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Link Posted: 1/21/2022 1:55:44 AM EDT
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Disagree.  Teenage daughters need much more parenting.  It has to be continued from their childhood to be effective.  You’re correct if you slipped one minute between birth and twelve years old, though.
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Parenting a teenage daughter is tough.  Raising her right early is absolutely a must.  When the teenage years come about, you’re walking a tightrope between too strict and too permissive, often having problems with the wife if you get too strict.  Lots of people laughing in this thread but it’s not funny when you’re in this position.  For some reason, my daughter’s friends thought I was in the Mafia. No idea how that happened, but some of them are still convinced.  When I found out about this, I didn’t do anything to dispel the rumors and my daughter married a good man.

You don't parent teenage daughters. By that time any mistakes you've made are not really fixable.


Disagree.  Teenage daughters need much more parenting.  It has to be continued from their childhood to be effective.  You’re correct if you slipped one minute between birth and twelve years old, though.

Well, I'll admit to never having raised a teenage girl.... yet. But my hope was that if I do a good enough job now I will have a lot less to worry about.

At this point my main goal is to make sure they don't hook up with someone like OP's daughter's new boyfriend.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 1:59:06 AM EDT
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The parenting advice on GD, amazingly, seems to be even worse than the relationship advice lol.
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WTF?!
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:01:33 AM EDT
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She's 18 and had a hickey.......she's not snorting meth off his cock....fuck
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They aren't mutually exclusive.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:02:51 AM EDT
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18 year old woman, overbearing father about to drive her out on her own to escape, and a hint of WT =



Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:08:28 AM EDT
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I cannot think or comprehend of anything more cucked than having a daughter. Honestly, think about it rationally. You are feeding, clothing, raising and rearing a girl for at least 18 years solely so she can go and get ravaged by another man. All the hard work you put into your beautiful little girl - reading her stories at bedtime, making her go to sports practice, making sure she had a healthy diet, educating her, playing with her. All of it has one simple result: her body is more enjoyable for the men that will eventually fuck her in every hole.

Raised the perfect girl? Great. Who benefits? If you're lucky, a random man who had nothing to do with the way she grew up, who marries her. He gets to fuck her tight pussy every night. He gets the benefits of her kind and sweet personality that came from the way you raised her.

As a man who has a daughter, you are LITERALLY dedicating at least 20 years of your life simply to raise a girl for another man to enjoy. It is the ULTIMATE AND FINAL cuck. Think about it logically
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Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:08:37 AM EDT
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dumb mistake by not meeting the young man,  always know your enemies, ignoring them wont ever help you. why would you not want to look this man in the eyes? see what hes about in your own eyes instead of what you read on internet or what someone else says about him.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:11:49 AM EDT
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WTF?!
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WTF?!



Yeah... I'm not sure what to make of that either.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:14:06 AM EDT
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It's either that or this
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:23:08 AM EDT
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OP, in all seriousness, you need to work on your communication skills or you’ll lose your daughter.

Lose the attitude and just have a loving, rational conversation with her. She’s not a child anymore.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:28:34 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:32:15 AM EDT
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Well, I'll admit to never having raised a teenage girl.... yet. But my hope was that if I do a good enough job now I will have a lot less to worry about.

At this point my main goal is to make sure they don't hook up with someone like OP's daughter's new boyfriend.
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Parenting a teenage daughter is tough.  Raising her right early is absolutely a must.  When the teenage years come about, you’re walking a tightrope between too strict and too permissive, often having problems with the wife if you get too strict.  Lots of people laughing in this thread but it’s not funny when you’re in this position.  For some reason, my daughter’s friends thought I was in the Mafia. No idea how that happened, but some of them are still convinced.  When I found out about this, I didn’t do anything to dispel the rumors and my daughter married a good man.

You don't parent teenage daughters. By that time any mistakes you've made are not really fixable.


Disagree.  Teenage daughters need much more parenting.  It has to be continued from their childhood to be effective.  You’re correct if you slipped one minute between birth and twelve years old, though.

