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Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:27:01 AM EDT
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My wife and I own a jiu jitsu school. It’s bro hugs and fist bumps all day erryday.
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Do you wear white oakleys?
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:27:58 AM EDT
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Shaking hands is little more than a perfunctory greeting.  Whether you like the person or not, you greet them with a shake of the hands.

Whereas, the bro hug is bond.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:29:40 AM EDT
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Stopped reading after "When I go to the vape shop...."
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:32:45 AM EDT
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Does anyone here actually do this? When I watch Motortrend TV or something about certain types of music or sports, the guys do this "bro hug" when they greet. Is this a thing?

When I go to the vape shop to get juice, the dude there will prompt me to to do the "fist bump". I don't mind that, but whatever happened to "how are you" and a hand shake?
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Cant stand bro hugs.  In the musician circles I run most fellow jambanders want to do bro-hugs.  I generally decline.  Worst was this sweaty, topless fatass that wanted to bro-hug me.  

I’m not even totally down with handshakes unless it’s a business situation.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:42:05 AM EDT
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Do you wear white oakleys?
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My wife and I own a jiu jitsu school. It’s bro hugs and fist bumps all day erryday.
Do you wear white oakleys?
Nope just my prescription old man glasses. White Oakleys would look silly what with all my gray hair and all.

No Tapout shirts either.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:51:36 AM EDT
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Not a fan of bro hugs .

That's a Yea .... No ....
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:53:56 AM EDT
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Ever try shaking the hand of a millennial?  It usually feels like grabbing a bag full of fresh dog shit.
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Worse is when a dude doesn't grip your hand the normal handshake way, but offers his hand the way a medieval lady would.  Ive had that happen a few times.

It's really fucking awkward shaking a limp hand, that's for sure.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:54:43 AM EDT
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Fist bumps should replace handshakes in most social settings. Faster, more sanitary, and less likely to have to deal with some prick who thinks it’s his chance to show how tough he is....or someone with sweaty ass hands.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:57:13 AM EDT
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What?  No kiss on the lips?



Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:57:27 AM EDT
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Seriously?
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For whatever reason, the other day I had the thought "I wonder if the fag seat is still a thing?". When you went to a movie with your "bros" back in the day and you left that empty seat between you so people wouldn't think you were fags.


Seriously?
So, what you're really saying, is that when yo got into a bathroom and there's one guy at the urinals, you always use the one directly beside him, right?
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:57:52 AM EDT
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My old manager wanted shake hands while simultaneously doing a chest bump.

For the record, he was the biggest cocksucking, narcissistic douchebag I have ever met. He is the reason I have my theory about the amount of hair gel a guy wears is proportional to their douchebaggery.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:58:18 AM EDT
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Lot of insecure white males here.
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Bunch of closeted fags as well.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 10:58:40 AM EDT
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Good friends get a hearty hug, everybody else gets a firm handshake.
Some people don't like closeness to others, but that's their prerogative.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:00:07 AM EDT
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Bring it in, op...

For the record, i only accept bro hugs from females... Preferably big tittied ones...

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Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:02:49 AM EDT
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My old manager wanted shake hands while simultaneously doing a chest bump.

For the record, he was the biggest cocksucking, narcissistic douchebag I have ever met. He is the reason I have my theory about the amount of hair gel a guy wears is proportional to their douchebaggery.
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 Some people are just caricatures.  Slicked back hair, gelled all to fuck, shirt unbuttoned like a 70s fucking porn star, gold chains and shit.  I mean, how in the hell do you go out in public like that and not realize just how fucking idiotic you look?

The slicked back gelled hair thing is almost exclusively done by guys who you just know saw some movie and used it to pick out their power tie, and they really do think they have an edge up on everyone else by dressing the way they dress.

Chest bump?  Who the fuck does that?  Why doesn't he just thrust cocks together?

But people are bizarre.

It's like the women who go out with the massive, feathered all the hell, 80s hair.  How do you not realize that you stand out like a turd in a punch bowl looking like that?

Now if you don't care, hey more power to you, every third snowflake out there these days has got dyed hair and some fucking "i'm unique" hairstyle going, but some people just seem completely oblivious.

I'm hardly some fashion nazi, but it's fascinating as hell seeing how people dress.

Ever spot the salesman on a plane?  It's easy, right?  Pastel dress shirt, with the color-coordinated tie that you damn well know was sold as a set, polyester "coach" pants, and the inevitable slip on shoes.  Always the black slip on shoes with the little chrome buckle thing.  Not monkstraps, mind you.  But never, ever a pair of lace up brogues.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:04:27 AM EDT
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There are very few instances of which it would be ok for men to hug. Off the top of my head I can’t think of one so, no bro hug unless you want trouble.
 Fags

Men talking about handshakes being unsanitary but, hugs are ok......right.

One more thing, I’m not your damn “bro” so, no “bromance” either.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:06:04 AM EDT
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Only an old friend I haven't seen in a long time will get a bro hug. Everyone else gets a firm handshake.
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Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:06:17 AM EDT
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Edit because double tap .
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:07:05 AM EDT
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Why would anyone going to a vape shop complain about anything.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:12:15 AM EDT
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My son in law introduced me to the "Bro hug" by surprise many years ago,I was uncomfortable with it then and still am. That being said, it is reserved for family and very close friends "if" they initiate it.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:14:59 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:15:24 AM EDT
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OP Vapes, but doesn't brohug?
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:17:59 AM EDT
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A firm handshake or a nod is all a man should expect or get from another man.

I will hug my father and ritually "hug it out, bitch" like Ari Gold with my brother at departures though.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:20:16 AM EDT
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I see it more often these days, but it wasn't a thing when I was growing up.

