using their superior credentials to argue, often, against bare common sense.

It's not just shitbird parents.

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I'm not sure how anything I said would bother you or be considered a naive take.

I'm not just talking about my experience with my kids but my wife's experiences with her kids when she was a teacher.  Short of an actual disability, every struggling kid she ever had her class had shit bird parents and it was no different when I was in school.  All of the "smart" kids had parents who were present and active in their lives.  I don't think it's a coincidence.


Practically every parent that is active and involved in their kids lives is going to end up in conflict with the "experts" in the school at some point. Where they will do their best to browbeat the parent into submission using their superior credentials to argue, often, against bare common sense.

It's not just shitbird parents.

Public education as an institution is just as corrupt and decaying as most of the rest of the institutions of our society and for the same reason.


I agree with you but I think we are talking about different things.

I'm just talking about the kids that can't function in a classroom and don't even know how to learn and where all that comes from.  That's a shitbird parent thing.

Parents clashing with educators on how you execute on giving a kid an education is another matter all together.  The shitbird parents don't care enough to clash with the schools over that stuff in the first place.  It's just a free babysitter for them.



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That's not allowed anymore.

Wife's cousin was "passed through" high school and probably fits all the OP categories. She just didn't get a diploma at the end.
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That's not allowed anymore.

Wife's cousin was "passed through" high school and probably fits all the OP categories. She just didn't get a diploma at the end.

Sounds like a fail to me. If no diploma, that's a fail, right?
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Common Core is the root of the failure.


I understand Common Core math is functionally correct.  If I have one more snobby cunt say "you don't like it because you don't understand it," I'm going to break their jaw.


It's a terrible way to teach math.  The old way of teaching put men on the goddamn moon.  The current generation can't tell time without Siri.


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Almost my exact words!  

I was teaching my daughter logs in 6th grade, you have to take part in their education or they're screwed.  People who never spent much time in the classroom are deciding which curriculum to use, and the kids are the ones who suffer.
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-Write a complete sentence. They don't capitalize the first letter of the sentence or the I's. They also don't add punctuation. I have seen a student write one whole page essay without a period.
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I finished Blood Meridian and it was a great story, but holy hell, it was a hard read. I bought some of his other books but haven't started them because I'm afraid, lol.
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Equality and diversity are strenghts, not deliberate weakness foisted upon us.    Note sarc face.



That is absolutely the case in my local schools - they will NOT fail anyone, period.  Bunch of bullshit, but there it is.
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One of the problems is that so many kids qualify either for Sped or 504 programs.  Once in a program they are provided accommodations and scaffolding. The teacher and now a para-professional are constantly supposed to provide them with one on one help and basically easier assignments and tests.  If you fail one of those kids it's a Shit Storm for the teacher.  Many of the kids that are now "being served" just think its fucking hilarious that the teacher and now a $10/hr para has to kiss their ass and bend over backwards for them, documenting every detail of their plan.  It fucking sucks so it's easier just to pass the dumb little mother fuckers.  I'm not saying all Sped and 504 (adhd) kids are like that, but they are qualifying more and more, and making it easier to become qualified.  Parents know that if they can Sped qualify their kid they won't have to pass State exams and can still graduate.   I teach at at junior High and their already damaged when we get them.  Many, many 6th graders are reading at a 2nd or 3rd grade level.  Then, their fucktard parents don't make them come to school.  What the fuck am I supposed to do?  

I teach in rural Texas.  We have good curriculum.  We have good teachers.  I've been in their rooms.  They're tap dancing like mother fuckers for these kids, busting their fucking ass.  Half the class is either drooling and staring into space or going bananas, killing the entire fucking operation.  It's a sad state of affairs even in Districts that are doing it the right way.
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Common Core is the root of the failure.


I understand Common Core math is functionally correct.  If I have one more snobby cunt say "you don't like it because you don't understand it," I'm going to break their jaw.


It's a terrible way to teach math.  The old way of teaching put men on the goddamn moon.  The current generation can't tell time without Siri.


