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Posted: 1/25/2019 7:58:15 AM EDT
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All good sarcasm is based in truth to some extent. You knew the answer whether it was conscious or not. You were just trying to start shit out of jealousy.
That said, she shouldn't have lied, but I can hardly blame her. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 7:58:51 AM EDT
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Yeah, how'd you think it would go calling her a whore? Because that's what she heard. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Maybe try not being an ass and putting her on the spot like that |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 7:59:31 AM EDT
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OP’s drama filled reaction and lack of confidence will have her riding the Pick-A-Dick train to whoretown within a week.
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:00:56 AM EDT
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Would OP have been more PO'ed if she has said ''yes, you could learn a few things from him''?
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:02:35 AM EDT
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Do her a favor and eject, OP. The seed's been planted in your mind and it will not go well. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:03:39 AM EDT
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Enjoy your hpv
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:06:23 AM EDT
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It’s a natural thing to lie about and it sounds like she came clean on her own shortly after. You also phrased the question in a way that doesn’t invite an honest answer. I wouldn’t get too worked up over it. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:07:29 AM EDT
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Maybe try not being an ass and putting her on the spot like that I bet she dumps you and is back in his bed within a week. Way to go, champ. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:08:03 AM EDT
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She was probably embarrassed the fuckhead came over to the table like that and just tried to dismiss it as quickly as possible. You can tell it immediately bothered her that she lied and she came clean... I'd drop it |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:08:05 AM EDT
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You do not have a right to be pissed if she drops you like a hot rock, OP.
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:09:00 AM EDT
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Yes OP, you're dumb. You don't really have the right to know who she fucked before you.
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:09:10 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Yeah, how'd you think it would go calling her a whore? Because that's what she heard. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:12:16 AM EDT
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She was thinking of his cawk, that's why she wasn't eating for a minute
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:15:13 AM EDT
[#14]
She panicked.
You would have been jealous with any answer. Was the dude hotter than you? Asking a woman if that was a fuckbuddy wasn't a nice question. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:17:56 AM EDT
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Pretty sure the way you’re acting even if she would have been completely honest you would have been pissed.
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:24:44 AM EDT
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You should eject. Not because she lied for 45 seconds but because she probably deserves someone better than you.
She probably said that because she’s worried about how you’re going to over react to the stupidest little things. By just not talking to her you sound like a ninth grade girl. At least that’s the way it comes off after reading the Op |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:25:37 AM EDT
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She was probably embarrassed the fuckhead came over to the table like that and just tried to dismiss it as quickly as possible. You can tell it immediately bothered her that she lied and she came clean... I'd drop it |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:29:51 AM EDT
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no ...will lie again , bet she probably texts the guy within the week due to your reaction .... Lol, and it will be YOUR fault when she has him go deep anal on her to make her feel better about herself. If they didn’t have all the pussy, there would be a bounty on them. 
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:31:20 AM EDT
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Circumstances came together to illuminate how this young woman found herself in OP's tree.
When it became apparent that it was from swinging directly off of random restaurant guy's cock, the illusion of the relationship is forever tainted. Especially when she reveals through trickle truths that she was fucking you both at the same time for awhile before she settled in with OP. And random restaurant guy is the most likely individual in the world that OP's SO would cheat with. In fact, I suggest that "it's been awhile" did not mean "the month before you met this simp." It probably meant something else. Like..."LOL remember when I fucked you on the DL at my place last week?" To be civilized requires a veneer under which the lizard brain dirty monkey shit can be contained. OP's veneer was broken. You can't unsee all that shit under there, and if you look closer you may find it's still covered in restaurant guy's relish. This is how the real world works. All you dudes scolding the OP for calling her a whore and putting her on the spot...are wrong. He didn't call her a whore. That's what she heard because only the guilty tend to feel that way, and then there's the whole master key / shitty lock thing. She didn't feel bad because you hurt her feelings OP. That's the narrative to try and pull it out of the tailspin. She feels bad because she got caught. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:32:58 AM EDT
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You put her on the spot... I'm not trying ti excuse lying, but that's an awkward question to answer.
Might as well just break up now, that relationship is poisoned. Guilt her into SIIHAAPP if you can but it isn't going anywhere. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:35:05 AM EDT
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You blew it OP. "Former Fuckbuddy" Seriously? You weren't joking, you were fishing and hoping for a different reaction. She reacted out of panic and being put on the spot. She came clean and you want to be pissed because "she lied" but you're really pissed because you were right and it was a fuckbuddy.
No you don't have the right to be pissed, she does because of the way you questioned her. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:35:07 AM EDT
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I was making a joke and had no idea it actually was a fuck buddy. Wasn’t putting anyone on the spot intentionally Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Maybe try not being an ass and putting her on the spot like that |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:35:11 AM EDT
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Maybe try not being an ass and putting her on the spot like that |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:35:53 AM EDT
[#24]
Let's guess OP's age. I'm going with 20.