Well, I'll admit to never having raised a teenage girl.... yet. But my hope was that if I do a good enough job now I will have a lot less to worry about.

At this point my main goal is to make sure they don't hook up with someone like OP's daughter's new boyfriend.

Staying active early is the key.  And, unfortunately, later in life if they go a different way that you want, patience is usually better as they work their way through life.  All you can do is guide them and in the end hope they come to the same conclusions.  That said, teenage boys are usually intimidated pretty easily.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:51:00 AM EDT
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You said you had a shop. How are you fixed for a chipper?


Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:55:25 AM EDT
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You’d assault your adult daughter over a hickey? I’m pretty sure that makes nearly everyone better than you.

You like to remind your wife who is in charge after a few drinks as well?

@sonyvman79
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 2:56:57 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 1/21/2022 3:01:05 AM EDT
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You’d assault your adult daughter over a hickey? I’m pretty sure that makes nearly everyone better than you.

You like to remind your wife who is in charge after a few drinks as well?

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If your daughter can take a breath without it hurting...

Your better than me.

You’d assault your adult daughter over a hickey? I’m pretty sure that makes nearly everyone better than you.

You like to remind your wife who is in charge after a few drinks as well?

@sonyvman79


I'm really hoping we are just misunderstanding him.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 3:02:36 AM EDT
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I'm really hoping we are just misunderstanding him.
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If your daughter can take a breath without it hurting...

Your better than me.

You’d assault your adult daughter over a hickey? I’m pretty sure that makes nearly everyone better than you.

You like to remind your wife who is in charge after a few drinks as well?

@sonyvman79


I'm really hoping we are just misunderstanding him.

I’m sure he keeps his women in line.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 3:26:58 AM EDT
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That's not going to be a problem. He is not coming to my place. Zero fucks given about their opinions.
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Childish shit such as this will definitely help your daughter learn how to be an adult.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 3:27:56 AM EDT
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Which is more than can be said for the OP. Sorry, but  if I had a daughter coming home looking like the town pump, and a wife who withheld information pertaining to a speeding ticket which lead to an increase in premiums, I'd be wondering what else those two have been up to.  OP needs to take control over the women in his life.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 3:28:45 AM EDT
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Or.... preserve it.
If the kid had any respect for her he wouldn't have marked her.

Stand ur ground Op
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 3:34:05 AM EDT
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"Want's"  ... ?  Did you fail to graduate high school?
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Childish shit such as this will definitely help your daughter learn how to be an adult.
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That's not going to be a problem. He is not coming to my place. Zero fucks given about their opinions.
Childish shit such as this will definitely help your daughter learn how to be an adult.

Threads like this really do a great job of explaining the arfcom curse.
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Which is more than can be said for the OP. Sorry, but  if I had a daughter coming home looking like the town pump, and a wife who withheld information pertaining to a speeding ticket which lead to an increase in premiums, I'd be wondering what else those two have been up to.  OP needs to take control over the women in his life.
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Link Posted: 1/21/2022 4:29:47 AM EDT
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I cannot think or comprehend of anything more cucked than having a daughter. Honestly, think about it rationally. You are feeding, clothing, raising and rearing a girl for at least 18 years solely so she can go and get ravaged by another man. All the hard work you put into your beautiful little girl - reading her stories at bedtime, making her go to sports practice, making sure she had a healthy diet, educating her, playing with her. All of it has one simple result: her body is more enjoyable for the men that will eventually fuck her in every hole.

Raised the perfect girl? Great. Who benefits? If you're lucky, a random man who had nothing to do with the way she grew up, who marries her. He gets to fuck her tight pussy every night. He gets the benefits of her kind and sweet personality that came from the way you raised her.