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What's the old way?  My colleagues are bright men and women, they're using curriculum approved by our Asst Super is about one of the sharpest ladies I've ever met on a professional level.  Why don't 60% of them get it?
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LOL.
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Common Core is the root of the failure.


I understand Common Core math is functionally correct.  If I have one more snobby cunt say "you don't like it because you don't understand it," I'm going to break their jaw.


It's a terrible way to teach math.  The old way of teaching put men on the goddamn moon.  The current generation can't tell time without Siri.


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I remember when common core first came out. My sister asked me what I thought about it, and while I understood it, I saw absolutely no reason for the convoluted way of teaching basic math woth it. It was so unintuitive! Fuck common core. I think that's when the education downfall started.
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My wife teaches high school Family and Consumer Sciences (aka Home Economics).

Many of her students are completely unmotivated. In an elective class. They do no work, assuming they even show up.

I think some of her Culinary Arts classes have maybe half of the class that can even do the in-kitchen labs, because the other half hasn't completed the safety requirements.
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Man I sit there and berate the shit out of kids I've had for 3 years, kids who should be GT and in Honors classes, about how they are going to end up basically losers, and that their generation is going to really fuck us in the ass.  They get it, they nod in agreement, and ask if they can get on their phones.  No, we're reading Meditations you little bitches!!!!
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Shit parents, to much focus on material things and social life, no discipline, everyone is a special flower, shit teachers
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Believe it or not, while many teachers are misguided and some are just evil, most teachers deserve better and and many are awesome.

The system is a total and complete failure and should be scrapped.   I'm working with juniors and seniors that are functionally illiterate and don't have any desire to improve.  There are individual teachers standing against that tide, but their effect is limited to to a few students each.  
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There's a bunch of us standing against the tide and fuck it I'm not going to stop!
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CC was not an impediment to learning in our home.
Both are teen children are quite adept at doing math in their heads.
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The education system really is failing the children. That's been known for a long time.

The main problem, however, is the parents. A lot of people want to be part-time parents, baby mamas, or child support collectors, and many of them are too stupid to manage their own lives, let alone the lives and education of their children.

It's hard to get by in this world. If you want to survive, advance, and prosper, the most important weapon you have is intelligence.

Parents need to be seriously involved in their chidrens' education and work side by side with their educators. If any of your kid's teachers are failing them or failing you, you CAN do something about it. It's up to YOU to look out for your children and make their lives better.

Parenting is the most important job any of us will ever have. And, judging from the state of our society, more than 50% of us failed at it and produced several generations of unintelligent, stupid adults whose only chance at surviving involves Government dependence or crime.

And they will have children of their own.
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Come by my room later.
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A little caution on that.

My daughter is pre-pharmacy.  She had 32 hours of college credits when she graduated from HS.

When we got to orientation at her 4 year college, they said that for the STEM majors, concurrent classes can make the time more difficult when they get to their 4 year school.

Kids knock out all the "basics" like history and comp 1, then when they start at the 4 year school, they have to take ALL math and science classes, which can overwhelm them.  

I think this semester the kid had to take physics, inorganic chemistry, and organic chemistry.   She declared a minor in business simply to mix in some easier/ non science classes so her schedule wasn't so bad.  

She'll still be there 4 years doing things that way.   She's on a full ride so the cost doesn't matter, but I thought she'd be able to get her BS earlier, but it's not that simple.

Were she in business?   Absolutely, get that first year out of the way.   In STEM majors?  Might not be the best idea.
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The business minor actually a great idea.  My son is a 17 yr old junior and is trying to figure out what he wants to do.  He really likes chemistry, but isn't sure. I've told him, "Whatever you decide to do, make sure to get some business classes under your belt because every single career eventually turns into running a business and a large focus on sales.  If you want to be an electrician, you'll start by crawling around under houses working for someone else. Then you'll go independent and get a van and an assistant . . . then before you know it you have 5 vans and 8 or 9 people working for your and your job is 90% running the business and generating new business. Same goes for engineers or lawyers or dentists.  I'm a lawyer with an economics degree and an MBA and it was shocking how little business knowledge my fellow law students had - and the complete lack of law school instruction regarding how to actually run a law practice.  I'm a partner now and and being able to do budgets and sales and collections is more important than simply knowing the legal side of things.  If you don't have the business chops, you're just a worker drone. A pharmacy program probably doesn't spend much time at all teaching students how to profitably run a pharmacy.
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The only thing that really surprises me in these threads is how many posters here somehow see this as limited to the political Left.
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The only thing that really surprises me in these threads is how many posters here somehow see this as limited to the political Left.