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:36:00 AM EDT
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OP’s drama filled reaction and lack of confidence will have her riding the Pick-A-Dick train to whoretown within a week. How long did it take to get your dick inside her? You think you're special? Are you in the business of making a hoe a house wife? If you want to bang her more, apologize and drop the topic. Otherwise, eject. She's not going to wake up a virgin one day. If you try to make it any more serious than fucking and sharing meals, you'll waste a lot of time and money just to resent her anyway. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:36:31 AM EDT
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Bad on her for lying. Bad on him for feeling the need to make his presence known in that situation. Regardless of how you asked her of who he was, she still lied.
Honesty. I wouldn’t call it quits with her, but I would not forget it either. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:37:59 AM EDT
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The fuck buddy comment put her on her heels. So if she says yes, she is what, a slut to you in her eyes. A little tact on your part would have went a long way. Women are conquests to other men and we slap each other on the back. It is different for women. Does not excuse the lying. Not sure how long you have been together, so that plays a role. If you care about her and she is a good woman learn from it and move on.
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:38:41 AM EDT
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Let me preface this by saying I know everyone has a past. That doesn’t bother me. So now the details At dinner with the gf when a guy walks up and says “hey, how ya been? Haven’t seen you in a while.” She says she been doing good and introduces me. Do the handshake hey bull shit and he says have a good one and goes sit down at his table. I jokingly ask “who was that, former fuckbuddy?” And laughed. She stutters and says “no just a friend of some mutual friends.” I instantly smell the bull shit but don’t say anything. Just keep eating. She hasn’t taken a bite in over a minute and I say, “something on your mind?” Knowing there is. She finally comes clean and said she lied about how she knows him and that they did hook up a few times the month before I met her. I don’t care that she hooked up with dudes. I was a whore before I met her. But anytime she has asked me anything I have always been honest. Even if she doesn’t want the answer. I am pisssed about the fact she lied to me. I can’t stand it. We get in he car and she starts apologizing and crying for lying etc. I tell her it’s a very stupid thing to lie about. I just stop talking about it because I am irritated she lied to me about something. She cries all night. I shower and go to bed. Am I dumb for being pissed she lied to me? In b4 eject How old are you? |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:39:46 AM EDT
[#29]
You're not wrong to be upset she lied. Have you actually sat down like adults and talked about it? If not, maybe you should. Go from there.
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:40:28 AM EDT
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Are you and the girlfriend 16? |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:41:25 AM EDT
[#31]
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Maybe try not being an ass and putting her on the spot like that 
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:42:56 AM EDT
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She was thinking of his cawk, that's why she wasn't eating for a minute |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:42:57 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: If my gf ever picked a restaurant I'd definitely be suspicious. 
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:44:40 AM EDT
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Circumstances came together to illuminate how this young woman found herself in OP's tree. When it became apparent that it was from swinging directly off of random restaurant guy's cock, the illusion of the relationship is forever tainted. Especially when she reveals through trickle truths that she was fucking you both at the same time for awhile before she settled in with OP. And random restaurant guy is the most likely individual in the world that OP's SO would cheat with. In fact, I suggest that "it's been awhile" did not mean "the month before you met this simp." It probably meant something else. Like..."LOL remember when I fucked you on the DL at my place last week?" To be civilized requires a veneer under which the lizard brain dirty monkey shit can be contained. OP's veneer was broken. You can't unsee all that shit under there, and if you look closer you may find it's still covered in restaurant guy's relish. This is how the real world works. All you dudes scolding the OP for calling her a whore and putting her on the spot...are wrong. He didn't call her a whore. That's what she heard because only the guilty tend to feel that way, and then there's the whole master key / shitty lock thing. She didn't feel bad because you hurt her feelings OP. That's the narrative to try and pull it out of the tailspin. She feels bad because she got caught. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:44:52 AM EDT
[#35]
no. It was an awkward moment and she quickly came clean.