As a man who has a daughter, you are LITERALLY dedicating at least 20 years of your life simply to raise a girl for another man to enjoy. It is the ULTIMATE AND FINAL cuck. Think about it logically
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It's called having grandchildren who dont end up in prison, that's the the benefit.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 4:42:15 AM EDT
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next time he comes over make sure its on gun cleaning day...that's what I did...it works
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No you didn't. That's stupid.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 5:12:58 AM EDT
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Daughter is 18 and still living at home. Wants me to meet her boyfriend. Tonight I come in from the shop and she’s standing in my kitchen talking to her mom. With a giant hickey on her neck. I didn’t go off I just told her to cover it up and that I had no interest is this fucker coming to my house.
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I think you've gotten plenty of parenting advice. However, this makes me remember a similar incident that happened to me when I was 18 and on weekend leave from the army.

My GF gave me one right on my neck. When I came back from leave, apparently the entire company ended up knowing I got lucky that weekend. I suspect that had something to do with her cousin being in my platoon.

Incidentally, I also visited my parents the same weekend. My father said nothing that I recall. My mother was very pissed.
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Daughter is 18 and still living at home. Wants me to meet her boyfriend. Tonight I come in from the shop and she’s standing in my kitchen talking to her mom. With a giant hickey on her neck. I didn’t go off I just told her to cover it up and that I had no interest is this fucker coming to my house. Now daughter and wife both think out of line. I’m of the opinion that it’s my house my rules. Wife wants to meet her boyfriend that can all go to the Olive Garden and leave me the fuck out of it.  I did a lot of shit at that age but never left a hickey on a girls neck. Looks trashy as fuck and I expected more from my daughter. She is 10x smarter than I am and was on a good path until she got with this clown.  

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Ok wife looked this kid up on the county website after this thread was started. That’s how we found out about the theft and child support. My daughter knows about this already and “his side of the story is different”.
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Only a clown would leave a hickey where her dad or mom can see it. You’re on the right track, he sounds like an ass clown already. Hopefully, she’ll thank you later.
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It's called having grandchildren who dont end up in prison, that's the the benefit.
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I cannot think or comprehend of anything more cucked than having a daughter. Honestly, think about it rationally. You are feeding, clothing, raising and rearing a girl for at least 18 years solely so she can go and get ravaged by another man. All the hard work you put into your beautiful little girl - reading her stories at bedtime, making her go to sports practice, making sure she had a healthy diet, educating her, playing with her. All of it has one simple result: her body is more enjoyable for the men that will eventually fuck her in every hole.

Raised the perfect girl? Great. Who benefits? If you're lucky, a random man who had nothing to do with the way she grew up, who marries her. He gets to fuck her tight pussy every night. He gets the benefits of her kind and sweet personality that came from the way you raised her.

As a man who has a daughter, you are LITERALLY dedicating at least 20 years of your life simply to raise a girl for another man to enjoy. It is the ULTIMATE AND FINAL cuck. Think about it logically


It's called having grandchildren who dont end up in prison, that's the the benefit.



This MGTOW BS is just ridiculous.

A woman is alot more than a vessel for a cock.

A family is alot more than financial responsibility.

A life is about alot more than self gratification.

Link Posted: 1/21/2022 6:27:23 AM EDT
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The comments about not being invited to your daughters wedding are dumb.

More like to the hospital for the first grandchild born out of wedlock.

But…
Don’t be a pussy OP. You can’t influence either of them by not engaging in the situation with BOTH of them.

You can convince him to respect her by respecting you. It’s not a guarantee. She has to embody your values and have the strength of personality to enforce them. So it’s “complicated”.

But you can’t achieve anything by avoiding the situation.
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Not on her neck
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Not on her neck

Same. They were somewhere hidden where no one else could see them.
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TRAMP!!!
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 7:03:56 AM EDT
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It's called having grandchildren who dont end up in prison, that's the the benefit.
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I cannot think or comprehend of anything more cucked than having a daughter. Honestly, think about it rationally. You are feeding, clothing, raising and rearing a girl for at least 18 years solely so she can go and get ravaged by another man. All the hard work you put into your beautiful little girl - reading her stories at bedtime, making her go to sports practice, making sure she had a healthy diet, educating her, playing with her. All of it has one simple result: her body is more enjoyable for the men that will eventually fuck her in every hole.