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So in regards to some of this, you need to factor in this phenomenon:

https://features.apmreports.org/sold-a-story/

If you want the TL/DR version, it's that some "progressive" teachers thought they had a better idea for teaching kids how to read using "whole language learning" that was better than the tried and true method of phonics and they naturally started a nationwide campaign.

The teaching "profession" in general, having been "professionalized" to the extent that it was filled with relentless "progressives" couldn't get enough of the new reading ideology because it was "exciting and beautiful" and they went whole hog into "whole language learning"

...except for the teeny tiny little detail that it made learning to read and comprehend significantly harder for everybody, but especially the kids at the bottom. And as a result a generation and a half of kids grew up with stunted reading skills.

And in this you can see a process that fuels most of what is wrong in our society. Over-credentialed do gooders convinced they have near magic powers at everything but no ability for self reflection substituted what they thought sounded good for what worked, and have pig-headedly clinged to it because it's an identity and ideology regardless of the damage it has done to countless children. Because if you dare question them then you must be some sort of fucking Republican or something because it's impossible to have a legit reason to disagree with them.

Now take the violence done to children in that one area by our public education system and ponder that they've done the same evil shit to literally everything else. And it's not a surprise that a child who has what were mid level reading comprehension skills when we were in high school would be a goddamn superstar in many schools today.


This map should embarrass the hell out of every conservative/republican:

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One of the problems is that so many kids qualify either for Sped or 504 programs.  Once in a program they are provided accommodations and scaffolding. The teacher and now a para-professional are constantly supposed to provide them with one on one help and basically easier assignments and tests.  If you fail one of those kids it's a Shit Storm for the teacher.  Many of the kids that are now "being served" just think its fucking hilarious that the teacher and now a $10/hr para has to kiss their ass and bend over backwards for them, documenting every detail of their plan.  It fucking sucks so it's easier just to pass the dumb little mother fuckers.  I'm not saying all Sped and 504 (adhd) kids are like that, but they are qualifying more and more, and making it easier to become qualified.  Parents know that if they can Sped qualify their kid they won't have to pass State exams and can still graduate.   I teach at at junior High and their already damaged when we get them.  Many, many 6th graders are reading at a 2nd or 3rd grade level.  Then, their fucktard parents don't make them come to school.  What the fuck am I supposed to do?  

I teach in rural Texas.  We have good curriculum.  We have good teachers.  I've been in their rooms.  They're tap dancing like mother fuckers for these kids, busting their fucking ass.  Half the class is either drooling and staring into space or going bananas, killing the entire fucking operation.  It's a sad state of affairs even in Districts that are doing it the right way.
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I applaud you for trying.   It's not the kids' fault their parents are worthless scum.  

My wife teaches science at a community college.  Actually pays less than most of the local public schools, but she says most of the kids in her classes want to be there, and she can deal with them and not shithead parents.

Some kids who grow up in the projects with worthless parents want to do better, and they deserve a chance.

For every good teacher in the school district here, we have 6-7 who are just there for the benefits and paycheck.   They don't care how the kids do, what they learn, or what happens to them next year.  They just want theirs.  Admin is busy trying to get tax increases passed so they can steal it through capital improvement projects.

And it just sucks for the kids, but I don't know what the answer is.  It's certainly not more money thrown at the system.
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Kids being unable to read and write by high school is all the proof you need that the public education system does not have the best interest of your kids in mind.  

If they gave a shit any kid unable to read and write by then would have no elective options and be forced into reading and writing makeup classes instead.   They shouldn't have passed elementary school unable to read.  I taught my kids to read when they were 4.  

It's amazing to me that nowhere along this path has someone said " hey we can't let these kids move on till they can at least read and write .