If she waited months, sure, but not in this case. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:47:43 AM EDT
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She was probably embarrassed the fuckhead came over to the table like that and just tried to dismiss it as quickly as possible. You can tell it immediately bothered her that she lied and she came clean... I'd drop it |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:50:26 AM EDT
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Let me preface this by saying I know everyone has a past. That doesn’t bother me. So now the details At dinner with the gf when a guy walks up and says “hey, how ya been? Haven’t seen you in a while.” She says she been doing good and introduces me. Do the handshake hey bull shit and he says have a good one and goes sit down at his table. I jokingly ask “who was that, former fuckbuddy?” And laughed. She stutters and says “no just a friend of some mutual friends.” I instantly smell the bull shit but don’t say anything. Just keep eating. She hasn’t taken a bite in over a minute and I say, “something on your mind?” Knowing there is. She finally comes clean and said she lied about how she knows him and that they did hook up a few times the month before I met her. I don’t care that she hooked up with dudes. I was a whore before I met her. But anytime she has asked me anything I have always been honest. Even if she doesn’t want the answer. I am pisssed about the fact she lied to me. I can’t stand it. We get in he car and she starts apologizing and crying for lying etc. I tell her it’s a very stupid thing to lie about. I just stop talking about it because I am irritated she lied to me about something. She cries all night. I shower and go to bed. Am I dumb for being pissed she lied to me? In b4 eject |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:50:41 AM EDT
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I’d be more annoyed at the guy walking up to the table and pissing on her leg while she’s clearly on a date. As for her part, I wouldn't think too much of that. Sorry to say but I think you were in the wrong. At least without further evidence. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:51:19 AM EDT
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join date/post count
This entire situation is made up. You don't have a girlfriend, and contrary to popular belief, eating pizza rolls in the basement with your mom is not a "date" |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:51:47 AM EDT
[#40]
Other guy probably has a WAY bigger penis than you have and she thinks about it 24/7.
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:52:28 AM EDT
[#41]
I'd be upset that she lied.
If you're a young dude, isn't this SOP in the dating world now? Don't know about that, been happily married for 26+ years. I'd probably give her one more chance. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:56:59 AM EDT
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Maybe try not being an ass and putting her on the spot like that |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 8:59:16 AM EDT
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You want a girl that fucks, she fucks.
I can't go and buy a pack of smokes without running into NINE GUYS YOU'VE ****ED! |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 9:00:31 AM EDT
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OP, you sound young and insecure. No offense. Just get better. Her past sex life is not your business. Your should have just squeezed dude's hand, ate your dinner and gone home and laid down the law. Now you seem beta to her. Men behave the way they do because women let them. Women behave the way they do because men let them. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 9:00:59 AM EDT
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That dude came over knowing she was with a guy and he did it to show YOU op. He let her know what's up and wasn't intimidated by you being there. Sounds like she got played and dropped, you're the rebound. Cuck thread |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 9:03:32 AM EDT
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I was making a joke and had no idea it actually was a fuck buddy. Wasn't putting anyone on the spot intentionally |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 9:03:46 AM EDT
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A few things:
-Men cant be whores. The term whores is for women. Feminists were the ones who twisted the meaning around. Men are men. Is hypocritical and a double standard? Sure. But thats life. -She lied. Will probably do it again. Most people lie about something. -Is probably still banging him. Will bang him again. -You shouldnt have said anything off the cuff like that about her fuckbuddy. You basically called her a slut. All women know that men dont like it so they hide it. -She cried and was upset because you put her on the spot and the relationship is now tainted with this comment. -Unless you have an agreed upon exclusive relationship you dont really have anything. -The past is the past, let sleeping dogs lie. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 9:03:54 AM EDT
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Let me preface this by saying I know everyone has a past. That doesn’t bother me. So now the details At dinner with the gf when a guy walks up and says “hey, how ya been? Haven’t seen you in a while.” She says she been doing good and introduces me. Do the handshake hey bull shit and he says have a good one and goes sit down at his table. I jokingly ask “who was that, former fuckbuddy?” And laughed. She stutters and says “no just a friend of some mutual friends.” I instantly smell the bull shit but don’t say anything. Just keep eating. She hasn’t taken a bite in over a minute and I say, “something on your mind?” Knowing there is. She finally comes clean and said she lied about how she knows him and that they did hook up a few times the month before I met her. I don’t care that she hooked up with dudes. I was a whore before I met her. But anytime she has asked me anything I have always been honest. Even if she doesn’t want the answer. I am pisssed about the fact she lied to me. I can’t stand it. We get in he car and she starts apologizing and crying for lying etc. I tell her it’s a very stupid thing to lie about. I just stop talking about it because I am irritated she lied to me about something. She cries all night. I shower and go to bed. Am I dumb for being pissed she lied to me? In b4 eject Would have been a great opportunity for butt stuff. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 9:04:05 AM EDT
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In my opinion, it was wrong for you to refer to any male friend of your GF's as a "fuck buddy" kidding or not.
Any history she had with a guy before you isnt your business, just like any history you had with a women before her isnt her business. Now any shenanigans while youre dating? Then eject immediately. Next time just ask her how she knows the guy. If you really need to know if they fucked or not, then i think you should evaluate your own insecurity. |
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Posted: 1/25/2019 9:04:19 AM EDT
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I’d be more annoyed at the guy walking up to the table and pissing on her leg while she’s clearly on a date. 
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