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She’s trying to manipulate you. You asked her to go to an event with you which she’d only do if the two of you left by 10pm — then she does something else and stays out until 12?
If she’s not responding you should just stop texting/calling. When she finally responds, ignore it for a couple days before smoothing things out. Then bang her once more and eject. Winning |
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What was she doing out so late? He side dick, that's whay she was doing.
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Definitely don’t go to this “social function” with her family. Who cares. Tell her you don’t feel well or just tell her the truth. It will be more embarrassing for her to have to explain why you’re not there than anything else.
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If she acts this way now then how about when.
1. You get married. 2. She has all the hormones going when pregnant. 3. She dose feel as attractive. 4. A pretty woman works along side you. Things don't get better, they get worse. If you're OK with sleeping with your parole officer then stick it out. But remember you chose the constant scrutiny. |
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I do back flips when I can get rid of the wife for an evening. Girlfriend is retarded.
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Quoted: I’m getting this feeling. She’s been the most caring and loyal (I believe) girlfriend I’ve been with but I’m just seeing a ton of warning flags lately that have me concerned View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Eject I’m getting this feeling. She’s been the most caring and loyal (I believe) girlfriend I’ve been with but I’m just seeing a ton of warning flags lately that have me concerned If she's sooooooo great, then why no ring and a date after three years? |
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She’s trying to control you passive aggressively. Quoted: Quoted: Wait, you voluntarily let her have your location? She was cheated on in the past so I give her my location when I’m out because I don’t want her to be concerned. Too much I’m sure Again, she is controlling you passively. She says she was cheated on to guilt you into submissiveness and allowing her to track you. Can you track her too? How do you know she wasn’t prowling while you were out? |
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Quoted: If she's sooooooo great, then why no ring and a date after three years? View Quote Because she’s controlling and dramatic? Or maybe he’s smart and sees marriage as a suckers bet for men? Either way she’s hitting the epiphany phase so it’s going to get worse if she cannot manipulate him into marriage. |
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Reach above head
Grab both pull loops Pull HARD Prepare for full eject Gs Experience full eject Gs Rejoice. |
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Quoted: How old are the both of you? Have either of you been married before? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: I’m getting this feeling. She’s been the most caring and loyal (I believe) girlfriend I’ve been with but I’m just seeing a ton of warning flags lately that have me concerned How old are the both of you? Have either of you been married before? 33/28 No Her Family is very religious / different race so that’s a friction area and tbh I’m not 100% sold |
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She was where she said she was - at a bar with a coworker and the coworker’s husband. If she lied it’ll come out. She got upset because I told her I wouldn’t be able to text much during a sit down dinner as it would be rude so she “stopped checking her phone” ?? I see what’s going on |
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Quoted: You’re value is increasing. Hers is about to hit the wall. She’s gotta lock down your commitment soon or find another buyer before her looks fade. Is she Latina? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: 33/28 You’re value is increasing. Hers is about to hit the wall. She’s gotta lock down your commitment soon or find another buyer before her looks fade. Is she Latina? Im white she’s non-Muslim middle-east |
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If she acts this way now then how about when.
1. You get married. 2. She has all the hormones going when pregnant. 3. She dose feel as attractive. 4. A pretty woman works along side you. Things don't get better, they get worse. If you're OK with sleeping with your parole officer then stick it out. But remember you chose the constant scrutiny. |
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Yeah fuck that - you were upfront with her. If she can’t handle you out late with friend s when you tell her as such there’s trust issues. I’d venture cautiously And call her out on it. Eject pending on answer.
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Quoted: You wanted her to go. She didn't want to. You went in direction A. She went in direction B. You were on the grid, she was off. She was out later than what she offered to you WHILE she was off grid....... I'm sorry to be the one that has to tell you this but I only do so to look out for ya......She scrogged someone else and is mad at you to make herself feel less guilty. Time to pop smoke before she meets the rest of the department she's working at. View Quote Attached File |
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“She had my location and I was texting her every 30min or so”. WTF? You need to restore some respect into the relationship. And, don’t apologize for doing something reasonable that you told her you were going to do (and invited her to join). Take the heat and don’t wimp out here.
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Nope, Christian and agreed on not apologizing - I won’t be. I went too far in making her comfortable and told her as much, that no matter what I do she’ll keep finding something to be annoyed about |
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Her desire to set a curfew for you, a grown adult male, is not worthy of respect. And should not be respected.
She's not your mother. How late you stay out is your business. |
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Sounds like you've made up your mind to eject.
This will be a good eject. |
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Quoted: You’ve made many mistakes. Sharing your location with her is one. Checking in every 30-minutes is another. She’s not your parent. She’s not even your wife. She’s being immature and controlling. Soft next her. No texts or calls from you until she changes her attitude. If by next Monday ( a week) she hasn’t fixed her shitty attitude you can send a text. Something simple like “how was your weekend” She needs some competition anxiety in her life, give it to her. View Quote This. X1000. |
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Quoted: I told her as much, that being more and more controlling will just make people cheat or break up with her, not continue to be happy lol View Quote Have you considered fucking her dad and sending her the video to establish more dominance, not only over her but over her entire family? |
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Quoted: Have you considered fucking her dad and sending her the video to establish more dominance, not only over her but over her entire family? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: I told her as much, that being more and more controlling will just make people cheat or break up with her, not continue to be happy lol Have you considered fucking her dad and sending her the video to establish more dominance, not only over her but over her entire family? I did not consider that actually. That’s not the worst idea |
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Quoted: No way I’d be in a relationship where you have to attach apple tags to each other. If she is that insecure it’s likely she been the cheater as well as the cheated. View Quote This. My wife goes out of town for a long weekend with her college friends once a year. I immediately plan either a fishing/range/hunting trip depending on season. We definitely do NOT constantly update each other exactly what we’re doing. Sorry to say, but if a relationship requires constant mutual surveillance that relationship is doomed. |
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OP is a moron. GF told him he could do something and he took it at face value. Obviously, GF expected him to read between the lines and bailed on the occasion.
Rookie mistake... |
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Quoted: Annual party on Saturday (tech company), I told her that I wanted her to go. She said she didn’t want to if it would end late and said she’d go if we left by 10pm the latest. I said that’s unlikely and asked if she would stay out later. She said I should go out, have fun, and in a joking way (I thought) said she’d be angry at me for going out late She had my location and I was texting her every 30min or so. She went out as well until midnight, and stopped texting me for 2 hours. I get back home from hanging out with a bunch of dude coworkers at 330AM, text her goodnight, and now today she won’t talk to me because I was “out so late”and that I disrespected her wishes to an event she didn’t even go to (after I said I wanted her to) Wise old men of GD, what is the answer here? Some additional context, I don’t really go out late very often, and I typically prioritize spending time with her and see her 3-5x a week View Quote Dude this has red flags all over. Eject, then re-evaluate your dating methods. You have some work to do |
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Quoted: Wait, you voluntarily let her have your location? View Quote My friend/coworker does this. We were driving back from a job and we decided to stop at home depot, which is literally 300 ft off of the normal route to his house. Literally 10 seconds after turning off the normal route and towards home depot he is getting bombarded with texts asking where the hell he is going. Fucking so creepy. |
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