Mostly the younger guys do it, even my actual flesh and blood brothers don't do it.

It just wasn't done, and we grew up with handshakes. Women did the hugging.

Do what you like, though.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:21:27 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:23:33 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:24:54 AM EDT
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Quick way to check them for a concealed piece. If it turns into a long term relationship, that's on you.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:25:37 AM EDT
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Shaking hands is little more than a perfunctory greeting.  Whether you like the person or not, you greet them with a shake of the hands.

Whereas, the bro hug is bond.
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Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:30:44 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:31:17 AM EDT
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Brother's don't shake hands! (at 43)
Tommy Boy (1995) | (2/4) | Brothers Don't Shake Hands
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:49:16 AM EDT
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3 of my friends and I hug when we see each other. we are like brothers.. We even say we love each other, but more like " love ya brother"  my 2 best buds both lost their sides of their families,  brothers and parents, so we have become even closer and more like brothers over the years

I get(and give) hugs from all kinds, old ladies, hot chicks,  gays...doesn't bother me a bit, I like it.

I don't look like a hugger but I am. I hold doors open for people too.

Worse thing, when a cute lady hugs me....my hands tend to automatically. move toward the rear end....its just a habit.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 11:58:28 AM EDT
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you never really know a man until you fight them, greeting someone new should begin in full contact fistacuffs or a simple handshake.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 12:00:52 PM EDT
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More tough guy wolf talk.

I like the bro hugs. People are typically a little better to people than they used to be.

Sorry if black folks scare you
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Link Posted: 2/15/2020 12:06:00 PM EDT
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I know, weird, I admit. I guess I gotta work on it. Also, I'm always carrying, and that's something that enters my mind too about a bro hug with just a familiar acquaintance.
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Proper execution of the bro hug should not involve hands at the waistband.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 12:10:35 PM EDT
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When I go to the vape shop to get juice, the dude there will prompt me to to do the "fist bump". I don't mind that, but whatever happened to "how are you" and a hand shake?
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I think basic cordialness went away completely about the time we started going to the Vape Shop for Juice
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 12:10:37 PM EDT
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When they go for a hug, go ahead and take it up a notch and kiss them on the cheek. You know you want to, op
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and a slappity grabby of that ass.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 12:12:49 PM EDT
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When hugging another man you must slap them on the back hard enough for everyone in the room to hear it, but not so hard as to hurt the other man.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 12:42:43 PM EDT
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Friends dont shake hands, friends bro hug.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 12:44:30 PM EDT
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Menfolk hugging has always been weird to me. If that is your thing, knock yourself out, boys. That's apparently a thing with Italians and muslims. Not my thing. I hug the women I like and love. My little  grandson always runs up and hugs when we see each other. I'm ok with that.

The knuckle bump is different. As a lifelong germaphobe, I think it a great invention. I've been getting that greeting from the younger guys at work for the last few years. Prefer it over a shake. Less pathogens exchanged, but still a show of respect in greeting. The only time I shake a man's hands might be for business greeting. Flu season? Hell no...not even if I'm meeting the president.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 1:14:28 PM EDT
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So, what you're really saying, is that when yo got into a bathroom and there's one guy at the urinals, you always use the one directly beside him, right?
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For whatever reason, the other day I had the thought "I wonder if the fag seat is still a thing?". When you went to a movie with your "bros" back in the day and you left that empty seat between you so people wouldn't think you were fags.


Seriously?
So, what you're really saying, is that when yo got into a bathroom and there's one guy at the urinals, you always use the one directly beside him, right?
Pleasure to meet you, Mr. Reubens.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 1:23:10 PM EDT
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I was raised, on my Mother's side, in a large Sicilian family. Men hug and kiss each other on the cheek.  The same for team mates. I hug my former team mates when we see each other.  Strangers? No, I'm not hugging a stranger.
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As a Sicilian I know what you mean, it’s cultural. And if a Sicilian dude kisses you on the lips... hope your affairs are in order.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 1:26:50 PM EDT
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For a very few close friends, I'm good with it, but I wouldn't like it when first meeting a guy.

I'd be alright with it from pretty much any female I'd normally meet, but a girl can't be a "Bro".  

In general, I'm a hugger.  
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 1:28:27 PM EDT
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I see it more often these days, but it wasn't a thing when I was growing up.

Mostly the younger guys do it, even my actual flesh and blood brothers don't do it.

It just wasn't done, and we grew up with handshakes. Women did the hugging.

Do what you like, though.
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Same with me.  Even with my father, brother, friends it's just a firm handshake.  I'm not opposed to a bro hug, but I never initiate one.  The hard part for me is my coworkers.  Half of them like the brohug, so it makes things a bit awkward whenever I see them.  I suppose my insecurity comes from not being a pro at the bro hug.

Heading to Hamburg soon for an annual meeting, so bro hugs will be inbound!
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 1:37:55 PM EDT
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I refuse to fist bump or high five and people get indignant about it.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 1:41:23 PM EDT
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i'll usually dap them up, then pick them up at the waist and give them a little twirl
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 3:29:09 PM EDT
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Yeah....

Construction workers do it too.
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 3:32:18 PM EDT
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More tough guy wolf talk.

I like the bro hugs. People are typically a little better to people than they used to be.

Sorry if black folks scare you
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Yeah, who the fuck doesn't want a hug?
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 3:32:39 PM EDT
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GD, please explain his alien concept you humans have called, “get over yourself.”
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 3:35:29 PM EDT
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Why would anyone going to a vape shop complain about anything.
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Basically this.

There's a reason why vape shops are relegated to shitty areas
Link Posted: 2/15/2020 4:54:39 PM EDT
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You get a hand shake.

A firm one.

If you need a hug, look elsewhere.

Fags
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I love this place
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