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Quoted: Have seen this. Side-guy, and she's interviewing guys to be a long term guy, AND does not count hook-ups, (because she's not exclusive with the bootycall, and she's not in a relationship yet with the guy she's asking to jump through hoops to get what she's giving out for free on Saturday) 2 bootycalls (A main and a backup) 2 guys interviewing for the boyfriend job 1 random hook up spot. Reality, and from a male perspective this is a reason guys lose their shit when they're in the "boyfriend interview process" and find out she does this. They have to jump through hoops. Saturday guy gets her physical commitment for free, with a much shorter process with much less attached to it. Saturday guy doesn't have to "impress" her, or be 6'5", he isn't expected to marry her, or put a roof over her head, or even talk to her during the week, etc. He is rewarded with sex, for being witty for 45minutes. Monday guy has to impress her for several days to weeks, to slowly get sex, that has strings attached, (usually) a mile of expectations, and handling her shit when she wants to argue with him (with these types that seems often). Saturday guy gets the highlight reel, and doesn't have to put in any work. Monday guy has to do a fuckton of work to get what highlight reel guy got for a lot less, only he can get cut off by her. Saturday guy can go back to the bar and try again for another woman after getting cut off, (assuming it went 2 hookups and ever got there at all). Once a guy finds out she's willing to offer up that ^ arrangement, they don't want to be Monday anymore. I've seen internet feminists (no this is not a shot at anyone on this board) floored that guys don't want to be Monday guy. |
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Just wait til she's in her 40's, looks like a crazy bag lady, and writes an article bemoaning "where have all the good guys gone?"
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Quoted: I'm not going to have this argument with "The Monday Guy". No comment other than that shit's funny right there. Having a silly little quip doesn't undo the fact that the guy swung and missed at reality twice. Doesn't know what's out there in the dating world (and it triggered him to shooting at the messenger, How dare he say such things!) Then swung into thin air in the hopes that something happened to me that didn't. Third swing was assuming he's in the know, if he thinks this doesn't happen, he's clueless. |
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Quoted: Of course she can, the question is "why should she" Explain to me why human beings shouldn't indulge in our most basic impulses. Why the 7 deadly sins are sins at all. Please show your work and no references to mythical sky daddies watching you masturbate. View Quote Because in a social species, screwing everyone else over for short term personal benefit, tends to leave you without any friends to help you when you are in a tight spot and you need help. People can and do screw people over daily for personal gain, but keep the game up long enough and people working together in a group will be more successful than the individual who thinks they don't need to care about anyone else over the long term. The people who invented "magical sky daddies" realized this, and pretended this was his rule, and not some basic fact about living in a society. Societal morality is about behaving in a way so that the most number of people can live together and pool their resources so they have have enough food to supply warriors to keep other groups from attacking them. Some systems of morality are better at this than others. Some systems of morality are definitely better to live under for the individual than others. |
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But that implies you have no life Or no job or do not spend time on yourself If you are a Monday guy because one of the above for two Mondays in a row, you move on If you have enough women and things going on in your life, Monday’s could just be a respite or a lucky day when a woman calls you to hang |
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