Raised the perfect girl? Great. Who benefits? If you're lucky, a random man who had nothing to do with the way she grew up, who marries her. He gets to fuck her tight pussy every night. He gets the benefits of her kind and sweet personality that came from the way you raised her.

As a man who has a daughter, you are LITERALLY dedicating at least 20 years of your life simply to raise a girl for another man to enjoy. It is the ULTIMATE AND FINAL cuck. Think about it logically


It's called having grandchildren who dont end up in prison, that's the the benefit.

No, it’s called a dumbfuck GD copypasta.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 7:28:28 AM EDT
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What a shit show ??

This thread is full of prudes and horndogs and it's great.
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What a shit show ??

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Father-daughter threads never disappoint.
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Seriously wtf?  I think OP might have been an incel in his youth.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 8:59:52 AM EDT
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Hate to break it to you op but he's already been to your house, that's probably where the hickey came from. They are absolutely having sex and if you want to be in your grandchildren lives you better act right.

I 100% guarantee boyfriend will be living at that house within a year with or without op living there as well.
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Seriously wtf?  I think OP might have been an incel in his youth.
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Seriously wtf?  I think OP might have been an incel in his youth.


I assume all dads that act that way never got any attention.
Link Posted: 1/21/2022 9:02:19 AM EDT
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Lol shes 18....

Do you want to be invited to the wedding?

Do you want to see your future grandchildren?

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His house, his rules. She needs to move out if she don’t respect them.
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What a shit show ??

This thread is full of prudes and horndogs and it's great.


Father-daughter threads never disappoint.


Threads about women in general don’t disappoint… I can’t tell you how many threads about women I’ve shared with the wife in the time I’ve been here. Pure hilarity.
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My daughter (17) has several friends that are male. Each and every one of them knows the penalty for trespassing. Besides, she tends to hang with the geeky types. more interested in keyboards than bra straps. I trust her to take care of herself, and she knows who to call if she needs assistance. "I've got a shovel, a shotgun and an alibi"
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So glad I had boys.
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Been married 25 years.  Sported one a few weeks ago.  They don't always happen on purpose.

TRAMP!!!




Seriously-----if he said, "Hey, can I leave a hickey on you?"  Hell no.  I do think it's trashy and immature on teenagers much less grown-ass adults.  


But sometimes it just happens during the heat of the moment.  Technically I think it's usually more of a combo bite mark/bruise/hickey.  

I'm just going to keep feeling blessed that we still have that kind of passion after all these years.  
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 I actually did so.  
 While cleaning 1911 and AR15, I told the boyfriend nicely--in general term--that if something happens to my daughter, sh!t will hit the fan.
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I'm sure I'm beat on this, but here goes. Just invite him over, and have him meet you while you are cleaning a gun.


 I actually did so.  
 While cleaning 1911 and AR15, I told the boyfriend nicely--in general term--that if something happens to my daughter, sh!t will hit the fan.


lol, sure you did.
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Daughter is 18 and still living at home. Wants me to meet her boyfriend. Tonight I come in from the shop and she’s standing in my kitchen talking to her mom. With a giant hickey on her neck. I didn’t go off I just told her to cover it up and that I had no interest is this fucker coming to my house. Now daughter and wife both think out of line. I’m of the opinion that it’s my house my rules. Wife wants to meet her boyfriend that can all go to the Olive Garden and leave me the fuck out of it.  I did a lot of shit at that age but never left a hickey on a girls neck. Looks trashy as fuck and I expected more from my daughter. She is 10x smarter than I am and was on a good path until she got with this clown.  

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Ok wife looked this kid up on the county website after this thread was started. That’s how we found out about the theft and child support. My daughter knows about this already and “his side of the story is different”.
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So is it not your wife’s house too?
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All this does is show them you’re so old you get your ideas from movies. Plus it’s a great way to find out what guns I can get your daughter to steal for me.
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