My kids are both top of their classes every year.  They tell me.most of the other kids are this retarded .  The only silver lining to this is my kids will dominate these morons in the workforce due to basic skills and the ability to think critically which I teach them.
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This was on another site. From what I gather in the thread, this is a normal high school not in a poor area.

I teach high school. Age range 15-18 years old. I have seen students who can't do the following:

-Read at grade level. Some come into my classroom at a 3rd/4th grade reading level. There are some students who cannot sound out words.

-Write a complete sentence. They don't capitalize the first letter of the sentence or the I's. They also don't add punctuation. I have seen a student write one whole page essay without a period.

-Spell simple words.

-Add or subtract double-digits. For example, they can't solve 27-13 in their head. They also cannot do it on paper. They need a calculator.

-Know their multiplication tables.

-Round

-Graph

-Understand the concept of negative.

-Understand percentages.

-Solve one-step variable equations. For example, if I tell them "2x = 8. Solve for x," they can't solve it. They would subtract by 2 on both sides instead of dividing by 2.

-Take notes.

-Follow an example. They have a hard time transferring the patterns that they see in an example to a new problem.

-No research skills. The phrases they use to google are too vague when they search for information. For example, if I ask them to research the 5 types of chemical reactions, they only type in "reactions" in Google. When I explain that Google cannot read minds and they have to be very specific with their wording, they just stare at me confused. But even if their search phrases are good, they do not click on the links. They just read the excerpt Google provided them. If the answer is not in the excerpts, they give up.

-Just because they know how to use their phones does not mean they know how to use a computer. They are not familiar with common keyboard shortcuts. They also cannot type properly. Some students type using their index fingers.

These are just some things I can name at the top of my head. I'm sure there are a few that I missed here.

Now, as a teacher, I try my best to fill in the gaps. But I want the general public to understand that when the gap list is this big, it is nearly impossible to teach my curriculum efficiently. This is part of the reason why teachers are quitting in droves. You ask teachers to do the impossible and then vilify them for not achieving it. You cannot expect us to teach our curriculum efficiently when students are grade levels behind. Without a good foundation, students cannot learn more complex concepts. I thought this was common sense, but I guess it is not (based on admin's expectations and school policies).

I want to add that there are high-performing students out there. However, from my experience, the gap between the "gifted/honors" population and the "general" population has widened significantly. Either you have students that perform exceptionally well or you have students coming into class grade levels behind. There are rarely students who are in between.
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When I was at public school for 9th grade, all of this could be observed from the 9th graders incoming. I'm not sure what the percentages were. I would say MAYBE 10% could touch-type unless they took the "Keyboarding" class.
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The business minor actually a great idea.  My son is a 17 yr old junior and is trying to figure out what he wants to do.  He really likes chemistry, but isn't sure. I've told him, "Whatever you decide to do, make sure to get some business classes under your belt because every single career eventually turns into running a business and a large focus on sales.  If you want to be an electrician, you'll start by crawling around under houses working for someone else. Then you'll go independent and get a van and an assistant . . . then before you know it you have 5 vans and 8 or 9 people working for your and your job is 90% running the business and generating new business. Same goes for engineers or lawyers or dentists.  I'm a lawyer with an economics degree and an MBA and it was shocking how little business knowledge my fellow law students had - and the complete lack of law school instruction regarding how to actually run a law practice.  I'm a partner now and and being able to do budgets and sales and collections is more important than simply knowing the legal side of things.  If you don't have the business chops, you're just a worker drone. A pharmacy program probably doesn't spend much time at all teaching students how to profitably run a pharmacy.
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She actually got that advice from a local pharmacist who has the most successful pharmacy in town.   His kid is in medical school and he and his wife just sold the pharmacy to the younger couple they've been training and employing for years, and are going to keep working part time for the new owners.

He's a pillar of the community, and took time to sit down with my kid and advise her on where she might want to go in the industry, and what might be helpful.
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My 14 year-old nephew in Florida couldn't tell time looking at an analog clock.

I've also had adults working for me that couldn't read a ruler.
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